how are my Jow Forums frens holding up?
How are my Jow Forums frens holding up?
John Sanchez
Daniel Parker
Janny keeps banning me even though I'm doing nothing wrong.
I'm not breaking any rules. He just recognizes my posts and targets me.
Landon Jenkins
I suffer.
Justin Murphy
are you the 1,69m manlet?
why?
Brayden Kelly
>are you the 1,69m manlet?
Yeah.
How are you holding up, by the way?
Angel Campbell
>Yeah.
nice. how are your studies going? you study something with accounting or finance, right?
>How are you holding up, by the way?
not so well tbqh, I don't know what to study or which profession to do and I'm being a disappointment
trying to figure out what I wanna do at the moment...
Henry Perry
>how are your studies going? you study something with accounting or finance, right?
Finance.
I am on break right now, but summer classes begin soon. I'm taking summer classes, because I was a NEET for two years in the middle of my degree. I have to catch up on classes in order to graduate as soon as possible.
>I don't know what to study or which profession to do
I understand. I initially went to college believing I was going to major in English, but I realized it wasn't a good idea and there are better options.
>I'm being a disappointment
>trying to figure out what I wanna do at the moment
I'm sorry you feel like you're being a disappointment to anyone. I think it's okay to take some time to figure things out. Life is very tough.
Julian Torres
thanks for the nice words
how do you like finance?
I'm considering doing law, or more specifically business law
but I'm also thinking of becoming a teacher, tho I doubt I should do that
what made you drop your English degree?
Michael Smith
I'm actually feeling terrible. I got my entire life figured out since half a year and feel so empty ever since. I got a great part time job, I got enough time to finish my study, I see my friends more than ever yet it all feels so empty. I sometimes cry and think about crashing my car into incoming traffic.
Jason Ramirez
it's good that you got your life figured out, otherwise it'd be worse. Consider going to a therapist, it might help you. and maybe talk to your close friends or family about your feelings, they might be able to help you or cheer you up too
and don't kys, I'm sure that'd hurt your family a lot
Adam Morris
Jordan Collins
Watching very heated answers in Quora
Henry Ward
Hunter Martinez
Alexander Gonzalez
nice
are you on a VPN or genuinely in Greenland? the nights are very short now, right? if you're not Isaac, are you that user that was so sad and thought about suicide some months ago? glad that you didn't do it, are you feeling better now?
Andrew Stewart
upset
Adam Smith
why?
Ryan Sullivan
Pretty well, I've finished classes and now I only have some exams left and it will already be holidays
Ryder Butler
not too sure lad, it's been like this for a while now; i'll get out of bed for about 15 minutes before feeling too exhausted mentally and physically before feeling the need to get back into bed and stare at nothing or browse my phone
maybe i'm lonely, who knows la
Austin Cruz
The days are getting longer and I am not Isac
I was a bit sad but I'm ok now :)
Connor Carter
good to hear
yeah I'm feeling tired and have no motivation either, but I'm trying to stay positive
try to see good things in life and get hope to look forward to things so not everything is bad
and you should consult a doctor or psychotherapist tbqh, I might do the latter too in the future
>I was a bit sad but I'm ok now :)
nice, great to hear
Chase Clark
>One year since I talked with anyone not family
How do I talk to people frens?
John Sanders
>how do you like finance?
I enjoy it a lot.
>what made you drop your English degree?
A Bachelor's in English seems to me to be a really open-ended degree. Which is good for someone who is indecisive. It's not really specific to any kind of occupation.
But what do you learn with an English degree? You learn to write, think critically, etc, but I believe you can learn those things just as well with other degrees.
A Bachelor's in Finance is less open-ended but still not very career-specific as some other degrees. In my mind, it's a good balance between being practical (providing real-world skills and knowledge you would not learn in other degrees) and open. That's just how I see it. Whether that's true or not, it's what I've convinced myself.
>I'm considering doing law, or more specifically business law
>but I'm also thinking of becoming a teacher, tho I doubt I should do that
If someone tells me they want to be a teacher, it is surprising to me, because it's not a job I would want to have. Yet some people are really enthused by the idea of being a teacher. I don't know why you would say "I doubt I should do that." It's a perfectly valid job.
Evan Jenkins
Yesterday i agreed to carry my divorced parents and my mentally handicapped brother and sister to the beach
when we were pretty close my mom and dad started arguing when i asked them for directions
it was awful
also on the way back home they started arguing and screaming again and my sister called the cops and told them that my mother tortured us and some other made up shit
we had to stop the car and talk with them
Christian Wright
idk what kind of social activities there are to join in brazil but i got out of my hermit mode by taking a kickboxing class. maybe you could sign up for a dance class or something. at those kinds of things you are forced to talk to people
John Butler
I dunno, I struggle with opening up to people a lot, tho I'm friendly. I think when people are in a similar situation as you it's easier to talk
but I'd say just be friendly and try to talk to people that seem friendly, shouldn't be hard if you can get yourself to open up to strangers
>I enjoy it a lot.
nice
>open-ended/career-specific
yeah that's what I'm thinking about a lot. I want sth that has good job prospects, but it somehow has to fit my interest as well. but I have many interests but nothing really standing out, so it's hard to choose.
>I don't know why you would say "I doubt I should do that." It's a perfectly valid job.
because I dunno if I'm the right person for teaching children. I know it's a good job, and it seemed like a comfy job for the teachers in my highschool, but again, I dunno if I'm good for it, gonna talk to a university counselor about that I think
pro side would be I could pick out the subjects I liked in school, gonna take history (and probably German or geography or English) if I'll become a teacher
oh man
there's a lot of stress in my family as well, ever since I can remember my parents have been fighting, me and my sibling's childhood wasn't that nice... but at least now that we're grownups we're there for each other and get along ok
Owen Richardson
>pro side would be I could pick out the subjects I liked in school, gonna take history (and probably German or geography or English) if I'll become a teacher
That's a pretty good idea actually. I never thought about it.
I hope you find something you enjoy doing, user.
Jace Wood
thanks man
Julian Carter
Blake Miller
>ever since I can remember my parents have been fighting, me and my sibling's childhood wasn't that nice
i feel you bro, let me cry on your shoulder, we had tough childhoods
no one should have to go through years of screaming and arguments as a child