27 years old

It's time for you to leave and do your own thing when she starts fucking with you. It's your job to guide the relationship out of that nonsense.

yer fucking pathetic. go look up "RSD poison drips" and get yer life in check. go heart heartiste and rational male and the red pill on plebbit whcih is now banned

fix your life you fucking pathetic beta you aint fooling real niggas you fucking cuck

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yeah m8 that mgtow bullshit is gay

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Fucking dump her now. You're almost thirty. You shouldn't be playing these childish games these little girls play. Dump her without remorse and cut contact.

weve been going out for two years though and have had lots of good times. She is usually really nice and supportive, and always wants to fuck

shes just been having mood swings lately and being moody as fuck. Maybe its just a woman thing but its stressing me out

As someone who has far more experience with women than all of /soc/ combined, let me give you some advice. Especially if you're now Jow Forums. Drop the bitch. She's toxic. Say "you're right, we should have a break." Then just walk away.

It will drive her insane and she will BEG for a chance to come back to you (because she wasn't yet ready to leave... she's just in the early planning stages.) Fuck her like a toy, and keep fucking her, but she's done as a partner. Reroll and try again. She's destroying your confidence. That is what toxic cunts do.

Listen to this user OP

>threatening to "take a break"

Dump and don't look back trust me that hoe is not wife material if she's pulling that shit on you. Every terrible relationship I've had had a red flag like that. Dump and don't look back no matter what. Start working towards towards inner strength now that you are physically fit.

>"i obviously dont want to but i think it may be for the best"
She means she wants to fuck other guys on the side while still having you as a backup plan. Dump the bitch, there's no saving her because she doesn't want to be saved. She'll only drag you down with her.

problem is its taken me 7 years to get another girlfriend. im borderline autistic, hate people, and its difficult to actually meet females.

I dont want to wait another 7 years to have the opportunity to meet another girl naturally

and no, "go to the club" or "tinder" wont work, trust me

If she knows you're desperate to keep her around, she'll respect you even less. She knows you can't do without her right now and she's taking full advantage of it. Stringing her along right now only proves how "right" she is in her own mind about you. Breaking up with her will tell her that you aren't to be fucked with, and that you have the confidence to find someone else. If nothing else, it will make her respect you and you won't have to deal with her bullshit for a while.

i used to be at a similar point and actually went back to smoking weed and playing vidya 24/7.

it really didn't feel the same user. i still enjoy these acts from time to time but for some reason after spending time in `real life` they seem rather shallow.

i dont smoke weed anymore but take psychedelics from time to time to remember that everything is meaningless, which is great.

but yeah, some girls drain the life out of you.

Fucking her best friend is also a power move.

>im borderline autistic, hate people, and its difficult to actually meet females.

This is what I mean by inner strength. You know what the problem is so what are you going to do to fix it? I used to be autistic too until I went into a research frenzy on body language and neruo-linguistic programming. So by the time I knew the solution all I had to do to better myself was to actually put it into effect into the world. Women will come easy after you build the inner confidence and have the tools at your disposal

Jesus Christ. If I was a mentally ill trasvesite contemplating suicide .... and I read this post. I'd feel so much better about myself knowing there are actually complete faggots out there like you that need more help than me bring a tranny

I told her i dont really care if we dont have sex and i doubt she will be able not to.

Ive also told her before i dont care if we break up, theres always more girls out there

She now said because of those comments i dont "value the relationship"

I also ignore her texts and she just texts more and more until i reply. I dont know if its her hormones or shit-test but i would rather not instantly dump her and waste a 2 year relationship over a mood swing or shit-test

but im sick of it, i wont be spoken to like this by a woman. Women are meant to be obedient and caring, not angry and argumentative.

just rape her, i dont understand any of your problem. raping your gf will literally cure every single one of those problems

What psychs do you take? I miss LSD and ketamine the most. What i'd do to take LSD once a year and ketamine once a month..

I also feel like i can never really get back into videogames now that ive spent so much time in real life.

Im 27 and am basically fucked in the head. I have been conditioned mentally and socially to dislike people and i hate being around and meeting people. I have nothing mentally in common with people and my inner focus is on suicide and anger.

I really think i am set in my ways and even though i can improve myself physically and socially to some extent, i will never be a "normal" person and people can sense this with me that my brain and thoughts aren't functioning as they should

You can fake it for a few minutes but at the end of the day you are a fraud. You need a good upbringing and positive reinforcement to truly feel good about yourself. And a social circle etc... especially the older you get

>instantly dump her and waste a 2 year relationship

you sound like a HODL'er. Imagine if you had sold at the top instead of waiting for the next bull run (if it ever comes). Relationships are the same way. I've been in 3 long ones ranging from (6 to 3 to 1). Trust me, holding on out of fear of lost time is the worst reason to stay with somebody

Just read "The Power of Now" and you'll never be depressed again.

What's up with the bunch of rsd faggots shitting up my board lately

i take shrooms user

I've taken both lsd and shrooms numerous times and I've came to the conclusion that for the reasons why i take psychedelics (which is for like a mental reset, get my head straight) shrooms work much better.

in most of my shroom trips i hallucinated this jester-like entity that I was absolutely terrified of. after dozens of trips I've found out that the jester was a representation of my unconscious mind, fucking with myself throughout my entire life, making every part of my life more difficult for me. meeting people, achieving goals, talking with girls, feeling lonely and misunderstood to name a few.

thats why i feel like i relate to you in some ways. i always felt like i was fucked in the head, and might argue that i still am but the discomfort of feeling crazy or fucked in the head is simply not there anymore.

also the trips made me realize that we are all fucked a lil in the head. my parents, friends, teachers, girlfriends. we are all fucked and crazy to some limit, but that is kind of what defines us and makes us unique and similar at the same time.

embrace yourself user, don't ever feel bad about being you. you don't have to be "improved". you are perfect the way you are. this culture we live in digs an unfillable hole in our hearts and spirits due to consumerism and this constant need to get better to keep you on the hamster wheel.

relax, take a breathe, and enjoy yourself my friend. hope you feel better

you need a purpose, something to aspire too, something to give yourself meaning. take on the biggest goal you can reasonably accomplish for yourself and work towards it.

I worked out all thorugh college but summer and winder breaks I would dick around. Still was in progressively better shape and progressively stronger. got a couple cool gf's along the way.

this past summer after graduating I took a solo bicycle trip across the US, coast to coast. Culminating in one hell of an acid trip on Mt. Mackenzie in Oregon, one of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced. On the last day, blasted my way down 4k foot descent in early morning and rode harder and farther than ever before making it 160 miles in 10.5 hours to meet my mom at the coast after 3 months solo.
trip was 2 years in the making and the best thing I've ever done.
It changed me and I'm still figuring out what it means for me and my life, but there was something in the noble goal, and the overwhelming challenge combined with the fact that the ONLY reason I was doing it was because I felt like it, and it was purely my idea, and whenever I reflect on it and the hard parts of the trip, I'm filled with immense personal satisfaction.
go find the next thing, and find out what your body likes and feels right along the way.

I feel best when I eat right, exercise, socialize a bit, get proper sleep, and make sure to take vitamin D because of chronic and hereditary vit d deficiency. gotta learn how your body works and reacts to things.

one of my workout buddies decided to start a PL team at my college, the team didn't do much, but he wound up going to a few meets and qualifying for nationals in his first year competing. you need something like that

>I was basically incel.
No you were not, shut the fuck up.
I'm a 26 year old man who went on one date, realized she was fatter than the pictures, so the date started with a hug and ended with a handshake
Fuck you.

Who tests for LSD and shrooms? This is not part of a routine drug test

> realized she was fatter than the pictures,

lol faggot. i can sense the low test from here

t.

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Is it not? its a big risk to take and losing a well paying job isn't worth it

t. low test pedo

No, it's rather expensive to test for LSD. It's half life is around 3 hours, so it should be undetectable in urine after 28 hours. Hair tests could detect it for up to 90 days, but those are even less common than urine.

>and threatening not to have sex with me.
sounds like you need to git gud or you have a microdick, otherwise this would be too much of a punishment for her

>girlfriend talking back to me
this is a good thing, it means she's not an NPC and is thus actually a suitable ally

>lifting weights 5 times a week
lol
please get off the brosplit faggot

>Sudden unexpected mood swings
>previously chill
Are you sure she isn't pregnant? Women get moody when they have a kid on the way.

She's either pregnant or the fucky chemicals present in all women's brains are starting to make her hate you because you havent knocked her up yet.

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>it feels like this is a girls "socially acceptable" way of slowly breaking up with you once shes bored
M8, you already know exactly what is going on here. Might as well just call it a day.

>Lifting 5 time a week is bad

this post is the most inconceivably faggoty post I've ever read on this site

how could you possibly be so wrong on all accounts

>he fell for the get a job, gf and start lifting meme

>Ive also told her before i dont care if we break up, theres always more girls out there

>She now said because of those comments i dont "value the relationship"

She is right. Those comments are horrible. Imagine if she said that to you. You should leave her and let her find someone better.

>threatening to “take a break”
Shes already “taking a break” behind your back user. Truth in plain sight. Can almost guarantee she’s texting or talking to a “old friend” on Facebook.

going to the gym doesnt make you a 9/10

>Raping
>Girlfriend

What did he mean by this?

Based. I was incel then met this cute. I wish I stayed incel after I found out the toxic cunt was just using me as a toy with money inside.

Dump her, don't waste your time in an unfulfilling relationship or you'll want to an hero in 10 years.

This is the best post in this thread user.

>27 years old
>her getting butthurt over made up problems, threatening to "take a break" and threatening not to have sex with me.

dump

Read Kierkegaard to find your way then. You've lived as an aesthete and as an ethicist which both end in despair. You've got to find yourself and live as a knight of faith if you want to overcome despair.

Your life is shit because you don't have a purpose, you're just trying to attain and balance comforts.

If you find something to live for then your whole life changes. Things will still be hard, but you will find those things fulfilling because they are contributing to your something.

>Women are meant to be obedient and caring, not angry and argumentative.
They are, to men that are worth it. aka Chad.
The meme is real friend.

>I have been conditioned mentally and socially to dislike people and i hate being around and meeting people
Not really, you come of as an asshole using autism as an excuse. I doubt that you hate people, it's a lazy excuse for not wanting to take on responsibility and being mature. Your girlfriend has the same feels as you and is stuck dealing with you.

>Raw shaming tactics
Could've just said 'be urself'. would help as much.

Not really, sometimes be yourself is the worst option. Especially when you are a shit person hiding behind autism, then don't be yourself at all.

LSD doesn't show up on drug tests OP

what about hair tests? my job hair tests

You forgot what the cel part of incel means you idiot. Celibate means no sex. You were basically just a normie who had less sex.

GHB is gone in 12 hours, Ketamine in 48 hours.

>he fell for the lures of the wretched vaginakin
You did this to yourself.

Been in your situation. DUMP THAT BITCH!
Respect is essential. It is only your incel past that makes you accept the abuse.

>I told her i dont really care if we dont have sex and i doubt she will be able not to.

>Ive also told her before i dont care if we break up, theres always more girls out there

you fucking retard, no wonder she wants to break up. this shit fucks with girls mentally, you cant keep a loyal gf if she FEELS worthless.

instead consider this:
you tell her you wont accept her holding sex as a weapon and shut down that game.

you should never be even talking about breaking up if you're doing things right. even if she's freaking the fuck out over something stupid the idea of breaking up should never come up unless you're constantly proving she should leave. mostly because you shut it down like withholding sex thing: Don't threaten breaking this relationship up just to get her way. you're the man here, don't let her do these things, it'll set precedent and if you keep up your part of the bargain by being a worthy man she'll keep up hers of listening to you.