Need ur help fellows. I am an 8 lookwise, get a lot of attention from girls. Problem is...

Need ur help fellows. I am an 8 lookwise, get a lot of attention from girls. Problem is, I have premature ejaculation and a small dick. its like 5,7 inch length wise, which is doable, but the girth is fucked, like 4,7 pencil dick. On top of this i have bad premature ejaculation, which just really makes me worthless. I was a weird kid and got bullied in highschool, so stuff like this is extremely hard for me to overcome. I am now 20 and have rejected sex multiple times. I am an incel, in a way, because I am virgin and I don't want to be one. The fear is just too much. I think the being bullied past plays a big role in just thinking fuck it. What do.

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when i lost my virginity i was actually surprised with how long it took me to cum. i would nut in like 30 seconds when jerking off but it took me a good 15 mins to cum actually having sex. you may have a similar experience. if you blow too early anyway just nut inside and keep going through the pain. if not pull out and bust. who cares you still beat

learn to eat pussy and rub their clit. whenever youre about to bust, just pull out and kiss all over their legs and shit then switch positions and go for another 30 seconds. feels shitty at first but youll start to last longer

dont listen to this guy hes a fag and everyone girl knows why you pull out and go eat out

Bullying man. I am just scared af for people ridiculing my penis irl, the word spreading etc. I would rather never have sex then risk being ridiculed again. To others this may sound ridiculous, but for me its just traumatizing. I mean, premature ejaculation is one problem, bt having a pencil dick is my biggest concern honoustly.

i promise no girl is going to do that, and if they did you could just say "Still beat"

that phhrase renders you immune to any woman who would roast you

If anyone says anything, you can always just go with the ol' faithful "still smashed tho".

Since this bullying I have gotten this immense fear of being imperfect. For me its the end of the world. Because when perfect, I can not be bullied again, thats how it goes inside my head. I was thinking. How can I overcome this shit in actions. I know, I wont overcome this by changing how I think, cause thats just fucking written in my brain. Maybe go to a hooker? Maybe if i do it once, it becomes easier? I really am so fucking afraid to be imperfect and have weaknesses. Man. I rejected several girls who went to my house to have sex, slept next to them, and just come up with some bullshit excuse. Its like you are taking away the best thing in life from yourself everytime, its so fucked.

is it bad if i want to tease your cock and bully it for being "small", and then when you cum from my sock rubbing your cock and you look up at me embarrassed and crying i take you into my arms and pat you while giggling

yeah then take a trip down to costa rica and fuck a hooker each night. then maybe you will be confident

I just go full trauma mode when people say shit like that. Other people can just think meh fuck off i fucked who cares. But I get dizzy from anxiety and this traumatic horrible feeling of being bullied again, without even really being bullied again.

actual fetish of mine at this point.

Why it is spot on average. No one will say shit unless they are purposefully trying to hurt you - yes women do this but fuck em.

Be my bf pls, user. I dont care how fast you cum. If anything I will be flattered.

I dont have a thing for guys

I think i have some body dysmorphia on it going on too. Its small. I know that statistically, but sort of passable i guess? idk. But in my head its the smallest thing ever seen. too much porn.

Also, I genuinely look a lot like this guy. I know people here complain about not getting female attention. But getting it all the time and not being able to do shit with it because of ur dick insecurities is rope material too. user, are you gay?? user, why do you never sleep with girls?? user, femoid likes you, she wants to meet you! Every fucking relation u build with girls will end up the same. They fall in love, u do too, but u keep rejecting untill they eventually go for someone else. Then u have to watch ur love go with someone else because ur too fucking traumatized to show the slightest imperfection. This has happened many times to me. To the point I don't start shit like this anymore

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I am XX and you seriously need to stop fretting about your pencil dick. Its probably not even small.

Wish it was as easy like that. Abstaining from porn etc, works a lot. But probably because i have learned myself this avoiding behaviour, when i have to make this final step in not giving a fuck, I choke, and push the girl away. Literally in all other aspects of life i dont care about anything. Dont care about authority, I am not ashamed of anything else, I am very social, do weird shit in public without caring, but this one thing, I become an insecure little child.

be my gf instead and drop cord desu

Go to a sauna. Not the one where people go to have sex. The actual sauna where people go for health reasons. You'll notice that people come in different shapes. And all are ok. But be sure, every girl you will be intimate with is just as scared as you about being ridiculed and you seeing her imperfections.
Aside of that, if you manage to make your gf come in other ways, even premature ejaculation is no problem. Also there are condoms to help with that, that have numbing stuff in the tip.
Oh, yeah, and don't date assholes. Normal people don't mock/bully people for their looks, only the insecure assholes do that to feel better about themselves. And they are easy to recognize and avoid.

>i am 8 looks wise
Yeah. Big fucking doubt their bucko. Unless you're over 5'10 with great face symmetry. Kill your ego

its funny how you chose pic related because thats exactly your answer. go to pattaya thailand my man. they don't give a flying fuck about your dick size there. for $45-60 dollars a pop you can fuck prime teen pussy day in day out.

haha I am both ''bucko''. Girls tell me often how handsome I am. Also I have been rated this by girls in these kind of ''fun ratinggames'' more then once. I am insecure enough about my dick, so trust me, if i wasn't an 8 lookswise I would notice. I have an uhealthy obsession with appearence. Honoustly, I am not here to brag. Looks make shit easier, but ur mental state can make you just as an incel as a degenerate neckbeard

>I have an unhealthy obsession with appearance.
i think that applies to the vast majority of this board after taking just a glance at some of the posts lol

>fuck prostitutes
>get experience
>get less nervous and hung up about sex
>improve
The more you leave it, the worse you are.

this. ill say it once and i'll say it again. OP, go to pattaya thailand.

The thing is. I think with a stranger i can do this. I can set myself to have sex with a hooker The real problem is. I always start becoming romantic with someone from my friendgroup, classmate etc. But thats how it goes for most ofcourse. Become friends, girls falls in love, i do too. Become way too close to them so i get more and more scared to show my true self. Excersising on hookers is scary but doable I would say. But fucking revealing myself to someone from my friendgroup or close people, man, thats next fucking level.

im not her but if ur a qt, i wont care about your dick

I think my biggest fear is not even the girl caring. My biggest fear is showing imperfection and people finding out, and bullying. Its just this highschool shit that has long passed that i am constantly afraid to repeat itself

People don't care that much. Bodies are all different shapes and sizes. Kids today watch too much porn. Men have difficulty keeping errections, women drink loads and face internal damage to squirt, fake penises, fake cum, huge degrading shoots, enemas, stretching holes and causing injury. Sex isn't porn.

Sex is you talking to someone. What you like and don't like. Finding positions that accomodate your bodies and what you enjoy.

The more you have a hang up on this, the harder it'll be. You need to get over it. I know that is shitty advice.. find a decent prostitute and sleep with her. Sex isn't that much of a big deal. Then open up to other people. It'll take time. Just slowly build up.

Also, since when are females active on Jow Forums, what happened. I used to visit here years back really when on these rare occasions some females were around, and everyone flipped when they really were females. Are they larping rn or is this legit becoming more like reddit.

I have spoken to a therapist and what you say are his exact words. I know this shit is true, yet I keep delaying. Bullying in combination with an obsessive character and porn use, created this monster. I think I will have to set some date to get over it and visit a hooker. I have such a warped vision of my dick. I remember always fully believing normal condoms wouldnt fit me, i tried, and they did. Also found, yeah, a banana that was the exact same size as my penis. And when i looked at it i couldnt believe my penis was the same size. As if i am fucking hallucinating all the time.

Quit the porn use and focus on your own imagination. Don't go cold turkey from it but create a schedule and reduce it down until you can stop.

The therapist is right, but as always, easier said than done. You have a warped sense of your own body in comparison to others. We all have body hang ups. But you can't let them control your life.

And I know bullying is shitty to deal with. But the more fun you have in life the more the fun will outweigh. Do you really want bullying to stop you living your life? Doesn't that mean they have won?

I know man. But this wall i get to go through, its from fucking iron. Since i was a kid I decided to never fucking show my dick to people because it was too small. It's engraved into my mind. And no I don't want them to win, thats why I am posting here, I know I got to do something about it. But there is just one person who can, and that's myself, facing my biggest fear. It's a loop I can not get out. I tried SSRI but that only made me autistic and with no libido, so no use.

get some cialis and go to thailand. you literally cannot fail

IM A QT DROP CORD RN I DARE U

Getting out of the loop is simple. Make a routine. Record your progress. Reward milestones.

Read more books. Watch good movies. Go out with friends. Get offline. Watch less porn. Write your progress in a journal and reward yourself as things go on. It is about steps. Progressive steps.

You can't get over it in a week. It might take ages. Baby steps. Build yourself up. Wake up every morning and tell yourself that you are worth it. Find things you can do.

man, you brainwashed yourself
just stop thinking about it

I also have developed a tranny fetish over the years of watching porn, so this will be the perfect place haha.

Haha. ''Just dont be depressed bro''. I know I brainwashed myself man. In that way I am one step further then most people who have this do. I know i got a problem, that's probably in my head

they're pretty gross in person desu. if youre gonna do that tho take some truvadia everyday so you don't get HIV

why the qt ones are always fucking faggots?

I only fall for the extremely passable. Zero manly shit in her appearence, just the floppy dick works for me. I am talking Blaire White tier

I don't even see trannies as faggot shit. It's just overfetishized porn induced crap. Call it what u want. Normal guys disgust me, and every male characteristic in a tranny disgusts me, except for the dick, which is kinda gay when i type it like this haha

I also have developed a weird fetish with girls smelling dick. I cum buckets when a girl aggresively smells dick. There are just a few good videos online of this, so if u know sources, provide. Although I should stop watching porn.

GOD I FUCKING HATE HUMANITY YOU FUCKING KEK JUST BREED OR DON'T BREED IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER AND YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY IF YOU MANAGE TO BREED.

I've fucking done it bro. It's never enough. you fuck a fat chick. well it doesn't count cuz she was fat so it's not good enough to validate you.
ok fuck an attractive guy. not good enough. he wasn't hot enough ok fuck it have a 4 some. NOT GOOD ENOUGH. FUCK A MODEL OK NOT GOOD ENOUGH.


IT'S NEVER ENOUGH VALIDATION THROUGH SEX DOESN'T MATTER STOP TRYING TO LOOK FOR IT . LOOK FOR A HUMAN BEING THAT YOU CAN TRUST ENOUGH TO TRUST WITH YOUR FUCKED UP COCK. I HAVE A FUCKED STOMACH FROM WEIGHT LOSS IT SAGS AND IS LOOSE. DO YOU HAVE ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU WORTHWHILE AS A PARTNER. AS SOMEONE DESERVING OF LOVE. STOP BEING A FUCKING COWARD AND EMBRACE REJECTION. DON'T BE DESPERATE. learn to reject those who do not meet your qualifications. change and adapt and improve. don't let your fucked up cock stop you.