>you will never fall in love with a girl who loves you in return >you will never hold hands with a girl while walking home on a cold winter evening >you will never sit on a comfortable sofa next to your cute, shy girlfriend who is cradling a hot mug of hot water and lemon between her palms >you will never hear the words "I love you" intended for you >you will never fall asleep beside someone you love, respect and hope to always be around >you will never hear the quiet voice of your shy, observant girlfriend asking "What's wrong?" when you're feeling low but trying not to make it obvious >you will never be encouraged to pursue your ambitions by someone who believes in you >you will never have a girl cry and struggle to speak when you kneel down and propose to her >you will never have anybody to cling onto while falling asleep >you will never have anybody to humour, nourish, protect and encourage >you will never have anybody to kiss, hug, hold hands with, stroke, touch, pat, taste, smell and cuddle >you will never have anybody who wants to get to know you >you will never have anybody
You can have all of this if you just go outside a bit more often. Except for >hold hands with a girl while walking home on a cold winter evening that's not possible because you live in the UK
Grayson Long
shut the fuck up, i want to keep my delusional hopes up while i still can and you're ruining it in a pretty major way with posts like this
Adam Robinson
You can have all of this, especially >cold winter evening because you live in Finland.
Nathan Rivera
i had a winter gf and i will never forget her it was the whole package, cooked wine, popcorn beer and wool socks while watching home alone 2 and cuddling on the couch, hot chocolate and ice skating i didnt give a shit about anything else, nothing mattered, everything was going to be ok why is time such a bitch? why does it flow differently when youre bored or suffering compared to when you arent?
>you will never experience genuine, sincere romantic love with a pleasant, well-mannered, tender girl who is willing to take the time to wait for you to overcome your negativity and coldness around others and allow her to get to know your more pleasant side, and who in return begins to open up to you and tell you about her childhood, her family, her schooldays and her hopes for the future, your relationship becoming both a unbreakable friendship and an intense but understated bonding of two people who love one another and are loyal to one another, and feel so lucky to have met someone like the person they now refer to, if only internally, as their other half
>"I love you user!" >"Goodnight darling, sweet dreams!" >"Hey, could you hold me a little tighter? It feels quite chilly tonight. There, that's better!" >"My parents loved meeting you user. Sorry if they were annoying" >"I'm so glad we met user" >"Do you think I'd make a good mother? I think you'd make a good dad, by the way" >"You look so cute when you're tired!" >"Thanks for always being there user" >"Are you okay?" >"I told my sister all about already, I hope you don't mind!" >"Do you have enough blanket? Sure?" >"Oh my god I love this band user, thanks for telling me about them!" >"Am I too heavy on your knee? I can go sit somewhere else if you want" >"Don't worry, it doesn't matter. As long as we have each other it'll be fine" >"You should grow your beard a little, stubble suits you" >"You make me feel like the luckiest girl in the world" >"Did you have a good day at work user?" >"Do you think we'd have dated if we'd met each other in highschool? I wish we had!" >"Your clothes smell nice" >"Stop, you're making me blush!"
But I will... She's gonna come along, just you wait.. a bright future is just around the corner... I'm sure of it... we're all gonna make it... right bros?... right?
Not happening. I can kinda be friends with girls (and actually properly get along, while not acting like an autismo or anything), but only when they're outgoing and friendly with everyone (=easily approachable) or related to me.
Jonathan Johnson
of course we are, if we believe and want it hard enough
>you will never fall in love with a girl who loves you in return did it >you will never hold hands with a girl while walking home on a cold winter evening did it >you will never sit on a comfortable sofa next to your cute, shy girlfriend who is cradling a hot mug of hot water and lemon between her palms did it. although the lemons are pretty specific >you will never hear the words "I love you" intended for you heard it >you will never fall asleep beside someone you love, respect and hope to always be around sort of did it >you will never hear the quiet voice of your shy, observant girlfriend asking "What's wrong?" when you're feeling low but trying not to make it obvious heard it >you will never be encouraged to pursue your ambitions by someone who believes in you did it >you will never have a girl cry and struggle to speak when you kneel down and propose to her was too young for that >you will never have anybody to cling onto while falling asleep sort of did it >you will never have anybody to humour, nourish, protect and encourage did it >you will never have anybody to kiss, hug, hold hands with, stroke, touch, pat, taste, smell and cuddle did it >you will never have anybody who wants to get to know you did it >you will never have anybody I’ve had somebody
teenage love was pretty cool i suppose when i look back
Gavin Anderson
WE`RE ALL GONNA MAKE IT BRAHS KEEP YOUR HEADS UP KEEP CHUGGING
>you will never feel her soft warm fingers threading gently through your own fingers >you will never her quiet giggle and see her smiling in the half-light with her face resting on the pillow beside you >you will never become more innocent and light-hearted yourself because of her positive influence on your lifestyle and thought patterns >you will never hug her so tightly that you feel her heart beating >you will never dry her tears and taste the salt on her skin where the tears slid down her cheeks >you will never briefly know what she is thinking without her having to articulate her thoughts and emotions and sense that she also knows that you are thinking about just how lucky you are to be enjoying that moment together >you will never travel to a town with her for the first time and visit the old parts and feel a genuine curiosity about the place and its history >you will never have her cover her mouth because she's laughing so much and can't stop herself laughing >you will never hold an umbrella over her head while it rains hard and feel her clutching tightly to the crook of your arm >you will never take a warm bath together and see the steam rising from her soft somewhat goosefleshed skin and see the tips of her hair floating gently on the surface of the water >you will never kiss the back of her neck >you will never be the one she wants to marry >you will never live up to her expectations >you will never know what it's like to secure a small pocket of warmth and companionship in a world you find increasingly cruel, hostile, ruthless and indifferent to your suffering
nothing really exists. not feels, not gfs, not even yourself. all things come and they go.all things are defined in relation to other things and those things are also defined in relation to other things themselves and so the web goes on. each thing has several working explanations behind it which might not always work - whether you describing where it came from or what appeared to happened to it or whether you're just saying its there. nothing inherently is or isn't.
let go. let things happen as they appear to be and don't get bogged down. once you realise its all empty, just let go, that's all.
The logic works though. There are people on this earth who you could actually end up with, no matter who you are, it's guaranteed. The more you go out and the more people you meet, the higher the chance for you to meet someone for you, maybe a girl who's in the exact situation as you. Not that you're guaranteed to find her and make it work.
Cameron Bell
>"like bro that logic actually work, I do it all the time and it works like a charm. you just gotta be yourself, fake it till you make"
Just live with it. Women are not worth a single moment of our time. Work hard till you can retire, if you love your parents then work for them, just keep working till life becomes reasonably decent.
Nolan Fisher
Boo fucking hoo How old are you? I'm 19 and got over my >tfwnogf phase when i was like 15 If you are ugly and unattractive you learn to deal with this shit early. If you made it to your late 20s and you still havent found a way to cope with your lot in life you CHOSE to be this way.
Hideousness is a terrible price to be "blessed" with.
Jaxson Adams
There isn't enough women to go around. Let alone women who are interested in specific race/ethnicity.
Ryan Brooks
what said is actually correct As of the late 90s the amount of men under the age of 35 are more than 1.2:1 per woman So some guys, even if they could in the past, can mathematically not get a girl today.
Levi Bennett
There are more men now due to better healthcare, and a lot of the extra men are those with genetic issues (that tend to affect men more) or other problems that render them incapable of relationships/reproduction. For instance, serious autism affects more men than women, and far more seriously and severely.
Adrian Reyes
So? The ratio of healthy men to women still make men outnumber women to the rate that at least 5-8% of the male population in the near future wont be able to find a girl.
I'm just ugly, but there are people that are legitimately being robbed of an opportunity of a girlfriend and or having a family because of this. Kind of sad
Cooper Wright
As I said, it isn't guaranteed. What is guaranteed that there are single women around your age out there who would date you. Going out and meeting people improves your chances dramatically, it doesn't guarantee anything.
Adam Cooper
>The ratio of healthy men to women still make men outnumber women to the rate that at least 5-8% of the male population in the near future wont be able to find a girl. I'm not necessarily doubting you but do you have a citation for that?
Jaxon Ward
>What is guaranteed that there are single women around your age out there who would date you This isn't true though
Luis Walker
It absolutely is true, assuming you keep realistic standards.
Angel Green
I do not know if I am attractive so I lead my life with the notion that I’m not, problem is, turned out I had AvPD anyway so it doesn’t fucking matter if I’m attractive or not because no one can possibly love me anyway loll
Lincoln Peterson
>tfw missed out on teenage love >never had a gf or any fun back in school >approaching the 20th year of my life, still a virgin, still never had a gf
Considering what we already have stated. 1. There are imperically more men than women in any given social scenario. Add onto that those statistic of internet dating that most women consider most men ugly, you're looking at combinatorics that don't really favor anything reasonable
Luis Ross
Been watching tons of drama. The girls always so pure and cute. Why is life so cruel, I'm surrounded by evil slags
Ethan Hill
>that 19 y/o zoomer that complains about nogf You can easily turn your life around when you are college age
>What is guaranteed that there are single women around your age out there who would date you not outside your just world fallacy
Henry Young
I don't talk to anyone in my uni, I just come there, write down what the professors say for a few hours and go home without ever talking to anyone
Noah Lee
well at least your degree has w*men
mine didn't
Nathaniel Nelson
Then start talking, bloody idiot. It's your last chance, only downhill from here. I had a decent start at the uni, a bunch of nerds helping each other and hanging out, unfortunately, most dropped out by year 4, and then attendance was rare, as everyone was working on their master's thesis. That's when you become isolated and lose whatever social skills you've had. If you don't maintain them, by the time you are out of uni, it's fucking over.
That's simply how it works. With the sheer amount of of single women out there, there is absolutely 0 chance that none if them are willing to date you (and i'm not talking about supermodels). You just have to be active and lucky.
Cameron Robinson
Why yes having commitments to somebody i had to attend to every day would make me fucking die how could you tell
They already formed their friend groups and everything, they spam the group chat with their memes and always joke about stuff they did together
Daniel Murphy
>bitching about no gf at fucking 19
jesus christ if you're ready to give up this early you should just kys. you're still college aged you have plenty of time.
Lincoln Howard
how could your appearance improve so drastically?
Wyatt Hill
Uni is a big place usually, there's gotta be clubs and shit I was 300 lbs my dude Yeah, a neat round number in heathen burger units I didn't become a chad, not even chadlite, but it's a vast difference nonetheless
Eli Martin
Ive heard all of that and have had everything in op. Bretty good. But youre goddamn mistaken if you think ANY BITCH in the whole world is going to give a shit about if you have enough blankets. Girls are cold all the damn time and feel the need to cocoon themselves on the bed. There isnt a comforter big enough in the universe to share equally with a female. They dont care and they never will. Get out of here with your ridiculous incel fantasies
Cameron Nelson
Yeah but now its past the point of ever making a move without it entailing huge amounts of humiliation to everybody around and all mutual acquaintances
for me literally everything changed when I was two-three months apart from becoming a 20yo virgin. If you are not too ugly and desperate enough you still can get a bit of teenage love just consider actually trying. Anyway that's not that much of a thing I don't have any clue how so many people could be obsessed with that.
Daniel Murphy
how do you even meet girls in the current year? actually approaching girls is boomer-tier and just cringeworthy, ive never seen or even heard of it happening outside of fiction i feel like a narcissistic scumfuck normie when taking pictures of myself for tindr and i cant bring myself to actually use them for that reason not a fan of nightclubs. i cant go sober and i make a twat of myself when im drunk. i think never having facebook and only having a private instagram and twitter have really set me back. my mates have met loads of girls through social media
Leo Diaz
The same old standbys, from school/mutual interests/friend and social circles. Ideally you would develop all three for the best chances. the real truth is, finding and developing a relationship is based on both effort and a huge dose of luck. It's easy to find people to date, a lot harder to find someone you like who also likes you back but again, that's luck. I got lucky with the internet but it wasn't a dating site.
Michael Harris
Nah. The truth is if you're autistic/socially incompetent then nobody, I mean nobody, would be willing to date you. It's much easier if you're just ugly or have more common personality flaws. If you aren't able to hold a decent conversation without awkward silences, can't make funny jokes consistently, and generally always know the right thing to say, you're done for. I can get a girl interested in me with my average looks, only to have that interest turn into disgust after talking to me for more than a minute.
girls do the weirdest fucking shit when sleeping honestly like taking all the blankets and making elaborate pillow structures for comfort. sleeping alone is unironically better
William Sanchez
speak for urself, i dont give a fuck about bitches, i may be too autistic or too ugly to get girls but that doesnt bother me
Daniel Flores
Maybe. I don’t know. She seems really sweet though. Sent me her titties too.
Noah Kelly
was a 21 y/o KV up until about 5 months ago mates gf sucked my willy, kissed me and did sex with me AMA
I don't understand the people who say this and seem unhappy with it, finding a girl for a conversation is the easiest thing in the world. Either irl or online (the latter being the easiest of course). There are literally threads right here, on Jow Forums, dedicated to finding girls to talk to, I've seen several. It's remarkably easy.
Finding a relationship is the horribly difficult bit.
Benjamin Edwards
I know that feel bro. Aside from (former) school years and/or mandatory interaction (like waiting at a check-out line) I don't think I have ever spoken to a grill.
Jace Cox
Do you want to?
David Ortiz
You must not be severely autistic
Andrew Reed
>girls >on a seychelles snake charming guild forum
I don't know, I've been told by some people I've spoken to that I am, others liked it. Like all things, variable. I'm not saying every single conversation will go well or you'll get something out of it (like I said, finding a relationship is difficult). I'm just saying if you want a conversation with a girl it is remarkably easy to find, even on here. Just talk about basic things and it'll be a fine conversation for at least half an hour or so.
I should also say I think it's always a good idea to have some interests and knowledge of basic things normies like (food, music, TV/film, books, travel, whatever), this works for men and women.
Aaron Harris
kek i've been married for years never heard most of that or maybe i forgot? anyway that sound like conversations during the first few weeks of dating now it is more like >when are you going to fix this? >you spent how much on this?? etc
Ethan Mitchell
it's not easy at all. since leaving high school ive only spoke to 2 girls. one was a random slag who i tried to redpill on gnosticism when i was coked up and it was very cringeworthy, the others a mutual friend and she has no interest in me at all. can you point me in the direction of one of those threads?
it's a hard life, innit what are we gonna do, lad?
Chase Cook
>a random slag who i tried to redpill on gnosticism when i was coked up kek, I wish I had been a fly on that wall
Don't seem to be any up but the "girls on Jow Forums" threads or topics relating to women bring them out and people share discords/emails. Drops yours now, maybe you'll get one? Jow Forums is full of women.
Jordan Peterson
cheers lad, ill keep an eye out for one. i dont think ill drop my contact info itt, if theres any girls here right now i certainly havent made a good first impression. thank god for anonymity
Colton Ward
Drop and redpill me on gnosticism please.
Brandon Watson
basically """god""" is a narcissistic NothingGod, he created the material universe and stole our souls so he could have lesser beings to worship him. if you dont get with the programme and decalcify your pineal gland, youre doomed to servitude to this false god for eternity. however, if your 3rd eye is wide open, also called "achieving gnosis" your soul will return to Sophia, the true God, when you die. you ever watched the 1997 cult-classic, Neon Genesis Evangelion? basically if you achieve gnosis, upon your death your soul essentially turns into LCL liquid and youre free from material evil
