Can I talk about something that has been bothering me....
I'm 30+ and have always been a geek loner
All my fucking life no friends and no social circle
I have ways focused on my work and my tech career goals. I made it but it fucking kills my happiness in life to see what I truly am
An outcast nerd
I cant take it anymore
That's what Jow Forums is for, sir. We're all bestest chums here.
Really don't care. Fuck off with your off-topic sob story
head over to fit
lose some weight
start gaining muscle
hop on steroids
let hormones show you what a true man is like
make it
you were supposed to off yourself like 8 years ago. Now that you've stuck around, you will just be considered creepy and never have consensual sex again.
Sorry.
First step is to stop posting pepe memes and do something with your life which will actually make you fulfilled.
Btw many people who experienced breakups and divorces will tell you to stay away from women. You wont appreciate the inner peace you had until its gone.
MGTOW?
Boo hoo
By joining any group or movement you let them do the thinking for you and lowkey turn into real life NPC. That wasnt my point at all.
>NPC
nice virtue signal
maybe you can find a couple of tech chads to show you the way
pic related
I’m 23 and I’m actually pretty good looking I know I could get a girlfriend but I’m very low confidence so I either go back to work or the gym. Regularly put in 80-100 hours. I just wanna kms because I know I’ll never find a cute trap or wife mainly because I’ll see her and decide to go back to work or the gym like a coward.
kms?
C'est la vie.
There are women who would enjoy being married to you. Go out and discover one.
how do you focus on your work and tech career goals as a child? that's when you're supposed to make friends
>I’ll never find a cute trap
stop being a faggot and maybe you'll get a girlfriend
OP here
I think I'm going to be alright or at least I hope I get better
Anyway
I make over six figures and I cant believe they pay me this much for what I do. I have tons of certs and I work in cyber secuirty in the financial sector
I'm severely depressed
I have always been a nerd and I'm a loner even at work nobody wants to hang out with me either so life is tough (yea the other geeks want nothing to do with me since I'm not like them and I'm a reject)
Thanks for the responses
I'm hoping things get better
>the other geeks want nothing to do with me since I'm not like them and I'm a reject
what's wrong with you that other geeks don't want to be friends with you?
Thank you but my depression is getting worse
I have been losing hope
I stopped studying
I cant focus anymore
Q1/2 of 2019 many changes will happen at work and I'm losing it. I want to honestly kms and a few months ago I was ready but something changed when I went outside in public and I think I'm okay for a few more years but I'll honestly kms one day
If you want to know why I can explain
Religion could make you feel fulfilled. Especially older ones like Greek Orthodox.
You seem fine communicating with people online. People meet online, it just takes time.
You didn't actually explain what was wrong with you, all you said was that other people don't want to be friends with you
I have gone to a local Jow Forums meetup before
Forced to leave and I've never been back
Wont say which board but on Jow Forums local meetup from fellow nerds and they didnt want me around
nobodys gonna help you unless you say why you're so unlikable
Yea picture nobody wants to be your friend at all and that's your life
I cant understand it myself but I have always been the loner
Nobody gives me a chance
They just keep pushing me down and away from their friend group
yes but why
what are your recreational interests?
are you overbearing and opinionated? are you shy and too quiet?
You're asking me as if I know
I'm one of you. I play video games I'm a nerd but when it comes to hanging out with me everyone acts like no way not user
They didnt even want to tell me when they went on a work lunch event
I went to an event once at work to eat lunch and nobody wanted to hang out with me and eat lunch so I went and sat in my cubical
They all looked at me
I cant even join them man. I just want to join my fellow nerds and people but even with them I'm an outcast
I just want to hang out with the nerds
I'm one of you and always have been
If you're into video games and you can't make friends over the internet you honestly aren't trying
gamers have almost zero standards
I have nerdy hobbies
I'm losing my passion though. I have been so alone I cant even enjoy life anymore
Doomed to be alone for life
Im in the same situation as you. Always been a loner, I didnt seem to fit in anywhere. Couldnt even fit in with the weebs. So I just focused on becoming my own boss so I can buy a house and isolate myself, which is just what I did. I dont care about having friends anymore but a gf would be nice.
Well I just want to hang out with someone
I'm so alone I cant explain it anymore
You sound like a pathetic crybaby honestly, posting wojak and retarded frog memes whining about your life without even thinking of a solution
Find something you care about and join a Discord or whatever kids use and talk to people about it
But by the sound of it I wouldn't want to be your friend either seeing you sound completely spineless
Yea man
I get kicked out of discord all the time and silenced since everyone else wants to talk
People are obnoxious, you can give them everything and they're still stupid as bricks. Hope for the singularity and the autists will conquer the earth.
If you get kicked you're probably being obnoxious
develop some self-awareness
why do you want to be friend with them?
sound like you just want some one to talk to.
you could simply exhange them with other people and same situation will happend.
If you can't be happy alone, you won't be able to be happy with others. Find your peace, user. Love yourself.
A meeting of random people that you're not sure you've ever even communicated with isn't really a example of anything. Make friends online first before trying to meet them in person, if ever meeting them. Then build from there.
You don't know what you have OP, being a loner is the GOAT lifestyle. If its really killing you that much I strongly suggest adopting a dog. It can help a lot plus you might meet someone as you take it out for walks.
you are trying too hard to make friend instead of simply communicating
please you are too old for high school drama.
make individual friends first in public social areas before trying to go to some guys bbq
Why didnt they let me go to the bbq?
I just wanted to hang out with someone that day
greentext brah
> reddit
> discord
You are on thin fucking ice
Besides the obvious fact this is bait, why is OP deleting his own posts?
I'm all of out options
Hell I'd go to a Jow Forums meetup and funny enough I'd probably be kicked out again by fellow 4channers
>their "alpha" leader
So some ass said something but what did the guy who invited you say about this? Show us the conversation logs for that discord chat, and we'll tell you if there's a problem.
"alpha"(alpha & beta is BS) just dont like you.
what more is there to it?
call other person and say that you dont want to be part of a drama.
Why not? Im embarrassed and really lonely right now
I'll be spending holidays alone
I dont know how to be happy and alone anymore
I miss people it's been three years since I had tech friends
can he do that? not just simply report?
The guy who invited me said sorry man and I left the discord
He said okay well that guy who is the leader of their friends group said not to show up and drink their beer and eat their bbq
They were like 30 minutes away from me and they all said okay dont show up
The guy who invited me changed his mind
I'm fucked and doomed forever alone
>it's been three years since I had tech friends
did they ditch you because you're a spineless whiny fuckhead?
forget it. he can hide post
They were promoted and moved to another state
I lost all my friends
You make good money, go to a bar or a strip club if you're so lonely, or hop online a camgirl site. At this point you're just doing it to yourself.
Can he delete his own posts? Are you new or what?
OP you're a loner with the six figure job idk what youre complaining about. the world is your oyster. Buy an escort to hang with you or just stop caring lmao
We're all doomed mortals in a cold unforgiving universe. Do yourself a favor and stop whining and just enjoy something.
>Can he delete his own posts? Are you new or what?
Not new, i couldn't find a reason for deleting posts so i never used it.
Make sure your diet is healthy and you get enough exercise. Not too much exercise though, that can make you depressed.
Can you lend a brother a few bucks?
Do you suck good dick?
I don't know. I never leave my house to have met anyone and tried.
bump
i'm really lonely and need to figure out how to make friends, I'm literally a loner most of my life and I'm really interested in posting why i was always an outcast
focus on making close friends instead of more friends
I'm severely autistic btw but as i got older i became high functioning and i shined in the tech field quickly
When I had my first job, my first opportunity they needed someone to cover two shifts so i said if they company would pay I would work a double shift for total of 16 hours
I fucking loved it and I learned so much working those 16 hours shifts since everyone wanted to just go home but I would research shit and work on anything i can get my hands on
After being in this field for nearly 10 years and now turning 30 depression has hit me pretty badly. I only recently realized how alone i truly was
youtube.com
I'm so alone these days
I dont have a single friend anymorew
They all moved away
I also feel really sick today so this may be why im posting again
youtube.com
Stream videogames and be yourself.
Eventually you'll find other losers just like you to hang out with.
Provide proof of good looks.
>tfw exact opposite of op
>poor
>no job
>good looking
>easily get along with everybody
>people always inviting me to things
>turn them all down and just stay at home because i actually cant stand crowds and noise
end result is the same i guess, but at least its my own choosing
Depression is almost ALWAYS linked to diet.
Go NON ONIONS VEGAN (or as close as you can, the point is to eat a fuck load of veges and restrict fun food).
Stop drinking/drugs
Drink lots of water
2 day no faps
meetup.com and go to at least 1 a week
go to the gym at least once a week
Keto is the only diet that's proven to actually cure depression, get out of here with that vegan bullshit.
>Depression is almost ALWAYS linked to diet.
except when it isn't
is this actually true
Your insulin levels and blood sugar flatline and become 100% stable, when your body is in ketosis you also produce more growth hormones.
You can get pretty sick while your body switches over to ketone production from fats instead of relying on sugar/carbs but if you stick with it you end up with basically unlimited mental stamina.
>camgirl site
cringe
that's even more pathetic than being alone
no, he's just a retarded tripfag tripfagging
ketones are anti-inflammatory.
Depression is very closely linked to nerve inflammation and overstimulation, which are caused by processed sugars.
>t. retard
Veganism is a catch 22, the diet makes you crazy, and you have to be crazy to do the vegan diet.
The best thing you can possibly do is throw your desktop out the window never own one again. The desktop has single handedly ruined this generation.
b-but m-muh b-botnet user
my life might me shit, but at least the fbi and google can't see what I jerk off to. t-that must count for something, right?
I hate this shit. "hurr durr we took philosophy once and made comics about it"
user i feel you so much
too normie to hang with the geeks/nerds, but too nerdy/geeky to hang with the normies... shit's tough
as much as it makes me hate myself i learned how to keep either side in check, aka acting according to who you're around. my normie friends dont know i fix my own shit, and my nerd friends dont know i get a few drinks with the boys every now and then... life sucks but you gotta do what you gotta do
he just sounds too pathetic to hang with the geeks and nerds
friends are overrated. had a big friend circle when I was younger. but I moved past human relationship. i'm 35 and happy. no human contact means more me time. other humans are a waste of time. npc normies are too mundane. nerds are too sepergy. hate both groups.
>I made it
This is all that matters lad. It doesn't matter if you're an "outcast nerd"
Social grouping and anti-intellectualism are both spooks. Go play video games or something. Escapism is the shiniest gold on this planet.
AH-BLOO-BLOO
dumb fucking frog
Then realize that you're still a lonely weirdo and commit sudoku
Are there not people with similar interests that you work with that could be your friends? Have you ever tried getting a hobby outside tech, possibly related to another Jow Forums board for easy accessability? Hobbies lead to friends. If you are competent enough socially that you can have a successful career then you are capable of building a social life
What does this even mean? People aren't movie characters they dont care. Infact, normies probably think it's cool you fix your own shit and geeks and nerds definitely go out and have some drinks with work colleagues. Unless you're extremely young this situation you've painted makes no sense.
You're not alone on this path. There are countless others.
More pathetic than crying on Jow Forums about being lonely on Christmas? At least you'll make some roastie happy and see her tits
No we aren't. We were when Redwood was mod, but now all the stormfags want me dead or on my knees