>be me >23 >lifting 2 years >lightfap 2 years(fap every one or two week) >get first long lastin gf >loose virginity to her >its been 6 months fucking and I still cum after a minute >alcohol doesn't help >condom doesn't help >condom with anesthetic doesn't help >cardio doesn't help The only thing that works is if she faps me, than manages to get me hard again, but even then I cannot cum a second time, but I last indefenetly till our stamina runs out, which is hours But she usually doesnt jerk me off, instead lets me cum the first load into her and I try to get hard again in her which sometimes happens sometimes dont
Drink beetroot juice on regular basis, helps a lot with blood flow which can help with staying hard long time and even cumming more. Do kegels and jerk more as well.
Blake Scott
Just slam it after you nut and you should be able to keep it up, otherwise blue pills
Bentley Lopez
You've got a weird combination of deathgrip and premature ejaculation. I'd try having normal sex, no masturbating beforehand, but edge while fucking her. So swing a few strokes til your close then pull out and go back to making out and touching her, then go back to mining her love tunnel.
Zachary Long
fuck slower, jerk it the morning before you have sex
Levi Morris
Priligy
Angel Carter
Same problem here. 1 minute tops first time, 10-20 minutes (or not at all) second. Sometimes I couldn't even get hard for the second time, sometimes i do and recharge incredibly fast. And when Im not horny enough in a second round, I find that the longer range of motion while thrusting is hurting my dick.
Kayden Bennett
>>>lightfap 2 years(fap every one or two week) Found your problem OP
Stop listening to PUA's on Reddit
Ayden Miller
Fuck every other piece of advice in this thread and every dumbass piece of advice people normally give in response to “how do I last longer??” questions. Fuck thinking about something gross, fuck “hurr durr nofap”, fuck kegels, fuck diet changes, fuck it all. They are literally ALL WRONG and are all espoused by wannabe sex guru boomers and literal incel virgins.
Here’s what you actually do: start out each fuck sesh VERY slow and steady, being sure to take your time and stop if it starts to feel too much like you’re about to nut. It’s perfectly fine to just sit there for a minute inside her and just makeout/suck on her tits while just moving eeeever so slightly in and out. Keep this safe and steady pace up for five to ten minutes, slowly start to pick up the pace more and more as you feel ready, and eventually you’ll start to go juuuuuust numb enough to not nut, but without losing any sensation in your dick. Practice this over the course of several hookups and eventually you’ll get your own personal pacing down to the point that you don’t even have to wait five to ten minutes, you can just jump right in and start railing her as hard as you/she wants.
I used to have early cumming problems, and I can literally go forever now. I can change my pace completely at will and fuck girls as hard or gentle as they want, with quick fast pumps or full deep pumps or whatever else. Then when I do wanna finish, I just have to refocus my mind a bit and then in a few minutes I bust. It is 100% a mental/mind-body connection thing, and you seriously just have to practice. The problem is most people are too afraid to take their time and practice, so they come up with all this idiotic placebo bullshit. JUST TAKE YOUR TIME AND PRACTICE. Girls actually love the steady build up too, like they literally go euphoric over it. Just act arrogant and verbally dominant as you’re building up to your zen point, and they will literally cream themselves before you do.
Cooper Nguyen
this 100%
also when you feel that you are about to bust sometimes just saying something along the lines of 'aye baby you feel so good that its hard to keep from coming' helps
girls love it and suddenly you don't feel like coming and can keep up with the pumping
also talking in and being vocal also helps because it makes you and the overall more relaxed
you can also get back to giving head in the middle of fucking
and you can also take a pause from fucking with your dick out of her vagina, it feels extra good after you ram it back in after a moment of kissing , sweet talking and tit sucking for example
When I first lost my virginity I lasted 2 hours with that shit
Xavier Bennett
1. Kegels 2. You control the pace. If you have to fuck really slow, fuck really slow.
Christopher Nelson
Yell at your dick like a football coach before sex. Slap it if you have to. She can watch if she wants to, but if you are doing it the right way it might get nasty. t. a lover of a thousand women
Angel Taylor
Thats the one I said I tried, and it doesn't work. Same time to cum, but I don't feel a thing, so it's probably mental
Blake Hernandez
Yeah try this, or maybe have sex more? If you do it 5 times per day, the last one should be a struggle.
Adrian Thomas
>tfw some chicks I nut within 5 mins, some I cant get hard with and some I can fuck like a pornstar
>he fell for nofap You need to a build resistance dude. Either fuck your girl as many times in a row as it takes or start jerking it more.
I had the exact same problem as you a few months ago, but now I have the fucking opposite where I can stay hard for over an hour without cumming.
Robert Foster
Learn how to eat pussy faggot
Xavier Richardson
Based comment, can confirm
Levi Campbell
Bang until you're about to nut, pull out, eat her out for a while, let your dick chill out for a bit, put back inside, rinse and repeat.
Jonathan Jackson
l-arginine + training
what's the principle behind muscle growth? progressive overload
same principle
jerk/fuck to the point you're about to cum then stop, take a break then repeat
Grayson Wright
What are you cooking that looks good. Also better advice than what I was gonna say has already been posted.
Cooper Rodriguez
Are you in nofap? If you are, jerk off, you fucking retard.
Jaxon Adams
Just got out of 5 year relationship a few months ago.
Met a new girl started seeing her. Had been a while for her so I had a bit of trouble getting it in so I went soft. Got it back up and got in. Went soft. Got hard again. Went soft.
I’d had a few beers but was sober enough to know what was happening, other than that I’m thinking nerves?
What the actual fuck lads. She finished me off with her hand and said she honestly didn’t care just gotta try again (did a bunch of foreplay) so at least she was somewhat satisfied.
What the fuck do I do this happened when I lost my virginity but otherwise never happened
Brody Perry
Is it bad to nut, but stay hard and just keep going?
Josiah Campbell
>but was sober enough to know what was happening if you were drunk enough to use that phrase then the alcohol was likely a major factor
Jack Sanchez
Chicken breasts with every spice you can buy mixed into a large jar then poured on the chicken and also the rice. It's super tasty and easy to make. I literally just go to the shop buy one small bag from every spice then mix it together, and ad some salt. Costs like 5buck and good for a year