BAD
>failed his 16-18 exams (a levels)
>currently 19, resitting a levels
>room absolutely disgusting
>ALWAYS in debt or broke, can't save money ever
>Childish sleep cycle/general very poor understanding of life
>Lives at home with abusive mum
GOOD
>wants to go to uni, but applying next year, not sure how realistic this is
>works a mcjob
He's probably my best friend and I'm getting increasingly worried. I've done very well, gave him good advice and he listens to our abusive mum over me.
He's already a loser. Uni doesn't turn people without drive into anything good. Most likely he'll chuck drugs all semester long and then flunk the exams.
if he fails some easy fucking high schooler tier exams why the fuck does he thiink he'll make it at uni. h'll probably fail and even if he does get through the course he'll be the worst of the bunch and no one will hire him.
tell him uni is a waste of time.
Does he own Link? If he does tell him to sell it
Does he have a choice to not listen to her? He lives with her and has to suffer her abuse if he doesn't comply.
Solution: make him move out.
Let him go to art school. He can study humanities.
Is there really no chance? I seriously suspect it's my mum filling his head with dumb shit so he doesn't leave her alone
I failed my GCSEs (16 yo exams) and for A*A*A* (top 1 percent) on my a levels. I know this is very rare but u can change and I think he's putting more effort in now
I've said he can stay with me but he won't. Just listens to her shit over and over again every time it seems like he's going to make a positive change. She said the same to me and I almost got a full time mcjob at 16.
>tfw ywn have a brother giving you life advice
At least your brother isn't a gay furry with zero ambition like mine
>wants to go to uni
I want to be a millionaire OP. But I sit in my mom's basement watching reruns of King of the Hill every night. Does that look like someone taking concrete steps towards becoming a millionaire? Does that look like I want it?
Your bro "wants" to go to uni yet he's failed all of his A levels. Does that look like someone who's taking concrete steps to go to uni? Does that look like he wants it?
tl;dr: your brother is a loser and he will remain one. UNLESS, one night when your parents are out of the house, take him into a small room and LITERALLY beat the shit out of him while yelling at him for being a loser and saying you're going to keep doing this until he gets his act together. Repeat if necessary, but if you beat him hard enough, once is all it takes. This is brotherly love, and someday he will thank you for it.
T-t-thanks
This is how to get killed in your sleep
abusive mothers are the worst, my mum threatens to kms all the time and stuff if i don't give her enough attention, been like this since i was a child.
don't really have any advice though, but i wish you the best of luck op, and remember, he's not your responsibility, do not feel bad for his failures.
lets not talk about that
By your own beta brother? Not gonna happen. You've never had siblings, and it shows
This is the way to do it. You say he's brainwashed by your mother, I didn't even read all of that before I replied first. Now I'm even more sure. He is the perfect candidate. Beat the snot out of him one time and tell him it's tough love for his own good. You have to step up and become the abusive alcoholic father he never had
KEK
I have autism and I would literally murder anyone the day they did something like this. I would go to jail gladly for it and everything. Autist make comfy lives for themselves, anyone who disrupts the comfy dream dies.
I think he can handle university. Just have him do the first 2 years at a community college and have him get an associate's before transferring. Honestly, he should probably do the easiest major he can. Maybe have him transfer for an online bachelors from am accredited school too.
You'd better have a gun, twink. Because if you came at me with anything less, you would not survive the attempt
I feel your pain brother, it gets even worse when your somewhat successful and your family make you feel bad because your brother isn't
FeelsBadMan.raw
>abusive mum
sorry to hear, brit bro. things are rough here in the land of the brexitfag. hope to make it with cryptos
He makes it known he is a furry by hanging up MLP porn on his wall, he leaves dildos out, I've caught him in furry breeder groupchats, he is the most degenerate thing I've ever seen, it's different if you live in your own house, but you live in your parents house, why are you flaunting the fact you want to fuck animals? If I was my parents I would kick him out but they just allow the degeneracy to continue, his room is dusty and disgusting, my Dad tried to set him up with a six figure job but he's not even studying for it at all. He just sits on the computer playing Steam or he will play Magic with his friends sometimes and wagecuck that's all his life is. I hope my parents kick him out or I can move out soon.
Start with cleaning the room.
From then on everything will get better.
user tell me this is a larp. There should not be people like what you describe.
I'm like his brother and it's glorious. My parents even bought me a nice female dog and let me molest her. I'm always gentle with her and she seems to enjoy it anyway so I would hardly call it "molestation"
How do I stop my parents' male dog from licking my groin whenever I am in female company?
based fooucault
Stress builds character. I failed one year in high school but somehow managed to get a Master in Law 7 years later. Tell him to pull his shit together.
I tried this, doesn't work.
He behaves like a dumb kid because he is. Let him figure it out. Try to get him into some hobby. He has to has interest. And start self improving at some point. Also uni seems like a utter waste of time for someone like him but you never know.
Shame there's no other choice. If you truly believe she is a bad influence on him, force him/her to leave her.
Given the malicious nature of what's happening, you'll easily be able to force some kind of statement from your mother that can be construed as hurtful to your brother. Record it and show it to him.
unless you have work experience to take attention away from your bad grades you're fucked.
user, you need to understand that he’s just a kid.
That's a sign of submission, he's trying to show to your female companion that you are the alpha of the pack. Explain this to her next time it happens
why not stick a fork into an electrical outlet?
Because that would be painful and even kill me? Then I wouldn't be able to give my dog a good time anymore
>GOOD
>wants to go to uni
kek
Likely if you stop supporting him. Thing is he might not have actually seen the consequences of his own actions, thus he has little idea on why he should improve and force himself to do things like clean his room.
Unironically, maybe you should take him out to some places and get him to talk to people who have completely derailed, people who came from homes, that flunked out of school and now live in the gutter. He needs to somehow realize that there are consequences.
Lol the old mk-ultra trauma personality change technique
Nigger you're 19.
You're a fucking grub.
You have plenty of time to grow, I didn't get my shit in order till I was fucking 25.
if your mother truly is abusive then read up about narcissitic personality disorder and then show him what youve learnt