Be completely honest. How many of you actually have gfs and still come here? Why do you do it?

Be completely honest. How many of you actually have gfs and still come here? Why do you do it?

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Even if I had a gf I wouldnt stop coming here. Having a Gf doesnt mean ive found my sense of belonging.

But why go to a place for robots if you stop being a robot. Why be part of the problem? If you manage to find someone that loves you, it means you're not broken or deep in shit to need to be here.

i was a former robot or at least had my own issues before finding a gf and before finding a way out and try to help or offer insight when i can. wont say i have meaningfully helped anyone just yet or ever will but sometimes robots appreciate anecdotes or even just a positive word

Why do you think people want your help? If even you say you didn't help anyone, do you just do it because it makes you feel good specifically?

Sure ive found someone that I have a close connection to, but it could easily fade away in the event something goes wrong or something changes. Jow Forums and you guys will simply always be here for me.

i think most people who are unhappy want to get out of that unhappy place even if they wont admit it. i only really post on threads that tell me someone is interested in what i may have to say, i dont just force every discussion to be about me or my experiences with my gf or social life. i guess it makes me feel good in that what i say may not be what finally gets that person off their ass or changes their mindset but it also may be. theres very little i lose for posting positive words so i end up doing it once in a while

because this is home

Partially to feel better about myself and partially to understand how/why people feel alienated from society. Mostly the latter, kinda like an anthropologist observing the natives.

Alienation from society (and it's causes/effects) interests me.

Fuck you, go live your normie life you "sociologist"

The rest of the internet is shit and 8ch is down

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It's an anonymous message board, I'll do whatever the fuck I want. You can cry about it if you want or you can accept that your misery is interesting to other people. And face it, it's the only part about you that's actually interesting.

This is me but I have no gf so I'm just stuck.

I give advice where needed. And there is a lot of need.

I don't like her. She worships me but I just wanted to go back to chasing tail and being a reserved robot

I still hate women despite having two girlfriends

i only come here to brag about my gf

so YOU'RE that fucker

fuck you

I do it as a reminder. as a reminder of what I once was and how far I've come since. as a reminder to never be as pathetic and self-pitying as the majority of people on this board that do absolutely fucking nothing to better themselves and instead push the blame on everyone. you want to take the first step? Stop coming here stop posting here stop thinking about this place it ruins people. but you never will cuz you're just a self-pitying cuckold. The only good thing about r9k is a self confidence booster.

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The problem is multiculturalism

i don't want to "contribute to society" when i don't feel a part of it and doesn't act in my interests at all

Wait, there are people here who had gf? I was thinking it is all larping robots.

Got one and I feel that I can teach people to be better versions of themselves as I've done it myself.
Someone has got to tell people that they shouldn't give up.

Not everyone can be saved, as some people on here are way too deep in their own delusions, but many do have a good chance of getting back into life.
Can't come here too often though because some threads simply aim at ruining people's personality.

I have gf, I come here for laughs, shitposts and memes

There are robots here who have a gf right now user!

I do have a gf and I came here because normies are self interest idiots that only give you attention and respect when they can get something on return, robots are shit people, but are people I can relate.

Id probably come here less if I had one but have no desire for intimacy anymore. It all just looks too exhausting for what its worth and too little in return whether you could blame modern women or just me being a schizoid. I dont know what I want anymore, I dont think Ill ever be happy. Might just suicide

Why don't you think a different path?

I was engaged but came back here. Not sure I ever deserved to make it out.

I used to not have a gf and I posted on here all the time. I've been on Jow Forums (though not Jow Forums) since 2008. We've been together for 4 years now and she's perfect, but I don't have any other friends or points of contact (I also can't stand discord and stopped playing videogames, so I have no online friends either). Jow Forums is the only place I can talk to people.

I might join the army for trade experience then go live innawoods for the rest of my life, thats the only other path left for me where I end up with even a semblance of contentment. For the most part im pretty far gone due to some mental traumas in my life thats left me beyond repair.

you can't really help because finding a gf is mostly a fluke, most guys just fall into finding one

For me what worked was to become a hardcore Christian, become poor voluntary and try to live God's life.

I have a boyfriend (gay) and I still come here. Just because I managed to find another guy who was just as gay and autistic as me doesn't mean I'm suddenly a social butterfly Chad Thundercock and not a shut-in loser who's considered a weirdo by general society. Yeah, I have internet friends, but they're all as ball achingly weird and autistic as I am so the point is moot.

This isn't an incel board, it's a board centered around original content whose culture is that of autistic NEET shut-in losers and outcasts with little to no friends.

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its pretty funnyman

I do. I'm a shut-in neet though, at least I have been for the past month or so, and I was one a few years before that. I come here because I've had anxiety and depression for years, but found ways to cope with it and want to try helping others. Also hate the outlook many have here because it's based on a lack of experience with reality.

I've had a gf for about a year but just recently came back here after being on Reddit for 7 years because Reddit and most other social media are censoring speech. It's not even just about taking political sides, it's just that social media companies choose to have content that is palatable to their advertisers and targets the broadest possible audience. Banning a disagreeable minority makes them more money. Especially when large companies are now being boycotted and #metoo'd for "providing a platform" for content that these idiots think it's actual violence. It's just become a legal liability to have entirely free speech on social media.

I have no illusions about the problems with Jow Forums and the astroturfing and shilling that goes on here, but i think there's more danger in suppressing speech as a company policy than in simply giving the users the ability to filter their own information. Then at least they are aware that opposing opinions exist and are aware that they are actively suppressing other views.

So yeah, Jow Forums has always been shit, but I'm here so I can keep my ear to the ground for genuine human thought which isn't available elsewhere. You just have to develop your own filters and not be dumb enough to subscribe to idiots and shillsters.

As far as having a gf, I'm just born lucky enough to not be ugly and i have a job, but I don't talk about Jow Forums with her because she's protecting some progressive sacred cow ideology which I can tolerate but don't endorse. We're pretty liberal with each other's idea. The hill I will die on is to always be my genuine self though and not to lie if I believe something is bullshit. I just am smart enough not to give me opinion when it isn't asked for. Respect political ideology like a religion in that you shouldn't try to change people's mind. But I'm not a moral relativist and I still think I hold a more logically cohesive worldview.

Honestly it would be amazing if all of the Chads and normalfags itt with gfs were just banned from coming here.

They are from wizchan, but no one like that place.

I have a []wife[]
I think most of us come here from years of habit and just keep lurking, only to drop in if any user is asking for advice

most of like is a fluke if you think of it like that and while i know everything does need a bit of luck, effort and progress are based

I wouldn't say that finding a girl is totally random where there are traits which clearly increase your appeal from woman. Increasing your sexual market value will absolutely increase your chances of getting a girlfriend. Saying it's all random sounds like a coping strategy to justify not doing anything and deny any fault. You don't have to play evolution's game, but your body was engineered for it and it's the only primary drive which almost everyone has in common. You have conscious though so you can set your own goals, but there are deep grooves worn into your brain which motivate you to play the game. Girls have these too so they'll naturally gravitate towards men who satisfy their evolutionary goals. That's how you make the game easier, but it's your own choice if you want to subscribe to such an animal way of living. What is pleasurable to you is mostly based on evolution, not what is right or good.

I've been here since 2008 and didn't get my life together until the mid 2010s.
For w/e reason i enjoy this place and will continue to return regardless of my achievements and failures

>have a gf
>feel like subhuman filth
>come here
>see people who are worse exist
>fleeting sense of superiority
that's all I'm looking for.

>didn't even plan on dating her in the first place; my friends told us we'd be a cute couple back in high school (she was a senior and i was a junior) and we ended up just going along with it.
>still a shut-in, autistic loser compared to the general population(even she's more normal than i am and she actually has autism, albeit she is high-functioning)
>she moved to Vermont so she could study in a college for ppl w/ special needs
>i'm stuck here without someone who i tried to be a better person b/c of (i tried nofap a ton b/c watching porn felt like cheating on her)
>i naturally gravitate away from places with crowds of ppl, so i find myself constantly alone
>i go onto Jow Forums, a site i've been using even while i was with her, and find a board with a ton of other losers; only difference is that i'm dating and they're not.
>i've barely been able to talk to her up to now and feel she'd be better off w/o me
>just scared of what she'd think; i don't want to hurt her feelings.

fucking kill me.