Gf comes over to watch a movie

no one answered my original question: will it be ok? she is my first gf and im 26 so im not quite used to this

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penetration alone isn't enough to get most girls off, unless you have god tier rhythm and stamina. need to do foreplay and play with her clitty 9/10 times. do you use your fingers? what sort of technique do you use? come hither motion, circular rubbing or do you go full unga bunga finger blaster? your gf might be sexually frustrated or she might think you're too disgusted by her to go down on her. you need to talk to her about this stuff.

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ignore this retard, most girls don't like the actual act of sucking dick. it's mostly about pleasing the guy to them. you do get a few whorish freaks here and there that are into being degraded and treated like shit, but these aren't the norm and again even then it isn't about sucking dick, it's about pleasing and being degraded by the guy.

>she might think you're too disgusted by her to go down on her
yeah she explicitly stated she thinks that i find her disgusting. it's absolutely not the case and i tried to reassure her. even if it is about her and not me, i would not be enjoying myself and it would ruin the experience for both of us since we're supposed to both be in a content state of mind.

Sexual compatibility is not retarded.
You are for not wanting to even explore her body and expecting her to sacrifice that for you while whining about being forced to do it against your will even though nobody said you had to. it's over already unless she has shitty self esteem but based on the post she seems strong enough.

I've never had to ask and the one guy who wouldn't do it was shit at sex entirely so it made sense that his hang ups were on him.

the only way im not exploring her body is by sticking my tongue in her pussy but she by no means thinks im bad at sex but she was obviously hurt that i wouldnt go down on her.
im not convinced its over, we both care about each other a lot and this seems trivial based on our relationship with each other.
she is my first gf so the whole circumstance is new and adventurous to me, so i guess ive drawn up some boundaries over the years that i havent realised.

what about it do you not find appealing?
i've personally always loved it, very intimate and connecting. won't do it to a girl i am not that into, however

i don't know, i just think the act wouldn't be that pleasant. im scared of it tasting and smelling bad, which i know is silly since i havent done it before, but it's a huge psychological barrier for me

>>i dont want to because i don't find it appealing
Lmao

is it not a legitimate reason? if this ruins the relationship, should i be prepared to be a great disappointment to every woman i may encounter?

get out normie

im 26 and she is my first gf, im not a normie.

>should i be prepared to be a great disappointment to every woman i may encounter?
Yes

well i should be grateful wow classic is released next week then...

What a dumb pussy retard

me or my gf?

I hope you're not like this because some incel here told you it was "beta"
either way, you're selfish

that's understandable but it doesn't mean this relationship will work. imagine feeling undesirable in such a vulnerable way. if you both didn't like doing or receiving is one thing but this is just incompatibility to the extreme.

did she have any other partners before you? if so that's disgusting

You

absolutely not my stance at all, i simply do not find it appealing, and i dont want to try it. whether that makes it selfish or not is out of my control. that is not my intention. i care about her so much and i would never want to hurt her but unfortunately sometimes these things are inevitable.

just based on this? i dont buy that. i refuse to believe she could so devastated she ends the relationship on such a condition
of course she did, because she's a healthy human being that has appropriate social skills. i didnt because ive had to deal with excessive anxiety and low confidence for many years. i had thought i was going to be single for my whole life but we met at work and she really liked me.
thats your opinion i guess

does she go down on you?

yeah, but sometimes we have sex when i dont want to due to being exhausted from work and study.

If you can't please her sexually then she will inevitably cheat on you. Either start licking that pussy or break up with her.

You are such a pussy lmao
I wouldn't be surprised if she finds a local tyrone to give her a good licking

isn't using your hand the same as a tongue? in the clitoris?

she was peer pressured by her friends

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of course i please her sexually, i just dont want to lick her pussy
i doubt it
i guess so, i always play with her using my hand and fingers and she obviously loves it so i dont understand the problem with not wanting to use my tongue

is this a new trend lately or she always insists? she might have seen some porn and wants to try it

her previous boyfriends probably already did that to her

You are acting like a child honesty, she obviously wants you to suck her off and if you care about her you should just do it

why would anyone want to put their tongue where piss comes out

calm down Modric

It's not even absolute sexual pleasing its that you basically said her clunge was nasty and that insulted her.
Like if you popped your dick out and she looked at it and said she didn't want to suck it because it looked funny and unwashed when you always thought it was fine.

>never tried it
>afraid of it smelling and tasting bad
if clean and healthy pussy tastes and smells amazing
very arousing, soft feel on the face and mouth, makes me diamonds every time

if it smells/tastes bad you should help your gf get her vaginal health in order. it's not that hard to do

You just told her that you either a) find her utterly disgusting, b) don't give a fuck what she wants and won't put in the slightest bit of effort for her or c) both of the above. Of course she's upset.

not exactly a new trend, but she seemed exceptionally hurt by it tonight. i feel fucking terrible, i know how much work shes put into her looks to make herself look beautiful, but i simply can't help overcome this barrier.
yes she obviously does and i simply can't do it.
that is exactly right. i know if i try to apologise that it won't make it better since it's quite a sensitive and vulnerable topic. i feel so guilty and now im realising that maybe i dont do enough for her outside of the bedroom.

girls enjoy sucking dick its different

it seems you just want to bitch and whine then

it's over

yeah thats pretty much what she said in not so many words.

well, time to tie her to bed when she gets home and give a 2 hour session of oral pleasure

since it's outta nowhere she'll cum buckets

and what if i can't work up the mental fortitude to do it?

tfw gf never wants me to give her the lickaroo because it makes her feel awkward

go slowly
start with the feet, legs and work your way up
if she notices you're willing to try, more points for you
sex is about communication between two people. if you don't want to, tell her.
make sure she's clean (after a shower or something)

And straight men enjoy licking pussy.

i have told her and she doesn't believe i want to please her

there's more than one way to skin a cat

shitty excuse

well she hasnt messaged me back since i sent her a message over two hours ago. i guess im just gonna have to wait until the morning.

send her a joke
she'll laugh and then reply to your text

she's already asleep as she has work early tomorrow but i doubt we're going to the cinemas anymore

she's not asleep she's currently getting pounded by a black guy

i assure you that she's asleep. we live in australia, not the usa or south italy

If have never had sex nor a gf

Anyway, I'm surprised to see this big portion of the thread giving two shits about female orgasming.

well if it doesnt work out, i still have my uni studies and wow classic
perhaps i become a hermit shut in and completely dedicate myself to academia, can't be too terrible i guess

I thought you were a baccalà man, Uncle Jun. What are you doin' eatin' sushi?

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Yeah man, licking pussy is kinda gross. Sucking dick is more comfortable though.

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jesus christ this thread

>dont want to go down on gf
>she goes thermonuclear and throws a hysterical fit and it jeopardizes the stability of the relationship
>this is a valuable relationship

maybe realize that conditioning yourself and the women you are with to do everything they want and to be spoiled pretty princesses is a bad idea. you should learn to say no and not cave when a girl throws a fit like a child in a grocery store when daddy says no candy.

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These are all true. If you're not willing to sexually satisfy your partner, there's a pretty good chance she'll find someone who will.

Eating pussy isn't hard, yes sometimes the smell and taste can be strong, just gotta power through it. After you lick for a while that goes away. Sometimes they don't even smell, usually they do and that's just how it is

Eating a girl out is the easiest way to get them off so it's time for you to be a man about it and do it. The first time I was with a girl I hated the smell and taste (and she dumped me later on) but instead of mewling about it I just got the fuck over it, now I love it and women love it. Simple as that.

>well she hasnt messaged me back since i sent her a message over two hours ago.
Well let me give you a hint, don't obsess over it and message her a bunch, it just makes you look pathetic. Smothering her with messages won't help, it will harm. If she doesn't give you a second chance, tough shit, that's how it goes. Don't make the same mistake the next go-around

>don't find it appealing
homo

Sneedin', feedin', seedin' and feed. Fuck em, chuck em, fuck em and chuck. Suck em, feed em, chuckin' and fuck.

fucking bongs, the clitoral glans is the female equivalent of the penis, basically a hard bean is a hard ween, that's gay hotshot