Hello Jow Forums how good are you with people? i suck and i always end up destroying my relationships...

never had a relationship haven't had friends since i was 13

they usually dont talk to me and i kinda got butthurt because of it. i dont want to have friends anymore

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that must have hurt you reall badly. i hope you are okey

are you usually the one starting the conversation? maybe they got upset because they think you aren't interested in them

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i am quite introverted so it's not too bad, but i often go months without talking to anyone so it does start to take its toll after a while

sorry about what's happened with you though

well i only have contact with them through discord and its really inactive. most people dont really write anything there. i got extremily butthurt when they invited my sis and she told me how much of a loser i was to my friends. they tell me how much she is roasting me. so i left them. they didnt even object to it. that was when i realised they werent friends anymore

dont say it like i have gone through much. this is nothing compared to what suffering most people endure.

so you don't have friends irl?
why did they invite your sister

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well idk if they are my friends or not. though they sometimes hang out with me i guess. so probably
well just because my sister likes to mock me. thats it and they praise her for it

Try working on yourself. Become a better person. And then you will attract better people into your life, otherwise you will be a target for toxic narcissistic people or/and alone.

im trying that. well at least by never being mean. but i still suck at it. maybe it becomes easier after a while.

i cant talk anymore. im so sick and i feel cold and warm at the same time. thanks for being here for me. though you all wouldnt if you all would be with me for a long time.

Why they aren't right about you?

you should try hanging out with dark skinned gentlemans

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you should really start working out

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Being yourself is overrated. A constant stream of experiences forces changes on you anyways whether you like it or not. So it's not really a big deal to just be aware of it and help push that change in a slightly more useful direction

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i dont give a fuck about a normie's opinion

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I'm really bad with people.
Really really bad. I had a group of good friends that I used to hang out with online all the time and we had a lot of fun for years, but I fucked it up
I let my social anxiety control me and I left
I have been alone ever since...
don't let that happen to you, norway

i dont know... im really confused.
k
im gonna try my best

what do you think has made you have social anxiety?

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Good.
Be sure that you put effort into it, and tell your sister to fuck off
tell her that it really bothers you and you want her to stop, unless she is completely heartless she probably will

pretty sure it has something to do with the abuse I got as a kid

well she never stops and i do it towards here im the bad one. i can become more immune to it

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Cool story bro

You shouldn't have to become more immune to it user
but if you are doing it too then you should also stop, for all you know it could bother her just as deeply as it bothers you

i meant to said if i did it i would be the bad one. well it doesnt matter that much. one day i will move far away from my family

Oh, okay sorry.
If it hurts you then it does matter, at least try to tell her to stop.
Be honest with her about your emotions and don't let her just brush it off
Your mental health is important, user.

has it limited you when it comes to get a good job?

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thanks for being so nice to me. i hope you could spend your energi on someone better.

I love this gig you do.
You repeatedly make these cries for help and then when someone attempts to legitimately help you you tell them it would be better for them to try and help someone else.
You're such a fucking faggot man and nobody worth anything will treat you as more until you stop being such a pitiful, self-loathing piece of shit.

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thats... actually true. i cant say anything against this.

im posting from vr so comfy

okay nigger be a hardass for no reason you know if you're that bummed out about being wrong you can just ignore me right

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yes

You're welcome
remember that you deserve to be treated well, anyone who says otherwise is wrong.

come on man, that's not helping
it's a deflection mechanism that probably stems from his lack of self worth, reinforcing those feelings is entirely counter productive

It's not true, just because people make you feel that way doesn't make it so.
They don't know you like you do

since i started working out my mood has improved a little, it will make you feel better with yourself

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Nahhh bruh
I caught this guy before he started avatarfagging and namefagging and signing his threads and all this shit
What's not helping is all the people who indulge him.
You seem like a Canadian who's not completely retarded, so I'm gonna venture a guess and say you're relatively new around here.
Trust me on this one my dude, fagway is a lost cause and nothing you say will help him in the slightest.
Belgium says
>okay nigger be a hardass for no reason you know if you're that bummed out about being wrong you can just ignore me right

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well im kinda attention whoring really hard now though.
i have never worked out that much. but im really sick now so i dont feel like training right now.
thats true. i actually didnt expect to get help. i just wanted to let out my feelings. but i guess nice people like him found me thinking he could do something. im sorry i made this thread. im sorry if you dont believe me.

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how old are you?

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i see Belgium in vr wowsers

what

alternatively you could wrap up the perpetual pity party and listen to something a single sincere poster has said to you about not being human trash but I guess that would get in the way for your insatiable desire for self-deprecation

no seriously working out will make you stop feeling sick, at least it will help you not being THAT sick

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clip through his pants and tell me how big his benin is

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im posting from virtual reality

The only time I got ritsu to even try doing pushups was when I threatened self-harm if he didn't, and even then he only claimed to do five of them
He absolutely refuses to improve under any circumstances

looking but no touching

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il do it to you

I am aware of who he is and I don't think he is a lost cause
he is reaching out, I refuse to ignore that

expressing your emotions isn't automatically attention whoring just because you don't have anywhere else to express them

early twenties, why?

im trying to but im really hopeless. i know this is a bad answer... maybe i should just quit bant.
but im sick as in a virus. i feel really cold now even with my heater on almost full so im using a winter jacket while posting this.

you obviously wouldnt self-harm for someone on bant

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that still doesn't make any sense to me
are you on a browser inside a vr world or something

just stop it user. its totally fine i get why people are annoyed by me now and i should just stop.

Not exactly, no. I'm leaving out several details of the exchange, but the statement is still wholly true.

i'll 3d print one from silicone

nononnoooo

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i remember. it is.

oh thats fine then, rest for a few days and then start
so you are into self-harming?

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You're weird. I get the feeling you're not happy with how you are currently but you're not happy with the prospect of having to change either. Altho I guess that's not that weird now that I think about it, it sounds pretty normal

i will dont worry
that really sounds like me

I'm not masochistic, no.
I do take pride in success though, and sometimes pain is part of that.
Enduring and being unaffected by pain is enjoyable, if it's a part of something larger than just the pain.

yes im laying down under 4 blankets on vr browser barely gotta move

OwO nice penor so smoll

Are these internet friends or irl friends?

both dont worry though im getting better

Get some counselling, and a job for self confidence

that is doable

glitch in the matrix

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pain resistance is always related to testosterone levels

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I'm on a similar boat as OP, only my problem is that people just want to fuck me instead of being friends. Both online and irl, it's jarring desu. And when I deny them they either go on a rampage and start talking mad shit about me or start acting mean out of nowhere.

I legit haven't had a friend since middle school.

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You probably are no good with relationships but to be honest I don't think people are talking about you behind your back, it's all in your head.
I've never had a girlfriend. I like to be creative and love camera tech so I bet girls wouldn't like me because of that. Fuck girls. Once a girlfriend comes alone she will destroy any kind of creativity you have and destroy your hobbies.

have you tried not being gay

i believe in a future where you have frens! geez i got a sudden urge of motivation. from what i have learned is you have to keep talking or it will usually go bad. if you maintain contact and regular communication you can get very good frens if they like you though. well just dont overact your feelings and i did it... so i fuckked everything up.
idc if i get a bf or a gf. but getting such a relationship would probably strain me a lot. maybe you can find a gf who is interested in your hobbies.

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I play for both teams but that's irrelevant

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Just talk to people

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but sometimes you fucc that up. so you end up being denied to talk. well not forced to but it feels better not talking.

Stop fucking up talking

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you dont do that on purpose! you just have to umm... be really patient when you fucc it up i think

Stop typing like a fag

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Stop typing like a fag

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Stop typing like a fag

Stop typing like a fag

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have you tried not being gay

Would you like to see a video I made fren?

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nah uh
sure !

Their jokes actually make sense, or they're just talking random shit about you?

Have you
Stop typing like a fag

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im not, are you?

well they do it to mock me because im probably very pathetic
fag1
/faɡ/
British
noun
noun: fag; plural noun: fags
1.
informal
a tiring or unwelcome task.
"it's too much of a fag to drive all the way there and back again"
synonymer:
chore, slog, grind, drudgery, exertion, trouble, bother, pain, hardship, bore; informalsweat
"it's too much of a fag to drive all the way there and back"
2.
a junior pupil at a public school who does minor chores for a senior pupil.
"a fag at school who has suffered a well-earned beating"

youtube.com/watch?v=WDLKDSUFocQ&t=
I made this a few days ago

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the music and the dirty buildings made me think it was a wartorn country... its not wartorn right?