Just lost my virginity at 19 to a girl I truly love.
We've had sex three times now and we're struggling cause she's a small 5'3 girl and I have a bigger than average penis.
Cowgirl is out the question cause I hit her cervix, going in from behind apparently "rips her to pieces", and it just seems like missionary is the only position that works so far, but that's cause I can't even get the whole dick inside her in that position.
We use lube, but it doesn't really make much difference.
What can we try so that she's more comfortable and less beaten up?
My gf finishes long before me at the moment (I think the condoms are too tight, or cause I was a virgin only last week, I'm not used to using a condom). So I am fighting to feel anything down there, ESPECIALLY in missionary.
This is a mess I need guidance from someone who's been here before
1. Use lots of lube 2. use plenty of foreplay 3. go slow and listen to her
these laws can can only go so far though, so if length is the issue and the above doesn't help try also using a cock bumper or not penetrate as deep
Owen Kelly
yes u did
Charles Clark
also as far as condoms go, it could be your still new to the whole thing
a bigger size wont help any in terms of sensation
Sebastian James
have you tried anal?
Charles Wright
try to put the condom before your in complete erection , work for me
Jace Barnes
Why's that?
Gfs too prude for that.
Thanks man
Jonathan Rivera
Cuck ngmi
Nathan Jenkins
If she already has big dick problems I don't think anal is the solution, user.
Nathaniel Cooper
A bigger size made a big difference for me because regular ones were painful and I ended up with a purple dick several times. Choosing an appropriate size is important, discomfort can make you feel less pleasure so in that way a bigger one could feel better.
Adam Baker
Took my girls virginity M30 F22
I say im 9” but im actually 8” and I say that due to inflation as most guys 5” say theyre 7” (your not your lying and everyone know its)
Anyway any girl who holds it its about 3 handfulls
Still sometimes hurt her but everytime we have sex she get more and more into her cervix being hit
Took like 20 times to get break her in desu
Deeper is always better most women just dont push past that pain desu and it takes time it will get better
Get her a vibrator for her clit and teach her to cum while you hit it she’ll be in love forever
Been here since 2003 dipshit I just dont fucking post on fit because you rarely ever post anything funny or actuall helpfull advice here you just wank each other off in a blatent homosexual way and 90% of you are more insecure and narcissistic than your average fucking female
Sincerely
Love /pol
Christian Reed
Pretending to be Jow Forums, that's cute. Shoo shoo tumblr.
Michael Adams
looks skinny lol
Levi Carter
putting your condom before being hard will make your pain disapear et make him fit perfectly , worked for me
Gabriel Perez
What's Love/pol bros? Is it a hidden board, like /trash/?
Easton Ortiz
>user >/fit >the internet >I believe you
I believe you
Owen Anderson
Yeah that's a nice big dick
Brayden Peterson
She has to be aroused before you start fucking her.
Samuel Ross
>Sincerely >Love /pol You write like a reddit faggot, fuck off And Jow Forumstards aren't welcome here
Austin Price
Lol you fell for the girls like big cocks meme
Honestly she's probably a keeper
Logan Johnson
First off try getting bigger condoms, my current girl recommend me trying magnums when we first started dating and used condoms and they made worlds of a difference when banging.
I had the problem as well with her not being able to take it. She is 5'2 with a really small and tight vagina and I'm about 7-7.5 but she claims I'm about 8 when full mast. It took us a while before she was able to take my whole dick with out being in pain or having any tearing. Lost of patients and lots of foreplay my friend. When we first started dating I could only finger her with one finger and even now I still have to work up to two. After I get two fingers in her I usually hold her knees behind her head and slowly insert the tip, take it out, insert it a bit farther, take it out and repeat. Eventually I work up until I can fully thrust into her and she enjoys it. From her I'll switch her up and fuck her how she wants to be fucked. Every now and then I'll just bend her over and start fucking her and she will complain about her cervix getting smashed but she is really starting to like the pain from it.
Protip: If you can't insert it all the way in missionary, put your hand on the top of her pelvis and push down. You should be able to feel your dick head and this will cause her extreme pleasure and probably the biggest orgasm if you focus on hitting this spot plus it will feel better for you as you have more stimulation on your head (unless you are cut and have no feeling in your head regardless and in that case, rip.)
David Martin
Sure post dick pics faggot and match mine or stfu like the reddit liberal bitches you are and send me your girlfriends numbers
Ill even let you watch cucks
Tyler Watson
Cuckold
Blake Collins
Have you tried no condom?
Sebastian Kelly
KEKED
Dylan Powell
You want to be careful bro the chances of staying with a girl in this day and age with sex partner count over 1 so 2 now is like 50-65% at 3 its wayy down to under 40%
Source
Big book of charts on early sexual activity in females
Liam Lewis
>take a shit >penis grows a little >feel penis touch the cold porcelain inside the toilet this happens too often
Matthew Rivera
this happens to me and I am average
Henry Thomas
>going in from behind apparently "rips her to pieces" hot
Chase King
>Lost of patients heh
Landon Phillips
Vaginas get baby heads trough them. Buy lube or make her wet enough and work up to jack hammer level
Wyatt Stewart
It happens OP My wife is 4'10 and I have a 7.5er that's pretty thick too. Doggy style is a no unless I go shallow which just defeats the point. Somehow cowgirl is comfortable for her though. She'll get used to it with a bit of time but if you can't bottom out now you never will.
Leo Roberts
>t. clueless
Carter Morris
End your life incel mutt
Lincoln Reyes
You sound like you don't know how to fuck. When she is warmed up, the first slide let you know how deep you can go. After you slide back, look at yourself to see where the juice is on your dick. that indicate how deep her pussy is. And then, all the time you smashing her, constantly focus on not going too deep. it will help you a little bit to last longer too.
David Evans
Guaranteed she’ll be back on his dick before long.
Logan Williams
t. incel
Mason Martin
You're touching the fornix user. No need of big dick for it tho, anterior fornix aka the A-spot is reachable for the average penis, posterior is mostly a myth when it comes to orgasm and just serve for containing longer dicks (probably what you're talking about if you by deep you mean 8 inch balls deep).
Michael Miller
Lel
You retard just make her take it stop being better. Doggy
Jeremiah Adams
just don't go deep.
Ryder Jones
Start maturbating with condoms on to get used to it.
And lots of foreplay, finger her and get her stretched out well before you penetrate her. If not then you're just gonna have to fuck her without your whole dick entering her if it causes her too much pain.
tl;dw: an asshole has no cervix and can take big dicks
Camden Myers
>absolutely not fitness related in any way shape or form >up for 6 hours based fucking retard jannies useless mutts
Owen Davis
Vaginas get babies through them by tearing themselves open and often times ripping apart the skinflap separating the vaginal canal and the anus. Not something you want to do regularly. You and every other stupid fucking girl saying this argument need to shut the fuck up
Jacob King
>lost virginity >gf finishes before me
lmfao
Bentley Flores
It's true.
Logan Reed
are you a manlet? if not, why would you doom your offspring? also you don't love her if you're degrading her via premarital sex.
Carson Martin
You've got to spend much more time doing foreplay. Make her have an orgasm with your fingers/tongue first and then go in
Anthony Gutierrez
Imagine spending so much time on a indian curry making forum that the ironic humor becomes facts in your head and you turn into a bitter man with no future.
Fucking mutts need to go shoot up a walmart or something.
Charles Hernandez
>it matters if shes in pain >the female orgasm is real >wearing condors and not making her get on the pill >pretending any of this is real
Congratulations on your membership in the big dick club, girls will put one leg in air and one knee on your groin to block you from going balls deep
Michael Cox
How big are you?
Dominic Cruz
Hes a big guy
Evan Sullivan
I'm in a similar situation to you. Unfortunately, you'll just have to avoid positions that hurt her. Missionary is always fun and hasn't caused me any problems. You could also try positions where she can control the depth. Easing in slowly can help relax her. Try Skyn condoms.
Hudson Butler
Yes, best answer.
John Martinez
She'll be fine. Vaginas are designed to pop out babies. She just doesn't like you that much.
Dylan Gutierrez
Vaginism, look it up. It's a real issue for a lot of women.
Ethan Kelly
A-spot is the magic spot. I'm surprised basically no one knows about it. Shows that people are sex retards if they can't find it.
Julian Long
Just tie her down and push your dick into her cervix. It’s tight as fuck. Force her to love it.
Parker Brown
Fucking this!
Xavier Lewis
I don't care how nice your get is, we Jow Forumstards live here too Now stop responding to the intern living in a basement at Langley
Jason Morales
Forgot to say haha
Hudson Ramirez
Yeah cuz interpersonal relationships working are completely random you fucking sperg