Fellow virgins,
You ever feel like you don't WANT to have sex because you still feel like it's inappropriate for you to do so? It feels like when I was a kid and I wouldn't watch people kissing because it was gross, that's how I feel now regarding sex.
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no, i am virgin and i want sex, i can't stop thinking about it, it's driving me insane
Sex is the best though
Ever seriously consider the possibility you might be gay? Not even joking
me too, i've even had dreams about it, last night to be precise
but the concept of asking a girl out, and then bringing her home, and having sex with her sounds strange to me
i know i like boys, and i like girls too, but as i've said before, i just don't want to have sex with them
congratulations
you are a based asexual
So go have sex, silly.
then don't do that. go to her place or a hotel. Or try tinder there are girls on there who don't care about being wine and dined
Look, I'm just gonna say it. I don't care if you have wild monkey sex that makes a movie feel tame, or if you grind awkwardly at a hole hoping the girl will notice your dick is actually in there, sex is overrated.
It's so...okay, that happened. What now? Who gives a shit?
been dabbling on that too, but i masturbate to girls and boys so what the hell man?
maybe in the near future when i don't live with my parents anymore
>I'm asexual
other people: sex?
me: no
I think the problem may be you're insecure. You find it "inappropriate" because there are things you don't like about your self
true i hate everything about me but it's still not up to that level of severity where i feel the need to 180 myself
closet fag
waifus are better
Just hire a prostitute.
Sex gets boring after you do it a 1894 times. :(
why is my gf somfucking horny all the time for 7 years
I feel more or less like op, except the liking boys part. I believe that sex makes a woman dirty and worthless, that women who actively look for it are sluts, and I don't want to contribute to that.
inb4 hypocrite/sour grapes, I have physically fled from women's invitations to sex
based succubus gf
is that you?
heck no, just some lad i've been crushing over
if that was me why would i be here lol
how do you rate yourself?
not anymore. i guess i've accepted it in a way
I feel similar.
Always felt like that.
For some reason I can't imagine myself doing sex at all. It appears so wrong to me and I can't do anything about it. If I try to come up with some sort of erotic fantasy where I would be a participant my brain just cuts me off saying it is not you, sex is wrong. So I just stop.
I thought that maybe I am just one of those people who were not made for this but I still get sad from time to time from the feel of loneliness, the feel of lacking some sort of soulmate I can talk to anytime, who would be there for me, someone I could hug.
I tried to persuade myself that it is not a person that I want but rather the feel of comfort itself that may be replaced by something else, but so far I have a hard time in doing so.
It is strange. I feel like despite being 26yo I still don't understand myself as a person and neither what do I want from life.
usually, when i don't have sex for long periods of time, i dont really feel the urge for sex.
but when i have sex several time for week, after a few days, i really want to have sex again
Damn, russiaboy... :( good luck finding what you are looking for fren
I just only like having sex once a month. But my gf cries and thinks she is ugly if i dont have sex alot more than that. She is beautoful and sexy but she just cant understand how i feel, which is less sex for many reasons :(
I am asexual too op because of my bepis
i know how you feel user. i have the same feeling sometimes.
i know its just not something for me. Only for other people.
The barrier of entry is just so fucking high. You need to have very good of all 3 of looks, social status/money and personal charisma or off the charts of one while also having an exact knowledge of your place and be socialised to instinctively know all the social cues by being socially relevant in a wider social circle with both genders from your early teens on just to be apart of the game. And then you have to be much better than your competition as well, and theres almost no room to fuck up anymore with social media and current autism about sexual life. You either get it done or you can't see them for a couple of months or years.
As fucking if I'd ever get there. Especially with women being on average much more attractive than men.
I dont know user. I only needed friends. I met the my girl through friends, i just talkted to her a few times and that' it. Now i have sex with her every week
no it's more like i'm not particularly interested i think
i'm not asexual though
maybe i'm just scared somehow
Malays and Indos are so proper when it comes to sex sometimes, it's the way it should be.
The thing that nobody ever told me is to live at my pace, I fucked a lot when I was younger but now I want a commited relationship.
ive got some friends they just don't have female friends. And the only way ive made anything more than acquaintances was throguh a friend i made at 14. I've ha a couple of chances with chicks which were obviously interested i just have 0 instinct or knowledge and everybody else always just turns up dating away from the public eye.
i dunno im just in a depressed venting mood which i get sometimes i couldn't handle a gf anyway i hide too much away and need too much space. Just want to get it done so i can look people in the eye when they bring it up and be able to move on with my life.
Sex is overrated and I'd be happy to return to the times I was still a virgin if I could carry the knowledge of what sex is like with me. The only thing that keps bugging me about virginity was that I didn't know what I was missing out on, which isn't much unelss you really want children.
1/10 desu
high five, rus
It's not important if you're having it, but really important if you're not having it. Sort of like food.
Are you fat by any chance? Losing weight really is a gamechanger. I couldn't believe the kind of attention I got from women when I was thinner.
I don't want sex anymore because I hate myself and feel like I don't deserve to
If you feel lonely by yourself, you are in bad company
now yeah but i wasn't a year and a half ago and same shit
the only fun thing i do now is get super drunk 2 days a week with friends an thats a fucking lot of calories and i can't get myself to eat
>You need to have very good of all 3 of looks, social status/money and personal charisma or off the charts
Now you know this isn't true. Ugly, fat and poor people get laid all the time, not necessarily with other equally poor, fat and ugly people. People who get laid are the majority. If you're an adult and don't, there is always some specific reason. In my case it's fear of women's sexuality, in other Jow Forums posters' cases it may be something else. But being ugly/poor/fat is not what stops you because it doesn't stop other people.
I find everything sexual to be kinda disgusting desu.
Whenever I jack off I end up feeling grossed out by myself.
yeah but im not willing to go through the public humiliation infront of most of my peers before i get there since that defeats the purpose of getting social capital
one of my friends does that with fat chicks and has a crack with anybody but he manages to not feel any shame even though he's laughed at or disdained by so many people because of it.
i guess this is a facet of the russian male mortality/depression/alcoholism/drug abuse/suicide rate phenomenon
How much of BITCH can you be?
>1/10
please tell me you're kidding
at least 6/10?
I don't consider sex as something I need to pursue in my life, if I have a sex partner I would have sex with her, but if not then I wouldn't, it isn't like if I don't have sex I would die or something
I simply don't understand why so many people want a sexual partner or having sex
I also have no interest in having any kind of relationship with anyone not even my relatives, I simply interract to others when I have something to do with them, if I don't have something to do with them I prefer being alone
you may know me as
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who?
Everyone has sex
All of my friends
Every person I see on the street
It's the most normal thing in the world for everyone except me
I feel so left out and isolated
doesn't it make you feel special?
No
I want to be normal
looks pretty normal to me
it is over
it seems like the scholar's neck
true, i lurch forward too much
Yeah, I've become extremely afraid of intimacy because I feel like I don't deserve it.
literally me
I would be afraid to kiss and bang a chick because I wouldn't want to embarrass myself