>be me >100k wagecuck >barely manage to save 1k a month after rent, gf, and bills >avg wedding is 30k >avg ring is 8k >so say 40k to get married while saving face >1k a month >40k >im expected to set not only myself, but my new family back 3+ years to save face
>marriage its 2018 and im baffled why everyone is still falling for this meme
Jayden Thompson
Why are you marrying a woman who wants a big wedding? This is how cuck debt slaves are born.
Evan Rogers
So what are you wasting money on OP? I don't understand how I save more money than you and make less than you
Lucas Perez
This. So happy my azn gf wants a small, private and cozy wedding.
James Foster
>Make 100k a year and only save 1k a month WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU PAYING FOR BESIDES THE WEDDING?
Hudson Garcia
>8k I procrastinated getting a rin g that wasn't a Minnie mouse ring so long that my fiancee got us silicon e ones
Connor Johnson
Are you retarded if she loves you she wouldn't give a shit about a expensive ring or wedding just give her a cheap symbolic ring of gold and have a private wedding
Colton Collins
Where do you live? 100k is really low in some areas, and it's high in others.
You might not be payed enough to compensate for your living cost.
Also, you shouldn't be spending 8k on a ring and 30k on a wedding when you only make 100k.
Cooper Bailey
8k for a ring ? you are proper mad. 1.5K gets you a really nice one.
I found Bitcoin in 2011 while I was engaged. I told my then fiance about it and she said we need the money for the wedding. I spent $30k on the wedding. You see where this is going right?
Lucas Kelly
Dude what the actual fuck. 100k is low in some areas? Fuck me man i think im living under a rock or something.
What kind of country is this?
Went through UNI and in my shitty fucked up country, you get payed 24k per year for doing a specialist job. Fuck this shit country.
Sebastian Watson
Don't pay the wedding Jew. Buy an open bar and a rent-a-priest have a nice time at the park and put the 40k into a down payment.
Noah Lopez
quit being fucking complacent fiscally and geographically, move somewhere your currency isn't insanely devalued or taxed into the dirt.
Lucas Brown
If nothing else, i'm perplexed why everyone has to have state validated marriage. If it's spiritual and romantic etc etc, why do you need state shit involved.
>financial incentive this is the reason gay marriage was a mistake. It set precedent that marriage benefits are negotiable. If anything, benefits of existing marriage should have been removed, but that'd be insanely hard to achieve with a gibs-oriented government and sensationalism.
Kayden Perry
Ignoring the obvious >marriage in 2018 posts
Why the fuck would you A) buy a goyring and B) have an official fancy wedding like that
If you are poor then have a wedding in the back yard, or something small with friends and family.
As for the ring, show your girlfriend a documentary about de beers or blood diamonds, tell her you don't believe in such scams.
My wife is happy with a $50 sterling ring. Our wedding was a potluck and cost $500. Mostly for chair rentals. I don't get typical weddings. Why so much wasted money on a generic shit wedding where people get drunk and do the chicken dance? Might as well go to the courthouse if you're planning another shit wedding.
Jason Murphy
The only benefit is if you have kids. I don't get why the gays even wanted to marry. It was more like a scream for attention. What will the gays cry about next?
Benjamin Reed
>saving face you sound like a streetshitter
Hudson Hall
That must be a typo and he meant 10k
Jace Taylor
Don’t delude yourself m8, you would have never bought 30k worth at that time
Justin Butler
>You get like 80% back from your family and friends >Cannot save more than 1k a month with 100k salary. >Falling for the starbucks meme, buying a 10$ coffee each day
Thomas Sanders
your wife's parents are supposed to pay for the wedding, retard. The understanding being you just shelled out 3 months salary to shekelstein for the ring. If you pony up cash for your own wedding, you messed up
Nathaniel Allen
double income no kids life
Lucas Nguyen
How much do you spend on rent? Genuinely curious. I only earn around 45k and manage to save about the same as you do. To be fair, i don't have a gf but i go on dates pretty regularly.
Angel Watson
This is what I did, also helps that my gf is a vegtard and is redpilled about the Jews. Show her how moissonite is the superior stone.
Blake Reed
>getting married >2018
You are the definition of buying high selling low
Austin Sanchez
can't put a price on family. nobody wants to grow up old and alone
Benjamin Reed
Majority of old people are abandoned by their children though.
Isaac Hall
not the case in my family or anybody's family i know. where do you live? Must be the north.
Jason Green
maybe it's because im young and immature but I'd consider myself a failure if I can't prove my worth without spending excessively on a wedding for face
Normies not even once I spent $1000 on a ring and < $100 on a civil ceremony. Also if you don't have some fat savings on a $100k salary (which is huge, ignore the biz larpers) you have seriously fucked up
Connor Harris
>8k >moissanite literally has a higher refractive index than diamond kys
Gabriel Rogers
>moissonite mah nigga
Samuel Jenkins
>paying 40k for a marriage hahaahahha, just take a loan goyim
Nathan Sanders
How the fuck do you only save 1k a month on a 100k salary? Are you living in Manhattan/SF or just shit with money?
Ryan Hughes
>moissonite im sure you're the kinds of people to actually buy bcash too
Tyler Johnson
>saving face who gives a shit, are you adult or what?