Jow Forums I've started seeing this girl since 2 months ago
We meet at least once a week she's amazing and all but she never paid the bill
Everytime waiter came with the bill, she just stares at me. Not even wanna check how much. Movie time is the same, told me which movie she wants to watch but I ended up booking and paying for both
She never explicitly told me to pay but she's always kind of passive aggressive when it comes to paying the bill.
So far she has not paid a single yen since we first met 2 months ago.
Am I being findomed? What should I do? I have been single for 3 years and I thought she was godsend, she's nice about everything but the bill.
no findom is a fetish you're just making beta male moves. I don't know what it's like in Japan I assume?
Parker Davis
Won't be long and she will be demanding you buy her a house, a car and useless shit.
Hudson Edwards
You should always fix to pick up a restaurant tab. It puts big wiry hairs on your nuts and the waitresses will all want you.
If you are worried you are being taken advantage of, then send her to the bar to buy you both drinks.
This is a devastating social gambit for the female to suffer. You have paid the meal bill, so in reality she is getting a great financial exchange from this. But on the other hand, you are publicly sending her to fetch you a drink. The drinks cost very little, but you cannot even indulge her this small value?
The people in the restaurant think that you value her, but the people in the bar see that you don't even think she is worth $3.
Amazing how quickly women will learn to value their financial independence once you have made them fetch you a drink or two.
Levi Campbell
Pretty sure findom is a much more one sided deal.
As long as you can afford to pick up the tab and won't mind having done so if she decides to ditch you, relax.
Henry Long
Wait. Get to know here more. Maybe she is a very very wonderful and adorable girl. Maybe, with time, she loves you deeply and bond greatly with you. Maybe you find that she has many interesting and wonderful qualities that vastly let behind her cons. Then, you ignore her wrongs and marry her because people are not perfect.
In the other hand, as you keep getting to know her; if you keep realizing more and more about stuff you don't like about her, and qualities that make her a bitch in general. Just dump her.
Connor Moore
Her* Fucking hell.
Carter Lewis
You went two months like this? I would have dumped this trashy bimbo after the first week. This is not 1935, it’s 2018. Women work. Couples split bills. You’re a faggot op.
Jacob Walker
Next time you go out tell her it's her turn to pay. If she makes a big fuss about it then dump her. If she doesn't and ends up paying her share then keep seeing her.
Colton Watson
you have to go back bye bye
Josiah Martinez
Chad gets free pussy all the time.
Jeremiah Bennett
>Am I being findomed?
No retard it’s called dating.
>What should I do? If you have a problem then talk to her about it you autistic cuck.
Bentley Martin
No, because findom is consensual.
Eli Taylor
this
Logan Moore
Next time take her out to an especially expensive restaurant were a meal costs 200-300. Make an excuse, such as going to the bathroom to leave the table. If the toilet is in the other direction from the door you could say instead you need to visit the ATM machine and that you'll be right back. Then leave and don't come back.
Chad rewards them with not fucking other women in the time he is fucking them.
Carter Jones
Some people have gotten arrested for doing nothing. Your point?
Isaac Jenkins
>yen
white sex tourist spotted
Hudson Martinez
spoken like an absolute faggot who's never had pussy in his entire life
Asher Cooper
is she a freak? lets you do anything?
Aaron Watson
>she's nice about everything but the bill.
just like a regular prostitute
Tyler Nelson
>Am I being findomed? Yes
>What should I do? Spend less and less money on her and fuck her more and more. Once you get even, tell the bitch to start paying. If she makes a fuss about it, you can dump her and you'll be ok with it cause you broke even. File that to: "I've fucked a prostitute but I paid with dinners and movies instead of upfront cash."
>she's nice about everything but the bill she's a predator posing as a house pet. You'll find that soon enough.
Lucas Robinson
She's a parasite, get away from her. It's ok if she doesn't want to pay the bill but she should at least pretend like she wants. Even a shitty excuse like "oh no I forgot my wallet" is better than treating you like that.
Angel Baker
start demanding more sexual favors from her. If she gives you lip just bring up that nice dinner you had. tell her: >that is the price I pay >this is the price you pay
Angel Martinez
Well, all that matter is that bucks you waste on that things are a big deal for you.
I never have cash, but when I do I dont mind to share with my homies/friends/girls.. when they need to pay the hotel they do, when I can I do it.
For me R$100 is a big amount of cash, for them its the money that their father give them to eat lunch and go shopping to take a Starbucks oe Yogoberry.
Sometimes the girl is in need of cash, or she was used to let men pay or she is really a broke one that $200 would crush her savings.
Its up to you, bro.
As a man unless you have a good attractive persona/face you cant do nothing.
Colton Bennett
If you haven't hooked up with her yet then I'd start looking for someone else.
