south asians and east asians living in the west, how hard is it to get a gf for you? is it as hard as Jow Forumseddit makes it out to be? I've been frequenting /asian masculinity/ subreddit and dating seems nightmare mode if youre asian
Im latino and It's pretty hard for me but i do get dates , so I was wondering how it is for you
Central Asian here and it's pretty easy
I was in a fraternity with a bunch of Indian guys. Greekshit wasn't my scene, but I still dropped in on meetings once in a while. Lot of the Indian kids started off awkward and skinny as fuck but completely transformed by the end of university: learned to dress better, went to the gym, etc. I'm in my mid-twenties and a lot of them have serious GFs or are getting married to decent-looking white and brown grills now.
Do note that I'm talking about second-generation Hindoos.
asian masculinity is literally asian incels complaining about white boys stealing their women lmao
do you look mongloid?
as I thought, it's more of a cultural barrier to get pussy for south asians, but not so for east asians
That guy is an Argentinian though.
Yes I am dark and have mongloid features
you might be right, this indian guy seems way to sensitive
>Hello r/AsianMasculinity. Indian guy here who wants to vent a little.
>Recently I found something that really bothered me. I found some videos of a Victoria's Secret Model named Taylor Hill that show her mocking Indians. These are not leaked videos, she posted them herself on her Vine and Snapchat.
>here are the videos where she mocks an Indian accent
>Here is another video where she and her boyfriend are apparently filming and mocking a South Asian driver. The audio is lost though. instagram.com
>I understand that white Western women are generally not attracted to Indian men, due in part to eurocentric beauty standards and also the lack of proper representation of Indian men in sports and media. I can deal with that. But I can't deal with people just straight up mocking and ridiculing Indian men. Especially freaking Victoria's Secret models. This wasn't some stormfront loser. It was a very attractive and famous model, someone who a lot of girls admire and idolize. That's the part that bothers me. It's not very good for the image of Indian men when hot models casually make fun of Indians and Indian culture for quick laughs. This has to change. Indians can't just sit around and allow themselves to be mocked and stereotyped. When a public figure posts stuff like this on their social media, they have to be called out, preferably by Indian public figures. Indians must demand respect from white Westerners.
>Also, I hope this Taylor Hill chick eventually gets called out for those insensitive videos. So far those videos have gotten no attention.
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how many one night stands and gfs have you had? i hear ausi girls are easy, (not to discredit any of your success)
I’m an east asian incel in a uni right now. I have zero idea on how to interact with women of any race
I have never thought of getting one.
t.Wizard
i was in the same shoes as you till i was 19 and learned rsd game
Sind Sie Asiatischer in schland? und warum hast du dir gedacht nie eine gf zu holen brudi?
my wife chino is so cute
someone needs to make song about this
It ain't really hard unless you're a manlet. I got about 30 pussy last year before settling for one.
t. 6.3 mongoloid
Post pic. I really doubt there’s central Asians in NZ
What’s rsd?
I think Indians do have to cope with stereotypes about smelling bad or being creepy, but that doesn't seem to be much of an issue for second-generation or U.S.-raised Indians. Most of the brown guys I know may as well be white: they can't speak their mother tongue, listen to rap, play basketball and are culturally disconnected from South Asia save for whenever it suits them.
My friend moved here from Vietnam when he was 16 and he's been dating a Mexican girl for years
I think FOBs tend to have a better time of it because they're often more masculine
Yeah there are some 2nd gen Indian chads in my uni. I guess they are North Indians or Punjabi or whatever, but they are all over 6 feet tall and are ripped as hell. They look kinda like middle easterners desu
real social dynamics
kind of sad that theyre so white washed but i guess if it helps them get bitches, fresh off the boat indians i can see being at a huge disadvantage because most are creepy and smelling bad since their culture is so different
Are you Guatemalan?
No my parents are Chinese why?
and how old are you now?
>I understand that white Western women are generally not attracted to Indian men, due in part to eurocentric beauty standards
When will chinks and streetshitters just finally realize it has nothing to do with "beauty standards" but that they are just a repulsive in the case of indians and effeminate and weak-looking in the case of asians?
late twenties (dont want to give age cuz fbi)
it has a lot to do with western beauty standards, if u were to go to an amazonian forest and meet a tribe there no woman would find your weird ass attractive
South Asian here. Had no problem. It's easy when you stop thinking of yourself as someone whose identity is mainly from factors you can't choose, such as skin color, ethnicity etc. I'm me.
And yeah, what I think is all fine and dandy, but that doesn't mean others will think that way too. To them, I'm South Asian and thus, am an embodiment of a lot of stereotypes. You can't do anything with those people. Just ignore them. They are trash. I know I'm better than them and that's all that matters.
There are so many people, you are going to find someone that you can connect with. Simple as.
I guess it's easy for me because I've lived everywhere my whole life so this whole tribalism thing isn't really my thing. I don't even register people's ethnicities or skin colors lmao It's just not important to me and I refuse to be friends/acquaintances with people that do.
good philosophy , but how good is your game with grills?
fem Korean here.
Pretty easy for a korean boy to get a western gf these days, I receive messages from them startimg with "annyonghaseyo" quite often.
I don't know about the South Asians.
how many gfs you’ve actually had?
>its just beauty standards breh that's why I am still a virgin
>abbos cant get girls its not because of their appearances its the wayciss beauty standards
lol cope harder shitskin
im gypsy so technically south asian in ethnicity
2ez4me honestly legit just b yourself
wtf I thought everyone hated gypsies there
bro you sound like you have a lot of pain and hate in your heart, if you actually got pussy you wouldnt be such an angry cuck online
sorry. I just get irrationally angry when spics post under the U.S flag. I don't personally hate you bro (but you still have to go back)
I'm 22, have had 1 girlfriend. Honestly, that was mostly for experience of being in a relationship because I don't live in a country for more than 2-3 years so having a gf isn't really worth it. I've had sex casually but like, I'm not really into that shit to be honest.
My comment was a more holistic viewpoint of interaction between people regardless of gender. When it comes to girls, I have no problem communicating, having proper conversations about anything or any of that shit. However, sometimes, you're gonna get that with women (and men) and well, it happens. It's not gonna work out and that's fine. Just move on. Basically, I've had no problem making friends and with the people I did, I just ignored them. Life is too short so I have no reason to worry about them lol
I realize I may be in the minority in terms of experiences though. A lot of people probably have it harder than me.
they do lul
get some pussy for once in your life it will calm you down, and id rather stay here and make u seeth
how do you get gfs then?
dont worry to get gf.
u can change to *girl*;
I'm east asian and none of the east asian girls here appeal to me because they've all been westernized.
California btw
how many girls have you had sex with?
sounds like a cope bro, every dude wants a chick , but whats ur plan? arrange marriage with a traditional asian woman?
6. casual sex is lame desu, wanking is much better and you can actually jack off to things that the person you're having sex with doesn't wanna do.
people are retarded, lot of people here have gypsy gf/bf and hate gypsies, in their minds if you are their friend you are "different", when they get into arguments often the fact they are gypsy is brought up as insult
i legit had people tell me that they have nothing against individual gypsies, but if they could they would gas gypsies as a group
people here legit tell to me that cuz i work and dress nicely etc im not a gypsy, not even realizing how racist that is, but social awareness about minorities is extremely low here so i dont even bother explaining
where were the from?
why do they tell you that to your face? do you look like ethnic slovakians?
All white except one - brown. Croatian/Croat, Indian and American
I am a social outcast, have always been minus the school life, which was mandatory for 13 years.
sad
>why do they tell you that to your face?
sometimes they just want to justify themselves after labelling entire ethnic group as subhumans that should be killed not realising they are talking to member of said group lol
which leads to your question, i am mixed so my skin is lighter but i have dark eyes and hair, i think its quite obvious i am not white but lot of people are surprised but then again most of people are not very aware of their surroundings
Yes it is but because I'm antisocial and never leave my apt or talk to people outside of work.
But I've hooked up plenty of women, and one time got 3 numbers (fucked 2) in one night just chatting girls up in the bus while drunk. I'm a taller hapa though, and decent looking. I wish I could just get cute Asian girlfriend
i wish you success brother
I wish you success too