2 days ago my therapist basically told me that he wouldn't be my friend if he wasnt being paid for it...

2 days ago my therapist basically told me that he wouldn't be my friend if he wasnt being paid for it. if the person that i share basically everything with resents me, then what's the point of going on? all i wanted was someone that woulds stick with me even though im gross and retarded. i cant add anything to relationships or conversations, im just not a constructive person at all. im just a leech on people's time and resources. I can't imagine ever ending up anywhere other than being a stereotypical fat hairy neckbeard or dead. all that matters now is whether i can muster up the nerve to actually end myself.

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some people were just never meant to live m8, thats how shit turns out. but eh shit, you shouldnt pay people to be your freinds. being freinds is pretty deep, i mean you can show your true colours and be accepted for it, and not pay for it. in return tho, you have to accept their depths and shit man do they go deeper than you, and they take up all your fucking time, fuck you even have to give them money sometime just to help them out, but eh they'll give you it back when you need it.
could you actually muster up the courage to be freinds with someone who's not paid to be nice to you? freinds are not nice, they're cunts. but you can be a cunt back and its pretty good bants

Get a new therapist then

This. Its all about connection with therapist.

>my therapist basically told me that he wouldn't be my friend if he wasnt being paid for it
I have a hard time believing these stories
I've been to therapy myself - I think I would be a great therapist, even without any formal education
I listen, I am very empathic, I confront, I am very critical and analytic

I think I could help a lot of male virgins, being a male wizard myself
the day I feel more complete as a person, I would start helping others (for pay ofc, lol!)

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What he said could be ok depending on the context and attitude.

He is your therapist, not your friend. If you dislike him, you should find a new one, but if his comment on "not being friends" was constructive somehow you should understand the way he meant it.

>all i wanted was someone that woulds stick with me even though im gross and retarded
You really are retarded. You have absolutely no idea how the world works, at all.

>, I am very empathic
You can't even use the correct word ffs.

Boohoo I'm a boring piece of shit without anything to give other people, why can't I get friends?? Baww why can't I buy a friend with my money??
You such a fucking retard, holy shit. Why would anyone want to be connected with you if you are nobody? You can't buy friendship or love, dumbass. Instead of spending money on that useless therapist you should buy help from some Chads who will teach you how to be a man, who would actually give you some helpful info about society around you which you struggle to understand. You waste money with meme therapist to dig in your shit in your dumb head, but why, digging your past won't shape your future.

Empathic and empathetic are the same thing. Don't be rude to nice people.

Empathetic vs. Empathic. The words empathetic and empathic mean the same thing. Empathic is the older word, but not by much. It was first used in 1909, while the first recorded of use of empathetic is from 1932. Both words are derived from empathy, and you can use them interchangeably.

>you should buy help from some Chads who will teach you how to be a man, who would actually give you some helpful info about society around you which you struggle to understand
He just needs to be himself :^)

what do i do? of course i dont know how anything works, i was sheltered as a child and didnt learn how to make friends or do anything. i dont expect people to be my friends just because i give them money, my problem is that i think i'm so broken deep down that nothing that i pile on top of my personality will fix anything. it's the fact that someone that i've talked to every week for the past two years doesn't like me. i don't know how to fix being boring and socially inept. you can call me retarded and bully me all you want, all i want is help and i'm so desensitized to verbal abuse that anything else doesnt really register with me anymore.

yeah, it was his way of calling me boring. i dont know what the fuck to do about that.

he/she is a piece of shit but the're not wrong, they don't owe you anything, they should just do it anyways

I told you already what you must do, retard, read again carefully. Pay some men who will teach you to be a man, who will be a role model for you instead your father who normally should be in your childhood, if you never learnt anything good from your father, you still can do it from other men especially if you buy their time to help you. Therapist will never be your real friend, they will never be a role model from who you form yourself as a real man.

I don't have any money and i don't want to learn from random chads. i dont want to be a man.

Wow. Your therapist sounds like a fucking dibbaloab.

So it's a free therapist? Lmao you even wonder why they don't give a shit about you.
If you don't want to learn or to be a man then kill yourself why the fuck you even ask what do if you won't do anything at all

>being a therapy cuck

That's what you get you feelet.

you're so fucking weak minded OP jesus

but you're just also lying to yourself at the same time. You've never experienced the things that make a normal human mentally stable, being a male wizard yourself. so what gives you the right to help others who are suffering from the same problem as you? when you're just as pathetic as they are

this is proof you're hopeless. you state your problems, you tell us what is wrong with you, we give you an answer and u go on to self loathe.
kys if that's the only thing you can do. no wonder your therapist hates u lol u cant even better yourself faggot

I'd go back to him one more time. I would ask with poignant sorrow in my voice what he means,and ask him to explain himself on why he chose to hurt and insult you. Beg him to be your friend,and when he refuses,leave in tears.

Record the entire session on your smartphone secretly, of course,and take that shit to your local news station. Destroy him utterly. And be a hero to others in your situation.

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therapists are not supposed to be your friend, theyre supposed to be your therapist. It may feel like friendship but that is not how it works. you completely missed the point of therapy.

>i was sheltered as a child and didnt learn how to make friends or do anything.
that explain why you attach so much to person who shows a bit of empathy.

How much money do you have in the bank OP? origin