Hey incels, how many girls have you asked out last year? Less than 10? Woah

Isaiah Rivera
Isaiah Rivera

hey incels, how many girls have you asked out last year? Less than 10? Woah... So much for the involuntary part....

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Nathan Clark
Nathan Clark

How the FUCK are you supposed to even ask out girls? I didn't get this handbook when I was a child and NOBODY has explained it to me.

Grayson Roberts
Grayson Roberts

Do you not have a father?

Jason Campbell
Jason Campbell

How the FUCK are you supposed to even ask out girls?
"would you like to grab a drink with me this day at this time?"
what's so difficult?

I didn't get this handbook when I was a child and NOBODY has explained it to me.
There is plenty of information online and in media. You can also ask your friends for pointers.

James Harris
James Harris

Dont ask out girls
Lol youre not even an incel you dont even try haha
Ask out girls
STOP ASSAULTING WOMEN WOAH WOAH WOAH BRO NOT COOL ONLY CHAD GETS TO TALK TO THEM

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David Rogers
David Rogers

Stupid strawman that has no basis in reality. As long as you are tactful and not creepy no one is going to bat an eye.

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Isaiah Adams
Isaiah Adams

friends
how do i get some of those?

Connor Ward
Connor Ward

not creepy
Aka 8/10 or above

Sebastian Rodriguez
Sebastian Rodriguez

That's also a retarded and delusional notion. You know it isn't true and just use it as an excuse for your lack of trying.

Robert Baker
Robert Baker

You know it isn't true
Have literally witnessed it firsthand. Multiple times.

Hunter Roberts
Hunter Roberts

I think the zoomers these days call that "the tea" or "shade", or something you usually associate with pleasant things in the summer.

Anyway, it's accurate, and incel is a misnomer because very few of then try (myself included, I'm an asshole just like you)

Jason Howard
Jason Howard

Chances are it was because you were actually being creepy. I've asked out tons of women and got rejected by most and none called me creepy because I was respectful about it. I'm probably a 6/10 at best.

Mason Watson
Mason Watson

Chances are it was because you were actually being creepy.
I never said it was me. And no, the guys in these situations were never creepy.

Henry Clark
Henry Clark

amerilards associate tea with summer
I've seen it all

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Christopher Carter
Christopher Carter

And no, the guys in these situations were never creepy.
Can't argue with your anecdotes. You really showed me.

Brody Stewart
Brody Stewart

Youre the one whos trying to convince me here, pal. Dont lash out because you failed to do your job.

Christian Wood
Christian Wood

What exactly is your point? That all men under 8/10 are seen as creepy when asking women out? Because obviously anyone with any social awareness / experience knows that this isn't true. There are plenty of < 8/10 men with dates or girlfriends who don't find them creepy.
What would it take to convince you? You are likely stuck in your preconceived notions because it's comforting to delude yourself into the idea that there is no sense in trying because that excuses your lack of effort.

Owen Ross
Owen Ross

giving shit to people here about not asking people out
realize I could just ask a girl I know through Facebook if she wants to go grab a drink tomorrow
open up messaging
stomach clenches
lightness in my chest
intense fear
don't do it and come back

Why the F U C C can't I get over it? Why am I so fucking scared of failure?

Michael Morales
Michael Morales

Because obviously anyone with any social awareness / experience
Ad-hom. Were done here.

Alexander Taylor
Alexander Taylor

My dad is a brain dead wage zombie who comes home from work at 7 and his only personality trait is that hes a dumb alcoholic

Nolan Gonzalez
Nolan Gonzalez

Don't be scared user just do it don't even think

Adam Miller
Adam Miller

I tried and failed with one. It took me a while to get over, but now I'm showing interest in three or four girls. Unfortunately I'm not really at a place in life where a girl would want to date me (I'm moving soon).

"asking out girls" is a meme. they only 'asking' you should be doing is 'lets grab lunch'

Adrian Lewis
Adrian Lewis

Why the F U C C can't I get over it?
It gets easier the more you do it. Realize that there is no losing: either she says yes and you win or she says no and you can move on. There is no point in remaining interested if the feeling is not mutual. You can't "win girls over" like in the movies.

No we are not. I made a substantive argument in the next sentence.

Asher Cook
Asher Cook

just ask her out
Who? I dont have any friends. I have never had a friend that is a girl. I dont have any girl acquaintances. I dont have any non relative girls in my phone contacts. My three female coworkers are married.

Liam Lewis
Liam Lewis

I dont have any girl acquaintances.
Work on that. It's not like people got their friends handed to them. You have to make some effort but it's entirely doable.

Anthony Campbell
Anthony Campbell

I clearly dont know how. All I fucking think about is making people like me and im 23 and most people seem to dislike me. It all seems so fucking simple to you all your platitudes are meaningless to us because we just dont get it. Then you come and tell me Im not trying. I fucking try and I fail and im alone

David Powell
David Powell

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If the criteria for an incel is that I have to be actively trying for it to be involuntary, then I guess I don't fit this supposed label, whatever qualities it supposedly requires.

I don't know how to even go about getting into a relationship. Afraid to do try online dating at this point because being this awkward at this age is not really socially acceptable any longer. I've never been approached nor have I done the approaching.

I have no right to complain. I just thought I'd meet someone going about my life where things would click. Never happened, and I'm not really exposed to new people anymore after college. Waiting for an opportunity that never happened has made me bereft of any social experience in that regard, and I was already fairly awkward in the first place. The fact I've never been approached makes me wonder what is wrong with me, regardless of any societal expectation that I do the approaching.

Isaiah Anderson
Isaiah Anderson

ask girls out
get called creepy
can't go anywhere anymore because now you're the creepy guy everyone hates
yeah i had to completely relocate my life once already retarded frogposter

Kayden Moore
Kayden Moore

BUT
I
CAN'T

See like I'm a normie in practically any other sense but when I go out to the bars with friends I freeze up whenever one of them says "Dude, just go talk to her!" I can't even get a drink on a busy night of my own volition, I need a push to do even that because I don't like being near people

That's fair. One of my biggest issues is the fact that I get too precious with the idea of a person to the point where it becomes impossible for me. Even with girls I've long since gotten over, I still get a lil hit of dopamine when she texts me saying she's seeing a movie she knew I liked tomorrow.

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Jackson Murphy
Jackson Murphy

I fucking try
what did you try?

If the criteria for an incel is that I have to be actively trying for it to be involuntary,
A fatso who doesn't work out isn't involunarily fat.

Don't be creepy then. Unless you live in a town with 100 people there is no way EVERYONE hates you. Chances are you overestimate how much people actually care about you.

I get too precious with the idea of a person to the point where it becomes impossible for me.
I know exactly what you mean. At some point I started not giving a shit about oneitis and not putting girls on pedestals and it's the best decision I made. Not quite sure how I did it and it's probably harder if you buy into the whole incel narrative this place tries to spread. But, there are still some girls who I was really invested in in the past who I still am scared of asking out.

Ayden Phillips
Ayden Phillips

I almost did in December but then I remembered that I'm unemployed and live with my parents. Close call too cause the rejection probably would've killed me.

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Andrew Turner
Andrew Turner

Women literally speedwalk away from me, get up when I sit near them on the train, jump back when I open the door for them, etc

I shower every day and have a full time white collar job

Benjamin Morris
Benjamin Morris

work nights
ask girls out at bookstore, coffee shop, bakery, grocery store, sushi place, eyc
get a few numbers, none culminate to dates

I've gotten dates on tinder but it never goes past 1, I'm a social spazz and probably give off red flags

On the plus side I've hit on girls at all the fast food places near me, now I dont go to them out of awkwardness so it helps my /fit/ routine

James Flores
James Flores

Fatso comparison is kind of a false equivalency in this regard. Most fat people have only themselves to blame for their weight, barring some metabolic condition. If they don't work out, they simply eat too much.

Relationships, however, are a two way street and rely on the compliance of two people to agree to go forward together. Just because I want something doesn't mean it will happen. I'm not taking self-agency out of this. But there is an entire half of this equation that is dependent on another person and their view of me. Ultimately, there is something fundamentally flawed about myself that makes that view unappealing.

Leo Barnes
Leo Barnes

Not a very helpful one that's for sure.

Grayson Stewart
Grayson Stewart

The secret red pill is that you have to fail a thousand times before you can succeed. Fail and learn from the failures instead of giving up.

Owen Cooper
Owen Cooper

Every girl I've asked out (5 in the last two years if I remember correctly) has been 'busy'. Not ugly or unfit, probably just very awkward despite being a pretty extroverted dude. So I can't be bothered trying again anytime soon. Don't even meet girls anymore so not even sure where to start.

Chase Cox
Chase Cox

Just be yourself.

(As long as yourself is a +6 foot tall broad shouldered wealthy handsome outgoing charismatic Chad with full hair)

Elijah Powell
Elijah Powell

You gave up on something entirely after 5 tries. Pathetic effort.

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Angel Lee
Angel Lee

This
I'm still single but looking at text from two years ago I realize how extremely cringey I was

Andrew Mitchell
Andrew Mitchell

Creepy = Sub-8

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Ethan Butler
Ethan Butler

Well, I have broad shoulders and full hair. And like, maybe a thousand dollars to my name. Sure is great being a below average goblin-boy

Joseph Martin
Joseph Martin

Might just hit up the bars tonight and try to chat up every thicc piece of skirt meat I see.

Parker Robinson
Parker Robinson

Basically me original 2.0

Christian Sanders
Christian Sanders

here speaks a wise man. Listen to him

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Jonathan Taylor
Jonathan Taylor

even if you were a 10 you couldnt do shit, its all in your head and to be frank its rrally pathetic watching you wiggle your way out of doing anything proactive

Nolan Sullivan
Nolan Sullivan

Ultimately, there is something fundamentally flawed
this is defeationist and defeationism is not a great stance to take if you haven't fucking tried. By trying you can find your flaws and work on them.

Adrian Ross
Adrian Ross

That's literally the point, numbnuts. Nobody here can even try because it's way too taxing for people to bother with.

Joshua Martin
Joshua Martin

try smiling
or you know baby steps: try not to frown all the time
go sit in front of a large mirror and look at your body language
get better shoes, shoes and hygiene are the main things that matter

Jordan Myers
Jordan Myers

these are rookie numbers. get these up to 5 rejections a month

the main difference between winners and losers is that the losers don't lose enough

Liam Flores
Liam Flores

folk come here to vent and get some accepting interaction
prick chadly drivels and nags people to make things worse for themselves and guilt trip for not trying harder
I don't even care for relationships but what the fuck are you assholes here for? Virtue signalling?

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