/biz im considering dumping my gf because of her attidude towards money.
She is fine with wage slaving for Mr. Shekelberg as long as she is able to go on vacation each year. She dont want to save anything she earns because that means that she cant buy another pair of shoes or other useless shit she doesnt need.
I wouldnt mind that, she can do with her money what she wants, but she is asking me ALL THE TIME when we are doing another vacation together. Just now she texted that she would like to do a beach vacation with me next year. In the last year we were already 5 times on vacation.
Also she wants to go out eating with me each weekend, instead of cooking for ourselves. If it is one time per month it would be ok, but every weekend she asks me if we can go eating somewhere.
Besides that she is perfect.
Dont know what i should do, am i just too greedy?
tl;dr: My girlfriend is fine with wageslaving, spends all her money for useless crap and is expensive as fuck. Dump her or not?
Honestly she should dump you for being such an autist.
Owen Gutierrez
Is she hot af? If so...
tell her to start investing in dividend funds. tell her instead of buying the nice $2000 handbag, put $2000 into robinhood and then if she still has cash she can buy that one item. Same with vacations, tell her next time she wants to book a $2000 trip to Hawaii or whatever tell her to invest it first so she gets passive income and then she can get more vacations sustainably in the future
Eating out on the weekends doesnt have to be pricy
William Morgan
drop her, some guy with more money could probably deal with her
Andrew Nguyen
sounds like your gf has a better perspective on life than you do
don't live like you're poor if you're not, nobody likes a stingy bastard. let go of the delusion that saving your 50 bucks from a dinner out is gonna make you a multi millionaire and just live your damn life
i wish i could afford any vacations at all you cunt
Wyatt Turner
full id: 9hbfDFUn i think we can interpret that as "BF D FUN", as in from the OP perspective, kek confirms she thinks his dick is fun. Unfortunately that means she doesnt love you...
Asher Wood
This, just be ok with her doing all of that shit and make her pay most of the bills. Works for me and my GF and then I save all of the money and allow us to do nice things.
My GF cares so little that she doesn't even know that she is paying most of the major expenses. She just writes a couple checks and then wastes what remains on take-out and clothes
