/gfd/ - Gentle Femdom general

Good Boy Edition

Old thread:
>how old are you?
>describe your ideal gfd bf/gf
>what would you like to do for your gfd bf/gf
>what would you like for your gfd bf/gf to do for you
>what do you like about gentle femdom?

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and please don't be rude or start any stupid arguments

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Gentle femdom is one of my biggest fetishes yet it is extremely difficult to find it on porn sites unfortunately

These threads need more cuckolding

Cuckolding is humiliation and gentle femdominas don't do humiliation

Cuckolding has nothing to do with femdom and it belongs in gay porn.

Please just don't reply to this guy

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Not sure, don't have much experience. Just important that we love each other and are honest. Things will work out somehow.

Do silly stuff like hug them as a surprise. Think of cute nicknames. Just doing nice little things to show I care.

Be there for me and make me feel save. Show you love me so I don't have to be scared.

The reassuring feeling that I can show my vulnerable side and it be still enjoyable. Makes you feel that much closer.

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Man... Getting a dom gf is easy but a gentle dom? Almost impossible.

Still looking for a gfd gf in central and eastern europe.
I'm quite convinced that gfd girls do exist and are real, it's just that I can't find any that aren't taken in this part of the world.

I just want some headpats and feel safe.
I still have a tiny bit of hope.

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bumppp or1g1n3lly

W-would it be impossible for me to get a /gfd/ gf I have a 10 inch PP? I'm kind of tall too, but otherwise I'm pretty cute...

>how old are you?
23
>describe your ideal gfd bf/gf
Someone who is qt and nice and maybe a little tomboy-ish.
>what would you like to do for your gfd bf/gf
I'm not really sure I could do anything for her, I'm kind of useless.
>what would you like for your gfd bf/gf to do for you
Hold me and hug me and cuddle me and re-assure me that everything is going to be okay.
>what do you like about gentle femdom?
I-I just want to feel loved...

imagine being a literal cuckold

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I'm female.
>>how old are you?
31
>>describe your ideal gfd bf/gf
Someone who supports me and we get along really well. Like we are best friends.
>>what would you like to do for your gfd bf/gf
My fetishes are mainly gfd, and I'm incapable of doing hardcore or mean stuff. I only want to do sweet mothering nurturing stuff. It would fully depend on what he wanted. But I really love giving praise. I also love giving tasks. I guess my biggest turn on & fetish is making him nervous. When I see someone nervous, shy, or flustered it really does it for me. So if it was someone who was like this and felt relief not 'having' to be manly or put together I'm good at leading & guiding someone who takes comfort in that.
>>what would you like for your gfd bf/gf to do for you
Take care of me is my ideal situation. I'd want to have sex at least weekly. This is my weirdest fetish: reddit.com/r/CuckoldPsychology/comments/d7blff/cuckoldress_with_a_rare_fetish_should_i_give_up/
>>what do you like about gentle femdom?
Basically the role reversal where I get to lead the relationship and make all the creative decisions sexually. My favorite part is getting to lead, create, and initiate.

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>tfw she'll never hold you and say "Everything will be okay user!"
>tfw she'll never hold you

I'm interested in both your fetish and your story in general. Is there any way I can contact you so I can learn more?

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Sounds nice but fuck off with that reddittrash and cuckshit

Especially if she did this while chad pounded her

>Take care of me is my ideal situation
What do you mean by this? You're not going to tell me you just mean "paypig", are you user?
>cuck shit
Hard nope

Does anyone know any gentle femdom manga or doujin? Been in a mood for that.

5ft10/177cm, 65kg/10.2 stone

>how old are you?
25
>describe your ideal gfd bf
Understanding, open and receptive to ideas. He would be European or Canadian.
>what would you like to do for your gfd bf
Help motive him in his day to day, meet with him irl, show him his limits.
>what would you like for your gfd bf to do for you
Worship and obey
>what do you like about gentle femdom?
Kissing and generally being a bit more intimate than if you were a hard Domme.

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Man this is so hot. I wish I could be a cuck husband.

Cuck stuff is not gentle at all. It's exploitative of weaker men.

How is exploitative of weaker men?

>how old are you?
I'm 24, I feel so old and yet I still look so young

>describe your ideal gfd bf/gf
I want someone who's okay with me, I want someone I can be comfortable with. Someone who might want to try some of the more lewd things. It's all very vague and emotional and personal. I'm sorry, this isn't too useful.
I guess if I got to choose, I'd like someone a little older (not necessarily age, but demeanor and appearance). I believe the weeaboo term would be "onee-san"?
I also have a bit of tiny bit of an interest in women wearing suits.

>what would you like to do for your gfd bf/gf
I guess I'd try to be there for her emotionally, primiarily. If she wants do small servitude things (might be fun to make them lewd). I'd also cook for her, cooking together might be fun too!

>what would you like for your gfd bf/gf to do for you
I'd like her to hug me and hold me and comfort me when I'm sad (unfortunately often), maybe do some domineering stuff, there's a few things I'd like to try, but am unsure about

>what do you like about gentle femdom?
I like intimacy, I like the affection and in my hopeless shyness, it's hard to imagine without someone else taking the lead.

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Tell us more about your fetish, user

It's not, cucking is homoshit.

>27
>Taller than me, (Asian but that's unlikely)
>Whatever she tells me
>Tell me what to do and hurt me often but not too much
>I think it's a very unhealthy way for me to cope with having low self esteem, but it's not unpleasant

>Worship
H-how would he worship you?

>H-how would he worship you?
Watch me fuck other men and eat the creampie

I love a man who knows his place. Kissing my feet. Massages. Rolling me joints. Cooking dinner. Being the best slave/servant he could be.

I'm really turned off by the idea of cuckolding. If my partner is a cuck, he can get tae fuck.
I don't want a man who is weak, turned on by other men and insecure.

Shit if I didn't have this feeling that you'd only date Caucasian guys taller than you, I'd definitely cook you delicious dinners and give you foot rubs.

>I'm really turned off by the idea of cuckolding
kinkshaming bigot

I have only dated white guys. They've been shorter and taller than me.
I'm opened minded to all men as long as they're above 25, they're independent (I'm not looking to pay for you or be your mummy) and they smell good. I'm really not that specific when it comes to melanin or height.
I've never found that darker guys are attracted to me.

What would you cook for me?

I'm glad this isn't just an excuse to whore around while getting betabux for at least some of you.

>I have only dated white guys.
What's your race?

i've been talking with a guy online for a while. he's very cute & we get along pretty well. i like that we have a lot of similar beliefs on stuff, too. he's very much into femdom (gentle & rough). a few nights ago he told me he had a chastity device & i told him to put it on & he did. i really want to hold him, pet him, & give him gentle kisses but we live several states apart. even though we're the same age he is still studying for his degree & wants to go abroad next year. he doesn't have a job or drive. i'm already immersed in the "adult life" & it seems every time i've found a guy that i get along with we aren't anywhere near each other in the same stages of life. he also has some emotional issues but they're nowhere near the severity of guys i've talked to in the past & i wouldn't mind being patient with him but it feels weird knowing we most likely wouldn't meet irl for a long time. my last ex i dated online for a few years & he lived in another country; he didn't have a job or want one & due to that things between us ended up not working out. people always tell me i should meet a guy in person but it seems so impossible. for starters i'm very rarely around guys my age. i feel if i were ever to meet a guy by chance i would be too pessimistic about it & feel it was a waste of time. i feel like getting to know someone's personality online is way easier rather than just seeing someone who you think is physically pleasing to the eye & then approaching them & going from there. it just doesn't seem worth it.
i feel sort of stuck & i'm not exactly sure what to do. with my last ex any time i would try to discuss this stuff he would just push it to the side; with this new guy the one time i tried to discuss something serious with him he shut down for several days. i know stuff like this is already on his mind & bringing it to his attention would only upset him which i don't want to do. i like him and i'm not sure what to do.

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I'm independent but I'm not over 25. But I do have my own place and car and pay all my own bills and have been like this for years. As far as smell goes, my ex gf said one of her favorite things about me was my scent.

I'm not dark. Just Asiatic . I'm also very marginally shorter than you.

I could probably make you any dish you want, but I enjoy making pastas, curries, and seafood dishes the most.

No kinkshame, just not for me. Go do it with someone else. I'm not interested

Being a whore is desperate, tasteless and classless. I think the term whorimg about is outdated because whore implies these women get paid for their time. They don't. They give away their most precious gift to any man who pays them a compliment or has some kind of a stable future. I'm not interested in betabux. Where's my omega at?

He's mentally a child and it's not your responsibility to push him into adulthood. If you really can't have one fucking conversation about your relationship status and what your needs are you need to put your foot down and move on. This is one of those problems with finding people/guys online, half the time you're going to get some emotionally stunted manchild.

I'm a snowie/cracker/whitey/pale faced princess

The age generally is a hard limit for myself. It's a person preference to be with olde ramen. They're generally a lot more mature, experienced and gentler. Your independence is attractive.

What do you smell like?

Height is irrelevant anyway when you're tied down...

You'll win my heart with curries. Seafood is a meh. Pasta is rarely done to my taste. Some leople don't seem to grasp the term, al dente.

>Where's my omega at?
I'm omega. I don't think I'll ever get into a stable relationship because I just know my gf will get worn out by my stupid big dick and cheat on me or something. So I avoid women, and am a virgin.

>I'm a snowie/cracker/whitey/pale faced princess
What the fuck? I think multiculturalism has taken a toll on your brain. You are white.

I probably just smell like the free & clear soaps that I use. I generally stay away from fragrances because they fuck up my allergies.

Sorry to hear about the age thing. My last comment on this topic is that I only really get along with coworkers who are older than me (late 20s, early 30s) and I don't do anything that people my age do (clubs, drinking, etc.)

I actually just made Japanese curry yesterday. Here's a pic.

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>It's a person preference to be with olde ramen.
What about women who prefer younger ramen?

>Worn out by my stupid big dick
Sounds like something a guy with a small dick would say.
If I had a good man, regardless of his dick, I wouldn't chest. Cheating is morally and ethically wrong. Avoiding women isn't always the answer. We're not all bad..

It's called a j o k e. I think anyone could figure out that I'm white by now. Jesus senpai.

>Getting a dom gf is easy
You want to explain how, user

Allergies are a b i t c h. Sorry you deal with that. Soap smell is fine. I admittedly like musky smells and sandalwood.

Like I said, it's generally a personal preference. I once went on a date with a 23 year old but that didn't work well.

Curry is a 6/10. Would ask for tofu instead of chicken (assumption).

Kek. I do love ramen. Women who like young ramen need to get their heads checked.

I think I realized I really need to date an older, more established woman. My last girlfriend was extremely mentally and emotionally unstable, wanted to be coddled like a child, had BPD, and was generally a mess to date and live with.

I find myself not just shallowly appraising women at the office I work at. I feel this level of respect and gratitude towards them for accepting me into their space and allowing me to work with them in a sense. I wish I could date a woman in her late 20 or early 30s who has it all figured out.

One last thought - I realized I want to date a woman who doesn't have her emotions on full display all the time. I want to recognize that I am loved without being just lavishly told it or being asked if I love my partner constantly for affirmation/insecurity purposes. Someone clearly confident in their place and who could live without me, but chooses to live with me regardless because of our mutual attraction, respect, and affection.

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Are you a vegetarian/vegan? I sometimes just make vegetarian type curry because I'm too lazy/not in the mood to make meats of any kind. Where are you from user?

>Sounds like something a guy with a small dick would say.
I don't expect people to take me seriously but it's very real problem. I scared away one girl, then when I tried again I kept it in my pants while we made out, hit it under the sheets etc., to get her really turned on first. Then I whipped it out and she at least agreed to try but it was no use, couldn't even get the head in. I know it sounds like a joke but it's big to the point of being useless. Would you really settle down with someone you could never have sex with?

You could fingerbang her and she could give you a hand job; fucking hell user, it's not a Sherlock Holmes mystery.

We did and that was fine for that one time but it scarred me a bit and I haven't bothered trying since.

i feel that way about pretty much every guy. it's nearly impossible to find someone who has great communication skills and doesn't have severe anxiety/depression.
>inb4 she wants chad
for about the 900th time no, i do not want some narcissistic brainlet beefcake
honestly i'm at the point where i wish i was rich and could just be a sugar mommy and buy a guy's affection. even if it was a false cope it would still be something. i guess me talking to guys like this is sort of a cope too; i wish so badly things would work out but i know in reality they won't. i miss my ex a lot and sometimes i think if it was even worth breaking up with him over because i'm basically in the same situation again with another guy and even though i like this new guy i hate being in the same situation. i felt like with my ex we were just going to be 40, have never met irl, and just text each other for the rest of our lives. i feel i'm in the same scenario with this guy now.

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If you want to talk some more about this, I've been in similar situations before and I can probably offer more insight. However it gets into private details that I'd rather not share in a public thread. Would you like my Discord or something, user? I promise I'll give you some constructive tips.

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>The age generally is a hard limit for myself.
why tho

>tfw no vegan bf who doesn't want to have penetration sex

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I'll make the switch to vegan for you if you want user. As long as we get to give each other oral instead of penetrative sex. Or even just cuddling...

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Wait you don't want penetration? How come?

I would gladly give up meat if it means I can eat pussy instead

>666
part of me is paranoid you're someone i know who lurks these threads (wouldn't be the first.. or second time this has happened) but sure that's fine i guess. i genuinely don't care if someone i used to know would care that much to bother going through all of this to laugh at my private feelings.

I am indeed a vegetarian/vegan. I think eating meat is cruel and bad for your health/environment/general life. Hypocritical to follow up with this comment but I will eat excess/reduced and otherwise being wasted meat one/twice a year when I am truly craving and my body feels weak without it. I get a lot of issues with iron and B12. I have eaten meat in the past and will no doubt eat it in the future. I generally avoid it. If someone cooks me meat I am polite and will eat it. I would say I'm a flexitarian but that sounds way more pretentious than vegetarian/vegan.
Vegetable curries are sometimes a lot nicer than meat based ones.
I'm a Britbonger. You?

You need to find a girl who is properly turned on by you. If a baby can come out of a vagina, I'm sure your cock will find a way.

Kek. Shercock Holmes

I guarantee I don't know you. This is probably the 2nd time I've posted on these threads.

weirdhoney#0604

Post your domfu

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>You need to find a girl who is properly turned on by you. If a baby can come out of a vagina, I'm sure your cock will find a way.
Have you ever seen childbirth? The vagina tears up and it hurts so much they shit themselves. Hardly what I want.
It's not that it would be impossible to force my dick inside of her, it's that I would go to jail if I did it.

oh i'm and , not sure if you thought i was someone else. i wouldn't mind pleasuring a cute pet boy and would love to make him feel good. that would make me very happy but i've had sex before more than once and it hurts a lot (yes i was wet). i don't like it and i don't want to have it again. i just don't feel a desire for it.

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Yeah, I'm from the US. I wouldn't mind cooking you vegetarian dishes but it sucks that it would be really far to start. Hope you find a cutie vegan European/Canadian bf, dude. You seem really cool.

The thing about meeting someone online is that you need to be in a position where you can travel to meet any prospective bfs/gfs pretty early on, and be ready to uproot your life and move to them, or support them while they move to you, pay for their flights, etc.
Otherwise it's just hopeless. You can't expect others to commit that much, so you have to do it yourself.

I have seen childbirth. The vagina tears because they're pushing too hard. They also shit themselves because they're literally pushing for hours. Nothing to do with it hurting so much that they shit themselves.

Let me rephrase this for you.
If a woman can be fisted vaginally and anally and enjoy it, I am sure your penis can fit inside a girl. If she is relaxed and turned on, you'd be able to make it work. Sometimes you have to give yourself a little push in the right direction. If a woman is wanting to fuck you and wants to take you, the least you can do is thrust a little. I'm sure she's a big enough girl to ask you to stop if it hurts too much.

No one's perfect, we all have flaws. Calm the fuck down

yeah, I generally say no Americans because time zones are shit.
I only say Canadians as I plan on emigrating there one day.

I find this a lot with Jow Forums. I'll be compatible with someone but they're not willing to consider distance.

I don't mind timezone difference if my partner doesn't, there's a way to make it work even if it means only talking a few hours during the day. There just has to be a plan in place to actually meet up and be together.

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It's hard enough to get someone to the point of being willing to sleep with you. And only then do you find out if she's the type of person to be able to / like fisting or whatever else. Sure, I've seen gifs of girls taking dildos that are twice my size, but they are anomalies. I'm thicker than a monster can (and almost twice as long but that doesn't matter much), it's basically as rare and as bad as being a 1-incher. Is it theoretically possible to find girls who like or want that? Sure. But it's pretty unlikely.

>i'm very rarely around guys my age
How old are you

the thing is if someone were willing to do that for me then i'd do that for them. but i've never gotten that type of investment from any guy in the past. my ex of 2 years that i've mentioned a few times never once returned any of my letters or cards i mailed to him. it was at that point that i realised: "yeah okay, this guy isn't ever going to change". i feel as though nobody ever puts in or wants to put in the same amount of effort that i do.

Sometimes, a few hours is all you need. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
I'm not looking to move to America. I've got a friend trying to get a fiance visa right now and she's struggling. They've been together 3 years.
I'm 100% open to meeting someone but only after an extended online relationship. I'm not looking to get catfished, sold into sex slavery or meet up with poly-degens.
I need a man who actually understands the concept and meaning of commitment.

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23; i work with all women primarily and the few men i do work with are all well-beyond retirement age (there's one man in his 30's but he's gay). i don't have any friends that aren't online and any time i go out it's usually to just grab tea or walk around outside. i don't drink or like to do things that most people my age do and if i would have to do those types of things (like go to bars) to meet someone then he isn't the guy for me.

Post pic of monster dong

It's theoretically possible. They're called size queen's.

Are there no young men where you live

>it's nearly impossible to find someone who has great communication skills and doesn't have severe anxiety/depression.

Does depression and anxiety cause people to develop better communication skills or what's the correlation?

Can penetrative kissing still occur tho?

The thing is, it's unreasonable to expect someone to commit so heavily to a person they have never met. I know it sucks, and I know that you are willing to... but 99.9% of other people are not, and that's an understatement.

Nahh I don't really want to get my big dumb dick bullied! I already know it's too big, you don't need to tell me!

i live in my home with my mom and my pets? so no?? i mean i go to the store and stuff once in a while; i saw a very cute guy working at the pharmacy when i went to the grocery store last week and i actually thought right then about how it's so rare that i see attractive guys or really guys at all my age (he was about my height, slender, looked maybe latino/southwest asian mix, very smooth skin, nice haircut, cute glasses). i live in an area where mostly retired people live and my mom and i share the bills in a condo. there's no other people my age in the complex, sometimes relatives might visit once in a while. in the community as a whole this is fairly yeah the demographic.

These are all my replies to thread. I'm going to bed now.

If people want to continue talking, my email is [email protected].

>Pic related
Send me ASL and a completed labyrinth path. Tell me the time taken to complete it, there will be another task based around your personal time.

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Yknow, you're interesting enough that even if I don't think you'd ever really date me, I still want to chat with you some more even if it just means having a pen pal/internet friend. Do you have a throwaway email to drop?

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i don't want him to have severe anxiety and depression and i don't want him to have awful communication skills; i think you misinterpreted my statement

>i feel that way about pretty much every guy.
If you really hated that much you would have blocked him already

i don't hate him? hate is a strong word. it's more a disappointment sort of thing that i'm just now beginning to realise.

>>how old are you?
19
>>describe your ideal gfd bf/gf
ideal gfd gf would be kind of autistic and more like a guy but if they were a guy you'd think they were gay, sort of androgynous in a behavioral sense but still nice in a feminine way. autistic in the sense that they would be the ones to exclaim loudly weird and kind of offensive things like I assume guys usually do in normal relationships or maybe that's just something I made up.
>>what would you like to do for your gfd bf/gf
make her feel happy and special to me in any way I could even if I would suck at it, just try my hardest
>>what would you like for your gfd bf/gf to do for you
make me feel appreciated and hold hands with me
>>what do you like about gentle femdom?
The role reversal, it's just very cute

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Idk i just assume that you agreed with >54514336 since that's what you said

here have a cute pic as an apology

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Would you sleep with a guy's girlfriend to lescuck him? I know it sounds odd, but I think it'd help my girlfriend get rid of a lot of emotional baggage and climax in a way only a woman could induce.

>tfw she'll never say or know of dilly dally, shilly shally

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All I want is a cute gf to bake cookies and cake for who wants to cuddle and protecc me

b-but that was me, the post you tagged was my post
i don't wish any ill upon anyone. i still think of my ex often and wonder how he's doing. i hope he's finally over that insecurity he had over his hair. i hope he's eating enough every day. i genuinely hope he's happy. i miss his smile that i'd see on our videocalls, that smile i so desperately wanted to see in person. i hope perhaps one day he'll reflect on our experience together, get his life in order, and possibly meet someone new who will make him smile like that again. i know that person won't be me but i hope he finds someone who will cherish him and that he too will love. he was pretty much a shut-in and i don't want that for him; i wasn't able to help him. i know the only person that can help him is himself. i hope he does that one day and doesn't suffer from his anxieties anymore. i don't feel hatred for him, i just worry for him despite us not being a part of each others' lives anymore.

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It sounds like you chase after things you can't have and fall in love with that, or the idea of someone rather than the person themselves. Maybe you're afraid of being utterly disappointed or hurt by people in general, judging by your other posts. I guess I'll share a bit of advice for you here, the only way you're going to be able to move on and into the happy relationship you want is by taking a jump and letting go of your inhibitions for even just one decision.

How often do you think of your ex?

you're very right; i often fall in love with the idea of something rather than reality. i've noticed that myself.

this
what does take care mean, seems like you just want money