Culture Pals /cp/

Good. She’s going to come visit again this summer

Again? Tell me more, senpai.

French qt gf I met last year. We’ve visited/traveled with each other 3 times so far

A French gal? Nice! Tell me a bit about her if you don't mind me asking.

Don't have a qt anymore, but this russian girl I met on ip a few years ago will be coming to Portugal for the second time. We barely talk anymore, but on valetines day she told me she was visiting so obviously, as a pathetic loser, I got my hopes high.

Still waiting for the one who might have blocked me on whatsapp to message back on interpals.

Might be going out for a coffee date with the qt I know irl from university tomorrow. She has a fuckload of homework though so she'll let me know for sure later tonight. It might seem like she's using the homework as an excuse but she told me that she doesn't want to make me think she's avoiding me and feels kind of bad we can never spend time together outside of class.

Good luck with that, my dude.

I'd definitely chase the girl from your uni tbqh to see where that goes.

She’s very smart and nice. During our trips we always split the costs evenly. She has high standards tho. When we travel we never stay in hotels rated less than 4 stars

Sounds like high maintenance, high reward type of deal. Seems good, do you see it leading anywhere more serious or are you just enjoying each other's company for now? And are French people really as pretentious as the stereotypes deems them to be?

Definitely going to focus on her more than foreign qts. Pretty ironic that my dislike of Canadian girls is what brought me to interpals only for a Canadian girl to be someone who could potentially be the reason I stop using it.

she’s not really high maintenance tho. She doesn’t wear make up, lipstick or do her nails or anything like that. I never have to wait for her to get ready when we go out to do things. Well it is serious. But I don’t know hat will happen in the future.

What was the cutest opening msg you've gotten? Some Finnish qtie msged me something along the lines of "I can make meatballs!" and it seemed really fucking random at first, but then I figured I put I need help with Asian cuisine so it made me smile a bit. Not really interested in her, but so far she's been very helpful in terms of tourist destinations in Finland and seems eager to answer most of my questions regarding the topic, also offered to teach me how to do Swedish meatballs so I guess that's nice.

IRL pursuits are probably a safer bet than doing the same online and there's obvious pros like being able to see the person more often and shit, so godspeed and good luck!

High maintenance in the sense that she has high standards or am I using it wrong?

I guess you didn’t use it wrong tho. I interpreted it different

Also, assuming you're the same dude I talked to earlier, is whatsapp something that's commonly used on interpals to seal the deal or to just keep in contact with the person you might have struck a cord or what?

Sleep time

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both. It’s just a million times easier to communicate. You can talk in real time instead of having to wait to see messages on IP

Gonna go to sleep as well. Good night, man!

Aight, thanks. Off to dreamland now.

Euros are gone

New worlders arise

Time to hunt Venezuelan QTs and send 'em the poorfag pasta

I've produced more oxytocin in the past two days than in the past two years

>tfw no 1st world gf
I missed you guys. how have y´all been?
>qt answered
yes!.jpg
>it has barely a line
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what do I do with so little information? i waited for about a month for her answer :c
>implying you´ll find noticeable amounts of venezuelans on IP

but i want to see you sending them the pasta.

Have you started messaging North American qts yet?

are you a qt?

unironically a "genderfluid" messaged me, she is nice.

I no longer have any qts. Sad.

Be careful, pals.
Just remember this,

who /TooScaredToLogInCauseCrazyUkraineGirlStockingYourProfile/?

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HOW DO I MAINTAIN CONVERSATION AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I FEEL LIKE IM SPEAKING TO GENUINE RETARDS

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Careful with what?

I have lost grips with this website.

I used to use ten years ago when I was 21 years old, had high success and had sex with I would say 10-15 or so women all from different countries.

Now I'm 30 and from the looks of everyone on this website they look like shut-in introvert losers. What the fuck happened here. I thought it was just the 25-30 age range that had horrendous girls so I filtered from 19-23 and it's the same. The girls look like absolute fucking outcasts from society. This wasn't the case last time I used this site in 2013. Needless to say I'm done after 2 days. The talent displayed is appalling. Bye

once upon a time i wrote topic cards so i would know what to say next but i thought, i was being too hard on myself.
some convos die and it's not your fault it's just that you and the other person you're talking with don't connect.

I've been doing this for a few days now and it's a bit of a shit experience so far
The few whoever reply are too dumb to talk about anything and they have broken English anyway, so meaningful conversation is out of the question
And seems like everyone else has 3-5 line profiles with stuff like "I like music and traveling"
Kinda meh

Morning people

my experience so far has been decent convo for about 2 hours, then they go offline for about 11 hours to eventually never hearing from them again.

She also thinks he's autistic

that's because every girl gets 50 messages every 20 minutes they're online and 5 for every hour they're offline. Those 11 hours is enough for your message to be swamped away by a hundred arabs and turks never to be seen again unless you message again and look like a nagging cunt.

This is unironically good practice when you are austistic. I did the same until I didn't need them much anymore

cuz anime watching high school drop out girls with tons of daddy issues are crying for attention and a pen pal site with other losers is good choice to get som. u know these girls that create new account every week and try so bad to be funny but actually are boring af. then let's chat politics and shit just bcuz it makes them look better girls. fucking lmao.

is there any better pen pal sites now or is it dead scene full of desperaet attention seeking?

myea basically
I'll give it a go for another week or so and then go passive mode
overall a waste of time

Morning paki

Not a paki

I started to use this website in order to find qt's, but now I just learn about their country. Genuinely interesting wtf

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Kek. Mate the majority of the women on interpals are the most boring cunts out, good luck finding the 1 in a million girl who's actually decent to talk to.

fuck off Chad

Hello, my name Borat Sagdiyev

Hi Borat

Hi Abdul.

Not Abdul

Ready for summer lads

Time to lift

You will never get this

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just relapsed on my 3rd day of nofap. why is this so fucking hard?

don’t look at porn

I didn't, I looked at pics of my qt. Need to fix my erectile dysfunction before meeting her

Why? It costs no more than 1000$ night.

stop putting your hand near your Benis.

you know /AnnaChu?

I've had this strange feeling in my groin area after not having at least one ejaculation per day. I feel so much better having ejaculated now, but I know this won't fix my ED

- daily reminder fapping means your body has to use energy producing cum, energy it could be using on gains
- daily reminder fapping rewires your brain to associate orgasm with sitting alone in your bedroom and removes the emotional connection with another person
- daily reminder transcending your carnal desires is a key step on the road to gains glory

We're all gonna make it lads

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>daily reminder fapping means your body has to use energy producing cum, energy it could be using on gains
Trips means the truth

I'm a habitual masturbator and have wanked off religiously once or twice a day since I was 13/14 - I'm 24 now. The only sexual contact I've ever had was with a prostitute in Amsterdam a few years ago where I could only maintain a semi, and an attempt with a real life girl that was attracted to me but again I couldn't get it up.

I'm meeting my online qt in June - she proclaims to love me very much. She's had two preivous boyfriends, one that used to beat her and the other was impotent. I feel like this is my last attempt at a normal relationship before I reach the point of no return. If I fuck this up I will probably descend into the rest of my adult life not capable of a normal relationship with a woman, and will retreat into masturbating in the solace of my home.

>removes the emotional connection with another person
As if I ever had an emotional connection with another person to begin with

Where is your qt from?

Also, if she really cares about you then you shouldn’t worry. She will take care of you.

3 months is enough to rewire your brain away from this, the key is to avoid porn, that's what really rots the mind

Why ruin it before you get the chance to experience it?

russia

>Also, if she really cares about you then you shouldn’t worry. She will take care of you.

Her previous bf had ED. She said she's never been so humiliated in her life, and that she lost all respect she ever had for him. I feel like this would be a deal breaker for her.

You think 3 months is enough? And if porn is what rots the mind, is masturbation really that bad?

In the 3 days I managed not to masturbate, I found myself thinking about porn and my favourite pornstars

>And if porn is what rots the mind, is masturbation really that bad
Yes, porn just intensifies all the negative aspects of masturbation

>In the 3 days I managed not to masturbate, I found myself thinking about porn and my favourite pornstars
For sure the first hurdles are hard but it'll get easier over time, take up boxing or something if you need to release your grug frustrations

You probably don’t have ED.. did the doctor tell you this?

>For sure the first hurdles are hard but it'll get easier over time, take up boxing or something if you need to release your grug frustrations

I'm a muay thai fighter and I lift weights - I train 6 days per week. The one day I have off per week is an absolute nightmare. Even if I kill myself in the gym for 2 hours I still have random boners and think about porn.

No a doctor hasn't diagnosed me with ED, but the 2 sexual encounters I've had I couldn't get it up. It may be self diagnosis but I'm pretty sure I'm not wrong about it. I had a girl throwing herself at me but I literally couldn't get an erection - what else could it be?

If you can keep yourself occupied those other days once a week isn't too bad

Dude. You’re over-reacting

You paid a hooker. No fucking wonder you couldn’t get it up. You were nervous and your nerves prevented it from happening. You were not actually comfortable in the situation. You were intimidated by the whore, so your body could not activate its sexual senses because your brain was in fight or flight mode.

It will be different with your Russian gf. If you actually like her and care about her, if she actually cares about you. You won’t have issues. She will take care of you and make you as comfortable as possible. I had a very long dry spell before I met my qt, and she nursed my dick the first time we did anything. She wanted me to be relaxed and comfortable

I literally never touched my willy until I was 19, didn't stop me from being an autistic retard who couldn't talk to women

Lifting is the solution to that

That’s not true. I know a guy who is very fit and totally autistic when it comes to women

Lol at this white roastie raging against Asian girls

/greekwoman

Lies

They'll probably let him get away with more autism than a more average guy though.

Maybe if he wasn’t so socially awkward. He’s really fit. He practically lives in the gym. But he only works out late at night when nobody is there. I remember one time about a year ago, we went to a bar and got some beers. This girl came and sat down next to him and he just looked comfortable and acted like she didn’t exist. She start to talk to him and he just looked at her with wide eyes and didn’t know what to say. After a few minutes she looked confused and said to him “what are you doing tomorrow night?” And he looked at her and said “I’m going to lift”. She smiled and said “can you teach me?” And he just said “no. I work out alone”. And then put his head down and looked at his beer. She left after that

He doesn't let women distract his lifts what's not Chad about that?

right. But I’m just saying that lifting doesn’t cure social awkwardness

Based

Talked to her, she's unironically b&r

Proofs ?

Just talk to her yourself so long as you're white she'll respond

How is it that fat people can be so confident and make women wet? This fat dude literally controls the judges and clearly affects both of the models.

Start at 2:00

youtu.be/cf8zxj7n1cs

wait a minute, that picture...

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What about her? Is she from PornHub or something?

yeah
also what is the deal with greenray?

Is she really from pornhub? Post her name

I want to message new qts but I have 0 energy right now. Just exhausted and don't feel like pretending to be interested in conversation
Last 2 qts I was talking to for a couple of weeks were hiding bfs from me even though I was flirting with them
I just want to sleep all day

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Melissa Mendiny, she's all over /s/