My wife bores me to fucking tears. I want to move back to living with my mum

My wife bores me to fucking tears. I want to move back to living with my mum.

How fucking tragic is this.

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Shucks, I'll bite.
Tell me the story.

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I want to hear the story too. Also, I'd like to know what OP expected of marriage.

let me guess you married her so you could have sex whenever you wanted

>bores me
life isnt about being entertained 24/7

OK so when I first met my wife she was really into alternative scenes, was into interesting extreme films, music, was very thin and quite shy and quiet. I was fucking attracted to her. We got together but because she's from the Middle East, we couldn't cohabit if her family knew. So she just didn't tell them for like three years. Eventually she got bored keeping it from them, which is fair enough, and told them, and we knew that if we wanted to stay together, we had to get married. I also kind of hoped that getting married would make her relax more overall. She needed to chill out. Was too self conscious.

So we got married and it actually didnt change anything but make her more uptight. She felt less independent. Then she got less and less interested in the extreme scene stuff and acquired normie friends. Liked hanging out in baby groups etc. She also put on quite a bit of weight. I did not.

For a long time I felt she was also manipulating me. kept telling me she wanted me to be big and muscly and I said I didn't care about that. She said she wanted me to look and act like Khal Drogo. I thought it was stupid. She got more normie, I got more bored, and now the only things which she kinds funny and extreme are cat posts on Instagram or when her friend's kids do something funny.

She irritates the hell out of me. I don't find her as attractive as I used to, but even though she is losing weight now and looks not too bad, it's what's on the inside that counts for me and I don't feel that connection that I used to. I literally avoid her all the time I'm in the flat and dread coming home. She's also a clean freak and is obsessed with making the flat clean, I can't relax here most of the time unless I've done something wrong - not wiped something, not washed something, it's mad.

Also our families are feuding. They won't speak to each other now for the most part and no-one trusts her. It's all a fuck-up.

Looks like you are not a delusional idiot. You know whats wrong and you know what you want. Have a serious discussion addressing these points (use a curious tone) with her while keeping in mind that her words could be emotionally manipulative. Do not mention the manipulation part. Manipulators will step up their game if you let them know that you are onto them. Disconnect your emotions and focus on what she is trying to achieve with every individual word during a dialogue. This will let you come to a- albeit only slightly -less subjective conclusion.
If you decide to leave her after a heavy discussion like this, you might avoid/ease the drama that follows, making you seem like you are making a rational, rather than an emotional choice.

Take this with a pinch of salt
I am 21 years old living with my parents. Never had a woman in my life. I speak strategically because i have little confidence.

She sounds boring and like you hate living with her. Find another woman and divorce her or just separate. Don't walk out on your kids obviously. But the idea that an unhappy marriage is good for the kids is stupid.