Yes, women prefer a man with a large penis, that is the truth. I don't think you find this major news, unless you've been hiding in the woods all your life (not the woods pictured in the image below though). The real news is that from now on you will know precisely why it is true.
There are five big reasons why women prefer large penises that lead all from one to another. They are sometimes not so easy to separate, but they all have to do with pleasure. It goes from instinctive sexual selection till vaginal satisfaction and anything in between.
As you will see the best way to understand this penis size preference is by trying to understand a woman, what it is that drives her, what her instincts tell her to do, and how her body reacts and behaves.
Comparing Women's Preference For Big Penises to Men's Preference For Big Breasts
Penis size matters to women even more than breast size matters to men. This might come as quite a blow to those people who already have a hard time digesting the fact that size matters to women. I am not trying to create a shock effect here, just getting to the base of things. The statement is true because women simply have more reasons to prefer a large penis than men have reasons to prefer large breasts. The following table compares these reasons side by side. Later on I will explain each of them in detail.
Many people try to downsize the importance of penis size by claiming that it is just as breast size: "Some women prefer a large penis just like some men prefer large breasts." As you can see above, this is a false explanation because first of all, the words some should be replaced by most and secondly, women desire big penises more than men desire big breasts.
Evan Foster
Women love penises just like you as a man love pussies and breasts. The penis is the favorite topic of conversation among women. Talking about it makes them happy, interacting with one makes them really happy.
In the previous post I compared the way men prefer large breasts to the way women prefer a large penis. It shows that a penis can give more than just one kind of pleasure to a woman. All things considered equal, bigger is better in all these categories of pleasure:
psychological pleasures: - anticipation for sex - visual excitement - and a special one: satisfaction of her instinctive need to reproduce
physical pleasures: - touch sensations - vaginal satisfaction * * A woman's vaginal pleasure during intercourse is greatly, although not exclusively, dependent on her partner's penis size. Usually bigger is better up until a certain limit, which varies somewhat from girl to girl. Some get off more on very thick penises, others more on long ones, and others on a combination of both. This doesn't mean that an average or small penis can't give them any satisfaction. Depending on a man's penis size and her vagina size, she might experience less or more satisfaction. Many women are vaginal (need penetration) while others are oral (prefer cunnilingus). But even the ones who are not vaginal will still prefer a good medium size penis.
Jordan Murphy
Psychological pleasures 1. Anticipation For Sex Just like big breasts are a turn-on for men, a big penis is a turn-on for women.A man is attracted to women because he anticipates sex. His instinct tells him that they will give him sexual pleasure. People like something when somehow it gives them enjoyment, and sexual pleasure is the most intense form of enjoyment. Anticipation for sexual pleasure is a pleasure in itself. It is what we call "being turned-on." For most guys big breasts are a turn-on. For most women a big penis is a turn-on. Not very complicated is it?
2. Visual Excitement: bigger looks better Another form of pleasure influenced by size is pure visual pleasure (apart from sexual excitement). Size matters to the eyes. Women love the look of a big penis. It excites them visually just like most men love the look of big breasts. Admit it, big firm breasts look delicious. That's the way women feel when looking at a big firm penis. It is a natural thing. Big is impressive. It is a matter of volume and quantity. Abundance excites. Do you like oranges? Go to the supermarket and check out the difference between the small ones and the big ones. You want the big ones because they make your mouth water. Visually they excite your senses. Now look around and you will realize that this counts for all the items in the fruit store.
Size matters to the eyes of women and men alike. But this doesn't only count for the things you eat. Visit an electronics store and observe the people walking in. Yes, they look at the big screen TV's first. Big is catchy. Big breasts are catchy and exciting to look at for a man. Big penises do the same for women. Think about it, you are not even attracted to penises and yet, like most men, you would like to see yourself with a bigger penis. Women are by nature attracted to penises. So just imagine how much a girl likes the view of a big penis on a man.
Luke Gonzalez
Masculine Men are Men with Strong Male Characteristics
Anticipation For Sex Strong male characteristics --square bodylines --broad shoulders --large hands --bigger muscles, and... --yes, a larger penis.
These characteristics (traits) are what makes a man masculine. When all these characteristics are emphasized in a certain man, women will favor him above one with less pronounced features. He satisfies her instinct by confirming that she is dealing with a true masculine man.
Nature programmed women to look for such masculine features. It is not their choice, it is their instinct. A woman is attracted to men because men represent sex and security.
The larger a man's penis, the more he stands out as a true man, the higher her anticipation for sex and protection.Therefore it is ridiculous to say penis size only matters to some women. It matters to all (normal) women just like a man's voice matters.
Women consider a deeper voice more masculine, I don't think anyone disagrees with that. So why would anyone disagree with the fact that women consider a bigger penis more masculine? Accept it.
I don't really care about all this stuff user, just tell me what the optimal penis size is so I can feel miserable.
Michael Perez
Big Penises Satisfy Women's Instinctive Need To Reproduce Women Prefer a Big Penis For Its Superior Genetics Previously I mentioned that big penises satisfy women's instinctive need to reproduce.
This is true for three main reasons:
To a woman big penises are a sign of a man's fertility. Copulating with a big penis creates more chance for offspring A son of a man with a big penis has more chance to impregnate future women.
The principal law of nature is that any species should reproduce and grow in numbers. As with most animals, human males are programmed to hunt for females and impregnate as many as they can. However, if all men had equal chance to produce offspring, the human species would quickly degenerate and eventually become extinct.
To insure survival and growth of the species, nature enforces a process called natural selection. This means that only the best should live and the weak should take a back seat. This principle of survival of the strongest caused competitiveness to be hard-coded in our basic instincts.
Law of nature = species must reproduce and grow in numbers. Men programmed to hunt for women and impregnate as many as possible. Risk of degeneration! Natural selection = survival of the strongest. Sexual selection: women programmed to select genetically superior men to ensure strongest offspring. Larger penis is superior: has more chance to cause pregnancy. Women prefer men with larger penis. Competitiveness among men. Men's obsession with penis size.
Aaron Stewart
For the species to survive, men need to impregnate women. This can best be done with a penis long enough to deliver the sperm far inside the vagina. Therefore, nature programmed a woman to feel a desire for bigger penises simply by letting her feel more pleasure during copulation with them. Bigger, longer penises are more likely to cause orgasm in a woman and a woman who climaxes while making love is more likely to become pregnant by such a man. (See the 'upsuck' Theory of Orgasm article at the Global Ideas Bank.)
Since men know instinctively that women prefer bigger penises, they will feel like they have less chance to copulate if they see or hear about other men with big penises. In other words, they feel like they can't compete anymore, which conflicts with their primal instinct. Therefore it is natural for men to worry about their penis size.
Jacob Jackson
Women have an instinctive and fundamental preference for bigger penises so that there will be a continuous supply of big penis genetics in the human species, enough to keep the average penis size sufficiently large to allow impregnation so that her offspring will also be able to impregnate other females and as such carry on her genes.
The first part of this explanation might sound farfetched but maybe it makes more sense if you imagine the opposite: women desiring small penises. This would eventually cause the human species to be extinct because men's penises would become so small that they won't even be able to ejaculate inside the vagina.
Then you might wonder why nature doesn't provide all men with big penises if they are so much in demand. For one thing, nature might be perfect as a whole, but surely it is not in its individual parts. Moreover, if all men were well equipped, it could lead to such enormous penises that they would become useless for copulation as well. So, the big ones are preferred but the small penises are necessary to prevent the big ones from degenerating into giant monster phalluses.
Henry Taylor
The second part is more obvious. Instinctively, a woman wants to produce offspring, carrying her genes into future generations. Therefore her ultimate instinctive desire is to become pregnant. That is not a problem since there are plenty of men available. But it is exactly this that creates a problem: the fact that there are so many men available and actually having sex with her! A woman knows instinctively that any females her future son will be mating with, will be just as promiscuous as herself.
This means that if her son doesn't have the superior traits (big penis and big ejaculation) he might never impregnate any female at all. She wants to be sure that in the event she has a son, he will be the best male around, with superior genes so he will have higher chances to impregnate other women. Remember that the whole purpose of living beings is to replicate. Like anthropologist Robin Fox said: "we have to see it, ultimately, as the strategy of the genes to produce replicas of themselves."
John Perez
Women Prefer Larger Penises Because They Are Promiscuous
Are Women Sluts By Nature? Although women are by nature unfaithful, the word "slut" has a very negative meaning to it, so you shouldn't use it to describe women. But you can say that they are promiscuous by nature.
For some people such information might be hard to accept. But there are plenty of scientific articles that support the basis of my statements. Although they were not written to explain the penis size issue, they are essential to help understand why women prefer larger penises.
Sexual Selection Scientists believe that females chose males with larger, sexually stimulating organs above males with smaller genitals.
The basic thing to understand is the concept of Sexual Selection, which is a special type of natural selection. There are two forms of sexual selection: intra-sexual selection and epigamic selection. Epigamic selection is the one that matters to us. It occurs when females accept males with certain characteristics over other males. An example is the human male's penis. With time female choice has caused it to develop to a "large" size, since females preferred mating with males possessing a large penis.
Sexual Selection and Female Choice: "So, when a woman proceptively approaches this man and not that, she has de facto made a selection. On the other hand, if the man approaches her, she also decides to accept or reject. If, for whatever her reasons, she finds him "uninteresting" and turns away, she has selected him out. Or, if she responds positively to him, she has given him a chance to proceed. Either way, she makes the choice." (Perper, Timothy (1989) Theories and observations on sexual selection and female choice in human beings. Medical Anthropology 11(4): pp. 416)
Robert Watson
Female Choice and Penis Size: "We do not know why men have conspicuous genitals, but a male chimp solicits a female by opening his legs, displaying an erect penis and flicking his phallus with a finger as he gazes at a potential partner. A prominent, distinctive penis helps broadcast one's individuality and sexual vigor, which may lure female friends. In many species of insects and primates, males have exceptionally elaborate penises, and scientists think these evolved specifically because females chose those males with elaborate, sexually stimulating genitals. So perhaps as Lucy's ancestors became bipedal some four million years ago, males began to parade their genitals in order to make special friends with favored females--selecting for those with large organs." (Fisher, H. (1992) Anatomy of Love: The Mysteries of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray. Simon & Schuster, New York, 1992. pp. 177)
Female Promiscuity: "Roger Short...had predicted that in {primate} species where females mate with more than one male during a reproductive cycle, the males would have larger testes for their body size than in species whose females had only a single mate per cycle. When the females were promiscuous, the sperm of each male would have to compete with those of other males, and the male producing the most sperm was most likely to generate offspring. [quote from] (Harvey and Clutton-Brock 1983, p. 315" (Cronin, Helena (1992) The Ant and the Peacock: Cambridge Univ. Press, Cambridge p. 97)
Liam Evans
Women Prefer Big Penises Because They Give More Physical Pleasure Physical pleasures In the previous posts you have seen how the size of a man's penis affects a woman's psychological pleasure. When it comes to physical pleasure however, many people are not so sure if bigger is really better. When a woman interacts with a man's penis, she experiences certain physical sensations. We can distinguish two types of physical sensations, depending on what she is doing with that penis. The first one is her genital sensation (vaginal and clitoral), but there is also sensation of touch (whether manual or oral). Sensation of touch is easy to explain, so let us start with that.
1. More pleasure for her hands, ...and her mouth! Size matters for her hands. Most people won't think about it, but the fact is that women experience a certain pleasure when touching a penis with their hands. So when asking if a bigger penis gives more satisfaction to a woman, you have to take that into account as well. And yes, like a man prefers playing with a pair of big breasts, a woman enjoys playing with a big penis more than fondling a small one.
Admit it, our hands love to touch and feel. It's fun to feel bigger things. A man likes to touch a woman, to feel the soft skin, the curves of her waist, her hips, thighs and butt-cheeks, the volume and firmness of her breasts. The bigger those breasts, the more fun it is to feel them.
A woman likes to feel a man's body also. She enjoys the feel of the broad shoulders. She likes grabbing the big muscular arms and legs... Now guess what she wants to feel when she puts her hands down the guy's pants? Do you believe that her pleasure of touch would be the same when holding a small penis as when holding a big one? Of course not, she has more fun with a long and fat penis than a short and skinny one.
Size also matters for her mouth. Although many women claim to prefer smaller penises for fellatio, the fact remains that most women do get excited from having a larger penis in their mouth, knowing that they are "sucking the big one." It gives them more to work with and the challenge of the deep-throat is more intense. Yes, there are some women who really prefer smaller penises for oral sex; the smaller the better they say. Often these women don't like to have a penis in their mouth at all, so they want to feel it as little as possible. They often complain about gagging when a penis touches the back of their throat. However, this gag reflex can be suppressed and succeeding in this is part of the fun for women who are serious about enjoying oral sex.
2. More pleasure for her vagina So far we have been able to compare women's preference for large penises with men's preference for big breasts. Big breasts and big penises give more pleasure than the smaller ones. But there is one important difference:
Larger penises cause more vaginal and clitoral satisfaction.
Big breasts don't do anything to give more penile satisfaction.
This is the most important reason why you should never believe people who say that the penis size issue is just as silly as the breast issue! It is here that the comparison of the big breasts versus big penis debate fails: the actual sexual satisfaction during intercourse. (For the smart comment makers, tit fucking is not considered intercourse, even if some like to call it inter-mammary intercourse.) Although it might be a huge turn-on to see a couple of big jugs springing back and forth while giving it to your lady, it doesn't cause any more penile sensations for you.
Robert Peterson
If there is such a thing as Too Small, then Penis Size Matters
Far too many women keep on insisting that penis size doesn't matter for their vaginal satisfaction. However, when you ask them if they would go out with a man that has a penis the size of a thumb (or a big clit), they all say that that would be too small of course.
How can size not matter if thumb-size is too small...? ...all right then, size matters. This is the most basic and most obvious proof that size is important. Sure, this is not a big discovery of mine. It's just that many people overlook it.
If a thumb-size penis doesn't give a woman pleasure, it means that something bigger is required. Bigger is better, up until a certain point of course, because there is also such a thing as too big. If you could take that clit-size penis and expand it little by little in girth as well as length, this penis would gradually start to give her more and more pleasure. At a certain size, this pleasure would reach its maximum level. This is her preferred size. Anything larger than that is not going to add to her pleasure. Continuing to expand this penis will show that at a certain point it will be felt as too large and will lower the pleasure level or start to cause pain. Therefore, a woman's preferred penis size is not an exact measurement of length and girth, but a range of dimensions. When a penis falls within that range, she will prefer it above any other one.
Adrian Sullivan
All this to show that women do care about penis size. It doesn't explain why and how a larger penis causes more pleasure than a smaller one. Neither does it explain to what extent a woman receives more pleasure from a large penis, nor does it tell you what those preferred penis size ranges are.
At a certain size, the pleasure will reach its maximum level. This is her prefered penis size. Note: I can already hear many women grumble: "Ok, but there are other things, like feelings for the guy and stimulation of other erogenous zones that affect sexual pleasure even more than penis size!" That may very well be the case, but it is beside the point. The point is:
"Considering all other things equal, does a normal healthy woman get the same vaginal pleasure from any size penis no matter its size?"
The answer is an absolute and resolute NO Thus, penis size matters, ALWAYS.
Five Big Reasons Why Op is a Faggot 1) he made this thread 2) he thinks a lot about penises 3) he thinks a lot about BIG penises 4) he saved a picture of a black man with a large penis 5) he doesn't know how to condense his posts and get to the fucking point
Angel Thompson
Female Orgasm To understand why penis size affects vaginal satisfaction you have to know a few things about female orgasm. Female orgasm is a complex phenomenon The female genitals contain at least four different areas ("hot spots") that are very responsive to sexual stimulation: clitoris G-spot Epicenter (the "orgasmic pacemaker" according to Dr. Newman Lin) AFE zone (Anterior Fornix Erotic zone)
Female orgasm can be divided into four categories, each one producing different sensations in each woman.
Vulval orgasm can be induced by either penetration or manual stimulation of her vulva (clitoris, labia minora). This kind of orgasm is accompanied by contractions of the orgasmic platform. After this kind of orgasm a woman may feel that she has just begun and may want more and on going stimulation and is capable of more orgasms at that point.
Vaginal orgasm is the result of heavy G-spot stimulation during vaginal penetration. It begins with the rhythmic contractions of the lower third of the vagina (pelvic muscles) and results in an electric discharge radiating throughout the entire body, in an intense contraction of all muscles, It is characterized by a woman involuntarily holding her breath as orgasm approaches and explosively exhaling at climax.
Uterine orgasm occurs usually as a result of deep vaginal stimulation of the Epicenter (Orgasmic pacemaker). A uterine orgasm is marked by heavy contractions of the inner vagina and uterus that trigger a heat wave to run from the lower abdomen through the chest bone. Even more than in a vaginal orgasm, a woman has a sense of deep sexual satisfaction after this kind of orgasm.
Blended orgasm is a combination of any or all of the above, characterized by both contractions of orgasmic platform and breath holding.
Isaiah Wright
Yeah, honestly, unironically, I think I'll just say sneed.
Jeremiah Green
Note: Besides these four categories, there are other types of female orgasm, i.e. anal orgasm, nipple orgasm, urethral orgasm. In this penis size debate they are not of much use however. (If you really want to know, the average woman who engages in anal penetration usually prefers penises of medium girth and above medium length. And the average woman who enjoys urethral masturbation uses objects the size of a hairpin. This doesn't include porn star Ty of course who even penetrates her urethra with a penis!)
The above definitions are not definite. I am not an expert and as a matter of fact even the real experts don't seem to agree. Resently researchers have found another hot-spot inside the vagina, the AFE zone (Anterior Fornix Erotic), proving the enormous complexity of female orgasm. One thing is sure, the entire vagina plays a huge role in it. It is not my intention however to rehash the book on female orgasm. All we are interested in here is to understand how penis size affects female orgasms.
Any of these orgasms is caused by rhythmic stimulation through pressure and/or friction of the appropriate regions. It is clear that a longer and/or a thicker penis causes more stimulation than a shorter or thinner one. Let's analyze how this happen
cope harder faggot, you still clicked on this thread, of all the other threads on r9k
Ryan Johnson
It is not difficult to understand why larger (longer and/or thicker) penises cause more vaginal satisfaction than smaller penises. Everyone agrees that a vagina doesn't have many touch sensitive nerves passed the first third (see Alfred Kinsey's research). But these vaginal walls are responsive to deep tissue pressure. Both longer and thicker penises create more pressure in these walls.
Why women prefer longer penises: --deep stimulation of back of vagina --stimulation of uterus --more friction along vagina walls --allows any love position --penis won't slip out during heavy thrusting
Most women agree that they prefer thicker over longer penises because often they feel discomfort or even pain when being penetrated by a long penis. Usually the penis isn't actually too long however. It is rather the fact that the vagina was not ready to receive a lengthy penis. A vagina needs to go through a few different stages before being ready for full penetration.
When a vagina is in relaxed state (no arousal) the cervix rests at about three to four inches away from the vagina opening. The vagina walls are collapsed against each other, leaving hardly any space in between. During arousal the vagina walls start to secrete a lubricant causing wetness and then the first few inches of the vagina expand a little, creating some space. Many guys take this as a sign that the woman is ready to be fully penetrated. Doing this with an average to long penis will hit the cervix frontally, causing discomfort or pain.
Michael Roberts
Men often don't give the vagina the time to become "tented", meaning that the cervix retracts in the body and the inner two third of the vagina walls open apart. Only at this point is a woman ready to receive heavy thrusting, especially when the penis is long.
Tented vagina: Woman's reproductive organs in aroused state. Notice how the uterus has pulled upwards and frontwards (anterior), allowing the vagina to expand dramatically. This vagina is ready to receive a large penis.
If the guy also knows how to adjust his angle to make sure his penis doesn't bump the cervix directly, he can give the woman tremendous repetitive uterine orgasms. These are caused by the rhythmic stimulation of the penis glans against a region high in the back of the vagina, called the epicenter or E-zone. It is just above the cervix on the front wall of the vagina.
Penetration by a large penis (length 9+ inch) in an upwards angle, making the uterus tilt backwards. Notice how the penis causes extreme movements to the uterus.
For most women only penises seven inches and longer can reach far enough to cause a uterine orgasm. Some women with shorter vaginas might be able to do it with a six to seven inch penis. The importance however is that the erection has to be hard, meaning that the penis has to point upwards higher than just parallel to the floor when standing up. The more it is erect, the more pressure it can create to the vagina wall, the more pleasure the woman will have. Penetration by a small penis (length 4-5 inch). When the erection is very hard, the penis will still give a lot of pressure and friction to one side of the vagina. It won't be able to directly stimulate the uterus and the back of the vagina however.
Women report that even if they don't achieve a uterine orgasm they still enjoy the sensations caused by the rhythmic movement of the inner vagina and the uterus. For most women any penis longer than six inches can reach deep enough to create at least such sensations. However, it is also clear that the shorter the penis, the less stimulation the inner vagina and uterus will receive. Longer penises also cause more vaginal satisfaction in the first two inches of the vagina. This part is jam-packed with touch-sensitive nerves and a long penis causes more and longer friction during each stroke in and out. Penetration by a large penis causes heavy stimulation of the end of the vagina and of the vagina entrance.
Other ways long penises affect her vaginal satisfaction Long penises don't slip out as much as shorter ones during intercourse. A man with a lengthy penis can penetrate a woman in any position he wants. Some positions are simply impossible for shorter endowed men, especially when the guy wants to do some heavy thrusting. Doggy stand is the worst because not only will a shorter guy slip out, he also loses a couple of inches in length due to the girl's butt cheeks. If the girl's shoulders are positioned lower than her hips, then the depth of the vagina increases since her uterus actually pulls the vagina due to the gravity. In this position even an average six-seven inch long penis won't reach the back of the vagina unless the guy uses a hooked ninety-degree attack angle.
It is worth noting that sometimes a penis is so long that it actually causes less stimulation for one simple reason: As soon as the woman can't take the whole length, she loses out on the sensations that are normally caused by the contact between both bodies during each thrust. More in particular it is the man's pubic bone and his slapping testicles that by repetitively thumping to her clitoris and exterior genitals create extra pleasure and will help her to achieve an orgasm.
Aiden Ortiz
Vaginal Satisfaction From A Thick Penis, Stimulation From Penis Girth
Why women prefer a thick penis: --more friction and deep stimulation of sides of vagina --dilation of vagina (feeling of being "open") --stimulation of g-spot and AFE zone
A thick penis causes more vaginal satisfaction because the extra girth increases the friction and pressure on the vagina walls. The first few inches of these walls are packed with touch sensitive nerves. A thick penis enhances her pleasure also because it dilates the vagina and it gives more pressure and friction to the g-spot zone and the AFE Zone. Women usually like the feeling of being "open", the feeling of being filled by a thick penis. Women seem to like especially the "being pulled inside out" feeling they experience from a thick penis on the outwards stroke. The thicker the penis, the more the vagina walls cling to it and the more she will have such sensations.
Adam Jones
A thick penis gives also more sensation to the clitoris Many people believe that clitoral orgasms won't benefit from extra penis size. However, the clitoris is larger than just the visible part on the outside.
The 'body' of the clitoris, which connects to the glans, is about as long as the first joint of your thumb. It has two legs up to 4 inches long that flare downwards and backwards into the body. Also extending from the body of the clitoris are two bulbs, one on each side of the vaginal cavity, consisting of erectile tissue. It is obvious that a thick penis will create more stimulation on these legs and bulbs.
A thicker penis can also contribute to a clitoral orgasm for another reason: during penetration the tightness causes more pulling on the inner lips (labia minora). Since these connect to the clitoral hood, their movements often make the hood slide up and down over the clitoris.
With an average penis, women usually don't get a clitoral orgasm from penetration alone. Although some couples can achieve this by practicing a position called CAT "Coitus Alignment Technique" in which the man's pubic bone rubs continuously up and down on the woman's clitoris.
A few men told me that their wives often can't cum during penetration because "her vagina is too wet", she says. In fact she is only trying to make up an excuse so her guy doesn't have to feel bad about his penis. That loss of sensation is not caused by the abundance of lubrication but by the lack of penis girth. If your penis is not thick enough to cause sufficient pressure on the vagina walls, she will lose some sensation. If she argues about this then ask her if she ever told a man with a very thick penis that her vagina is too wet. Rest assured that she can never be wet enough to handle a very big penis.
Isaac Barnes
Great thread opie
Connor Gonzalez
chop off your dick and post it here you obsessed fuck
Alexander Rogers
im honestly not attracted to penis as a body part alone. its actually kinda weird looking. that being said too big and too small is a nope.
Kevin Gomez
You seem to know an awful lot about penises, OP. Care to explain?
