Girls are taught from a very young age that looks are very important and they should try to maximise them, but we don't teach boys the same. Why is that?
Girls are taught from a very young age that looks are very important and they should try to maximise them...
We do in my country. But in Burgerland the first thing that happens to a boy is the mutilation of his cock. If that doesnt matter to you blacks, what does?
believe it or not, men and women used to divide responsibilities and roles according to biological niches
men weren't always either homosexual pansies or having their existence criminalized
society comes at you fast
Society has little incentive to make men more competitive sexually and give them more options.
The idea is always to beat men down and get them to fall for the marriage meme, thats harder if theyre handsome playboys who never feel the need to settle down.
Billy Beta works hard at his job to become a betabucks for women his own age, since he knows its the only way to get his droopy penis in a vagina now that he has a wrinkly old face and a Dad bod, he drinks heavily and hates his life but its too late to change.
Alpha Aaron works out every day and looksmaxxes because he knows good looks get pussy, he avoids stressful responsible work because he knows that stresses and ages you, plus having lots of bucks in the bank attracts golddiggers. He works part time at a bar, rents a room, and fucks young married women during the day when their husbands are at work and sometimes hooks up with college chicks.
Which kind of man does society want more of? Obviously women have the tingles for the latter guy, but they only need like 10% of the population to be that guy since like 20 chicks can share one Chads pole. The rest can be slave drones.
Men must maximize money and power.
I also think it's the biological difference that makes it not have the same effect for men. A man spending a lot of time in the mirror will feel an existential dread. "Is this what life is?" and then he'll give it up and do something else.
women dont like struggle and adapt when it's convenient to them
men don't give a fuck
Jesus christ this whole thread is dead-on. Great explanations all around seriously.
>Tfw mutilated penis
Kill me
Your looks as a man are set in stone. Height, clavicle length, race, FACE. If you fail in any of these areas, then that's it. You will never have a girlfriend.
Looksmaxxing is a pipe dream.
Guys aren't 'supposed' to put in effort.
Guys are taught the same they are just too fucking lazy
my mom had to bribe, beg and beat my brother to take a bath.
For the following reasons:
1. Fathers are almost never there, not because of divorce but because they are forced to work unholy hours a day which lead them to barely see their children if they want to make money to support their family
2. Mothers have no clue how to educate their sons and end up cuddling them to not make them feel bad
I have several cases like that in my friend circles. You eventually come to a point where you make yourself independent, but it can go as long as to early 30s. Fathers all mean it with a good will, which is why they work so hard, mothers usually also mean it all with a good will, but of course don't understand that males are vastly different to females and basically are wild animals in their childhood and puberty, you can make them to submissive betas but then they wouldn't survive the wild.
Because men can find happiness in other things not only on women. Women on the other hand will always depend on a man to live a good life, because they alone can't do shit.
Robots should go on Grindr and have sex with other robots
>Girls are taught from a very young age that looks are very important and they should try to maximise them
are you sure? all the girls I see are ugly little goblins wider than they are tall
I don't know.
Because in the past you had to work. Put in effort if you wanted to have a mate. Since there was no technology that could move heavy things 24/7 men were necessity. Woman could not give a damn how ugly her spouse looked like. Only that if he made it. Looks would've been a bonus. See in history the noble men, they were very feminine looking.
Now in today's world we all are reaching that noble man stage, where all men could looksmax themselves and still do work.
Girls are taught that the most important thing in life is themselves. They are encouraged to ignore all introspection and any form of instruction outside of school/career. They are driven by pride and arrogance. They will only try to look good if they can use it for manipulation; they would never do it to please a man.
Kek, you probably here for the first time?
Boys are told that they should always treat women with the utmost respect, that they'll like you if you're nice to them, and if you're nice enough to them they'll date you, hearing all sorts of romantic bullshit in their youth. It also gives girls false expectations of what they should expect from men and as a result they become narcissists, they have it drilled into them from a young age that they can use their looks and pussy to gain a social advantage, be it consciously or not.
A lot of problems stem from a lack of a good father figure, bad parenting, single mothers, or a combination of them. Even if a father figure exists they might as well be nonexistent at the same time, just have a little think about how many parents shirk their parental responsibilities after bringing a child into this world, they rely on the school system to raise their kids for them where they're told all kinds of bullshit like everyone is equal, girls are angels/princesses, they're basically given a set of values and told "this is what you should believe". I don't need to know any of you personally to make a prediction that the parents of the average Jow Forums poster are guilty of this. Unless you realise that it's all bullshit while you're young (regardless of having a father figure or not), then you'll go out into the world with this naive set of values and wonder why you fail so much at fucking everything.
All boys should be encouraged to improve themselves (be it by their parents, their friends, their school, older guys, their fucking grandmother), that they should always respect themselves, because if they don't then nobody else will regardless of how much of a nice person they are.
Actually we do, fathers should teach their sons how to groom themselves, the same way the mother should teach their daughters the same. But it is when you are raised into a fatherless or motherless household, you start to see the shit hitting the fan. My dad told me always to wash my dick, shave, to use deodorant and keep myself clean.
Because looks don't matter as much to women. Women are attracted to behaviors and status.
Because males (boys then men) are presumed to have more capability than females (girls then women). If a woman cannot match or even surpass a man in intelligence, strength, manual skills...then she better be good-looking. That way she'll get a decent man who can actually provide for her, at least. Men don't need to be good-looking in order to provide. It all boils down to survival, it's just unevenly distributed. Kinda outdated these days as well.
Height comes as a prerequisite though, then everything else
>#CutSquad living rent free in wormdicks minds
Every time
Not even true. Height is a meme. What women really mean when they say "6 ft" is "taller than me". The majority of men fit that standard.
What does Alpha Aaron do once he reaches an age where he's not attractive to women anymore, be it 50, 60, 70, or more?
GUys are sexually lobotomized at birth. The Jews want you to be a good slave and buy your love instead of being able to attract girls naturally.
>Why is that?
Because you're full of shit. They learn, they aren't taught.
So, for starters, you just confirmed what I said. Height is a prerequisite, that's a fact. Secondly, the greater the height difference, the less effort you need to put in to maintain the relationship as the man.
Look at this fucking Chad. None of us stand a chance.
could unironically get an asian girl in asia. JBW game
I can always cut mine, you will never regain your lost sensation. Every time, you mentally ill incel. Every time
I'm a faggot, so basically honorary girl, and "taller than me" doesn't really cut it. They have to be significantly taller, and not a midget next to other guys either.
And remember to practice workplace saftey properly like Safety Sam, because nobody likes a Clueless Charlie
How much pussy does Deadbeat Denzel get when he isn't passed out drunk in the gutter?
Depends, does he play guitar?
No, but he can sort of sing along to most of the lyrics of Rapper's Delight if he's adequetely shitfaced.
Seems like a profligate waste of male potential imo.
Because you are a man. not a woman. That's why.
Idk if the actual answer was writen yet, because theres too much bullshit on this thread already. Here is the answer.
The looks on the man doesnt matter as much as in the case of the human female.
Why? Because the value of the man gravitates around his ability to climb to the top of the hierarchies.
Thats why woman prefer dominant, tall man in general.
Thats not the case on females tho.
Nice in-depth hypotheses, but youre overcomplicating things immeasurably.
The truth is that most females are not sexually attracted to most men by virtue of their biology and their overwhelming hypergamous instincts. It's not a matter of """acting alpha""" or whatever. If you're a member of the facially privileged 10%, you dont have to looksmax; you just simply have to be. If you're a member of the other 90%, it sort of goes without saying that its a better use of your time to cultivate a skill and beta bux it instead of trying to larp as something you are not and never will be.
Cope jewboy
A lot of the things that determine a guys attractiveness are purely genetic, like facial structure, height etc. Even if we managed to get the absolute majority of males focused on their appearance it would do fuck all for them.
Nobody cares, the same for beta billy. Once they can no longer work they are both a detriment to society. Even then the alpha can just settle in his fifties and be fine.
>men weren't always either homosexual pansies or having their existence criminalized
there's men that aren't like this, they are the top 1% that say what's what. they actually like things the way they are because it gives them the illusion of being gods among men.
The problem is that women can become 8 or 9 with 30 mins of doing make up, while men can effectively looksmax only long term with losing weight or making muscles. And they can't really do anything about face.
Society as a whole is cancer. I learn this more day by day by just going to YouTube and in the recommended it's the cringiest shit you can imagine. It only goes down from here.