Sexual health general

sexual health general

i recently realized the art of fucking is as important, if not more, than your physique.

sex gods pls send us your wisdom.

i would also appreciate tips on how to not come so fast, it is embarassing.

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kegels.

why tho

Dont rush the stroke

Work on cardio and do Kegels a little.

Your dick gets harder, you can make her cum faster. Then you can gradually build up stamina each time.

eat pussy
Pelvic floor controls your orgasm and makes it to where you can wag your dick like a front tail

control your orgasm you dumb bitch, also harder erections

I take 3 pills of yohimbe, maca and horny goat weed an hour before my girlfriend comes over. I edge the entire time until she gets to my place. I'll let her rant about feminism or some stupid shit for a bit before I choke her and shoot jizz in her armpits.

sex wisdom:

consent and communication

:^)

Bend your knees son

For lasting longer, bite your tongue. Also if you think you aren't going to last, just switch to your hands. I commonly change between them, and I've been by a number of ladies I've been with that I have been their best.

Also do not underestimate the power of foreplay and mood. Taking that 5-10 minutes to hold them from behind and kiss them, and rub their bodies makes it so much easier to get them off. Build from gentle touches to firmer touches, especially for pussy. My experience when actually using my hands is pick a pace, and stick to it. I typically go for one that's moderate. The first couple of minutes you may question if you should go faster or harder, don't. For her, that pace becomes an anticipation for the next thrust, only push more firmly if you know she is close, but otherwise keep the pace the same.

Finally, this one is probably the most out there, but little things add up, even how clean the room is, how it smells, etc, those things get reflected back onto you. Things like holding doors open, and showing kindness are big dick energy. Being sensitive to that stuff can be tough, but that's my experience. Not that a guy posting on a Syro-Palestinian glass blowing forum has a lot of credit

think of work or school, it's enough to calm you down but you wont lose your stiffie like if you think of some ugly hairy friend dude or something or you could also do that if the pussy is too good

Based

How to increase libido?

also wear a rubber ffs, no girl will tell you about her booming hpv infection or something, i learned the hard way

That takes all the pleasure away though.

You now have a booming hpv infection?

>(((hpv)))
Oy vey

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Threads like this really show the age and experience of a typical Jow Forums poster. Lol

>be dating a girl
>fuck the first time while we're drunk and both coming out of a drought
>cum in like 5 minutes
>next time we meet and fuck she teases me about it and rocks her hips in such a way that just fucking destroys me and I cum in 5 minutes
>right
>it's on
>next time we go to fuck, I'm rocky in the ring, arnie in the jungle, I'm in the literal fucking zone, im mentally playing back my lifting mix at full volume as I summon the spirits of bionicle
>I'm keeping perfect pacing, adjusting my form as I thrust for maximum pleasure as we switch things up and move against each other
>she's moaning and I'm starting feel that tingle as she starts to roll her hips under me
>start pumping even harder and with each thrust I'm exhaling like a boxer at the bag
>I'm untouchable.
>my breath control is immaculate
>I can go has hard as I like as she's clamping down like a vice and writhing but I'm totally in control
>I am Zen. At real inner peace and perfectly intune with her body.
>she puts her hand on my shoulder and whispers into my ear
>"why are you breathing like that? it's really weird"
>illusion shatters around me
>I shudder into complete shame and orgasm
>she just laughs at me, looks my right in the eye and says
>"what happened user?"

even typing that out again I got a semi and wanted to cry.

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>realizing this is the kid telling you to post body

listen to her breathing

literally you can time how close they are to an orgasm purely from how they breathe. Also, learn to gyrate your hips. If I fuck my girl really hard right as she's climaxing then go slow and move my hips in circles right as she's cumming, she literally starts convulsing.

ugly fucking cauliflower looking ass shit i hate it so much
yep, ama

I have HPV as well, but I've never noticed any side effects on my dick. WHat's suppose to happen in men? I thought HPV was just dangerous for women because it can lead to cervical cancer?

i dont know how or why but i can go on for hours and for times on end with like 15 minute breaks. I've had girls literally begging me to cum because they came like 3 times and their pussy can't take any more pounding. I've noticed that i last significantly longer when i'm stoned compared to sober also.

I usually take some phenibut to make me feel relaxed and confident. I'll last up to an hour or more sometimes. It has the similar effects to alcohol in that it feel uninhibited and very enjoyable, but it also increases my endurance. Don't overdo it because you'll end up with whiskey dick or she will get tired and sore from too much fucking.

tfw short frenulum
Its over

can confirm that fucking on phenibut is god tier, but sometimes I last too long

Never done kegels, but cardio helps a lot. Also for some reason I get insanely good mental control over my dick when I'm high, so I can fuck for a really long time without coming.

>tfw GF only orgasms from clitoral stimulation and never from penetration
do I just suck in bed, is muh dick not big enough?

>I'm exhaling like a boxer at the bag
elaborate

When you're about to cum slow down or pull out and hit that kegel floor, switch to your hands (breasts/pussy).
You need to learn how to orgasm without ejaculation. This is honestly the secret to becoming a sex deity.

you can get all kinds of cancer from that useless piece of shit virus. I had like 3-5 warts which were not too big but they made me so anxious i had to cut them off, feeling them around your dick is one of the most frustrating feelings period

Keep your pubes at kinda-trimmed level, like a centimeter, and use that to grind while thrusting. Gonna need to not be fat to do it and it'll be a good ab workout

stick it in her pooper

This is easily the best information in this thread.

>I opened the door for her and cleaned my room, why didn't she cum?

>Not that a guy posting on a Syro-Palestinian glass blowing forum has a lot of credit

Your advice shows that you know what you're talking about, even being a Brazilian basket weaving forum poster.

Have you tried this position?
Her legs are together and yours are on the outside. Try putting a pillow under her hips to go deeper. You can spread her cheeks to get deeper. You can reach under her armpits and grip her shoulders/throat for a really rough fuck. But what usually does the trick is I'll just lie there as deep as I can go while she is barely moving her hips getting a good dick massage. It's slow, but the build up to her orgasm is amazing. Don't underestimate the power of wrapping your hand around her throat and hair pulling and even sticking a finger in her mouth so she can suck on something. You can even play with her clit a little.

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idk if this is the place to post this but fuck it

>be sexually inexperienced retard
>making out with gf, she's not on birth control nor do we have condoms so we decide to only use our hands
>she gives me a handjob, so she may or may not have gotten some precum on her hands. Not actual semen though, because I made myself climax and the semen was promptly cleaned up afterwards
>after a little while, she fingers herself
>I didn't realise that she might have had some precum on her hands and I don't know if she wiped it off

tl;dr gf might have "fingered" (although she really only rubbed the outer lips, she didn't put any fingers actually inside because her vagina is super sensitive) herself with a bit of precum on her fingers. What are the chances she could get pregnant from this?
I'm not sure if this matters, but my previous ejaculation was a few days before and I had been peeing multiple times throughout the day.

It happened only a couple nights ago so I could still get her emergency contraception if it's necessary.

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It's the lyrics to Yellow Ledbetter by Pearl Jam

The chances are very low, but there is still a chance. Communicate with her about whether she's on birth control, if not go get emergency contraception. Several types of contraception are viable until 5 days after conception/sex.

I wouldnt worry about it but I'm a piece of shit :^)

Check what part of her cycle she is on. If she's super fertile and you're really worried then get emergency shit but I used to fuck my GF rawdog all the time and she wasn't on the pill, just knew when to do it when she was least likely to get preggers

Bending your knees is god tier, trust me, especially during cow girl.

What do you guys do about pubic hair ? And what do you think of it of females ?

I cornrow my nut hair nigga

Tantric breathing is great and if you've got a regular sex partner it's important to talk about what you both like and maybe dip a toe into things you're not used to

redpill me on hip movement

cardio

>2019
>not taking an hpv vaccine

what the fuck i came her for bad advice

literally the key to becoming a sex god

Ok I get that part but can you explain it to me?

Trim

>2019
>having multiple partners
Disgusting desu

while you're sitting in your chair, try moving just your hips in clockwise and counter-clockwise motions without moving your upper body. If you can do that exact same thing while you have a hard on inside of a girl, she will squeal in under 5 minutes. Also, you can take salsa if you're into dancing. Learning how to dance and sex go hand in hand, honestly.

Buy a Hitachi wand

It will make your life easier
Also take breaks, there's no need to cum in 1 session, enjoy the girl like a buffet, have a little bit of everything.

I always get repeat customers

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>Realize I can't overcome my premature ejaculation unless I either cum and wait for a second round, or pull out and stop myself for a few times before managing to last a few minutes
>Girlfriend starting the pill again
How do I make sure I don't go flaccid between rounds? Sometimes I can sometimes I need a break and I'm not sure what affects this.

you can literally stretch it

like a belly dancer? like pic related?

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somewhat, yeah. You don't have to do that motion the entire time you're having sex with a girl, but if you do it right as she's about to have an orgasm it will literally amplify it by 10x.

Hey now when those of us who arent 15 years old were growing up that shit wasnt offered in the mainstream and had hardly any research behind it. Besides with 80-90% of the population having it might as well join them

I've been doing kegels for a while and I can hold for 2+ minutes. I've read a bunch about dry orgasms and I get how it works. I gave it a couple of tries (2-3) and I managed to achieve delayed ejaculation consistently.

I feel that I'm close to dry orgasms, but I read that dry orgasms redirect the fluids to your bladder. That's fine but allegedly there are a bunch of muscles keeping your bladder shut while orgasming/ejaculating (not sure which). I've read about people damaging these muscles because of dry orgasms.

What has been your experience? It's kind fo frustrating because dry orgasms sound duper cool, but I'm a little freaked out about damaging my bladder and needing a surgery. The worst part is that there isn't too much info on the topic besides surface level bullshit.

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>(((hpv)))
Holy shit, it's real. Coincidence?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus_infection

pretty sure sperm can't survive very long in the open air. but might as well murder her to be safe.

Another user here, practice dancing, seriously. Learning how to loosen up your body easily translates to how you can move in bed, it's all about rhythm and being able to be loose. I'm not saying going out to get dance lessons, good practice would be just listening to club music unironically as they tend to have a strong and set rhythm. Just feel how your body wants to move and let it do it, even if you're self conscious about it or don't think it will translate into sex, it will work out. The key is that you get comfortable moving, and that fluidity will take care of itself

Do cardio for better blood flow & erections.

Try doing kegels and reverse kegels to control the amount of blood in your dick. You'll be able to last longer by holding a reverse kegel as you're getting closer to orgasm.

I don't know if you can control the downtime after you orgasm. Afaik it's caused by secretions of prolactin after you ejaculate and there were some weird meds that supposedly decrease the downtime but haven't looked too much into that.

I know it's not what you want to hear but It's perfectly natural to go soft after you ejaculate. The down time gets longer as you age. I remember looking at studies about substances that decrease the downtime so make sure to search for that.

My erections are always fine and strong but i recently spent 3 days with a girl, fucked her 6 times for about 30-45 minutes each time.

A lot of the time i was only at like 80% hardness, and in certain positions maybe 60%. She didnt seem to mind though.

Every day we were out walking around, a lot, like 20,000-30,000 steps. And my sleep was piss poor every night, that girl sleeps like 5 hours a night... i need 8 at least.

Do you think that is the cause, does that affect your erections? Its really annoying because im hard as fuck at home.

Sound advice man, though I never know if I'm really doing the reverse kegals right.

And the reason I'm asking is because there have been cases in the past where I could have just kept going after I ejaculate and I was wondering if it was something I did differently. Like, I think there's a difference between when I let the orgasm happen or try to fight it and have it happen anyway but I don't know if that's the cause for me being able to keep going or not.

To begin with I wish I didn't have this problem but I'm like hyper sensitive for the first nut and can't seem to train myself around that.

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ok user thanks, I'll try if I ever have sex

OH and to add to it i just couldnt cum, im not a 5 minute guy but i had to finish by hand, my own hand.

My body just couldnt cum.

Hmmm. That sounds special.

Every thing is a cohencidence

>taking (((vaccines)))

>the art of fucking
>art

HAMON BREATHING

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Have more sex. When I fuck at least once a day it progressively takes longer and longer to cum. By the end of two weeks I can go for 30-45minutes. I fap once a day if I'm not having sex to keep the sensitivity down.

there are actually two kegel muscles which is why you can do both a kegel and reverse kegel at the same time

I knew a kid in high school who became a dad this way.

thanks m8 ill try it

But it is all attached to the shaft

I'm 26, do I tell her I'm a virgin?

Sorry but can you explain exactly how to do these? Like I just flex it and contract my anus? Can I do this anytime or do I need to be erect? Do you usually jerk off til erect and then practice it? How many should I do at a time? Also what is jelqing? Sorry for blog

Best way to fuck in small car civic size, tried on back seats and it was bad.

Only after you did it, and only if you want it to be a one night stand

nah bro just roll with it. shits more instinctual than you think and 99% of guys suck in bed so she more than likely won't notice. but it probably would turn her off if she knew you were a virgin. makes her wonder why other women aren't attracted to you and question herself

Absolutely based Palestinian-bro.

front passenger seat, recline it and have her ride you

No idea what my performance will be but you want to say there won't be any awkward questions afterwards anyway? Cool. Knowing is half the battle...

doubt she'd ask but just lie brother, fake it til you make it.

yea sleep affects me personally.

Regarding hardness, you can literally pump blood into your dick by doing kegels while you fuck. Also it's fun for the grill cuz almost nobody does this. There's 90% chance that she won't notice tho unless it's super tight.

I think reverse kegels are a bit weird because you're not really flexing a muscle you're just relaxing it. Think if it as flexing your biceps vs stretching. If you can't do next time you pee try to make the stream faster without touching your dick - that's a reverse kegel. It also gets easier as you do more kegels. This guy says there a reverse kegel muscle tho so maybe I'm wrong > there have been cases in the past where I could have just kept going after I ejaculate
I know what you're talking about I've had the same. I'm reasonably fit and I can't really tell if I'm going to get flacid 20 seconds after ejaculating, or if I'll run a semi for 5-10 minutes & get a boner afterwards. Still kind of a mystery to me that's why I'm focusing on controlling my ejaculation so I don't have to guess. I'll definitely look into it when I have the time tho. Please share with us your findings in the future

Are you sure there's not just 1 muscle? I thought that reverse kegels are relaxing the muscle more than usual instead of flexing. A bunch of non reputable sources say that both use the same muscle. Can't find any scientific info tho

iskra lawrence is literally perfect

Just remember that it is not a porno.
In my experience girls don't like it if you fuck them fast and hard unless maybe when they are close to coming. Keep a moderate and consistent speed.
Same with playing with her clit. Don't do that A B C shit with your finger or tongue just do a circular constant speed motion with your fingers and experiment a bit every girl is different some like circular some like side to side etc.
Also do a few minutes of foreplay but not too long.

This is unironically the best advice for everything in life

But what is too long for foreplay?

Sure man, I don't mind giving my input.

My girl likes it fast and hard, which must be some kind of murphy law because I nut in under a minute if I don't properly take my time, and sometimes even when I try.

Can confirm this user know what the fuck he's talking about. Even if she wants to rush into it and just get absolutely pounded right away, tease her a little bit first and it'll go a long way.

These women are gross, you have no idea how bad that looks when it hits 37. A skinny women at 37 will still get you turned on, this weight level is really really gross.

How are marketers so successfully fatpilling all these men with the "thicc meme" are people really that retarded?

Are they going to start telling us that retarded low IQ people are "slow and steady",
>yo yo yo like me a steady chick, she got that nice slow talk

Impossible. Foreplay is enjoyable for both partners. If it isn't then I wouldn't hook up with them. Foreplay will go on as long as it takes. She, or you, will be too horned up and proceed to fucking and that's exactly how long it needs to be.