Is it the worst place on earth to find good girls for us Jow Forumsizens ?
Is it the worst place on earth to find good girls for us Jow Forumsizens ?
Yeah. Have like 200 matches but the only once who are interested in chatting are fat chicks.
Imagine spending 1000s of hours at the gym, watching your diet every day, keep track of your macros and kcals for a fucking fat landwhale... hahah that would be funny.
OP attempts to start a thinly veiled “dubs gets the reply”
Doing God’s work there, post your matches so we can say which one you’re gonna reply to.
The best place is in the wild bros
Get into a yoga class, tinder is a waste of time
That's why I went gay
I met my GF on tinder 4 years ago
She was a super shy 7/10 virgin at the time. She's really sweet, intelligent and we share a lot of political views. I think I'm really lucky to met her BUT she's almost asexual and our sex life is boring af.
At least she let me lift in peace.
i downloaded this and bumble 2 days ago. i have got 0 matches on either of them because i barely swipe right. are the people that get tons of matches turbochads or do they just always swipe right?
tinder is not a place it is a phone app.
Are you attractive enough to be picky with you're swiping right on? Be honest, user.
I'm far from a Chad, swipe right selectively and have around 1600 matches atm
i dont think im that ugly (~6.5) but my pics are shit because im an autist who doesnt have friends to take good pics of me. i got 10 likes when i posted a shirtless pic though
1600 matches means you aren't really being that selective user
the others just want to fuck? or why did they match you.
girls on dating apps only go for the top 10% of males
even if you get a match you need a super creative pick-up line or you won't get a reply
swiped 200 girls in 5 days
ugly and hot but not fat
personally I liked the ugly skinny ones
Only 1 match from a ugly skinny girl that ghosted me in 2h.
Get my ass squeezed.
Get asked for sex.
Literally makes no sense.
90% of girls just use it to plug their snapchat/instagram, seriously. Half of them have their profiles linked and they don't even bother swiping. Or they swipe right on everyone for exposure
The number of girls actually looking to find anyone on those apps is very very low. Probably 5 in 100 actually wants to meet anyone. Everyone just uses it out of boredom. Hence why you have more success irl
I live in Sweden, most girls are usually pretty. That being said I still only swipe right on 30-40%
You need to stand out. I have two very unique and funny pictures which will always use in their opening message (I don't message first ever, like I said.. I'm far from a Chad)
It's the best place to find easy sex. It's the worst to find a real realtionship.
are you retarded? of course.
it makes perfect sense:
say you have time to meet and date potentially 3 people at the same time
on tinder, these 3 are chad, brad, and matt. because out of 10000 possible men to swipe girls gravitate to the top
in real life in a club, the avg male is a fucking clown, so out of 200 males in the venue, lots are already with girls etc. and bam, youre in the top 3
2018, let's try Tinder
match with qt thai girl
keep texting me for like a week
dirty talk like pic related
never met her because she was like 1k far from where I was (she matched me in mu city while tourists)
ended up ghosted
Haha okay, user
Im sorry bro, but I have some terrible new for you
This. The girls I pull at bars/ house parties etc. Are way cuter than the average pull I get from tinder or bumble
Haven't tried it myself, but this convo sort of confirmed the stereotypes:
Female acquaintance, 5/10 18 year old recently joined tinder
Shows she has literally around 300 matches already
Tons of them even super liked her
Says she mainly just uses them for “conversation” (validation) and never even meets them
Claims she has “no options” with guys
Is seeing some “loser” (bad boy) who banged and ghosted her friend but has “changed”
Dude I haven’t had sex in over 2 years. I’ve been too depressed to try or even care about it. I’m now feeling bette ragain, lifting, and jogging often. Doing nofap too. My sex drive is insane right now. The only issue is I’m still an autist with limited experience dating and a little chubby from the time I spent depressed. I will get head from one of these fatties or uggos. I just want a good blowjob dammit. I just have no idea how to get to that point. I’m not gonna take a fatty out or go for drinks with her, I’d rather slide to her place and get straight to it. No clue how to do this, my only hookups and experiences have been with female friends that I messaged acting like a dick talking about what I wanted to do or that we should “chill”.
Tfw I don’t think I could even fuck a landwhale off tinder because shitty game and obvious inexperience
You'll eventually get banned for no reason from some salty bitch who reports you.
face is hideous would hit from behind
while an average 6/10 girl gets over 300 matches
J U S T
Guys I need to cum. Fapping won’t do it. I have horrible game and little experience. Do I just straight up tell a fatty on tinder to come hang out with me?
No. Worst experience of my life
Just fap bro.
Getting head from a fat chick is like being on a roller coaster, close your eyes and don’t look down.
I’ve matched with about 143 and I’ve done nothing about em, theyre all the fucking same. I’m giving up on this shit
It's not just that, but there is a limit to how much attention a guy can get at a party. If 5 girls are already hogging him, more won't join.
Just ask lol thats what I did
I wish. They do it for attention.
The problem is most of you guys are too afraid of failure or taking a chance. Get the looks at the gym, wear nice clothes, nice hair cut, and "bee urself bro." Unironically. Most of the guys complaining about how hard it is to get a girl just aren't really trying. I could walk out of the house right now, go shopping, and get three numbers before dinner if I really cared to. Noticed a woman looking at me in a store yesterday and approached her. Usually they're surprised that you even talk to them because most guys don't have the balls to approach, and they find it flattering and it's super easy to get a number once you've had some practice.
If a girl looks at you for more than two seconds she finds you attractive. 3 second rule, approach her and say "hi, i'm user, what's your name?" Just go from there. You can gauge within ten seconds whether she enjoys talking to you, move on if she doesn't seem to want to.
A lot of you guys will think this is a joke or it doesn't work but you've probably never actually tried it, or if you have, then you didn't stick with it long enough to learn the ropes. It's a lot more convenient to think it's all about height/face/frame because that absolves you of having to try. If that's the case then stick to porn and fapping.
I’ve tried it. Being that direct is what’s worked with girls I already knew or was friends with. Tinder they have no clue who I am and it just sounds creepy and insanely autistic. Also I’m no longer as lean as I used to be which I feel makes a difference
based and truth pilled
know you will prob fuck up and be embarrassed a few times but thats what learning is
The most based individual
I dont use tinder. I just ask out girls I already knew irl. Most just use it as a way to get attention for free. I have had several friends use tinder and get worse results than me. That was not clear from my original post
What do you do if you don't catch nobody looking at your for that long tho
I miraculously met my current gf of 1.5 years on there and she is fucking perfect
Med Complexion with light eyes (my favourite combo)
Has good job
No emotional issues
No extreme anxiety issues like every crazy other bitch I've dated
No daddy issues
Plays vidya with me
Plays DnD with me
Plays piano with me
Lifts with me
Gives me hair scratches when I want them
Gives me back massages after gym
Sex is amazing
Met her before I started lifting so I know she doesn't just want me for my body
Only downside is overly cautious parents who basically hated me for the first year of us dating but have started warming up to me now. We all gonna make it bros.
Damn. I no longer have a social circle or friends so tinders my only chance rn. I’m planning to get a temporary job for the next few months at like retail so maybe I’ll try fucking some coworkers
If this was a guy he’d be a 1/10 incel due to that jaw and vertical facial growth
Is this bait?
Gives me hair scratches when I want them
Gives me back massages after gym
Tinder is probably the worst game I've downloaded on my phone yet.
Yoga won't get you laid
Dont feel too bad, I have a couple of close friends and they never helped me get laid. Depending on the customer base retail can be an okay place to get dates from customers
Don't worry the dlc doesn't make it any better.
you need to be very forward on tinder lads, girls lose interest so fast because they have 30 other guys at any one time trying to get their attention
i've been laid from tinder so many times its ridic
Have the devs mentioned anything about a balance patch at least?
That was an example. A 2-3 second look and a small smile is a gimme but it's not really necessary to talk to a girl. Other signs they might be interested:
They'll stand by stand by you have no real reason to be there
Also related, act like they're looking for something, or basically do something slightly out of the norm that'll get you to open them.
Others will act shy around you but no one else.
Feet consistently pointed your direction even if they're moving around a room
Playing with hair if you're talking to them
Blushing if you compliment them
If they look at you when they laugh (this one is a dead giveaway)
And, the bolder ones, if they come up and actually talk to you about something that's generally a safe topic
Point is if someone is interested in you you'll usually be able to suss it out.
I don't really have a social circle with girls. All my friends are guys. I'm making some great gains in the gym, but all I've got are dating apps as a way to meet people. Either that or cold approaching women at the grocery store or gym and everyone seems to agree that tha's creepy. If not tinder, is there a better app? I've heard bumble is better quality overall.
Being gay screams low self esteem. You didnt have what it takes to be good at the game. So you switched the game. Now you arent going to have kids, your bloodline ends with you. How selfish is that?
My game is just too poor, I'm not even shy in the slightest, just really quiet and uninteresting
I have over 350 matches and I never got anything out of it
but he likes da poopoo dick
Elaborate? Starting out with shit like “lmao wanna hookup” doesn’t seem to work
Gave a mom a chance. She is my age 27, and her kids dad is in the picture so she said I dont need to be a dad to her. Then one day she told me how near the end of her seperation (we dated during it) she had an open relationship with her husband and she fucked like 8 different guys on rotation during the summer. Including a threesome
Shes cool but it seems like a huge red flag and I'm having a hard time not thinking about it
How do you find one tho? Dated on tinder for 2.5 years and the girls man... If they're pretty, they're ruined mentally, if they're ugly then you know... they're ugly... just not worth it.
You’re thinking with your dick. Dude,
8 guys on rotation
This woman should be nothing more than a hole to fuck. I would not even spend money on her or time with her if it didn’t include sex
lmao why would she even tell you that. I would say its a good time to run away
Go to a church and become connected to a community that has some standards. Thats your best bet
not going to have kids
yeah because forcing a consciousness into existence to endure pain is very altruistic
nah m80, bitches be crazy. Met a perfect christian girl on tinder. 10/10 errything, but wanted to wait for marriage lelmao
dirty talk like pic related
This is what you call dirty talk?
bro, you're better than that. Sucks for the kid, but that ain't your responsibility
Not him, but he's basically right. I started out being polite and going on real dates, all of which led nowhere. Obviously you shouldn't start off by asking to hook up or smash. most of my interactions start off with asking them how they're day's going, what they're up to, and that usually builds up a conversation. then you can start to flirt with them and get more dirty and eventually invite them over or out for a drink first.
damn. some people have all the luck. I would have waited.
Thats not crazy you dumb ass she is worth more than all the bitches who give it out before marriage. That sounds like the ideal woman.
wow i thought it was all autists on this board
I'm really sorry user but I'm coming to kidnap your girl
Sounds based user
Its not open now, we're exclusive and live together now but I'm always thinking "what makes me special that im the one she wants to date? I'm not shit" but idk man . Maybe I am thinking with my dick
I'm giving you 18 years old virgins some fatherly advice
Tinder used to be goldmine back in 2013-2015
2016-2017 was ok but getting worse and worse
2018-now it's absolute shit
a few reasons why I think so:
everybody and their grandma is on tinder
they fucked up the algorithm and made it too complicated
it's against men
they made it pay to win basically
Location is obviously the most determinant variable here.
In a big city you'll get more matches than in a small one
I bagged over 50 women from tinder alone. AMA
If you are going to break up, don't tell her it's because you found out she is a slut, otherwise she is going to hide this from the next poor sod she turns into a provider
I wish to know this feel.
Yeah you seem so enlightened and progressive. You dumb faggot. I bet if you did have kids theyd turn out shit cause you and your gay lover wouldnt know how to properly raise them and prop them for success because you yourself didnt get that from your parents. You keep telling yourself you are the good guy and savior and stay out of the game pathetic incel mascarading as a progressive gay.
I’ve tried that when I ask how their days going it’s almost always “chilling” or “vibing”. They’ll usually ask how about me but idk what to say other than the same thing. Then convo dies.
Should guys wait until marriage too? Christfag here and I've been conflicted about it since I've started talking to girls in uni (was homeschooled so don't expect me to have girl experience)
dude I'm not an antinatalist or anything I just think it's really stupid to mentalize mating and reproducing as an act for the greater good of society
Yeah dude definitely, if you want to be celibate and rack up zero sexual experience/learn and fine tune your stroke game so that when you marry some girl who’s had more miles of dick than a 1997 Camry you can financially support her while fucking her with wack dick all for some fictional superhero with magic powers then most definitely
The only reason you are here is because your ancestors fucked. And the only reason future generations will be here is because of people fuckint. It is selfish to not continue the passing of the torch. Its imbedded in us all to reproduce. Its engraved in our dna. To deny that is to be a pathetic incel mascarading as a gay. You arent fooling anyone. Either way it doesnt matter. Your genes will be cleansed from the gene pool once you die. How does that make you feel? Are you okay with that? My genes will still be here. Yours will be gone. But if you really are a low self esteem incel you wouldnt mind huh? Thats sad why are you on a fit board? Why are you even trying? You dont need to find a mate. Let yourself go. You dumb fucking faggot.
She's hideous. The fact that you are upset about this is sad
See my reply to same post. Its not about society its about you and your bloodline.
The high quality girls don't use Tinder, almost by definition.
my genes will still be here
But you won't be even here to see it, no contentment will be felt, not even a slight sense of accomplishment
Stop acting like everything is so pointful, you know it isn't
implying being alive is necessarily good
Bro for fucks sake you don't even talk to your father kek
I dont need to see it. I live on through my children. They are my blood. Just as my ancestoes live on through me. It is my duty to continue the bloodline, hopefully bettering my people.
based haha poster
yes, they should. We have more leeway than women. Women start losing the ability to bond after just one partner, but Men start losing it after 6. That said, marry young. I mean c'mon, no one wants to wait until they're thirty.
Who are you to define what good is. I never said it was good.
So what, you progress indefinitely until no more progress can be made and you are not even here to enjoy a complete careless life?
That's the definition of a cuck in my book dude.
chat up lines are bad don't go for that
start out with hey, [name] how you doing x, compliment her or reference something from their profile, ask a few questions about them, don't try to act super cool, ask them what kind of thing they're looking for on tinder, most will say oh casual see where things go, be like oh me too and then say hey wanna meet for a date?
I have a healthy relationship with my family. Stop projecting
This sounds so simple. I’ll give it a try.
Asking if they want to come vibe/chill/hang out is definitely taken as “you wanna come get dicked down” right?
I mean I think I'd be a hypocrite if I wanted a virgin wife and I wasn't a virgin, and I don't want to marry a girl who isn't a virgin.
I don't know, if they said something like that I'd chalk them up to being a not very interesting person who doesn't care for holding a conversation or making a good first impression. Girls like that are usually worth nothing more than a hail Mary sort of play. "How about vibing on my dick?" Either she unmatches or gives a reaction, which you can work with.
If they ask about you just say you're just bored and looking for something fun to do. That might trigger her into thinking "well, maybe i could be that fun thing."
Some girls can't be bothered to put in any effort so you sort of have to challenge them with it. The quality ones will actually make a bit of an effort to be interesting.
Yeah but unless you kidnap a Mormon chick your chances are low. Nearly all christian girls I know are easy as fuck and massive sluts
sex with a girl with no experience is not as fun as a girl who knows how to suck and fuck, just saying
That's noble, and I wish you luck. I'm just telling you I was the same and then didn't end up losing my virginity until I married at 29, one year away from wizardom.
Its dangerous for a guy to do because women value experience more than men do. My brother was waiting until he turned 24, then he lost it. Both of us figured we'd marry young like our Dad, who married at 20. But that didn't happen.
She gets experience from you, you dumbass
3 years ago id get like 5 matches a day and nearly all of them would reply, easy as hell to get numbers and hang out with chicks
nowadays its the opposite. girls dont reply or want to do anything.
Dude experience can always be earned. If you want a fuck buddy thats different than wanting a wife. Think of how many cocks shes sucked everytime she kisses you. Its degenerate. Id want a good virgin woman who raises my children right. Think of the type of woman that fucks a lot of guys. Thats not good wife material. You want good kids you get a good wife
What is the best place on earth for good girls to find cute autistic virgin Jow Forumsizens? A-asking for a friend haha.
why is she so smug
You don't understand how it works though.
A girl who's a virgin = desirable for men
A guy who's a virgin = undesirable for women
haha jeh haha
who would be desperate enough to do this haha
it sucks, its hypocritical. But you ask a woman, even a virgin one, and they won't count your virginity as a virtue. At most they'll tolerate it. If you want to be a virgin until marriage, that's your choice, and I think its admirable. But you'll be doing it for you, because chances are your future wife, even if you bag a virgin, won't really be impressed
If a women sees your virginity as a good thing, pump and fucking bounce. She aims to use you for being inexperienced knowing that you’ll get attached to her easily and be less likely to cheat
because she is a good looking female who probably gets pampered and stared all day long, not to mention she probably gets 1k likes on ig and called beautiful by random thirsty males
yes I'm bitter
You can also envision it a different away. Every mother wants her little boy to grow up to be a stud, wants every girl to grow up to find a good husband and to keep her legs closed. A mother will proudly say "he seems to be with a new girl every week! for a son, for a daughter she'll say the same thing in a negative light.
You are delusional man. Really, wow, im astounded. It seems the porn got to you. Is that really how you think women think? The entire idea of sex seems backwards for you. Sex doesnt revolve around pleasing the woman. Its about pleasing yourself. And if you cum quick the worst they will do is take it as a compliment. She wont look down on you unless you make her by putting her on a pedastal. You have an unhealthy view of sex that I cant even begin to break into.
t. actual man
How does what I said relate to your response? I was telling the christian user that being a virgin guy isn't the same as being a virgin girl, and holding off till marriage, like he wanted, is fine, but his wife won't be impressed by it, even if she's a virgin herself
Dude he’s on of the incels trying to change and become more of a masculine man. When they post shit like this it’s just a cope to feel like they’re improving despite not being able to put it into practice yet. He used a lot of words to just say “as a man sex should only be about your pleasure” and no it really didn’t relate to what you posted. Just these kids post this shit and ignore it
Jow Forums's savior.
I fucked 22 girls from tinder
I’m just bored of it now desu, so I spread my autistic redpill rage on that app now and give shit to the women on there for being either easy sluts, or there for validation. They get in their feelings typically