How many anons here are married/ have gfs?

How many anons here are married/ have gfs? Whats the best thing about it? Whats the worst thing about it?

I'll try to keep an open mind reading the answers

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Married here. Best thing is to have someone that takes care of you. There is a reason why married men live 3-5 years more than single ones. Also you build thing with that person you are married to (a home, a family). It gives satisfaction.

The worst thing is that, while not willing to share your woman,you want and biologically need others, and that shit builds up. I wish the ratio men to women in nature was 1 to 4 instead of 1 to 1, it would make everybody happier.

The best thing about it is when she’s outta the house, am i rite fellas

you don't biologically >need< anything of the sort. and unless the word choice was mere habit, please fuck off with your pseudoscientific shit, you idiocratic cancer.

Blaming your urge to cheat on your spouse on biology doesn’t make you any less of a scumbag, kek.

if you don't have money then you'll probably need a wife, but if you do have money then you probably wouldn't want a wife

I have a gf for 3 years and feel trapped. Its a meme. Stay single till you are 35.

Lonely here. Life sucks

best thing about having a gf is she always has your back unlike any friend could because you're fucking her and living with her. it's nice to have someone you can always count on and go places with. not to mention she's hot af eye candy to look at

nope

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you say that cause you are used to being with her, be single for about a year and you'll be craving a gf again. or your gf just sucks or isn't hot like mine

pic related, my gf

her ass is 10/10

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oh and worst thing about it is she sucks up a lot of money and is a responsibility you have to take care of. you have to do things you may not want to sometimes but in the end it's all worth it

Imagine actually posting a pic of your gf on 4channel

you cant dox her from this pic so who gives a fuck

>Whats the worst thing about it?
I got divorced 2 years ago, its cost me over 200,000 so far (home, investments, some income).

imagine not having a gf to post on an anonymous board

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Engaged user here, so far best decision I ever made. I'll have more to report after a decade of marriage, but I wouldn't have it any other way so far. Times can definitely be hard, but you'll find it easy once you meet someone worth it.

Don't for the "marriage is a meme" meme. From what I've experienced it's perpetuated entirely by bitter NEETs and washed up boomers currently on their third wife. Late marriage and falling birth-rates will be what cucks millennials the most when all is said and done, and I personally can't wait another second to start building a family. Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

she's cute now, but she's got that "blow up in 10 years" look. Sorry user, enjoy it while you can

>t. guy who's seen girls blow up

That is low t soyo boyo shit right there. The urge to fuck other women is perfectly natural. Acting on it is what makes someone a degenerate.

gf, live together, no marriage because I have been putting it off since we started dating in 2012, saying I don't have money for an engagement ring or wedding (I don't)

Best thing: Companionship, and having someone to help you out. She wakes up before me every morning and makes tea or coffee for me.

Worst thing: Lack of privacy. Any weird fetishes you have, she's probably not going to be okay with, but you also won't be able to look at hentai or porn of it as easily as you'd like because she'd say things like, "Why are you locking your bedroom door? You never have your door closed."

>the best thing
at the start it seems nice, just like in the past when our grandparents had no internet
she tries to cook for you, she wants cuddle and girly thing and men like this, she wants to do things with you like traveling, watching movies, playing games

>the worst thing
at some point it doesn't feel nice anymore, feeling of commitment, turns to a feeling of lacking freedom. you start fapping to other women. for the girl it's a bit different, because she doesn't have the need to get fertilized by multiple men, however if she feels that you're not the man and a better man seduce her and he's better than you and intelligent, skilled, then on the long run she could have sex with another man. if she has kids with you she will also focus on them instead of you and this can cause major annoyance because with routine she could totally ignore the nice things of the start.
nowadays, relationships never last, it doesn't exist, anyone thinking otherwise is delusional.
after 45/50, this stops being the case and you could have lasting relationships, and usually people have kids from other partners at this point. this will get more and more common. if you're single at this point, men could find young women (20-30) with older man fetishes, women doesn't have it that easy.

>t. Virgin neet incel

Been living with my chick for 7 years. I'm 35, shes 36. I just got her a ring. Havent proposed yet. Still trying to figure out when and where.

It's better to be with someone that be alone. It's nice having a woman to cook your meals and maintain your home. She does all the bill-paying.

Financially it makes way more sense for 2 people to live together and share expenses than for 1 person to live alone.

>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.
And you can enjoy being in debt over 6 figures to the bank for your wife’s dream house. I think the marriage/ single debate always boils down to the grass is always greener on the other side. 2-3 years into a relationship/marriage you will wish you were single more times than not. Flipside a few months or a year of being single and seeing your ex jump from dick to dick or straight into another relationship and you will miss having a S.O. I can attest that random hookups are empty and all those red pillers are mostly larpers, it’s human nature to want a mate I really wish I could kill desire because my experience with women has been awful in my own relationships and those I’ve witnessed with family and friends. I really hope to find a worthy woman one day but only time will tell.

>worthy woman
For you that would be the homeless one with no teeth on the street you pass by every day.

>People talking about their woman
>Only had conversations with woman here and there
>Never had a gf
>24 kissless virgin
>don't want to accept the fact that I'll die alone
It sucks, it really does. I just don't understand how people even get in a relationship. It's alien to me. The thought of me being in a relationship with someone is strange to me. I wish you all well.

I proposed last weekend, feels good lads.

WTF are you me ?

Don't be bitter fren, you can definitely make it happen. Just by reading your post I can tell that you regard most women as soul-suckers and money-grubbers that will retard you fulfilling your own goals. While this is true for some mates, it's up to you to judge if someone is worth building your team with. Also, you'll be shocked by the motivation you'll discover when your own goals for success also have bearing on the welfare of your SO/future family.

I'll be happy to take out a mortgage one day because it'll be for OUR dream house, not hers. You start thinking differently after being in a committed relationship for a number of years, and working together makes goals like home-ownership possible.

Status: had couple of gfs, fucked around 12-15 in toral, 29yo, gf 30 yo since january last year, she came back from australia so we can be together (didnt workout her visa stuff, had one year visa to NZ, valid till march 2019)

Best thing: you can expierience and share life with other person due to common interest I did travel all around the world and done so many things in my life yet after some point it starts to seem pointless. Its nice but U dont enjoy it as u used to do.

Bad thing; if u r semi beta semi alpha guy (I am in between) it is a constant fight. u try to not being pushed around, used and dominated, they r like fuckin kids: pushing ur limits every single day. If u r aware of their dominant nature yet u dont allow for it u r going to have a though fight.
I am ex alco, weed, cigarette addict trying to man up. I like this girl but its tense.

nobody is saying its bad dickhead, we're saying its very expensive and its very VERY hard to find a good match. consider yourself extremely lucky, youre in the minority of happy couples.

It’s something I really need to work on you’re right I certainly don’t let stuff like what I typed slip in any convos IRL. I sometimes wonder if my negative thought process of women from my past relationships/ browsing the ch0n attracts more broken souls and continues the cycle. Gonna work hard at my own goals this next year atty to limit my negative thought patterns and hope I meet a nice girl organically after I’ve put the work in on myself. Funny I’m not a bitter virgin or incel by any means and have actual had far more success with women than most men yet I’m still single and still bitter at times.

>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

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are you autistic by any chance? do you know how easy it is to get a gf? everywhere i go i see desperate women, obv none of them are that hot but if you really are desperate you can easily get a desperate gf. especially fat girls, they will take literally anyone

>There is a reason why married men live 3-5 years more than single ones.

Prob because healthier men have an easier time getting and keeping women, not the other way around.

>best thing about having a gf is she always has your back

kek. I had a gf until this summer. She was obsessed with me, full on crazy soulmate shit (I didn't quite feel the same way, but that's a good thing), plans to quit our jobs now and spend all next year doing whatever, worldwide.

I got sick this summer and was fucked for about a month, maybe less. She saw me in a very weak state, physically and emotionally, and couldn't hack it. I knew she would bail when she started talking about how if we get through this, we'll get through anything, shit like that.

I can't blame her, in fact I knew it would happen as soon as I started getting ill, and said it to some friends. She was so obsessed with me because I was a very certain kind of person, and when I stopped being that person, why would she like me again?

I got better and returned to my old self, but it's too late by then. Once a bitch checks out she's GONE, you can never get that back.

I can't imagine how people stay in a "relationship" indefinitely, it always hangs by a thread and relies on him holding a very strong frame.

If you’re really married then post the rock. Having a wife wear a bigger ring is more intimidating to other men than having a bigger cock. Also all the divorce cucks itt made the mistake of marrying white women.

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50% gypsy
20% mongol
30% white

>Everyone else can enjoy their washed up single life living in a studio apartment at age 30.

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>Once a bitch checks out she's GONE, you can never get that back.
if you make her realize that she made a mistake with you, and women can start having doubts very easily, you can have any girl. same with every girls.

>big rock
white women care about not looking stupid

what the fuck did you marry a tranny
>those hairy knuckles

>throwing insults at the void
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I'm married.
Pros: kids and regular sex (by regular I mean at least once a week, so don't expect to fuck everyday). Also, tax benefits.
Cons: it gets boring. My wife doesn't suck my dick anymore. It's very repetitive and emotionless. You feel like you're missing out. I could be fucking younger tinder bitches on a daily basis and having a lot more fun.

>I'm engaged and life is great
Enjoy it while you can, you are experiencing the peak of your relationship. Not saying it's doomed to fail but don't be so quick to assume that marriage isn't a meme.

Meh you say that, tinder bitches get old real fast too my man. That and they are flaky beyond believeable and all have over inflated egos that are hard to deal with.

who cares if they have nice ass, big boobs, nice face, and can be fun to chat with, multiple partners gives pleasure and satisfaction. don't date average

>7 years
>Haven't proposed
Dude, you're running out of time. I'm 36, my wife is 32 and we have 3 kids. You're going to run out if energy really quick if you have kids. If not, you're a reproductive failure.

>4channel
what a dick move to change the name

2.43 CTW

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Engaged
I found a very low n-count daddy’s girl late bloomer from a loving family after I spent my 20s slaying tinder THOTs. Did not think I would find someone worthy of commitment, but got lucky and locked it in. I want kids and grandkids. Getting hitched at a vineyard in June. Sex has slowed down, but not boring or emotionless. Since she isn’t a roastie, there’s a lot of uncharted territory in the bedroom for me to sherpa her through in the years to come. Couldn’t be happier relationship-wise. Would recommend

am 30 now, never married, but had many girlfriends, last gf lasted nearly 2 years.

but i am an INTP, so i am 10x happier alone than being a relationship. shitposting on Jow Forums and Jow Forums on the weekends, playing vidya, fucking a 10/10 prostitute every 2 weeks and going to solo vacation on colombia with hookers and coke is just amazing and i will never go back to having girlfriend in the near future.

maybe when im 40-50 i will get bored and find myself a mid twenty girl, but i dont think so. having a woman gets very boring very fast.

I’m married best thing about it is the dual income allowing me to live well above my individual means. Just marry someone with a career

Not bad, pretty cute, but you can tell from the upper arms/neck that she's carrying some extra fat and isn't super fit. Seriously doubt her ass is 10/10.

Still though, could do worse. Good for you user.

Based retard, divorce cucked by a Wh*teoid Daddy’s Princess. Please keep posting in this thread.

Sounds like me. Have fucked over 70 girls (the vast majority of them at least fuckable), my sex life looks like something out of hardcore porn most of the time. Still no gf for years, and at my wit's end for finding one. Feelsbadman.

>been with gf for over a year
>I'm too needy to leave her
>she's too ugly to do better

Shit is hella cash. We're literally made for each other.

If my gf is not a virgin when we met, am I a cuck?

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I’m a lost cause but own 100k link. Maybe I’ll have time after link goes to zero but in the meantime could careless only want chainlink to succeed.

Pretty good
What are you charging? I'll pay 450
Gf experience? I hate condoms
Also I cant cum if I dont hit her a little that's ok I assume

something like this. Gf moved in with me probably too soon, but otherwise she would have had to move out of the city so I made it possible. It’s very different living with her vs dating. I don’t know if I really love her, but it’s nice not to be as lonely as I once was. At least the physical intimacy (and birth control pills) is nice. It’s not like I’m without my own problems that she puts up with too. But I wouldn’t marry her the way things are now.

Divorced cuz marriage is a scam and I decided I'd rather have freetime than an expensive fucktoy

Gf for 4 years. Im american. She's a foreignger. She told me she needs papers from the getgo. She's been with me through thick and thin mostly- poor and a few dollars to my name. We had verbal fights. Now my career is starting to finally take off after 5 years of grueling. Hers is slowly taking off too. Now she wants to get married asap.

>Pro
she cooks, cleans, organized as hell, she can get by being super cheap. She always checks if im hungry or not hungry. We know how to have a good time on a cheap budget. We question a lot, get into good debates and conversations. Having a family is something I would be open to in the long run once Im financially stable.

>Cons
You see other women. You want to "still have it" and test the waters, but im too much of a bitch to try. I fantasize about going to europe and colombia and smashing amazing hoes, and living like i was 26 again. She wants to get married when a death in my family just happened. I don't watch porn or fap. Still have urges. I don't want a family as IM not sure whether our different cultures/language/traditions can come together in the long run for our offspring.

>thank you for reading my blog post frens

gf since three years, getting more and more regrets that i wasted the best and funniest 3 years of my life with a lot of nice girls with her, dunno what to do now

whiteknight virgin detected

how is the friendzone treating you?

this

getting 10/10 instagram thots is hard yeah, you're gonna have to go with someone fugly and you're gonna regret it anyway

well boo fucking hoo

my gf is a fat fuckin hoe
I hate her ass
slap her, cheat on her, make fun of her fatness. shes still with me wtf

get the fuck out, it only gets worse, i have a gf and a kid with her, it's cool and all but fuck, i would just rather fuck bitches, do drugs, party

we kinda got together just before tinder was a thing and now im never gonna get to try it, no netflix and chill for me ever

anyway,
what it boils down to is sex, i love my gf and shes great in all aspects but shes so vanilla in bed and im horny all the time, i want sloppy blowjobs, i want her to swallow, i want her to be a huge slut.. but its not happening, i've tried

it really sucks cuz otherwise we are made for eachother, i wanna do all kinds of nasty shit with her and since she isnt into anything except some light oral sometimes and plain old sex once a week, im daydreaming about other sluts and jerking off... but if i cheated on her i would lose her so everything is terrible and all choices are bad and im stuck in limbo of never being truly happy

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>not Jow Forums
Kys, all you fucking newfaggots. Do it. Fuck all of you. Just die.

Kek

The Jews sold us a lie about hookup culture brother, nothing worse than rolling over after nutting in a slam pigs mouth and still feeling alone as you watch her text her beta orbiters or “guy friends”. As a 28 yo boomer it seems like most of the good girls are taken, young girls just want to ride the CC and party, and what’s left is single moms or fat losers. Sadly the LTR I was in a few years ago with a gorgeous girl went south in a way most wouldn’t believe and left me with an intense distrust for women. Like I said I’ve got some work to do on myself and then I can worry about finding a good woman. I’m just sick of being the one that has to do fucking everything for girls while they just get to play “he’ll do”.

i've got a side question, how do i convince her to swallow, she hates cum and even starts complaining mid-blowjob about precum

I'm still here, reading every reply, appreciating most. Lurk more fa gg ot

>4channel
m00tles wouldn't have done this

Word, I fucked 120+ girls in just a few years recently and now I basically want a gf for social proof and to actually do stuff with. I still try to get hookups but only because I can't for the life of me get a gf-type thing. Not at this age.

how do you even MEET 120 girls to fuck in the first place? I dont even meet any new people lmao

There is no correct answer. When you're in a relationship you want to be single when you're single you want a gf. I'm in my early 30s and have dated dozens of women. My longest was 5 years. Currently single. I think if you have a good career and are relatively good looking your best bet is to focus on money and just date younger women until you're like 40 and ready to settle. Once you get married your wife will get fat and you'll stop getting sex so why rush into it while you're young and your value is still increasing?

Women are 50% of the population.
Everywhere you go there are women.
Talk to them then date them then fuck them. If you go to the grocery store once a day that's already 50% chance of getting a woman if you talk to 1 . Just fucking be charming and funny and the pussy will flow. They are everywhere.

How old are you? I did that in college and then we broke up when when I was 24 and I was so fucking pissed I wasted my best years on her. Fortunately I put all the extra time and money I used to waste on her into my job (tech sales) and started making a shit load of money about a year later. Got into the club scene in my city and managed to run through over 100 women the next few years. TLDR it's never too late to capitalize on sluts

Based

>TFW when my ex cried that I wasted all of her best years on me while my life is getting better by the month
Still lonely sometimes but man it could be a lot worse.

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Just got out of a seven year long relationship. It's funny, when you're in a relationship you want to be in a relationship. When you're single you also want to be in a relationship. Don't believe the liars and larpers who say otherwise. I'm trying out the dating thing but still call my ex sometimes when I feel horny or lonely. Officially still broken up but I kind of string her along and make her think I might take her back. Who knows, she's nothing but trouble but I know how to manage and she does pretty much anything I ask. She just looks like she's seven years older than when we started dating.

the best thing is when she is out of your house and in my, giving me a blowjob, amirite

>best thing
Someone to check your back for basal cell carcinoma
>worst thing
Literally everything else

shes actually very thin idk what you're talking about. she's like 120 pounds

In current times it is unfortunately not a good value proposition for men.

I'm the same even though I've had gfs. It stems from low self-esteem. Speaking to a professional has been helping me. As has reading 'Overcoming low self-esteem', which is a behavioural therapy book by a woman named Melanie Fennell

Hot as fuck, I am jelly

Pros:
People listen to you way more
Talk to way hotter girls, probably because you don't feel as awkward
Those hotter girls will be alone with you but don't freak out
Make more money
More gifts from parents
Tax bracket is lower because it's a "household" income. Even if she doesn't work, it's like making $8k a year.

Cons:
- Social Life Booked, not many weekends just sitting around
- Can't bang random chicks, or try

breddy great i make her work for food.

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this is pretty much it. it's comfortable, but not that exciting.

any married anons here have a mistress? I've come to see this as being the ideal situation, I don't know if I've got the balls to pull it off though. a stable wife at home and an exciting side lover out of the house.

>, kek.
Outsider detected. The typist here is female.

cuck

Technically single. Dating multiple women. The aim is to get them to meet each other. They are open to it. We will see how it goes.
>inb4 I am eaten by vipers

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I’ve fucked her
bet

I'm married.

Never get married.

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>doxxing yourself
Retard. Ur gf is an ugly piece of shit kid and now she’s fucked by urs truly

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>femanon detected

>dating older women
user, I...

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Why can't you just not write like a fucking retard? Just try typing the whole word and see how it feels.

I have a GF, she really loves me, I'm able to say that because she already passed all types of shit and didnt left when any normal woman would. Taken her virginity too, its good, she have dual citizen and I'll get a Italian Visa when we marry, she is rich and have visited more than 5 countries, her family have a good network I'll benefit from.

She have to pay almost everything because I'm broke but she doesnt care, atleast once in my life I made it right.

Married here. Best thing is I picked a great partner, in most respects. Worst thing is the in-laws who are asinine, "but they're family".

Well, all I can say is that you have to upgrade yourself so she fear lose you and stop the bullshit.