Gf dumped me last night

I wish I could just not care about it man...
thank you fren, it means a lot

Why’d she dump you? If it’s only been one night and you really like her there’s still time to get her back. Assuming she’s not already fucking someone else of course. Take control of your own life user stop being so passive.

Just be glad that she did not file false rape accusations against you. Yet.

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she said she just doesn't have feelings for me anymore and got bored of me... I don't think there's anything I could do.
plus I kinda believe all breakups should be final
I feel so used

Well sorry to hear that. Shit will get better soon though. Try to reconnect with friends if you have any.

What a fucking beta you are. There are 3.5 billion women on planet earth.

Find other girls to talk with 'as a friend' if they are even better than the last one, go for it, you'll forget the other one in no time.

Sorry pal, someone's probably pumping her.

A woman will never love you the way you love her. That's an unfortunate truth I've found myself.

Men love unconditionally, women more like "what can he give me/my social status", their unconditional one is reserved for their children.

As a man you are simply a tool. Having a shitton of money, power or influence does not change their con-game when it comes to love. So if it makes you feel any better, even Chads are getting cucked & fucked over by women.

kek fuck off, everyone loves conditionally just that the conditions are different. If my hs crush turned fat you can be sure my oneitis will die right there with no second thoughts.

Everything is transactional but don't let it turn you cynical

As long as you maintain your looks and sense of respect for yourself in your current state, you'll be fine and will find someone better.

However, if you let yourself go (become fatter, become beta, less socialable, stop trying to become a better person), you will miss her incredibly. Because in your beta state, you will not be able to attract girls on the same level or have the same fun experiences with new girls.

So, let yourself feel bad, but just don't let yourself go. Also, she is fucking someone else. Girls won't dump you unless someone else better comes along - especially young women. You probably stopped making her feel good months ago, she warned you (probably in her shitty way and because she is young) and you didn't listen.

Either way, that's life son. When the pain is over you'll look back and have learned your lesson.

thanks man... I know I can't let myself wallow too much but it just hurts. still gonna keep working on my business, go to the gym, etc no matter how bad it stings.

It's gonna be ok, user. Everything passes with time, even the sting of broken relationships.

Its okay to feel like shit for awhile but just remember that you need to continue to improve yourself and live better and that this is only a temporary setback. in a few days you'll be able to go about your day again though painfully. in a few months you'll be happy that you can date again and may even view the breakup as a good thing. Keep lifting bro, eat right and keep off the bottle.

Wrong.
men love women
women love children
children love puppies

in all that there's always a certain condition that makes them "love" "unconditionally". Once the condition is gone so is the unconditional affection.

Everything is transactional, otherwise one party is a parasite leeching off the host