Is a non-virgin girlfriend worth investing the time effort and money into?
Is a non-virgin girlfriend worth investing the time effort and money into?
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Only if she's under 16.
Only if she’s a trap.
based and pedopilled
Cringe and yikespilled
Gross and why-don't-you-have-a-seat-over-there-pilled
you have to examine the pussy to tell. if it is an outie, no, she has a lot of miles on her.
s o y lent and bluepilled
rope and bluepilled
No. My non virgin gf acts the exact same way as my friend's virgin gf. They're all full of shit, except he doesn't have to live with the fact the girl he kisses has had another man's dick in her mouth
myth
so what are you ganna do?
>haram
>not halal
yes. also the smell.
cope
roastie cope
t. roastie
The thing is your friends girl will be loyal, yours will cheat. Cope harder idiot
Do girls find guys that are virgins pure? Asking for a friend...
Yes
nope
Nice, if my friend sleeps with an escort should he tell her he is a virgin? Would that turn her on?
There's a handful of exceptions, but always remember that exceptions only prove the rule. It's a waste of time looking for an exception
Im dating a girl 4 years younger than me and she dated a black guy for 5 years. I hated knowing that shit at first but I realized everyone makes mistakes and once I accepted that life has been great. Im overwhelming happy with her
Totally depends on the girl. And good luck finding any girl over 18 that's still a virgin. They don't exist.
Also go for cute over hot. Everytime. They're just better people and just as attractive just in a different way.
The amount of virgin in this thread is insane.
Nah, girls are pretty dirty and seem to like when guys have had lots of sex with randos. Once a girl also has sex without a condom, they usually tend to try having the guy not use a condom even during one night stands which is kind of disgusting but theyll try to play it off saying they dont usually do that.
what if the problem is with me, not her? lets say shes insanely needy/devoted/loyal and treats me like a king. But I cant stand the fact that another dick was in her mouth. what do in that situation?
Yeah that's your own fault and you need to get over that.
I think I'm boyfriend #3 for my girlfriend (and she's 19 and I just turned 20) and that's not at all out of the ordinary. I want this one to last though, she's awesome.
>virgin
>female
> +25yo
ahh she's 100% a recluse so enjoy that
nothing haram about as sub16 virgin. that was the norm for men all throughout history.
Too old. Sex before 8 or it's too late.
no
It won't be your last if you are number 3 and are having sex since you have no concept of commitment. You're just playing house and spending time in your passions.
Bet.
This girl is 16, if you wouldn't that's a big GAY from me you homos.
how do I get over it? I literally cant
Then you're not getting over it lmao
Probably the same reason you haven't approached your oneitis yet. You're a fucking pussy
I dont have a oneitis, fuck you talkin bout willis?
>3 non marital partners
>chances of successful long term relationship are literally under 40%
>worse than flipping a coin
t. my gf is the same way. Just don't get attached. The instability comes out after time. Remember never fall in love with a girl whose been with another man
why are you dating her then?
I enjoy vaginas
You have to remember that statistics are for populations and not individual people. Sometimes it works out no problem. Given the dearth of virgin females, I figured I'd try to make the best of the situation and things started out fine. I will most likely end it soon if it continues to get worse. Sometimes you just have to face facts. I learned my lesson and I'm trying to help other anons not make the same mistake.
>get gf
>she was raped at 17 when she told her bf she wasn't ready
>she stayed with him
>stayed with some other loser for 7 years
>i pick her up now that she's damaged goods
she's only had two previous partners so she says but she did everything with them including m/f/f threesomes and i can't let it go. she's so good to me and the only woman that ever loved me has good job good money no kids what do i do i'm so fucking lonely i just want a pure girl to share my life with
i know what kind of girl this is. shes will likely be loyal to you, but the second you ask for some space or time off she will already be on some dudes dick
just use her for sex/practice gf
thats kind of what i want to do but she was a good girl that was taken advantage of by scumbag dudes all her life and i don't want to be another one on the list all she wants is a family i don't want to waste a couple more years of her life then destroy her when she's about to hit the wall
Can confirm. At first you buy into the idea that because her other relationships weren't good, she appreciates you more. But then they end up clingy and don't understand you need time for yourself, your work, etc and they start accusing you of being unfaithful when you try to take time for other things. Also,
>stayed with some other loser for 7 years
c'mon man, you can't possibly think that hasn't had some residual side effects
what do you mean?
>she was a good girl that was taken advantage of by scumbag dudes all her life
Live for yourself, not someone else.
Tell her what you want and what your thoughts are, if she's not okay with your opinions, then drop her and move on. Sitting around wondering for several years helps neither of you
>I think you're damaged goods
How is she going to be "okay" with his opinions. It's fucked from jump street. He needs to just move on if it bothers him.
shit sucks man, fuck our degenerative sex positive reddit society
>You have to remember that statistics are for populations and not individual people.
That was literally my point before you brought up the graphs
no hymen no diamond
It doesn't have to be said in the most crude way possible but whatever user, I still said he should leave if he's just going to waste time for a few years before finally getting a result
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“Sex doesn’t make you married. There must be a ceremony!”
“Sex makes you married” flies in the face of over a thousand years of churchian lies
Yes, ladies, you married the guy you gave your virginity to.
You may not like it (probably won’t) but God didn’t ask your opinion on this. As Scripture says, “does the pot speak back to the potter?” If that’s the case you either don’t believe He has the right to order your life His way, or you don’t believe this is what He said. I’ll lay out what Scripture says
The Law of Marriage (Genesis 2:24) is pretty straight-forward
in both Exodus 22:16 and Deuteronomy 22:28-29, sex is what makes the two married, which is exactly what Genesis 2:24 said. In 1st Corinthians 6:16 we discover that the Hebrew word “dabaq” that gets translated into English as “cleave” or “joined” in Genesis 2:24 actually means sex. There is no ceremony and nobody has to preside over anything or solemnize anything, all that’s required is sex… and that’s the problem. Yes, the problem is that it’s so easy to get married that people have been struggling with this for thousands of years to throw in all kinds of other requirements to make it harder to get married.
Genesis 2:24 only has a single tangible act necessary to produce marriage and that’s sex. That means virtually all women are virgins when they marry because they are married when they lose their virginity. What do you call it when a woman has sex with a man who isn’t her husband? Adultery. What do you call her when she is joined to (“marries”) a man who is not her husband? An adulteress.
that means that somewhere around 90% of all couples in church today are living in adultery because the woman was already married when she joined herself with the man she calls her husband. Because she married the man she gave her virginity to. No-one likes that. they didn’t know they were marrying the guy. They didn’t know it, but God does.
OK but doesnt this apply to men to? What about all the Chads that banged tons of thots before settling down and getting married. Does God look down on him or does he kindof give him a high five since mens bonding abilities are less damaged from sex than womans are?
bump for theology
You are uncomfortable with the difference in status between men and women because you have been taught the lie that men and women are equal and are held to the same standards of sexual morality.
The status of the man is that he gives his consent and commitment to marry every time he has sexual intercourse. The act is automatic consent for the man because he is the moving party. Men marry women, not the other way around. Another example is the fact that a man can legitimately have sex with a woman who is not his wife but if a woman has sex with any man other than her husband she commits adultery.
In other words, the status and responsibilities of men are not the same as that of women because men and women are not the same. They are in no way equal because they have different standards of sexual morality. This is not, as is commonly taught, a difference merely in authority because men and women are held to different standards of moral behavior.
If a virgin woman has sex, the act of having sex is her wedding. She’s now married and has not committed any sin (sex is the act of marriage whether she consents or not (Genesis 2:24; Exodus 22:16-17; Deuteronomy 22:28-29).
If a virgin woman who is engaged has sex with her fiance prior to the wedding date, she and her husband are not married, but they violated their wedding agreement with premarital sex. The man has sinned by violating his word (Numbers 30:2)
If a non-virgin woman consents to being married and has sex with a man she’s eligible to marry, the act of having sex is her wedding. She’s now married and has not committed any sin (her consent is required- 1st Corinthians 7:39; sex is the act of marriage- Genesis 2:24)
If a non-virgin woman has sex with a man she’s eligible to marry but has not consented to marry, she is not married and neither is she in sin (falls under the man’s authority to have sex with any woman he’s eligible to marry because he’s authorized to initiate marriage and sex is the act of marriage).
If a married woman has sex with any man other than her husband, she’s committed adultery (Exodus 20:14; Leviticus 18:20)
A man, married or not, has the authority to initiate marriage and that authority isn’t limited to a single wife. Because of that, the man can have sex with any woman he is eligible to marry and it is not a sin (Genesis 2:24).
If a man has sex with another man’s wife or fiancee, he commits adultery (Exodus 20:14; Leviticus 18:20; Deuteronomy 22:23-24).
so if im dating a non-virgin girl, i am actually dating a married woman? interesting, that would explain my discomfort
no
These perverts lied and called it wicked and sinful. God created a double-standard, one for men and one for women. The gnostic perverts simplified things and required men and women to adhere to the same standard of sexual morality
Any man is free to take more than one wife if he wishes. The reason there is no prohibition on a man having sex with any woman he is eligible to marry is because sex is the act by which a man marries a woman and a man may have more than one wife. To forbid such a thing is to forbid marriage. To say a man is “cheating” on his wife in doing so is to say a man can only have one wife. That is contrary to Scripture’s teaching as well as adding/subtracting from the Law, which is a sin.
That, of course, drives churchians into fits of feminist outrage because they do not understand that a man can only commit adultery by having sex with another man’s wife. Because sex with another man’s wife is the definition of adultery (Leviticus 18:20; 20:10). And God does not change, He said so Himself, repeatedly. Churchians have a great deal of difficulty with this
The on-point passages are Deuteronomy 22:13-21; 28-29; Numbers 30:2-5 and Judges 21. Comparing Exodus 22:16-17 with Deuteronomy 22:28-29 and contrasting those passages with the punishment of the virgin in Deuteronomy 22:13-21, it becomes evident there is no other way to take Exodus 22:16-17 except as a definitive statement that “taking a woman’s virginity is the act of marrying her.”
In Exodus 22:16-17, if a man (doesn’t matter if he is married or not) seduces a virgin, they are married unless the father exercises his rights under Numbers 30 to annul her agreement to marry. In Deuteronomy 22:28-29 the Law says if a virgin is forced to have sex with a man and they are discovered, they are married and the father cannot refuse the marriage.
interesting how muslims follow these rules but christians dont, kek
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