Trying online dating

Well bloody hell op no wonder that you'll only bang fat chicks.
The nice chicks that have your interests only exist in the dream world.
You have to completely change your profile. Make a female one, look at the chads, then copycat. Get a nice angle that makes you look more attractive then you are. For that use a 100mm, since that focal lenght magically makes you more attractive. You have to act as a normie to bang normies. Attractive chicks had always their life easier, so they mostly likely developed intrests far away from yours.
That said, how do I cut an African Aloe leaf? Can't find anything online, and I don't want to kill it

>That said, how do I cut an African Aloe leaf? Can't find anything online, and I don't want to kill it
No clue friendo.

>Well bloody hell op no wonder that you'll only bang fat chicks.
Running doesn't seem like a very fat girl hobby though, does it?

>The nice chicks that have your interests only exist in the dream world.
>You have to completely change your profile. Make a female one, look at the chads, then copycat. Get a nice angle that makes you look more attractive then you are. For that use a 100mm, since that focal lenght magically makes you more attractive. You have to act as a normie to bang normies. Attractive chicks had always their life easier, so they mostly likely developed intrests far away from yours.
But that just seems like I am creating a fake persona to try and find girls who would never like the real me. Why would I seek a romantic partner that I would have to hide who I am from?

Pic related, I feel like the leafs are crowing the pot, but I don't have a bigger one so cutting is my only option I guess

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Well, I get what you say. Running is just telling that you're trying to get fit. I guess that the brewing, the gardening are very old fashioned, and have no place on tinder. Cuties will never understand.
And the board games, I haven't seen a cutie so far playing them, and I've been on various communities of card and board games or RPGs in uni. Only fat or ugly chicks there. I once met a qt which liked anime and had various interest in common, but found her trough a telegram group and she lived in a different country from where I live (both EU counties). Eventually met her a couple of times, but she was too far.
So I think that it is unlikely you'll find a gf tailored to the real you with your current methods.
I have no answer unfortunately, again, I'm in the same boat. It's a sad life. Before was easier, you married a girl from friends of friends and you were done.

Normiecel

>Running is just telling that you're trying to get fit.
I'm doing marathon training, not just trying to get fit.

>I guess that the brewing, the gardening are very old fashioned, and have no place on tinder. Cuties will never understand.
I'm on OkCupid and not Tinder if that matters.

>I have no answer unfortunately, again, I'm in the same boat. It's a sad life. Before was easier, you married a girl from friends of friends and you were done.
I don't need a girl to have all my hobbies, maybe just one and be kind to me.

Well the question is whenever you aren't doing online dating, do you get better options for in person dating than you would for online dating.
Or do both methods yield similar results?

I don't know how OkCupid works, sorry.
I wish I had the skills to meet people irl. You might try if you're confident to look into places like libraries or bookshops. They might organise events which are tailored to the type of kind girl you're into.
user here made a good point.

But to continue :
yes as a man you will get options approximately 30% below your looks level.
Since 30% of men today from 20-30 get no sex.
We live in a society that hates men and worships women, so you have no chance of getting a girl on your looks level, aside from maybe a hook up.
Women honestly think men are beneath them nowadays and so do men. Men and women alike hate men.
I can honestly say that most women I get are 3 points below my looks level.
If I get a woman on my looks level, I have to be on my best behaviour, one mistake and she fucks off quick.
But I haven't done online dating so I can't answer your question.

The only women who treat me as an equal and don't expect me to change are 3 points below my looks level.

Remember only men go on these sites and your father's wouldn't have ever came on here.
That should be pretty indicative of how men are treated 3rd class, don't expect equality...
Especially in the dating scene.
This society hates us.
It has excluded many of us and the worst thing is it seems that the key to male popularity is success with women, that is to say a woman ultimately decides whether a man is popular or not.

This isn't promising user.
Do you mean that we should lower our standard? How could we, we are bombarded with fucking 9-10/10 porn everyday. I don't believe it's women's fault tough. I think it's people like us that gets left behind. We're just modest people.
Not like the robots here, but not the type of individuals that go after the latest trend. Otherwise we wouldn't be posting on a 2003 looking image board.
I'm tired of selecting squares with traffic lights. I should bluepill myself.

If 30% of men can't get it, she can replace you for any of them in a heartbeat.
I believe about 20% of women aren't having sex either, but that's just what they say on the chart to save face.
In fact the females don't like to say how much sex they have so it is probably closer to 10% of women not having sex.
But anyways women can get sex whenever they want, if they are choosing to not have sex.
This proves that women think men are beneath them and feel that the men are unworthy, or they straight up dislike them.

So* they are

>2019
>still not using tantan
>still not fucking model tier asian girls

Honestly just don't blame yourself for the situation.
Society wants men to blame themselves if they can't attract women, which leads them to hate themselves. Yet this same society has conditioned women to believe they are above men, so of course they will be more picky when it comes to men and they expect for their husbands to be their slaves. That's why femdom and all that nonsense is so popular these days, the men hate themselves and they worship women.
Since the women are worshipped they act like God. Men treat women better than they treat themselves and other men which leads women to treat them same men lower than herself. If everyone worshipped you I'm sure you would have unrealistically high standards.

>the only women who like me are massively overweight, extremely ugly, or much older than me
Not even the fattest, ugliest, or oldest "like" you, they're just settling for what they can get because they know they can't get Chad. If they had a choice, they would ignore you. The audacity of these niggers of gender.

Face>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>everything else combined

Some people like Femdom for weird reasons or even just for quick easy cash, but there are some that just genuinely like pegging their bfs and don't humiliate him or treat him like garbage or anything else that a lot of people are lead to believe.

That said, a big problem is that men don't have much of anything to bring to the table anymore. Money? Women make just as much as them, in fact I tend to make more than any guy that approaches me, so it's not like I need to be provided for. I provide for myself. So what else can a man bring? Sex? Sex toys are 100% orgasm rate, while sex with a bf is like maybe 10% if he's decent. Conversation? You have to be really lucky. There are some guys you can have amazing chemistry with, but most of them you won't. Most of them won't be funny in the slightest, they'll just sit there brooding about what they don't have and do absolutely nothing to go get it.

Dating a guy is usually a loss on the part of the woman so this is why even the smallest red flag will make her run. You have to have either an amazing personality or be a millionaire to truly be worth the suffering of putting up with you on a daily basis.

post a face pic

Guy you replied to here:

Companionship?
Children?
Sex is not just about orgasm, but about developing a close friendship?
You need an attractive man if you want attractive children.

If you raise children as a single mother it will ruin their mental health and mess them up. It's unnatural.
Callous bitch.

>companionship?
Already have great kind loving and supportive friends as do most women without mental illness problems
>children?
Not very interested. They're ok but not a huge life goal. More like, maybe someday if there was a 10 out of 10 personality I could tolerate living in my space every day of my life. and that's a huge commitment-men are a huge annoying commitment, so I don't think that's very likely or realistic.
>sex friendship thing?
Again, sex toys can very often be way more pleasurable than the real thing. Plus you don't have to worry about accidental babies with a toy. I don't need someone else there sweating and breathing in my face to enjoy getting off.
>attractive children
Again, that's under the assumption that having children is life shatteringly important which it isnt. You don't just shit out a kid and live happily ever after. You really tie your life to the guy forever and that just sounds like a huge nightmare. The only thing worse than raising a child alone is raising one in a broken home that makes the kid wish you were raising them alone and men are mentally unstable and flip like switches all the time so. Overall doesnt seem safe or worth the agony. I find that taking care of my parents and cousins feels a lot better than worrying about finding some loser who will leech off my income and cry about his feelings he expects me to care about.

You are playing into social engineering your behaviour is unnatural.
Read up on the Georgia Guidestones.
You are the type of woman that is responsible for inceldom. If there is ever a war in our lifetimes over this I want you women to receive your punishment for rejecting men. you are responsible for a lot of suffering out there. Karma will get you.
Men only act the way they do because of the constant male shaming on the TV making the man emulate the rotten men they see on the TV. The women are rotten too. You will destroy the genes that your ancestors worked hard as serfs for, enduring the pain of raising children in difficult conditions for a millennia, because of hedonism. Women are as intelligent as men, but they are more ignorant since they don't have time to spend contemplating deeper philosophical questions and issues.
They have no idea what their governments are plotting.
Know this woman, the war on genders was governmentally orchestrated, and they'll come for your gender initially.
We men are the like the African Americans, you women are like the Whites and your time is coming.

Gender eventually*

You sound single. I'm guessing your personality is boring, you're mad or sad all the time, and you the only times you make a woman laugh is when you express interest in them. So here's what you do, go out and find an actual personality or go out and get a real job where you're making 120k salary minimum. That'll help you a lot more than crying to me about your hurt feelings, you're welcome.

Well this is the stereotypical female argument isn't it?
I am single at the moment, but I terminated my last relationship because I was sick of dating a woman 3 points below my looks level as I mentioned prior.
I think you should have the intelligence to remember my comments, especially if you get paid so much.
And I'm a crypto currency NEET, I have a lot of free time and don't need to WAGE SLAVE REEEE

I'm not crying about my feelings I'm telling you the truth of the situation, I've mentioned nothing personal and not only that but you don't even know anything about me.

Oh I see I'm wrong then. It turns out you're doing amazing. You're the most alpha single male on r9k. Incredible! Wow this really is such a rare sight. Really showed me, don't suppose you pass out autographs? A single male on r9k, truly a rare find-don't think I'll ever find this again

The thing I'm angry about is that women who are my looks match aren't interested in me.

But I'm not even angry I'm just truthful, telling the truth about the situation, I'm exposing it. The corruption of the female gender.
I don't get angry but whenever I see men on r9k getting angry about women I just tell the truth and I get passionate.

I'm just a caring guy and it upsets me to see other people out there suffering, especially men, because they are the primary victims in today's society.

Your attitude is like that of indifference, you don't care about anybody but yourself, and we would be better off without you.
Your problem is that you have ego, and you are putting yourself above another human being.
That's just want the rulers of this society do.
Now you don't like them looking down on you, but you do it to others.
Ultimately you are a good slave, keep working paying taxes, I.e. Milk. You are a cow and the govt. is your farmer.

and I am telling you truthfully that you are lacking somewhere. You either have no actual hobbies or the ones you listed look boring. Your about me is probably too serious too. Too many men approach dating sites as interviews. Either loosen up or flaunt money, those are the two choices men have.
Stop crying already. Men arent victims, they just have to develop actual personalities (oh nooooooo). These days women spot red flags fast, so stop looking or being clinically insane/depressed and you should be fine. It's not hard.
wait is this you again, did you really reply to me like 3 times in the span of 3 minutes. So this is the greater reason you're single. You're creepy and obsessive. You get ignored because sane women don't want to be stalked by you. See a psychiatrist, you're welcome.

The reason I wrote 3 messages is because I had new ideas. It was within the space of 5 minutes relax. Im sure you've sent multiple messages in a messanger app in the space of 5 minutes. It's not like I'm messaging here multiple hours apart, that would be uncanny. Look I've said it before, but I'm actually positive in public, I can get relationships, just not with my looks match. And the fact is when 30% of men are incels its women's fault they hold power in this area. When men kill themselves at 4 times the rate of women, that is the symbol of female oppression. This is truth.

not that guy but all the same shut up faggot no one wants to hear it

And honestly oh no two messages in a row haha. That's ridiculous of you.
Crazy women can get relationships, need proof just look at the fembots on this board. Not an excuse.

women who resort to online dating are hardly going to be cream of the crop, considering the average woman has so many prospects in her daily life

So anyways you're an obsessive compulsive weirdo and the reason you can't find happiness is because you're miserable and bitter and that radiates off you with such intensity that women feel it even from miles away over the internet and avoid you like the plague you choose to be. You're uninteresting, unfun, unfunny, and probably not in the least bit sexy either. Even if you were a 9/10 in the looks you still wouldnt be sexy because you're too negative to get wet to the thought of so this is why even if a woman does try you, she probably won't come back. A loss no matter how you look at it. Clearly not mentally stable enough for any woman to even consider having children with because if she did, you'd make those kids hate their lives. and what I'm saying to you is to get help, otherwise, lay in your bed you made and go to sleep already. Have to go out now, bye!

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Look a male victim of gynocentric child custody laws.

Goodbye,
I hope once you've matured in 10 years you realise I was right.

I dont get it either user, women will message me on dating apps by the dozen, but god forbid you actually try to talk to them. Its weird. Disregard females, aquire currency.

Just buy hookers. Prostitutes are the only honest women.

I'm back, yeah the reason woman do that is for a power trip, they get off on the power they have over you.
On another note, that woman I was responding to earlier was an extreme example of the modern woman. Purely hedonistic, arguing that only perfect people should have children, if she believes that some children are better off not being born due to their parents not being perfect she is anti life, might as well kill herself, since she isn't perfect. She's a hypocrite. Purely living for hedonism, everything she talked about was simple and emotionally driven, like a rat with a heroin tap, hopeless. Honestly how can you not want children, makes your parents happy and what not...

Hey, it could be worse user. You could be me, so autistic that I fail even with girls like that