>10k credit card debt, across 5 or 6 accounts, ranging 1.5k to 2.5k each. >5k outstanding loan that is automatically taken out of my direct deposits. >cant seem to get ahead on any one debt, basically living check to check >make 40k ish a year, fiance makes about the same >fiance has little credit card debt >fiance owns home, in her name. Still paying on mortgage. We split utilities and mortgage. >baby on the way, due end of august >need to start saving disposable, expendable income, dont have any cause debt, despite the fact i make ok money. >not really worried about ruining my credit, as we already have a home, and we both own our own vehicles. Also >have 40k link
So what do biz? Should i go ahead and say fuck it to this debt? Which will free up a ton of money for this major life change coming? Which i feel we are already decently prepared for considering we have a home and two vehicles and two ok jobs.
take 15k equity out of the house or consolidate all existing debt into one loan at a lower rate. you would have link you dumbfuck
Mason Stewart
One of you should keep good credit, although that likely doesn't matter much since unless you're savvy/intelligent (you're not) many of the opportunities having good credit opens can become pitfalls.
My opinion is that you, a man whom society expects to provide for yourself, should keep good credit in case SHTF in a familial sense.
So, have her sell you the house. Then have her take out lots of unsecured loans/credit cards. At least enough to cover your debts (pay the credit cards off immediately, maybe allow the 5k loan to keep auto deducting depending on % rate), but as much as possible unironically won't hurt. Don't go over 5-10k with a single lender.
Don't have her declare bankruptcy, just don't pay it. It's that easy. Ignore the phone calls, letters, etc etc. If you end up with money to spare, settle the debts for 15-20% owed. If not, you're probably divorced anyway. 7 or so yrs from date of collections entry it will fall off her credit
Before you do this, have anything that may be influenced by a credit check with her and/or both of you done. life/auto insurance comes to mind.
Colton Diaz
try to cut your expenses and reduce your lifestyle as much as possible then try to pay off as much of ALL the debt as you possibly can before the baby is born, you want stability and you can try to HOLD the link until it hits like $1, but try to hold it for now