Gf got a vibrator

A lot of guys feel inadequate.
>my dick isn't enough
Women just tend to have higher sex drives than men. They tend to take more time to cum and want to cum more often. Plus, to be honest, using a wand during is pretty great. I would find a way to make him feel just as desired, but it honestly seems like something people have to get over themselves.

Try actually sharing the vibrator with him as a form of foreplay.

>he doesn't have a vibrating dick to pleasure his gf
seriously though why are you getting so worked up over it?

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>it honestly seems like something people have to get over themselves.
i'm sure this is easy to say when there is zero pressure to perform for women. of course masculine ego is fragile regarding sex, it's all up to the guy

considering it's technically a robot that means you're still getting cucked

>sorry honey, it's not your fault, it's just that my sex drive is SO HIGH that you couldn't possibly satisfy me fully so I need this robotic hyperpenis to get my rocks off and I guess I'll fuck you later if you insist

>it's all up to the guy during sex
You're fucking stupid, I am a guy. You're clearly either retarded or a virgin, make your pick.

>guy who says I'm to embarrassing to gf but still fucks me has low sex drive and/or is fucking other girls
>won't fuck me more than once a month at this point
>try everything I can to make this bastard put out
>give up after three and a half years
>keep making dating site accounts
>apparently keep scaring the guys I meet, rarely get a second date
>my dick intake is at fucking zero times per month now
>try to be nicer, learn to do better make up, start eating more and working out to look healthier, get that jap skincare routine
>nothing
>it's literally just my shitty personality
>buy cheap chink dildo and various vibrators
>go back to Jow Forums just like I did in high school
>get off to weirder and weirder porn just like I did in high school
>none of it ever mattered
>it was meant to be

I'll never fuck off, I was sent to die here

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it is you fucking mongoloid, anyone that has actually had sex before will understand that aside from maybe making some faces or noise a lot isn't expected of women

>you fucking mongoloid

>a lot isn't expected of women
>I don't expect a lot of women as long as they lay there and let me get 2 pumps in
You're probably fucking garbage in bed

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>projecting
you keep making assumptions about me. a lot more emphasis is put on men's performance; they decide when sex starts, ends, how fast, slow it is. keep projecting though faggot

Lurking woman here, gotta give this a +1. Also, guys never take into account the amount of stretching you have to do by your lonesome in order to be able to fit an average sized wiener in your tight, virginal hole. My boyfriend has often complained about pain while trying to fuck me because I'm too damn tight. Might sound lewd, but really it's bloody awkward trying to shove it in there.

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the differences between girls on this board is crazy

> to them it feels like an admission that he isn't good enough
If that were the case, I would want him to say so explicitly. I think I could probably make him understand that I don't have it because he doesn't satisfy me, but because I like to masturbate and he's not around all the time. Because to me it's just not a replacement for actual sex. It doesn't scratch the same itch, especially because it's not penetrative.

But because he's never said anything about it, it's just a general feeling I get about his general feeling about it, I can't just burst out with "it's not like I don't want your dick desu". That would make him feel worse I think.

>he only fucks boring bitches

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He probably feels self conscious about it, thinking he's not good enough to please you. On top of that the reason he hasn't mentioned it is because men feel that they can't show vulnerability so he may feel as though if he mentions it it shows his vulnerability and then you will think worse of him than he already perceives you do, leading to you cheating or a breakup.

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>men decide when sex starts and ends
Uh, no, that's consensual and mutual. Unless you're, oh yeah, a rapist or something. You sick fuck.
I'm retarded due to sleep deprivation; is this just longform for "learn to fucking use foreplay," or am I misreading it? Because I agree with using foreplay, just shoving it in is the opposite of sexy. Makes it feel super impersonal.

You could suggest to use that toy in bed together 2bh, so it won't scare you as much at least and it could spice things up.
Also, communication is key you retard, talk to her, not this basket weaving board

I see that. I understand the fear, and man, I guess I wouldn't keep it around if it really made him feel that way. I wish I could just tell him that it's not the same thing. I mean, I fuck him whenever he wants to, shouldn't that alone indicate that he's doing nothing wrong and that the vibrator isn't a replacement?

I can't explain it and don't know what you should do, you should maybe try initiating sex with him and getting him to rub you clit while sex and really emphasise how good it feels and then ask if he would use the vibrator on it so he sees it's not a replacement for him but something that can be enjoyable for both of you, can't remember the word right now but I'll use: accentuate your sexual experience together.

Also, I've only had 2 sexual partners and my girlfriend always wanted to use toys. This was back when I was 19, am 23 now and I really didn't want to and felt very self conscious about it so we didn't. And I'm not small or big just average so there's some background.

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damn do i regret making this thread holy fuck

Whhat's the source on the gif?

Why the fUck are there so many fuCking normalfag threads UP RIGHT FUCOING NOW GOD DAMMIT I HATE YOU I HATE YOUR KIND I HOPE YOU FUCKING DIE IN A DITCH ALONE AND UNLOVED.

So the fuck what, retard?
How often to you shake your dick around to the sight of cartoons?
>hurr durr my gf has a high sex-drive :((
Have sex with her, then, if you love her.

>I fuck him whenever he wants to, shouldn't that alone indicate that he's doing nothing wrong and that the vibrator isn't a replacement?

Not necessarily. Someone that felt a vital duty to satisfy their partner sexually, and cared to keep the relationship, but got no pleasure sexually from him, might also fuck him whenever he wants. What would imply to him that that isn't the case, that you want him too, would be if you initiated interest in sex. Even annoy him with it, a little, and then you can be sure he knows he's got something the vibrator doesn't.

>regretting making a thread about your girlfriend on r9k
good
don't do it again

I'm a fat, manlet KHHV NEET with a small cock, no future to speak of and no self esteem or confidence in myself. I'am completely cut off from intimacy, but threads like this bamboozle the fuck outta me. Don't people communicate in relationships, like... At all, about anything?

It's like a trash TV trope of "We have an issue, better let it fester and get out of hand instead of ACTUALLY TALKING IT OUT.". Fucking retarded.

Pls gib GF

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>tfw no bf to complain about my vibrator

They probably are here to laugh, how pathetic our lives are

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shove it into your ass in front of her to assert your dominance.

show your pussy whores. fuck you i fuking hate you m8 i want to purge you all from this board. you and the fags fuck this

That's unironically literally ironic, since that's how you'll most likely die, incel. Lmao. Pathetic.

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Use the vibrator on her. Maybe you're doing good but she likes to masturbate. Don't always look at the worst case scenario.

vibrator is better than having a boy

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i can remmind you some good onaholes and pussy sleaves bro.
See how that makes HER feel

considering doing this lol, would be super immature though

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Who giveth a fuck. It makes a good point. Tell her it has nothing to do with her, too.

>oh no worries babe i bought an onahole too. don't worry, you don't compete with it, it's way tighter and has more ribs than you, way more intense
this is along the lines of what she told me about her vibrator

>being threatened by 2lbs of plastic and a battery

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Did she literally say it felt better than you or are you just being a lil bitch

essentially she said it doesnt compare at all because its extremely intense, nothing a human could provide

Visit /jp/ and their eternal onahole thread.
Buy one or two that you think will suit you. Get some good water-based lube too.

She can make herself cum, you can't.

People just need to be open with their sexualities. My ex had one and I had no opposition to using it in bed. It was fun and you can even use it on your dick and balls

People will call this bait but ironically OP i also have a girlfriend who has a little vibrator
I grabbed it this weekend during sex and let her use it, it kinda felt cool for me to be in a vibrating cunt, and she got super into it, begged me to cum after she came (it seemed to make me last a little longer) and begged me to cum on her face and shit, which she really never does. Used it twice more this week to the same effect...id try it out what can you lose?

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If you can't satisfy a woman, any woman, and her sex drive to the point where you're ready and she isn't, then you've failed as a man.

Not because she deserves it, but because your ego requires that level of respect.

>be a cunt
>complain that people dont like me

wow nice, male here and i haven't had sex in years. Your problems arent real problems.

the thing is she orgasms multiple times a week and we fuck for hours, i do satisfy her. i can tell because she contracts

what the fuck lmfao
You anorexic?