-be me -good job and in shape but facially unaesthetic -girls only care about the face -never had a proper gf in 26 years -the few times i've managed to get a girl into bed, i have trouble getting hard after a decade of porn abuse -no opportunities to meet girls in my career path -dating apps are a lost cause
is it possible to eventually learn not to care and be happy on your own, even when everyone around you is in relationships? will a life of just wage cucking and watching porn ever really be able to keep a man from killing himself?
google "pua" and "the game by neil strauss" right now
Nathan Jones
Well I'm literally perfect except I'm gay lol
I fuck girls once in a while tho but don't really enjoy it :/
Isaac Nelson
Im posting unironic answer. >is it possible to eventually learn not to care and be happy on your own? yes, watch this to get started: youtube.com/watch?v=5a9q6yPiwP0&t=1933s Don't get me wrong this is hard work and I have spent 20+ hours on this. It was a game changer for me. >girls only care about the face Go out and do cold approaches in club / bars. You can verify for yourself that girls do not care about looks at all. If you are funny and able to make the girl laugh she will not care what you look like. Yes it is easier to start a conversation if you are good looking. Also you can verify this by observing not good looking guys doing approaches and sometimes succeeding. Hell I even saw a short guy stealing a girls from this huge muscular guy once. >no opportunities to meet girls in my career path If you are not good with women this is irrelevant anyways. Start doing cold approaches
Mason Rogers
>the few times i've managed to get a girl into bed, i have trouble getting hard after a decade of porn abuse The best advice I know is first stop watching porn, second go fuck a few escorts to get over this thing, you can even tell them that you have this problem and they'll understand
Nathan Roberts
chateaux heartiste breh
Ryder Cruz
You're not missing out OP. Just bang a hooker every once in a while
Jayden Myers
You sound like a complete fucking degenerate
Justin Lee
eat watermelon before bedding chicks and your penis will rise to the occasion
Thomas Flores
>i've managed to get a girl into bed Get the fuck off this website you dumb as fuck normie.
Christian Allen
JUST BE YOURSELF BRO
Jonathan Lewis
>he cant even green text baka you really are a loser
Jason Garcia
>facially unaesthetic RIP no hope, just forget about women and learn to like anime
Caleb Peterson
how about you stop watching porn (you can continue fapping, stop watching porn) and see how that goes
t. pronfree for 2 years and got a nice gf recently
Hunter Flores
If you send me money I’ll be your discord gf
Nolan Reyes
Could be worse. You could’ve been born with a micro penis or better yet born with no legs. Be thankful for what you have and try and make life less miserable. Maybe you’re not meant to live the status quo life. Maybe you were born this way to steer you into a path that many wouldn’t dare to go down because they’re comfy.
Nathaniel Price
just buy chanlink
Nolan Russell
This. Stop being a degen. Workout. Run marathons. Chops down trees with an axe. Drink coffee black. No alcohol.
Landon Walker
I’d what he has said about getting women into bed as true I wouldn’t say there is no hope. That’s aleeady legions better then at least half the people here
>-the few times i've managed to get a girl into bed you sound like a chad to me.
Julian Roberts
Listen. Only once you accept who you are by learning to get along with yourself - you’ll see more than women and relationships. You’ll see a purpose. Once you do what you want to achieve it whatever method you decide on your own - doing our own thing - focusing on who you wish to become for your sake from who you were before and not with a role model or idol - you will give zero fucks about what others do or care.
But I will admit one thing. In highschool I remember in 10th grade some girl called me ugly loudly and everyone went silent - wasn’t even doing anything just sitting doing work with the partner next to me - I played it off but after that now as a 20 year old I still remember it. Why do I tell you this? Because back then I sought what you did. I focused on the gym, was by myself 99% of the time unless forced with having groups - and spent lunch doing my own thing. I don’t know how it happened but I met this girl and after I told her I generally don’t text or keep much in terms of socializing - she called me handsome and directly - and I don’t know why but it startled me. Because I still remember that Highschool thing and once I began doing my thing and getting along with being alone - being satisfied with the way I look - it felt strange hearing it.
Do this. Not to get what you want now - but what you will in your own life. Something bigger. I won’t say these things cause confidence - I’m saying these things will cause reflection of you by only you and you’ll wish to change for yourself and not to get XYZ or find or impress. But once you do - you’ll become jaded by society.
-girls only care about the face -the few times i've managed to get a girl into bed, i have trouble getting hard after a decade of porn abuse These are fixable problems user, go improve yourself.