>be me, mid-to-late 20s >finally get mse and banking it >one of the go-to engineers in this town >paid off loans, got my first house, everything is set >livingthelife.jpg >meet qt3.14 who's from my home country >village isn't far from mine, either >she's finishing her medical degree, and poised to intern at a nearby hospital >fuckingyes.wav >we hit it off in no time >after a few dates and hiking trips, our relationship becomes official >ffw few years >third anniversary, got her a promise ring, she's banking it at the hospital, and I'm still killing it at my job >everything's exactly how I wanted it to be; could not be happier >american dream, lol >lately, she met this one guy who stuck out to me >white, late-20s, slightly overweight, musician, still lives with mom >don't know why he's sticks out to me, but because of details above, don't see him as a threat >they seem good friends, so why care? >over time, she's more cordial towards him >closer >they text almost always >mostly cringy memes from reddit or imgur >but, again, don't see him as a threat, so don't pay it any mind >eventually, she's more distant >not as enthusiastic to see me >texts me less; and what messages she sends are brief and to the point >no longer the eager and rhapsodic writing that characterised her style >no more of the emojis and typed out :))), etc >they resemble more of what I send my employees than friend or family >soon, she's not as bubbly or jubilant as before; treats me like a passerby than anything else >doesn't want to cuddle or get sexy in bed >still lives in my house, but her presence feels non-existent now >finally, come home to her with packed bags and suitcases >says she's leaving me for the white guy, and that she's in love with him >my brain 404s, as I can't see why'd she choose such a loser over an engineer making six-figures >but soon she's gone >like that. forever
Anyone else? I think I'm finally seeing what misogynists and robots are talking about.
you were a fool. if someone got lovey dovey with my girl i would fuck them first to assert my dominance.
Ayden Parker
I feel bad for you user, let that bitch go, she will come begging at you in no time, when that happens remember she didn't hesitated to replace you with a fat redditor neck-beard.
Did she have a bad relationship with her father? If so, don't even feel bad.
David Stewart
you didnt treat her as property. he did. thats why she left bro. you were being too beta towards her.
Zachary Edwards
Youre probably uptight and too smart for her or maybe made her work too hard or had too high of expectations for her. Sounds like she left for a low-pressure relationship. Youre probably too goal or mental-health oriented. Its not fun when you think everything through and cant go with the flow. He is probably a total loser and she likes that
Dominic Morgan
>"she should love me because I make six-figures!" Looks like you were a misogynist from the start. There are plenty of gold diggers around though, so don't sweat it OP.
Grayson Barnes
hesitate*
Brayden Thompson
>imagine being such an asshole that a woman leaves your 6 figures for someone who lives with their mum
you might be a dick we dont know Also, girls dont leave if the sex isnt better
sorry. You should just face that now and get it out of the way.
Youre probably a great guy and youll meet someone just keep doing your thing, loving yourself and stay approachable and positive. Everyone deserves to be happy
Logan Garcia
The heart wants what the heart wants.
You're from the same village, both very similar, etc....
Its honestly no surprise she left for something new and possibly exciting.
That other guy might have a lot characteristics you dont. To you he is a looser to her he is the opposite
Lucas Smith
3 years is not that much. Especially in your twenties. There are people out here suffering 9 year losses and even 15 or 20. Its fine. Youre fine. Get a tinder date to bounce back, take her to sushi and let her talk the whole time. Youll feel better.
Benjamin Collins
I reside to believe this happened in the way OP presents it. OP is probably bad in some way, or the other guy actually looks ultra handsome.
Luis James
>posts anime >claims to make six figures
yeah, ok. Maybe in your hentai fiction but I aint' buying it.
You fucked up somewhere and didn't recognise it, or perhaps did recognise it, and didn't do anything about it. So she left you and moved on to the other guy. That she didn't move out physically is irrelevant. She didn't "leave you for the other guy". She left you. And moved on to the other guy.
Camden Hernandez
Race mixing is wrong user, she finally realized that after her friend introduced her to TRS
>in a relationship for a few years >living together >not married >no babies >get promise ring, not engagement ring, to let her know she can just keep waiting Time is ticking by. Is she supposed to wait forever? Be more traditional if you want her to be.
>called out for inaccuracy >"nuh uh! I was just pretending!" K.
Anthony Russell
>home country >village >non-white >anime >doctor GF
Pajeet, my son?
Asher Gray
And have her run away with half his money, th3 kids and the house? Ahhahahahahahaha Ask me how i know you're underage
Cameron Diaz
I'm not the faggot who baited you, I just pointed out you're an even bigger faggot for replying to obvious bait.
Xavier Reed
If she were a gold digger, would things have turned out how they did?
Benjamin Lee
This. If you live in a country with strict laws about that kind of stuff, woman gets the house and money, etc., just do not bother doing it. Even a perfect angelic innocent woman can flip.
Dylan Ross
music master race git gud
Isaiah Evans
>run away with the kids You're saying that as if kids were somehow an asset.
Joseph Morales
This is the technology board, not the sob story board. I think you're looking for
>I'm not the faggot who baited you >replied anyway K.
Charles Perez
>A Purity Ring is a promise to remain pure until marriage. It is a commitment between the couple to engage in abstinence until marriage. The ring serves as a reminder to the couple as they struggle to keep strong to their commitment. geez, is it that hard for normalfags to not have sex?
Joshua Myers
>Jow Forums - Blogshit and Faggotry
Dominic Gonzalez
A fucking promise ring after THREE YEARS of it becoming official?
Parker King
You know, I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say she made the right choice leaving you. You're a whiny insufferable faggot. She can do better. She doesn't even need your money because she makes good income on her own. You are worthless. With any luck you're employer will see you as equally as worthless as she did and will terminate your ass and put you out on the street where people like you belong.
Aaron Bailey
>>my brain 404s, as I can't see why'd she choose such a loser over an engineer making six-figures Not all women are greedy whores. Some just want a nice, entertaining man.
Sebastian Rogers
whoever made that image missed a spot while redacting
Xavier Watson
shoulda dropped her as soon as she started texting that guy dumbass
Lincoln Clark
she left cause you're boring
Kevin Phillips
lmao imagine living inside this bitch's head.
John Price
Is this r9k? Jump off a bridge, you dumb faggot.
Isaac Rodriguez
I hope you're just larping, OP but just in case you aren't then it's really simple. You are stable and reliable but she now finds you boring. The new guy is exciting for her and that's why she left you for him. Provided nothing successful happens to that musician then she will leave that guy too for someone else. Hypergamy is a bitch.
Ethan Fisher
It's a hard pill to swallow but the simple reality is that if a woman's pussy starts tingling for another man she doesn't give a single fuck about any rational argument about why it's a bad idea and why she will regret it later. They are extremely animalistic in that respect and very few of them can resist. If you really care about having a lasting long term relationship the only thing you can do is make sure you always improve yourself. Even if you're successful in your career that's not enough. You still need to have interesting hobbies and constantly keep her entertained and surprised, just like you would a child. Personally I think all that bullshit is to much trouble and I'd rather just use prostitutes for sex and a dog for companionship. Women have no sense of honor or duty or responsibility, just the sad reality of life.
Levi Rodriguez
>fat >still got the girl Bad news OP. He's packing over 7 inches...
Juan Clark
holy fucking yikes kys
Hudson Evans
Yes, chads and Staceys don't understand how to practice abstinence or jerk it to porn as they always made fun of "loser incels who retreat into fantasys". Thus they commit life ruining decisions and fuck themselves metaphorically as they get fucked literally. Then the number of weak willed stupid morons with poor impulse control increases as they breed. Look at how normalfags call everyone that abstains from sex virgins/incels. Anyone who uses virgin as an insult is a moron in this cycle, and anyone that incorrectly conflates incels with virgins likely is as well.
Parker Barnes
girls bad
Tyler Howard
Honestly guys who aggressively hit on girls who are already in a relationship are the fucking worst. If they are GIGA chads it's okay. But the manipulative and physically weak type who does that shit are some of the worst people i can imagine.
Isaiah Hill
Indian men are the male equivalent to black women.
You're the least desired male. An Indian 10/10 male has the same sexual value as a white 6/10.
Liam White
black 10/10 > white 9/10
Kayden Scott
Black men are behind whites and some Arabs(Persians mostly). Still fairly desired. Latinos can potentially be more attractive, but the amount of non goblin Latinos is low.
Angel Rivera
god i wish that were me
Sebastian James
Chins up man. Don't think of it as losing her, think of it as dodging a bullet. I've literally seen this situation play out, what I predict, is that starry-eyed sensitive musician guy is months from fucking the next gal who comes, along, if not already doing it. In the coming months, she'll realize what a colossal mistake she has made, and will come back to you crying. Whether you take her back in is up to you I guess, but I'd advise against it.