Marrying into money

I have a gf from a very wealthy family. I come from absolutely nothing, skipping dinner 3x a week in my childhood. I’m still pretty young so part of me wants to explore other options but another part wants to lock down a basically guaranteed lifetime of wealth. Wwyd?

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Marry her of course

I like how you ignore the gf in your pondering. How is she?

If you're really asking this question then shes worthless and you're marriage will crumble and you'll be left with nothing in the end. Move on.

How can you afford a ring? I lost all my money on BItmex. Not sure how much longer my Roastie is going to pay my rent.

How is the sexytime? If sexytime is soso, no money will save your marriage and you'll be cucked in no time.

She’s pretty great actually, thinks the world of me, pretty good social/political views. Commitment scares me though.

>Commitment scares me though.
what is this jewish shit

I think a $5k investment would pay off in the long run. I have an okay job but not the old school wealth she does.

dont be a pussy

Completely depends on how much you like the girl. You're giving up a life time of sex with woman, or women, you like, just for money? If you actually looked her a lot, then go for it faggot.

Is she hot? if so stop being a faggot

I mean I like her a lot at the moment but I’ve had other gfs that I’ve lost interest in pretty quickly and unexpectedly.

Don't be scared by commitment or you'll never be happy.
Do you want to spend tour life with her or not? If not dump her, if yes stay with her.
Don't waste your time with meaningless relationships.

Also, don't fall for the "there is no love anymore". That's normal, it'll happen once in a while, it doesn't mean you should end the relationship. If you want it to last a lifetime it'll last a lifetime.

Not having a comfy amount of money is the main reason why divorces happen, so it's safe to say you will have a more miserable marriage with whatever other woman you "fall in love with". This is about your offspring. You will likely regret this for the rest of your life.

5k JESUS christ. I was looking at lab diamonds on the internet that I was going to try and file a chargeback on.

"exploring other options" aka sleeping around is a fucking meme and a waste of time/life. fucking other women will not make you a better person, it will not make you a better lover, it will only satisfy your primal urges. we've been brainwashed to think this is the way society should be - slaves to our desires and the sensation of pleasure. rise above. commit and be the man so many others aspire to be.

Are you fucking serious? What other options are you considering then? Living a life of degeneracy for a few more years before settling down? Finding a decent girl in 2018 is like striking gold, and they will only get more rare in the future. Marrying into a rich family also opens many opportunities. Want to start a business? I'm sure they can figure something out to help you along.

I don't understand how you could let all that go just so you could get your dick sucked by some low life sluts.

Yeah you guys are probably right. Guess I’ll try and lock it down.

The right thing to do here is to break up with her, find yourself in a string of meaningless and unfulfilling casual flings and shallow relationships, then realize how big of a mistake you made; Regretting it for the rest of your life and of course blaming Jow Forums for your retarded decision.

How did you meet? Asking for a friend.

this so much, i learnt this lesson just in time i can tell you and i thank my brain everyday for releasing what ever chemicals it did when it did because its so much clearer now

>>explore other options

What other possible options do you have that could be better?

Thot? Whore? Psycho? Bipolar maniac? Eventual lesbian?

I sincerely hope you take this seriously man.

how wealthy are we talking about?

We had class together.
Over $10mil net worth. Dad is self made businessman. Her parents also really like me.

does she look good?

She is good looking but not my exact “type” id say.

Hm. Depends on how well you two get on. Many moderate to wealthy families don't necessarily shower their now-married daughter and her spouse with money, you know. It's sort of expected that they may help out here and there, maybe co-sign on a mortgage where needed, but as to actually just paying your way to a comfortable existence? I don't think so. Getting married is generally the time when wealthy families tend to cut off their daughters from the trough to make it on their own with their new husband. Even more so, and more quickly and harshly, if they think you're a deadbeat.

That’s not even that much you stupid fuck.

She’ll just leverage it to control you. God you’re a fucking retard.

You sure as shit don’t get married before 30, wow you’re dumb.

lol she blonde hair blue eye?

We get on well, the money obviously isn’t the defining factor in the relationship. But, it is an added bonus. They’re well connected and genuinely good people.
I mean I have no way of really estimating their exact holdings, I just know it’s above that range. Also, that’s the top 1% of the wealthiest nation on earth retard.

The real question I had was whether or not I should actually be factoring that into the equation of a long term relationship. Seems most people here would agree that I should.

this but unironically

Pro tip: only marry up
Pro tip#2: never depend on anyone financially

you married into it?

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Stop LARPing user kun

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This is really a no brainer. Put that shit on lock. Shit out some kids, pronto.

You had an IEP in school, didn't you?

You should get married as soon as you're able to. Trick is not to marry a whore. If you meet your girl in the club, she shouldn't be your girl.

How the fuck do you get a rich gf?

Why are you asking Jow Forums?

Seriously get your shit together and make your own factory decisions. No one know what is good or bad anyway , maybe you'll meet someone richer or maybe she is your best possible lover.

This, getting married and fucking other girls on the side is the way to go.
When your not wealthy it's not worth it to fuck around, you'll end up alone with no options. If you have money there will always be a roastie to want you/your money.
Just like you want her money OP, see how that works? Good

>Commitment scares me though.

fuck off cunt. assuming this isn't a larp i would kill to be in your situation, but i would be lucky to get some smack addict attracted to me. man up and respect yourself.

Keep larping stupid faggot

>ywn marry a qt into a high society New England WASP family

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Don’t be a fool lock it down!!

take the money faggot

follow your heart. come out of closet ,fag

She is not rich, her father is. If he likes you, he'll probably hook you up with a good job.
But his money will be used as leverage against you, its human nature, you will always be in debt to him.

Majority of all relationships/marriages fail so even if you marry her it wont be forever so youll get another chance later on. Also if they're old money youll be signing a prenup so youll need to get expensive watches and stuff for holidays you can sell later on.

He’s self made and they really like me. Siblings are married without prenup. More interested in the connections and benefits than cash though. Seems like a good pathway to building my own wealth.

>building my own wealth.
You know what you should do. Goodluck.

Worst case scenario you take half of her money in divorce, ahahhahaha

>commitment scares me
Id tell you to give her my # but i already have a loving fiancee and i understand what i have

Maybe in a few years we can drink together and talk about what we did to lose them