>Be me >30 and something guy >Wagecucking for 8h >Wasting 2 hrs to get to job and back >After I get home I get fuckload of tasks from family. >Too poor to buy my own apartment/house >Invested in cryptos >Down 20% from invested >Have 2 miners >One kid >Old man that is lazy AF to do anything that doesn't make money so he delegates those shitty tasks to me.
How do I break free? Some good passive income to help me stand on my feet? To try to explain my family for the 1200th time that I can't solve their problem asap and that they need to have some patience?
Okay you seem to be in despair so let me guide you through it like a true bizbro.
First FYS (fix yourself): 1. Stop smoking and drinking alcohol. You can drink alcohol at parties, but dont party every week. Max 2x per month. Stay away from that, but its good socially (connections). STOP SMOKING ASAP. 2. Start eating healthy. Eat rice + veggies + meat. Save up money. 3. Go to a gym. Start training. 2x per week. Dont need to overdo it. 4. Find a hobby that has potential to earn money. I dont know. Start making videos. Start learning about wood and then sell wood. Who the fuck cares. Just a hobby that has possibility to earn money. 5. Find a job that isnt dreadful. I mean like 3x on and 3x off. Dont be the 9-5 8h wagecuck. It is called SLAVERY.
Now to the other part: >Fuck others. Leave your parents. Just point blank take your bags and leave. >Find another city, settle, take your kid. >Start your life over again and ignore people WHO ONLY WANT STUFF FROM YOU. They will continue taking stuff from you (time + money + work).
How i know? I did that and i am 3x happier than i used to be. Believe me, i had suicidal thoughts and you will have them too. Stay good user!
You have to be brave user!
Sebastian Williams
Remember that your health, your kid, your family, and LOVE are your priority, not money. Stop wasting your time and energy chasing money and use it for the ones you love. Crypto is a scam that only the rich and those with the best resources profit from. Chasing it with a lack of those resources will only make you more stressed and take more of your time and resources. Take advantage of the tasks that are given to you, even if you're not getting paid for them. Take advantage of the fact that your family is providing you a place to stay. You're family will notice how much you're helping them and might even return the favor eventually somehow. I recommend you stop taking any drugs/alcohol/caffeine. Your body will develop an abundance of energy if you do. Don't work at a job that isn't worth its trouble. Work for the people that actually give a shit about you. You've worked hard and deserve money, and you will get it when your life is moving in the direction that's focused on love, not money. Life is filled with surprises that can come from anywhere.
>Wasting 2 hrs to get to job and back user, you are valuing your time as worthless! Only way that would be acceptable is if your earned 100k+ & had a family....
Julian Bennett
And you contribute nothing to the topic like a useless NEET retard who will die lonely at mommys hand while being fucked by your dad in the ass jizzing hard in it.
Isaac Garcia
Yeah how about you go shove it up your ass? At least the other user tried to help a biz bro out
>join army >let them take care of you and make a bond with your unit, you will be able sto start new 'family' with your bro in unit >move out >try to save up and go out to missions >spend money only on rent/food/essential utiities >since you are going to need around 2-3 years to save a decent amount of money and start anything, you have 3 years of preparing and training ahead of you >learn web dev, learn how to program, learn PLC programming for industries >ask your bros in unit what is their plan after army or if they can hook you up with a job >you are most likely going to have hard time with college being in army and doing college on side (especially if it won't be free) >since programming (web dev or PLC programming) is your safe net, go around the town and ask firms if you could get some handful experience, but come there with some knowledge already. Be honest with the fact that you fucked up and want to fix things, much likely they will feel you and give you opportunity. >keep saving and making money >invest money or learn how to daytrade (learn fundamental and technical analysis) >despite what people claim, you can make a lot of money trading when you learn what I said
cut out all substances like alchocol, cigs, weed, start training at home or gym, preferably start training boxing or run a lot. cardiovascular exercises prevent depression and re-energize you. make a plan, stick to routine, deal with the fact world is fucked up and you were in fucked up situation, knowing you couldn't do anything. And if you did procrastinate, learn from it and accept that you didn't do as much as you could.
I could go on, but here's a safe net if you wanna dedicate 5 years and do something out of yourself and save up.
Ian Gray
also forget about pussy and don't get emotional attached if you are fragile already. it's better to cut out roasties or even faithful women, if you know you can't spend money/energy on them.
women are a waste of money/time/energy, if you don't have your life fixed and be where you wanna be.
William Scott
Most people are there to some degree mate. Ppl here are either wagecucks or neets, we feel you.
#1. Dont overestimate money. Happy family > all. As long as you dont have cockroaches in bed, women typically value your presence as a father and husband over you wagecucking yourself to death. #2. You wont find fulfillment in more money, and expecting true fulfillment from others will break you (and them!). Only God can be trusted for that. Go to Church every week, make it a family thing. You need to get hooked up to the same system of meaning. This is what Christian faith does, it rectifies not only your life but commonal life aswell. Your family, your city, and so on. #3. Opt out of short term solutions. When youre able, quit using any substances (caffeine accepted in lower doses). Stay out of irregular sexual acts (porn, infidelity, and so on). Dont masturbate, use sexual energy for rectifying your situations and banging your wife. She needs it more than you, women are like that (they dont always get that they need it physically, but they need the emotions of closeness or they die). Realize that you need to work with your family to a degree, this is not your solo-show. Social capital > dollars. If you can grow trust, closeness, fun, with your family, then you are in a 200% better position. #4. Accept that this is going to demand everything from you. AND, that this is actually exactly what you are looking for. You are not looking for a job that allows you 1h more off per day, or w/e. You are looking for realization AS A MAN. This comes only from overpowering hard things. Mussolini was right in this regard: women are realized in "childbirth" (relations), men are realized in "war" (overcoming increasingly harder things, to grow increasingly impressive character).
Dont yield to temptations. The first one here is to make shit about money, when its not.
Justin Ortiz
Also, dont trust neets here to "go solo rider". Just dont, trust me on this one. Im a married man. I know its not easy. But trust the statistics since forever; not every married man is an alpha, but EVERY alpha is a married man. Rest are neets or more or less glorified fuckbois, thats it.
Realize that any degree of true flourishing as a man requires a monogamous relationship with a women. Read up on statistics of what happens to men in faithful marriages.
I realize, some people who are 20 may think differently. But its not your job to essentially re-simulate an experience of what single life was like for you, back in the days. I know this temptation, everyone does all to well. But it doesnt work, life doesnt allow any flourishing through regress. There is only one direction in this life - forward. Tinkering with this rule will make you into whatever flavour of Peter Pan (google).
Benjamin Thompson
some good advice, nice to see quality content posted on Jow Forums
David Lewis
I know! its quite a nice departure, biz in a bull market is nice
Kevin Reyes
Thank you all for suggestions. The thing is I am living in a fucked up country (eastern Europe). There is ton of educated young people but no jobs. Export is almost nonexistent and import is oversaturated so I am not really in position to pick jobs. Mine is already above country's average (900usd/mo minus 200 for fuel) but you can't do shit with that. Maybe best way would be to move out like 10+% has done over last few years but for some reason I am fond of this shithole. Religion and army is not for me because it requires (blind) faith and what is way off my personality. I am not drinking or using substances. I should go to gym like I did (decade ago) but I just can't force myself to do it. It looks like waste of time and energy.
Angel Hill
Made my day. Laughed so hard.
Camden Powell
So basicly the recipe is to stay poor and stick with the family?
Jacob Bell
user are you from Romania by any chance?
Nathan Davis
statistically only 1 in 20 people will "make it", others will stay in the rat race for 40 years and then die given this is Jow Forums I'd say only 1 in 500 people here will make it
Kevin Myers
Just steal a plot of land behind the city build a wooden shack move there and grow your own potatoes and cabbage to survive the winter problem solved
Asher Baker
more like poland
Brody Ross
Haha I'm not that lucky. But hey we have silver medal
Lucas Peterson
Basically you are on a straight road to total freedom, which is becoming like your own father. Soon your kid will be making money for you and you can stay lazy. Problem solved.
