>21
>just lost my virginity tn to a 19 year old roastie from tinder
>came in 30 seconds
>literally feel like the same autistic person ive always been
SO YOUR TELLING ME THAT THIS IS SUPPOSE TO BE LIFE CHANGING?
THAT I STRESSED THE LAST 6 YEARS OF MY LIFE OVER THIS SHIT?
THAT IM SUPPOSE TO "MAKE IT" SO THAT I CAN BUY EXPENSIVE CRAP SO I CAN GET MORE OF THIS?
THAT I SPENT 1000+ HOURS OF MY LIFE JERKING OFF TO VIDEOS AND GIFS OF THIS?
WHAT THE FUCK THIS IS THE BIGGEST FUCKING SCAM EVER!
Someone please tell me I am wrong
i have eaten three girls out and fingered another 2 girls. i am still a virgin ;_;
fuck this gay scam desu. im with you op
Till loosing virginity you tend to see sex as the best thing ever...when you have it its more 'meh'
Felt the same after craving for it for 4 years...afterwards i was much more relaxed and successfull with women
Literally its super fucking average
I banged a lot of hoes and now I don't give a fuck anymore. It's fun but all I really want to do is get back to making money and my hobbies.
Unironically the best part of being in a relationship is the love you receive a loving partner, sex only matters/is better than masturbating with the above.
Congratulations on figuring this out while you're still young. Sex is pointless. Imagine being in your 30s and still being a pussy obsessed virgin.
When you realise sex is overrated, but the feeling of getting a female to submit herself to you is the best feeling
YOOOOO, DIS NIGGA GOT DABBED ON BY THE PUSSY MEME YALL
im 21 and a virgin but ive never really cared too much about it. thinking about getting my testosterone levels checked. I crave physical closeness but dont feel much desire to put my dick in a vagina.
I had a better time cuddling with her 15 minutes after than the actual sex desu lad
This user. There's nothing wrong with you cuddling can be better than sex.
I'm married with kids. I've said to a lot of people on the chan that sex is overrated.
On some occasions I get bombarded with comments telling me that my post is virgin cope and other such stupidity.
OP. Sex is overrated. Unironically only have sex in the missionary position for the soul purpose of procreation.
Having kids is way more enjoyable and rewarding.
This. Nothing like knowing a girl will let you piss in her mouth because she wants you that much.
Yes and no.
Sex is over rated, yes.
But its actually fun and enjoyable when you spice the thing up and get creative.
I don't have child, but I trust you when you say it's fulfilling.
Sex is something you have to get good at. You have to get out of the virgin metality and think of it as a passionate, sensual expression of dominance. Also stop watching porn.
lmao get meme'd kid
>tfw thought you might die a Virgin
>roll the dice on Tinder and find amazing girl
>finally lose virginity
>having sex at least 4 times a week
>sex is so overrated I don’t even want to have it half the time
I feel duped but I’m still content
virgin detected
Sex with a complete stranger is overrated yes.
Making love with a person you genuinely like however is bliss.
wow this whole thread is virgins.... time for me to get the fuck out of this cringe fest.
This. Sex for the first time is a confidence booster like no other.
The vcard loss is just a psychological barrier for entry into pussy.
The actual sex is shit, the good stuff doesnt come around until youve fucked a bit.
Yo bro I’m dating a model and I’ve been hitting it for almost 2 years. You get tired of this shit and want new pussy. Stay a bachelor
>not doing it with a cute boy that loves you tenderly
oh god OP why are you so stupid?
lmfaoooooooooooooooo literally the same thing i said. bitches aint shit.
but heres another tip the first few times its gunna be like water. but then after the tenth time of hitting it raw your gunna get super horny and want it all the time. shes gunna wanna wait for sex every two days to build her libido back up again if you date her she may give you one day out of your whole relationship just one where you fuck her sloppy in any position imagineable but you have to make her nut
its like crack that doesent get you addicted the first ten times but then out of nowhere bam
I have a very similar story. Find someone you actually like. The sex is a lot better.
Yeah I feel you bro. I was at a friend's beach house with some high school friends when I was a 19yo virgin. We were all drinking and shit and one of my friends who was a girl just started giving me these looks like she was 100% keen so I just went for it. One thing leads to another and we're in bed and it took me like an hour to get hard (I honestly thought I'd have the opposite problem, finish too quick) but then we fucked for like 20-30 mins and I just felt like it was a bit of a letdown after feeling I was missing out for so long. Also I haven't had sex since (that was 2 years ago) and am not too bothered about it lmao.
It ain't some magical thing that you should be ashamed you haven't done.
i hope youre trolling
sex is no big deal
I know that feel which is why I'm slowly starting to cut off pornography. Pornography is a lot more stimulating that sex itself. Sex is just so boring compared to what is portrayed in porn. I never understood why people said it was "fake" until I had the real thing and really realized what they were talking about. Anyways.
I somewhat regret losing my virginity because I felt like a great deal of my motivation to do stuff died off. Everything I did was subconsciously because of sex or at least find a pure qt wife to breed. Now that I know how pathetic the deed really is I'm having a bit more trouble staying motivated. I feel a ton more relaxed towards women now though because now I know women are boring as fuck and they will never satisfy me. The thing that I noticed is that I don't get accused of being a virgin anymore. I do truly believe people can tell you're a virgin subconsciously too, aka the virgin walk as they put it. But yeah Sex is the greatest scam of all human history.
Well if you're wearing a condom which you likely are for your first time then sex is just awful can't feel a thing. Now I get it once a week and it's more like the feeling of a good cup of coffee in the morning. Married 10 years.
>You have to get out of the virgin metality and think of it as a passionate, sensual expression of dominance
This might be true but even then if I want to be alpha then I'll simply save the time and effort and play PUBG or lift instead. Fuck sex.
This
I swear the whole fuck as many girls as possible is a scam or something
It feels horrible and wrong when your not even attracted or know them then you risk having a baby with her
Underrated as fuck pope tier post right here. All these virgins are plugged into the roastie matrix. You can groom a woman to do anything for you. They just don't know how.
It's not about fucking as many girls as you want or how many times your penis has been in their stinky vagina while they think about the next chad they are going to see later that night. It's about having women emotionally hooked on your dick so they will pay for your shit, suck you whenever you ask, let them fuck you wherever. In order to do this, you have to be in shape, not ugly, and confident, guarantee you 2/3 of Jow Forums lacks at least one of these
You'd view it differently if it would be with a girl you appreciate, rather than some random cumrag from tinder.
worst thing is knowing how overrated is but still having the daily urge, biological impulse so strong its like torture. It will be like this until youre like 90 yo and your dick goes limp but youll probably still be horny. Sooo fucking horny every day its a damn nightmare this life sucks
>SO YOUR TELLING ME THAT THIS IS SUPPOSE TO BE LIFE CHANGING?
No, nobody ever said that. On the contrary, sex is overrated. Disregard females, acquire currency is not just a meme.
you won't be that horny b/c your test will drop when you get old.
Hallo Harakiri
checked. Is that so? i've seen some horny grandpas..
It did change your life,now your a slut.
>23yo
>had twice the chance to have sex but dick is not getting hard for long enough to insert.
Atleast you had sex. I visit the penis doctor soon. Wish me luck.
1keoy
Mid 30s Big Dick Chad here. Had sex with about 40 women. Relish that shit in your 20s. It's not as easy or worth your time in your 30s. You just get older and more tired and there's just single moms as under 25 roasties won't bang you anymore.
Now you have gonorrhea so I guess it did change your life.
What a sad way to lose your virginity.
nah
I'm married with 2 kids and I legit like fucking my wife doggy style. We've been together for ten years. Missionary for the sake of reproduction is good too.
But I agree that porn, kinks, and fetishes are overrated.
You're not wrong.
Idk wtf you guys are talking about, I'm 23 and I'm still craving for sex every day. I can't imagine not having sex for more than a month and keeping your sanity.
>he thought putting his dick in a hole would change his autistic brain and personality like unlocking something in a zoomer game
Classic autistic NPC logic.
Sex without love is just spanking the monkey. Trust me.
this is correct. man, when you facefuck her really deep and she starts gagging, but really wants you to cum in her mouth. amazing.
Sex gets really good with experience (depending on both parties). I had some meh sex back in the day but I haven't had any meh sex for years now.
>he thinks having sex is what gives intimacy meaning instead of developing a lasting relationship with someone you're willing to be emotionally vulnerable with
>he fell for the modern meme of "having random casual sex is fulfilling and healthy"
OP is a fag
sage
>love
Women are incapable of love.
They are succubi.
Sex without conception is meaningless.
>you're willing to be emotionally vulnerable
>He's emotionally vulnerable
fag
word
>he's closed himself off emotionally and keeps all his cards close to his chest
>implying getting close to someone who cares for your well being and allowing the more hidden layers of your personality to show through is a bad thing
>tfw you probably spends your time on Jow Forums boards as a NEET thinking that chainlink is gonna make you rich
the real wealth is found in meaningful relationships with your family and loved ones, and a meaningful relationship with the transcendent
so: no u
>he's never had a woman devoted to him
>he's never had a woman by his side for years while he was down, broke and sad
>"women are incapable of love because that ROSTIE at school didn't return my glance >:^("
Neck yourself incel.
Yeah it's literally nothing, it wont change you.
I am shilling and teaching jainism, but nobody here listens.
you can become a god down here in this shithole, yet people prefer licking dirty vaginas and hijack their selves untill the time of death.
when the time for the body comes, the wicked feels fear and does not want to die; being complacent with the world he is born again and dies endlessly unwilling.
how, since you are literally FUCKING each other
its a pretty evil thing to do, nature makes feel enjoyable because procreation
You're not. Sex is only enjoyable with someone you love. I know it sounds cucked and bluepilled but it's the truth.
Meaningless sex is shit.
>he fell for the vagina meme
As everything in life, this gets better with practice. Everyone came super fast the first time. No need to kys op. Just repeat.
It's the best night of the week desu. Similar situation here. Sometimes if we have sex on a Monday we can squeeze more in before the end of the week. Always Jack off the day after too cos I know I won't be called upon that night. Our sex is unironically better now than when we began all those years ago.
That's nerves famalam. Happened to me with new partners or 1 night stands. Try to block it from your mind or it will get worse. Like tourettes. Also stop porn and mindless fapping if you are into that.
Sex itself is overrated, but when it's with someone you care about that feeling of entering them after they've completely surrendered themself just to you is incredible. It feels like you're exactly where you belong.
Riddle me this, Jow Forumsraelis
If sex is no big deal, how come I am shamed and viewed as an oddity for not having it, avoiding relationships, and spurning marriage and children?
Because not having sex is a symptom of not being desirable to women, i.e. possessing undesirable character traits.
Literally the opposite for me. Had incredible sex in high school, girls bodies where just so perfect then, so smooth and soft etc, now I’m 26 and I only fuck girls who are 22/23 and it’s always pretty meh. I can’t even imagine how bad it is when you fuck a thirty year old. Literally want to kms knowing it only goes down from here.
Also to OP: remember until you’ve had sex with no condom you won’t truly realise what’s so good about it. It’s an exponential difference.
Please tell me you’re like 60 and not fucking 30. If sex in your 30s is once a week and like a warm cup of coffee I’m just gonna go ahead and KMS.
No: you told yourself it was life-changing.
Chad knows that sex is nothing special. That's why he doesn't put it - or toasties - on any pedestal.
You were beta before not because you were a virgin, but because you are beta. Now you have had sex and you're still beta. Enjoy your moment of insight.
Why should desirability to women have a negative impact on my life?
I did read somewhere that women are 4 times as likely as males to break up relationships (and lesbians twice as likely as gays). So unfortunately it's not that far-fetched for there to be more roasties than loyal women to go around. And not everyone will be able to call himself lucky enough to find one.
Nice autocorrect. Full disclosure: I would put a good cheese toastie on a higher pedestal than any woman.
In itself it doesn't, but the things that make a person undesirable almost certainly will do.
Until you do it with a girl you care about, user, it will all feel the same.
For those who say sex is overrated, or that porn is amazing and sex is shit compared to it, its likely because either you are low T beta males or you fucked very unattractive women. Or because you are doing sex in the wrong way (sex is much more that 5-10 minutes of benis in vagina, it is a whole session that consists in cuddling, kissing in the mouth in the neck in the nipples... and lots of things that are not usually portrayed in comercial porn). Sex is fucking wonderful, one of the best things in life. Of course sex with an ugly, fat roastie that you just met on the internet or with a 50$ crack whore is gonna be awful. But sex, well done, and with an attractive qt that you have emotional connection with is really fantastic.
Kek yes it is a scam but if you don't fomo into a pussy you will never learn that it's not a big deal. But try convincing your brain this is infact the case when you never had any.
You jerk off to gifs? Not gonna make it
>it is a whole session that consists in cuddling, kissing in the mouth in the neck in the nipples
So actually yes sex is overrated. The best part about it is the connection you have with the other person in the experience as a whole, not the actual sex itself. Meta-sex.
Sex is fucking someone. Anyone can do it and it's frankly underwhelming and unfulfilling. What people say is great sex is fucking someone but doing a tonne of other shit too, all while experiencing an emotional state and connection with the other person. The physical interaction is the least important; it's the shared mental state and connection that matters and what people value.
Sex is just an activity that people can do to enter into that connected emotional state. There are others (including easily accessible ones like drugs). It's the connection/flow/memory-making/whatever the fuck you want to call it that's what makes it great, not the activity.
i know this feel. My friends probably think I'm gay cause i never chase girls
WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT?
Where are my fellow incels at?
Similar feeling, but at least I got a caring loyal gf out of it. The monks were right
havent had sex since i was 16, 19 now. dont see any circumstance where ill ever get laid again. I dont care too much about the sex but its the fact ill probably never have a nice girlfriend and always be alone that worries me
youre not wrong. women are the worst investment any man can make. and once youve had sex more than 1000 times, you realize its just a waste of time. literally. welcome to the real world, kiddo.
30 years old and waiting for my goddess
If it can comfort you I am 31 and I've been with my wife since we were 22 and we have sex at least onve every day, and often two or three times per day saturdays and sundays and it's far better than in the first years.
well thats kind of backwards since the man typically has to do all the pursuing in the first place
are you telling me people would rather assume a man attempted and failed rather than never tried?
so many low T, low confidence, low skill, low physical fitness fags in this thread.
you lot are why my girls and my female friends complain that it's so difficult to find a guy that bangs them right.
there is nothing better than truly overpowering a girl and banging her into submission. it is the greatest thing ever, as exciting and primal as it gets. and she will always come on over when you text her.
>muh, sex is boring and overrated
yeah well, awkward p in v back and forth while she is starfished out underneath you sure is. get with the programme and learn how to fuck
reminder that unvirgins are inherently immoral people and should leave
You are
>he thought the 3DPD meme was a joke
Because its the norm to have sex, kids etc. Don't worry user, you do you and stop having conversations with people and telling them that you haven't had sex. It's like the gays who wanna tell everyone that they're gay straight away. No one gives a monkeys.
>can't remember the last time I talked sex with my buddies.
Pleasures of the flesh are meaningless
It's not too late to put your faith in Christ, user
>There are people who didn’t lose their virginity until they were 21
Congrats you are 5-6 years late to find out women are a meme
How to spot a nigger in one post.
>its likely because either you are low T beta males or you fucked very unattractive women.
Haha bitch please. I've had sex with women that you wouldn't even last a minute with, let alone be able to last as long as me. Sorry, but sex IS overrated and it makes me laugh when people like you can't accept that fact so you go into mental gymnastics mode explaining that muh emotions with sex is better. Quit moving goal posts. Almost everyone ITT agrees that sex is overrated. I bet you invested in Bitconnet. Fuck off, nigger.