Does Losing Virginity Really Give You a Huge Confidence Boost?

>Just had to leave an open interview before I got called up cause everyone working there was a young woman
I can't live like this anymore. Will powering through and getting a gf and fucking her really make me more confident?

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Idk I lost mine and I don't feel any different really

*lost mine a few weeks ago

I always hear that being a non-virgin and being virgin is like day and night and makes you way more confident. Did you do it with a low tier girl?

If I'm being honest, taking the virginity of a hot filthy rich girl when she was 17 was probably the single most confidence boosting event of my life.
Yet on the other hand I ended up destroying myself by being secure and everything afterwards has been an awful downwards spiral including dropping out of uni and getting addicted to oxycodone.
Now I'm just a loser with no prospects in life. At least you can get job interviews.

Insecure* btw orgioli

It was an open interview, I went in and filled out the application and left rather than be interviewed by a qt girl.

no it doesn't make a difference at all

>Does Losing Virginity Really Give You a Huge Confidence Boost?

The act itself, no. For most males, their first sex act is awkward and over as soon as it starts.
However, the fact that you sealed the deal makes you feel like you can accomplish anything.

>lost mine while drunk to a fat girl twice my weight
>was really shitty, felt like shit afterwards
>became completely disillusioned with women
>couple years later decide to visit a professional dominatrix because [chair clattering] and surplus money
>revived my interest in women tenfold from a pure lustful perspective
>started going to BDSM parties, getting to know people and doing all kinds of kinky shit
>being open with all the dirty shit I wanted to do increased my confidence and success rate with women drastically
>eventually start talking to a girl who just wants me to fuck her in the ass daily nothing more
>by this point I'm so far down the clown world train that I just tell her that I want her as a swinger partner instead to go on parties with
>she gleefully accepts and squeals about how much cock she'll get on the side and all the dirty group sex we'll have

Chasing girlfriends will get nowhere. The male/female ratio chart isn't a meme. If you truly want to fuck above your paygrade and live just like in the doujins you gotta go off the deep end.

Cute, waifu, thot, slut, gf, cuck this, cuck that...forget all that crap, it's what's keeping you here in the first place.

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I don't see what the problem is in your post. you went to an open interview and felt low confidence because women were there? so what? why does your confidence around women matter when you're just applying for a job? they don't care about you at all, you're not the centre of their universe. you should be worrying about getting a call back rather than mulling over what people around you think, get a grip.

Cause I just knew the one on one interview would be terrible and my face would get all red and I might even start sweating.

you're fucking pathetic, and this is coming from a virgin. you need to stop watching so much porn, stop compulsively masturbating and looking at dirty pics of women all the time then you won't be so jittery and nervous.

>you're fucking pathetic
Well duh.

you're only complaining about women because you're a pathetic retard who wants everything handed to you just like mommy and daddy did all the time when you were growing up, and now they have to suffer seeing how much of a fucking loser their son is. just get a fucking escort if your sexual hangups are that important to you. even if you somehow miraculously ace the interview and get the job you'll probably be fired the same day because you keep spilling your spaghetti over Becky bending down to pick up some papers. your only focus should be on work but you're a dumbass cumbrain who can't stop thinking about muh women this, muh virginity that, give it a break jesus fucking christ. if you lose your virginity to a prozzy and get over your stupid hangups, then good for you. you can move on with your life. if not get therapy or something and stop wasting your life over stupid memes on r9k. the fact you can worry about something so insignificant is proof that your life is fine. millions all around the world would kill to be in your position, and all you can think about is getting your dick wet. you're an absolute waste of a life, you should only feel shame.

> you're a pathetic retard who wants everything handed to you just like mommy and daddy did all the time when you were growing up
Stopped reading there, projecting retard. Literally none of this is true, and wasn't included in the OP. I have no idea where you got that idea.

> realising that losing virginity is meaningless.
Yes.
You realise sex is nothing special. Billions of people fuck every day.
It's nothing more than a bodily function, like pissing.
Once you've done it you can stop obsessing over women and get on with something worthwhile instead.
just hire a hooker ffs.

Virgin losers on this board are pathetic. You guys are so fucking retarded I honestly don't know how someone can get this bad. Do you binge watch the hell out of trash anime and actually fall for that bullshit or what? Jesus christ man... You act like you're going to fuck some cum dumpster and a magical portal is going to open hahaha. I'm fucking dying laughing over here user. You cannot be serious.

Short answer: No

Long answer: No, just because you stick your cock into a wet hole doesn't mean some magical reservoir of self-confidence will open up and you will magically turn into a confident normie after ejaculation. I really fucking hate how many guys act like losing your virginity is some act of ritualistic, occultist, magic, that by ejaculating into a vagina you unlike your third eye and achieve gnosis.

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Wrong.
These muppets obsess over women and sex. they flagellate themselves for years.
Actually having sex they will realise what a waste of fucking time that all was.
Fathers should be organising this shit for their sons in early teenhood with prostitutes, it should never get this far.

>Exposing your child to potentially dangerous or life altering sexually transmitted diseases by having them fuck some hole for cash
Yeah, no. That's such a stupid fucking meme and it'll only just make things potentially worse because they'll always be that guy who had to lose their virginity to a fucking prostitute.

What fathers need to do is teach their son's that sex is simply just an aspect of life and relationships in the same vein many other things are and it's something they'll eventually experience once they acquire a girlfriend or wife. That's something they should be doing, helping their son's acquire girlfriends and wives while helping their daughters avoid womanizers and to get them with good, reputable, men who will take care of them.

These guys just need to grow up and stop looking at sex and relationships like some horned up 14 year old who masturbates 5 times a day just to get by does. It's fucking pathetic and this is coming from a grade A loser and "sex haver"

I dont think so
Being in a healthy relationship surely helps though, not with confidence but with depression, but it really depends

> Yeah, no.
Shut the fuck up and wear a condom moron.

Still won't stop crabs or genital warts you absolute mong.

I'm pretty sure this only happens in countries with lots of blacks.

it doesn't make you more confident, it just makes you realize it's not a big deal. Everything is spooky the first time but as you do it it gets normalized

No.
I ended up puking after my first time and embarrassed myself.