If I had sex just once in life, all my crippling insecurities would vanish. I would become a proper man

If I had sex just once in life, all my crippling insecurities would vanish. I would become a proper man.

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No. You'd just be a worthless insecure autist that has had sex before. Why does everyone here think this?

>pay 100-200 units of your local currency and become a 'proper' man then

you would just create more insecurities my dude
>meditate
>forgive yourself
>accept yourself

Or you could bomb so badly and she lets you know it and it becomes worse.

When i solved my women problem, my unhappiness completely shifted to a much more difficult money problem.

Gathering 2 mil is way harder than getting laid.

wrong. Becoming a proper man gets you sex. Not the other way around.

I've had sex countless of times in the past. It makes the feeling of being alone all the more worse desu.

This. You're going to be depressed no matter what unless you find a woman that loves you unconditionally.

But I'm not alone, I've got a decent group of friends and a loving family. I think you're wrong, sex is the only variable missing.

Chances are that the first time you have sex, it will be a terrible and awkward experience.

Trust me, been there. Was even more devastated afterwards, took me ~6 months to get back to my normal self.

more on this enlightment material, please user

If you have honest sex and someone to support you it makes your life so much better.

You can do it user. Get a GF that isn't a cunt and get to work.

Had sex a million times- would trade every one of those experiences for having my student loans paid off.

what if i live in a shit country where 1USD= 1 trillion shitcurrency

you never will on both counts op. just kill yourself and take a few shitskins with you

What you say is unironically true. So many young men today put women on a pedestal, idolizing them and viewing them as almost "unobtainable." It results in a lot of insecurities and affects the way you think and act about things that aren't even related to women or sex.

The thing is, once you finally spend some time with a girl, having sex, or even just being around her for extended periods of time, it all changes. You realize how fucking stupid it is. I don't want to say that your insecurities magically vanish, but, well, they do. You realize how dumb it all is. Girls POOP. They take big fat shits and fart all over the place. They love the winter because they get to wear long pants and not shave their bushy legs. Their breaths STINK. And they're fucking stupid, just like men.

When you finally realize this, you become a changed man. That there is no reason to put women on a pedestal like that. This is where the "that guy needs to get laid" phrase originates from. Because when you finally get some, you realize how dumb the whole thing was, and it practically cures your shitty insecure personality.

Ironically, although it becomes easier for you to get women, you desire them a lot less

Then buy a whore and realize how meaningless it is and how foolish you've been for wanting it so badly.

this guy knows

Can a 20 yo virgin get some advice?

Before I got to uni/the start of I was "incel" due to being batshit insane from childhood abuse. Now I'm becoming a normalfag, I'll probably get there in a few more years.

By far my main goal in life is to make sure when I have kids they have a much better chance. I currently have a 300k nw (bitcoin, waiting to buy back in) and am going to a world famous uni next year.

I'm only really interested in equally rich/educated partners for when I eventually have kids, which are obviously exceptionally rare at my age. Because of this I'm not trying to find a gf incase I get attached and stuck "bagholding", and casual sex doesn't really have any appeal (if it did I'd have just gone and fucked a 10/10 high end prostitute).

Basically, is there anything wrong with waiting until 25 when I can find a "equal" partner?

(sorry if this post comes across as snobby, it's solely due to when it comes round to having children. if I was infertile I'd date any skank lol)

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this is all wrong you fucking cunt you are a cunt normie, you have no clue what life is as a lifelong virgin. you have no comparison.

get a serious partner asap and make kids as soon as possible. All rationalizations, all the waiting, all the blabla is just that. blabla. Everything other people say and think is wrong.
Get a woman asap, you will never be motivated to work hard enough and study hard enough without one. I know you think you can but you cant. You have no clue how "a few years" of no sex will destroy your mind and isolate you.
Never ever listen to anything other people say or do. Get married right now and make kids right away. Dont wait.

Ya you're not wrong OP. This is especially true once you have sex with a certain number of girls, according to your biological imperative. Apparently my number was 23. Now I don't give a shit about having sex on a regular basis and can basically 100% focus on money with zero sadness about lack of sex.

My advice, start banging girls ASAP. The bad news is it will probably take you three years to reach your number doing it full time.

This is true.
You are exactly the kind of guy he’s talking about. I’m by no means great looking, but ai have no problems getting girls because I’m confident and not socially retarded.

His post made the most sense to me. How is he wrong?

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literally the dumbest fucking advice i have ever read on Jow Forums, you deserve a reward for that

>26
>never touched a female
>0 female friends
>don’t want to hook up with escort because I want to lose it to someone who actually likes me
>pretty sure I am a lost cause at this point

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its not a one and done thing, you need constant love/sex over the longterm if you don't just want to end up feeling like you do again right now

in fact most losers that get sex that first time but can't get it again immediately afterwards end up feeling even worse because now they have a taste of what they're missing. ive read stories of how it even drives some to suicide