>Feel lonely
>Decide to try tinder
>Literally can't make myself
What the fuck man, how do i stop being so scared of failure? I literally can't make myself download the damn thing because i start to think of all the embarrasing outcomes it could have and pussy out.
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Tinder just wasn't made for pure guys like you, OP.
I'm in the same boat, I'll let you know if I find anything. My plan is to use a normie coworker to rope myself up into a better starting point
I actually had the exact same idea lmao, one of the only ways i get things done is by applyiing social pressure to myself.
Im too scared to be made fun of to go to the gym so i just got a friend to pressure me into going. One fear of failure beat the other.
the only way you can overcome these fears is to voluntarily expose yourself to them, the more you do that the less daunting it will seem, how about you try talking to a random person on the street a few times a week?
Literally impossible. I live in Sweden, talking to random people on the streets here is super weird, no-one wants to be bothered like that.
Thanks for the tip though.
I tried tinder briefly and hated it despite modest success (matches semi-regularly, went out to meet someone a couple of times, I'm white and six feet tall so I don't have to try that hard). It just feels awful. I hate glancing at people and judging them and knowing they're doing the same to me. I hate the attitude it instills in people. I can't trust these girls. We just aren't looking for the same things.
The death of Christendom was the death of reasonable match-prospects for all robots.
Fucking hell was just thinking before. Should I go back on? I hate people so much and am disgusted with the thought of losing my virginity to someone I'm not marrying but I'm so fucking lonely and tired.
>feel lonely
go outside
good luck with life
>go outside
I think i will actually. Thanks man.
other autist here, could you elaborate further? What do I do? Where do I go?
Svedish metbaII?
Is that some discordfag or are you just making a general statement?
Meatballs are good though i'll give you that
It's what I think about when I think about swedish people
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My fear about tinder is I live in a relatively small town and since its all local based I fear people will recognise me.
It's bad enough being recognised by supermarket checkout people and store clerks already, the checkout chicks seeing my profile and spreading it around the store would be my worst nightmare.
As it is I even try and time mall visits to regular working people shopping hours for the illusion of not being neet. Only buy alcohol outside the 9-5 weekday time frame to avoid the judgy glare of the liqour store clerks.
Nothing worse than groups of old retired people scowling at you for being out of work, looking around and noticing that you are the only person under 60 in the entire mall.
Smh weak impression, the ''svedhish'' and the ''thos'' are pretty accurate.
Before i moved to Uni i had the exact same problem, if someone saw my profile it'd be a town-wide meme in the matter of hours.
If i as much as tried flirting with a girl i'd get a bunch of messages ironically making fun of me
>user slaying pussy LMAO
>Aww user i didn't know you were in the dating game.
I couldn't do anything without people making fun of it, i remember going to a party with a friend and a bunch of people i'd never seen knew who i was and said shit like
>DUDE user'S GETTING DRUNK AHAHA!
>YOU'RE SUCH A LEGEND!
Small cities are hell.
All that happens from this is discussion with old men about the weather.
I feel like you will become braver in terms of your fear of rejection and eventually approaching new people will become second nature to you.
Can you vocaroo a swedish meatball please?
I don't do tinder because I do not want to make a facebook account and there is more satisfaction with talking to women
Yep. I was hanging with some friends and we started talking about tinder and stuff and they mentioned that they saw my roommate on tinder while browsing once. Not about to be found dead on it.
Tinder is not the place for romantic, monogamous people as make up your average Jow Forums posters.
No th rejection level is as high as ever. All I learned is lonely/bored old men are always open to a polite chat about the weather and nobody else was interested in anything further than a friendly smile and hello combo. Sometimes degenerate looking men will ask for a cigarette and attractive women may not acknowledge you exist at all because even a smile or hello is more than you deserve. Asian people of all kinds often ignore you too.
Once a very obese african lady with bad teeth and body odor who was walking with her 20 something year old daughter responded to my friendly hello with "hello you big sex man". That was an unusual one. She seemed sincere and friendly, not mocking or mean and her daughter laughed and seemed embarrassed about her mother giving a nice friendly "sorry shes crazy" look to me.
No friends or girlfriends found.
I made one recently, you really have nothing to lose OP. Yeah it's awkward as fuck and I get depressed at the fact that I literally can't hold a conversation but I feel somewhat better that I'm at least trying now