Get QT Asian GF

>Get QT Asian GF
>Date for 2 years and now married for 2
>She got fat

YOU DIDN'T SAY THIS WOULD HAPPEN! YOU SAID IT WOULD EVER HAPPEN!

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Get a gym membership together and start working out

lmao i know you
how's the family?

>fpbp
>dubs and trips
based
you know what you must do OP

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Here's what you should do:
Step 1: Fuck off normalfag.
Step 2: See step 1.
Step 3: see steps 1 and 2

I have been working out since day 1 and she was a twig when we met. Just the way I liked it.

I doubt you don't know me because I have no family.

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Tell her she could lose some weight and you're not interested in her anymore sexually.
How difficult can this be user
My gf got to the point where she was 130lbs at 5"3 and I told her to lose weight and she did. Now she's 110 again

Is she a Filipina and did you even bother to notice what her mom and older siblings looked like? I have mostly seen fat filipinos and SEAs, rarely are East Asians fat. You picked the wrong asian.

>tfw Iraqi gf has a stomach problem where she can't eat too much or she'll get a bad stomachache

Pretty nice tbqh senpai

>How difficult can this be user

When you love someone you will find this difficult to talk about because you don't want to hurt their feelings and you don't want to potentially have this become an issue to where you both resent eachother (Depending on how the conversation goes).

>Is she a Filipina and did you even bother to notice what her mom and older siblings looked like? I have mostly seen fat filipinos and SEAs, rarely are East Asians fat. You picked the wrong asian.

Chinese. Was similar to pic related.

Not sure about height but about 5'8-5'9 and 50kg/110lb. Now is 80kg/176lbs and I noticed has even caused her walking posture to look like a waddling duck.

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>Iraqi

I fucked an Arab for awhile. That snail trail and hook nose.

>When you love someone you will find this difficult to talk about

I've been together for over 3 years with my girlfriend and I love her a lot too. Planning on getting married after we get our master degrees.

Just grow some fucking balls and tell her she needs to lose weight.

She's like 25% German 75% Arab genetically bit she grew up in the UK most of her life in a private school so she's not your typical Arab.
Also her family comes from Mosul and Baghdad so they're not brown either. They're actually paler than I am

Lucky. They tend to age like shit. Similar to Mexicans. Droopy tips, fat pussy and cottage cheese everywhere.
>Source?
I fucked her and saw many of her friends and family nude by spying on them.

>They tend to age like shit
True, but then again that's mainly the ones that don't look after themselves and are mainly from the south of Iraq.
The northern ones and also the Kurds age fine.

Aww, that's cute.
My azn is still pretty small but hoping she fills out after we get married.
Is she unhappy about it or rather shameless?
Did her boobs get a lot bigger?
Is she a bit of a slob or just fatter?
How's your sex life?

I did the same 5hing with ny tiny Asian wife too but I gave her a kid. He was born 3 months ago but she's still kinda fat. What the fuck
I actually think you're thinking of me. I'm the one who normally makes the thread with OP's situation.

>Aww, that's cute.
It's depressing. You want to tell her to stop being a slob but you don't want to make her unhappy.
>My azn is still pretty small but hoping she fills out after we get married.
You don't. They don't look as youthful and young when they are fat.
>Is she unhappy about it or rather shameless?
Has no clue that her weight is so high.
>Did her boobs get a lot bigger?
Butt in a very bad way. Used to be perky handful. Now is a cottage cheese mess.
>Is she a bit of a slob or just fatter?
50kg to 80kg. That's more then just being a slob. I used to stare at her just doing things around the house getting turned on by the way her body looks in different positions, to the point where I would just jerk off just staring at her naked. Now I cringe when she walks around naked.
>How's your sex life?
Does not exist. Would rather masturbate 2-3 times a day in the bathroom.

>I did the same 5hing with ny tiny Asian wife too but I gave her a kid. He was born 3 months ago but she's still kinda fat. What the fuck

She says she wants a kid and I am disgusted at the thought of her gaining more weight and having to have sex with her. I am even worried shes too fat to have a kid.

>Fat Asian GF
Living the fucking dream.

How old is she?
How can she not notice? Did she not have to buy a new wardrobe? Does she just squeeze into too small clothes?
Did she eat a lot when she was smaller but her metabolism just gave out? Or had she just stopped giving a fuck about her figure after marriage?
Does she ever try and initiate sex and you peel away, or you always used to initiate and now you just aren't intimate at all?
But yea, maybe just invite her for a walk, do that often, start cooking low calorie foods for her, etc. You don't have to be explicit when you make her lose weight, just alter your collective lifestyle.
What does she do all day? Eat and TV?

>>She got fat
So? Do you no longer love your wife because shes a bit fat? That seems rather unfair.
Ah Miho is so damn sexy its not fair
>I am even worried shes too fat to have a kid
Cunt she isn't even 180lbs could you please get a fucking grip on reality.

Post some God damn pics or you're a giant whiny bitch. Fuck you, OP.

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How the fuck is this living the fucking dream?
People stare at us now in public. I'm an in shape 6'2 white male walking around with a fucking hippo.

I just joked around and tried to asked her to try and do a plank for as long as she could. She lasted 2 seconds.
Could only do 3 body weight squats
No pushups.
2 situps.

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This, yea.
If you aren't sleeping with her, at least let some people who appreciate fat Asian women enjoy how she looks.

>asian wife won't stop gaining weight

Kawaii! Did her ass jiggle when she faceplanted?
Also, has her weight gain plateaued or is she on track to become enormous?

>Fell for the Asian gf meme

Your fault for listening to Jow Forums retards

>tfw no formerly svelte angel stomping around the house
>tfw she won't mount you, totally oblivious to how heavy she is now

180lbs
OP that isnt even so bad you fucking faggot. kill yourself. i thought you said she turned obese. fuck outta here faggot

>How old is she?
28
>How can she not notice? Did she not have to buy a new wardrobe? Does she just squeeze into too small clothes?
I suppose she has not made obvious that she notices. She just bought new clothes every few months. She has never mentioned it or hinted about it. Just life as usual for her.
>Did she eat a lot when she was smaller but her metabolism just gave out?Or had she just stopped giving a fuck about her figure after marriage?
Good question. I am not sure desu. I feel like she stopped giving a fuck or just got very comfortable around me. Eats the same sized meals as I do as a male who goes to the gym and usually eats more then I do. I don't think a woman's metabolism changed this much so fast.
>Does she ever try and initiate sex and you peel away, or you always used to initiate and now you just aren't intimate at all?
She does every few weeks and I peel away or make an excuse. generally since I wank 2-3 times a day I am never aroused even slightly when she tries.
>What does she do all day? Eat and TV?
Chinese gook TV shows, makeup and eating snacks.

I might try what you suggested and changing what she eats without her noticing. Decent idea.

>So? Do you no longer love your wife because shes a bit fat? That seems rather unfair.
No the opposite. I still love her and that's the problem I am having right now. I love her so much I can't even mention her weight to her because I don't want her to feel bad. I just don't find her attractive at all and I am even repulsed sometimes. If she knew I physically cringe at the sight of her sometimes now she would be extremely hurt.

>Cunt she isn't even 180lbs could you please get a fucking grip on reality.
If your BMI before pregnancy is between 25 and 29.9, you are in the overweight range. If your BMI is 30 or more, you are in the obese range.

She is nearing 30 BMI as an asian frame and no muscle. This is a very big risk when it comes to a C section.

>If you aren't sleeping with her, at least let some people who appreciate fat Asian women enjoy how she looks.

Nah she wouldn't like it if I posted pics of her here so I won't. Not a scumbag.
I think plateaued since she has been hovering at 80-84kg ish. it's hit an equilibrium with the calories she eats i think.

Well it was great BEFORE we got married. I didn't see any signs this would happen and nobody here posts about shit like this.
>OP that isnt even so bad you fucking faggot. kill yourself. i thought you said she turned obese. fuck outta here faggot

You forget this is on an Asian frame not a white woman.

Took 30 seconds on google images and found this. Looks similar.

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You motherfucker, that's cute as fuck.
Fucking sexercise the fat off of her if you must, but you're gay as AIDS if you can't stand to be married to that.

There's no way someone just wouldn't notice that.
Is your girlfriend the type to be in renal or avoid issues?
Girls are usually extremely self conscious when it comes to weight, I don't buy that she didn't notice.
The fact that you never have sex with her anymore should be a red flag. Is she really dumb our something?

Fucking hell OP doesn't she see her family? I'm sure they'll tell her she's a fat ass pig. Also do you think she might be depressed or something? Seems weird that a chinese woman would get so fat without feeling some sort of shame about herself.

Is she chinese american or was she born and grew up in china?

>She does every few weeks and I peel away or make an excuse. generally since I wank 2-3 times a day I am never aroused even slightly when she tries
That is actually so sad. She still wants to be physically intimate with you and you "peel away" like a sulking tween. Have you considered the possibility that she's eating a lot because she you make her feel like shit? I'm not trying to be a simp for you wife but it sounds to me like you're being a huge fucking bitch about this. Just fuck your wife, OP. If you fucked her daily or near daily she'd probably start losing weight. I can't IMAGINE marrying someone I claim to love and then bitching about their weight on Jow Forums. You have someone who loves you which is more than the rest of us have. Stop being a child. Be grateful that someone wants you. Fuck your wife you pussy.
>Nah she wouldn't like it if I posted pics of her here so I won't.
The only respectable thing you've said in this entire thread.

chubby chaser low standards faggot pls go.

In denial, not renal.

Thats pretty nasty, my dude. There's no other way I can put it.
I feel for OP, especially if he actually cares about her that much. Is she the manipulative type?

Yeah she is a landwhale by Chinese standards. Maybe this guy is onto something with the depression angle, but you would think OP would benefit aware of any issues like that. Isn't comfort eating very obvious for him to notice?

Anyway I don't know how dumb this sounds, but what about inviting her to do some physical activity like hiking or cycling on the weekend? Might kill two birds with one stone by making her realise how out of shape she is as well as losing a bit of weight there.

OP, all women get fat after marriage. That's the whole point of getting married. Having a husband who is stuck taking care of you while you get fat with no consequences

best thread all day, got a good laugh thanks op

He clearly said he stopped having sex after she gained weight. Not discounting the probability that there is some sort of mental issue for her, but I dunno, I doubt is OP. A Chinese woman gaining 30kg in 2 years though? Something is up. Was she overweight as a kid or something? Might relapse.
I don't think there's anything wrong with complaining that your significant other has let themselves go. Love is partly dependent on physical attraction, don't try and pretend otherwise. Do you think it would be ok to stop going to the gym once you get married and having your chiseled abs turn into manboobs and a spare tire?

This

OP, just go up to her right now and make out with her and take her to bed.
Then after you slay her, take her out for a salad and a romantic walk.
Repeat daily until she's eminently fuckable and then make her burn calories on the regular in the bedroom.
Your lack of affection in 100% contributing you ignoramus.

>This
Thisniggering. What I'm saying is that OP is bitching and moaning about his own fucking wife on Jow Forums, a board full of cripplingly lonely people. I find it very hard to respect what OP is saying because he actually has someone that loves him but he's focusing on he gaining like 30ish pounds over 2 years. Yea I guess that's a lot, but is she really "repulsive"? All he would need to do would be recommend an activity they could do together. Play tennis, go hiking. He could even start with having sex with his own wife when she tries to imitate. The strategy is to go out and do physical things with her, fuck her as often as is comfortable, and maybe try cooking healthy meals together. Instead he's whining about something minor in the grand scheme of things.

>You motherfucker, that's cute as fuck.
It's not.
>Is your girlfriend the type to be in renal or avoid issues?
Wife now, avoids issues yes.
>Girls are usually extremely self conscious when it comes to weight, I don't buy that she didn't notice.
The fact that you never have sex with her anymore should be a red flag. Is she really dumb our something?

Has a PHD and is much smarter then me. Socially retarded though like most Chinese.

>Fucking hell OP doesn't she see her family?
They are all in China and only video chat on Wechat. She only shows her face which is less noticeable as her body in the right angles.
>Is she chinese american or was she born and grew up in china?

Full on commie gook. Met her at university during masters and she stayed here.

>hat is actually so sad. She still wants to be physically intimate with you and you "peel away" like a sulking tween.

I peel away because I am not hard or feeling attracted to her. Zero action going on in my pants.
>Just fuck your wife
Are you autistic? It's like asking a gay guy to fuck a woman. He won't be hard and nothing is going on sexually.
How about you just go fuck ur dad? It's easy man. Just fuck him. What? You don't want to fuck him? What is wrong with you?

Agreed.

>Thats pretty nasty, my dude. There's no other way I can put it.
I hate using the word nasty but it really is nasty... You seem to be the only one with the tiniest bit of standards without a brain warped to find ANYTHING horny out of desperation.
>Is she the manipulative type?
Somewhat. Very controlling in every way but I'm fine with this most of the time. I find this is very common for Chinese woman and all of her friends/family are like this.

>Depression
I don't think so. Her personality is the same and she is quite "jolly". She loves to go out to places and dress up. She has no problems and hasn't become a recluse like most do with depression.

>Are you autistic? It's like asking a gay guy to fuck a woman.
Except it's not because it's literally your own wife who you claim to love.
>Has a PHD and is much smarter then me
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! You literally have a top 1% woman and you're whining on Jow Forums about her gaining weight. I hope she leaves your childish ass. Fuck you OP, consider necking yourself you irredeemable wanker.

>OP, all women get fat after marriage. That's the whole point of getting married. Having a husband who is stuck taking care of you while you get fat with no consequences

Well not having sex anymore is a consequence I guess.

Hope you burned some calories laughing at my life.

>OP, just go up to her right now and make out with her and take her to bed.
I still do all of this except taking her to bed. I can't pick her up anymore.
>Then after you slay her, take her out for a salad and a romantic walk.
Dick doesn't get hard when looking at her anymore.
>Repeat daily until she's eminently fuckable and then make her burn calories on the regular in the bedroom.
Last time we fucked she was overweight to the point where she just layed there due to weight. She couldnt even get ontop and move because she was so out of breath. I got more of a workout on my bi's trying to move her up and down. This was about 3 months ago and shes gained a bit more since then.
>Your lack of affection in 100% contributing you ignoramus.
Who says I don't give affection? You can (and I do) give affection without it being sexual.
A hug doesn't lead to fucking. Holding hands doesn't lead to oral.I still touch and play with her hair ect.. I just get physically repulsed sexually and I hate it.

>He could even start with having sex with his own wife when she tries to imitate
What do you not understand about this? You act like there is a button you press to get a boner and want to fuck something that you don't want to fuck. Imagine something in porn which you hate... it turns you off immediately and you lose all interest you had midfap and close down all porn. This is exactly what it's like.


have a waifu roll at least for your troubles

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>Except it's not because it's literally your own wife who you claim to love.
Love does not equal sexual arousal.

>Fuck you OP, consider necking yourself you irredeemable wanker.
I'm a wanker because I am having issues not being sexually attracted to my wife anymore because of her weight gain and me not wanting to tell her directly because I love her and don't want her to feel sad in anyway? Me wanting her to be happy is being a wanker?

Just talk to her about it, omfg

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Hey man, there's nothing wrong with wanting to improve one's life situation. Maybe some of the robots here would have a gf like OP if they didn't just sit around and let problems fester.
And its 30kg...so more like 60 pounds.
Even if you ignore the sexual aspect, you should care about your partner's health.

>Full on commie gook
Lol is there a cultural or communication barrier here?

>Somewhat. Very controlling
But I mean would she try to knowingly skirt around the issue and "hide" it from you?
Try to float the idea of hiking, cycling, swimming maybe and see how defensive she gets. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt that she isn't letting herself go now that you're married and hoping that you'll just tolerate it.
The fact that she still yes to initiate sex means she still cares about you and I'm guessing she would be devastated of she knew what you thought of her.
Noticed any changes in her attitude toward you over the last 2 years?

>All this 'bro just fuck the fat out of her'
guys it's not a partner's responsibility to maintain their significant others body. He can and should try and float the idea with her and support her by going to the gym with her, but saying he should redesign her entire diet and cook everything for her is kind of silly.

Rolingolingolingolingoling

She hasn't said anything about the lack of sex/ intimacy in the relationship yet? Honestly I would find a way to send some full body photos of your wife to her family or better yet arrange a trip to China to see them.

The best solution is to tell her you find her fatass disgusting and she isn't the woman you originally married. You're probably gonna leave her eventually if she doesn't lose the weight so why prolong your suffering. Give her the talk and let her make her choice.

He said earlier that he jacks off 3 times per day. If he can't even fuck his own wife (ewwww even if she's a rotund 175lbs) then he's the problem. Don't know how else to convince you guys. With any luck she'll find out that he's slagging her off on Jow Forums and leave him. Fuck you OP and fuck anyone who defends your actions.

Imagine having a cute PhD wife but complaining on Jow Forums because she's a bit fat. Imagine. I'm cringing.

>Last time we fucked she was overweight to the point where she just layed there due to weight. She couldnt even get ontop and move because she was so out of breath. I got more of a workout on my bi's trying to move her up and down. This was about 3 months ago and shes gained a bit more since then.
Come on now - there's no way a girl shouldn't feel self conscious about this.
Did you ever feed her some bullshit line like "I'd love you no matter what happened to you" or make her otherwise feel like you didn't value looks while your were dating?
Have you let yourself go?
Does she not go out with her girlfriends anymore?
OP is there something you're not telling us? It sounds like you're relationship is in dire straits or something, honestly.

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>OP is there something you're not telling us?
Excellent question. We'll only get his perspective. I'm highly suspicious of OP.

>because I love her and don't want her to feel sad in anyway?
You absolute retarded pussy, just tell her.
>I love you, I really really do, more than anything in the world
>that's why I need to tell you this
>you've gained quite a bit of weight the past 2 years and I honestly don't like it
>whenever you try to initiate I refuse because I can't get it up
>I just don't feel attracted to your body anymore
>I honestly do still love you, and that's why I want to discuss this with you
>I want to help you lose the extra weight
>we'll change our diet and start exercising together
>but I need your cooperation
>what do you think?
Or something along those lines. You need to confront her about it.

>send some full body photos of your wife to her family
This sounds fake and gay it would probably work if you send a photo of the two of you in public to her family's social media or something, but she would probably be upset that you went to such a roundabout method to avoid directly addressing the issue with her.
>or better yet arrange a trip to China to see them.
Hehe, I never considered that. You can bet your ass that a Chinese family would bring that up. OP so you think it would hurt less coming from her family than you?
>The best solution is to tell her you find her fatass disgusting and she isn't the woman you originally married. You're probably gonna leave her eventually if she doesn't lose the weight so why prolong your suffering. Give her the talk and let her make her choice
Thats really harsh. Whatever you do, don't do this OP. The thing is that he loves her, but would prefer that they also enjoy sexual attraction and a good sex life too.

Yeah actually, jerking it 3 times a day to photogenic porn thots probably doesn't help when he looks at his wife. OP I definitely recommend not doing that anymore . It doesn't seem healthy. You'll come to resent your gf like that. You did you used to be extremely aroused by her 2 years ago? Definitely deal with the issue or you guys will just drift apart slowly. The fact that you keep it thrice Daily is not a good sign in this situation. You guys should be fucking and then cuddling thrice Daily.

Is she the housework type, or is she the type who sits in an office all day and stays sedentary?
I'm still not sure how she gained so much weight in such a short time. Did she stop working out or just increase her food portions?

If you love her, you should tell her to fix her diet. I mean, did you really want her to suffer when she gets old? Obese leads to nasty chronic disease and it's bad.

Don't be afraid, just fucking do it.

Also, you need go encourage her too. Don't just tell her to fix her diet, you also need to take part actively.

Basically what said.

>>because I love her and don't want her to feel sad in anyway?
>You absolute retarded pussy, just tell her.
>>I love you, I really really do, more than anything in the world
>>that's why I need to tell you this
>>you've gained quite a bit of weight the past 2 years and I honestly don't like it
>>whenever you try to initiate I refuse because I can't get it up
Too harsh. Seems like a guilt to for OP's lack of sexual activity. No need say this directly. She either cares enough to change herself or she doesn't. Don't add unnecessary resentment.
>>I just don't feel attracted to your body anymore
Again that's a bit harsh. Don't say that your find her disgusting in her current form. Just say you were more attracted to her before (maybe that's even too harsh i don't know what OPs girl is like)
>>I honestly do still love you, and that's why I want to discuss this with you
>>I want to help you lose the extra weight
>>we'll change our diet and start exercising together
>>but I need your cooperation
No need to directly ask her to 'co-operate'. She might feel cornered if you immediately demand to know what her immediate course of action will be.

Alright.
I appriciate the advice given. I think me masturbating so often likely doesnt help so I plan to stop that and see what happens.

I also plan to try and change her diet without her knowing to see if that works.

I am not going to tell her but will try and at least change the way we both eat and do what I can to be more attracted to her.

Also I can tell the retarded females posting in this thread thinking real life is like some romance movie where love is all you need!

Fuck off you delusional cunts.

Assuming this isn't a larp, please update us on this situation. Note/bookmark the original post ID and use that in the new thread so I can search it in the archives.
>Also I can tell the retarded females posting in this thread thinking real life is like some romance movie where love is all you need!
This. When men let themselves go in a relationship and the woman no longer finds him attractive, she starts cheating and looking for replacements. At least OP still cares.

>user: OP is there something your not telling us?
>OP: I gtg now bye!

Op if this boils over and you plan to have kids with her, I wish them good luck

Hilarious thread by the way