Mom wants me to pay rent while I am 19 and still studying...

>t. boomer

Most likely situation is your mom is deep in debt or struggling to make her monthly payments so she sees you as an easy fix to her problems
If she actually cared about you having good habits she'd encourage you to build savings instead of paying her rent
See if she will let you put "rent" into a savings account that's in your name only every month and maybe agree to show her monthly statements to ease her mind
That will help you get into good habits and have a nest egg when you leave

Sounds like you better get a job. Preferably one that's physical labor. Do you really want to take advice from the neets on this board telling you not to?

No its called contributing to the household that you've lived in for the last 19 years. Everything is a giant conspiracy with you faggots.

what the fuck is wrong with you faggots?
>oh no, I have to work part time while I'm in school
welcome to the real world faggot. you have it a lot easier than many of your classmates you fragile fucking snowflake.

If Mom cared about you, she wouldn’t have left dad and been a single parent raising a useless little fag. Good luck.

>wagecucking while still having school will teach you how to become a man
Kek

I'd then literally have to start working 40h/week to pay the full rent

how is that gonna teach me a lesson? I have no problem working and saving that money for future - actually I've been doing that before paying the rent, but I don't see the point in working just to have a place to live in when I am still studying

why? because of the lesson?

what if she chooses the second option to teach me another lesson and I am literally homeless then?

she is not really struggling, it was her boyfriend's idea actually. he told her that I am going to grow up spoiled unless I start paying her the rent money and find a job alongside the school

not really, I have it by far worst out of everybody I know at my age in school
now ever since I am paying her rent I don't get even a dollar from her since my dad is sending me $150 every month for food (they are divorced)

>I'd then literally have to start working 40h/week to pay the full rent

oh ffs. Its called building character. And yes you will hate it. But what it will show you is that you can either a) not work b) work really c) work really smart.

Plus it will teach you good life skills. Go out there and do it.

20h a week? Should be enough to move out and pay for your own...

Tell her BF he can go fuck himself. Extra points if you smash his car with a baseball bat. Tell your mom that if she wants rent you're gonna go live alone and she will NEVER hear about you again. Work the 40hrs if you need to. Tell your real dad that $150 isn't enough(if he doesn't have a good reason to not give you more then take your baseball bat get creative).

These fucking boomers are all retarded. Give them some reality. Ofc don't leave any evidence.

If you are in USA then order some xan from darkweb and resell it for some $.

b) work really hard for a long time

> dammit

no dude, you don't have it worse than everyone else. working part time to support yourself in school is a damn luxury. most people have to either work full time, or take out cost of living loans, which is a very bad idea.
grow some fucking testicles, either pay rent at moms house of move in with friends and pay rent there. I was living on my own at 17, I have a hard time understanding fags like you who don't know how to make it through college without mommy and daddy. I'm telling you, you're still on easy mode user....stop being a bitch.

HONK HONK HOOOOOONK

There's no conspiracy it's just retarded
Parents taking care of their kids for 18 years then throwing them out is the dumbest shit ever, totally arbitrary

his mom isn't throwing him out, she just wants him to contribute. as a parent, why the fuck would you keep wiping your kids ass when they're 10? you don't.....because they are capable of doing it themselves, and that's the expectation.

She will throw him out though if he doesn't pay
Otherwise it's an empty threat
Why are you such a fag? You sound like the wagies who think "contributing to society" actually matters

The contradiction of biz appears once again: a bunch of rabid anarcho-capitalist neet's who actually don't respect anyone else's right's to property and free market values in general.

> not surprised

No one is saying the mom should be forced to house the kid
If she wants to charge rent or kick him out it's her right
But she's still a retarded boomer

I'm a boomer who knows a thing or two about respect. OPs mom's boyfriend and me are drinking buddies, and I hate all you useless zoomer fags.

being a student isn’t a full time job you faggot. go get a mcwagie job while getting your meme degree.

Boomer detected

tell her that if she has financial difficulty, you understand, and will do what is necessary for the family to stay afloat, but that if that isn't the reason and she makes your life extra difficult for you during your attempt at getting an education instead of being supportive of your attempt to get good grades and make something of yourself in life, it might poison your relationship. t

desu its already over. are you a single child? if so, I'd actually try to ditch after finding a cheap place to live (somewhere with flatmates). your mother betrayed you. it doesn't matter if she knows. I'm sure she convinced herself she is doing the right thing when following her boyfriend's advice, but it doesn't matter. you can't erase this betrayal.

there's a good chance that the boyfriend actually hopes that instead of paying rent, you get mad and move out of home. he likely doesn't like you and wants you out of the picture.

I've been in a similar situation before and while I try to have some contact with my mom, 10 years later I still can't really forgive her, and I refuse to have any contact with her husband due to problems between him and me. If it weren't for my sister and extended family on my mother's side, I would likely have cut her off completely.

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>as a parent, why the fuck would you keep wiping your kids ass when they're 10?
He's getting an education. It's not 1960 anymore. Spending money and energy at a minimum wage job instead of getting better grades at college is either detrimental to his future or pretty much pointless depending on how many work hours he takes on.

Sure I'll pay rent
Just not to you
bye

How big is your projector?

What? working part time is detrimental to his future? holy shit, you are seriously delusional. the world isn't going to handle OP with kid gloves on like his mom is doing right now. sooner he gets his shit together, the better off he'll be.

maybe you should stop being a little bitch. its literally only 20H/week. you sound very entitled. your mother owes you nothing now that youre 18, maybe you should be grateful.

this is fucking easy mode. part time work while going to school is base level stuff. you guys need a reality check.

the better grades he has, the better off he'll be. this "character building" stunt is fucking retarded if it comes at the expense of his career.
>this is fucking easy mode.
for someone who doesn't aim for top grades or has super good memory and/or studies something shit easy with low competition both in the degree and in the work life afterwards, sure.

As the 33yo boomer you probably are, you don't know how cutthroat it is to be a college graduate nowadays in most fields. You need every win during your education that you can get.

as someone who is probably in late HS or freshman college (guessing never had a job.. blind leading the blind) - you have no idea what you are talking about. work experience in some form builds so many skills outside of work duties.

Get a job lazy zoomer

I'm a 35yo boomer myself, but I have younger siblings and I know how different the environment is now from when I graduated. People I graduated with all got nice job offers easily after graduation even if they got mediocre grades. People their age who graduated who didn't get top grades wasted 3-5 years of their lives. Half their friends from school largely feel like failures working as waiters and other unrelated to their field bullshit.

Working builds a good cognitive skillset, yes. No one is disputing this. It is, however, not worth it if it interferes with their grades and thus career. Things aren't as easy as when I was young.

Go live in the dorms for a year or two. Take on debt if you need to. While you're there, get a job and get used to working 20 hours a week. Get some friends or whatever you gotta do to get roommates for when you move out of the dorms. You'll be fine.

Your mom can go fuck herself for being a cunt. I wouldn't give her a penny. If I were you, I'd rather take on a smidge of debt than pay her. Of course, this all depends on how much dorms cost at your university. It's worth the experience as well to live on campus. Fun af. You might even get ur lil dinker wet.

>you're worried that I won't understand finances or take work seriously.
>That's a fair thing to worry about, and I understand.
I'm worried about maintaining my grades while working
>What rent amount do you think is reasonable, and is there any amount of work that I could do around the house that would reduce this?
>I ask because paying rent after taxes is usually going to take more of my time than what I could do around the house
>This would leave more time for my studies

this demonstrates and understanding of responsibility, respect for the house, and an understanding of finances. Living rent free is the best, but parents don't always let you. Good luck

no dude, it's easy mode. nothing is sacrificed by working 20 hours a week. going to school is not so hard that it requires all your time.

you have no idea what's coming your way user. the world is going to tear your fragile ass apart.
When I finally go around to getting my degree, already had two kids that I responsible for taking care of. Full time work, full time dad, full time student. stop being a bitch. take advantage of your youth. get out of moms house and do something interesting with your life.

either tell her to fuck off and dont pay or bail.

if you are paying you will be better off by yourself.

she will demand more over time, either live rent free or bail.

also, tell her that you will put her in a home when she gets older and that she wont get to meet her grandkids (as if)

Do it.
Life is change.
Change is opportunity.
There's no development without a change.

>muh this was how it was when I was young
t. bad reading comprehension

kill yourself you fucking boomer

If you're gonna have to work anyways, get a shitty studio by yourself or find some roommates somewhere. Cut her off until she really needs you and then make her beg for your help. Up to you whether you do anything for her at that point. Gain all of the lessons of working while showing her that trying to exploit your children in this economy is horrific and doing so to please her lover shows how little she actually cares for your wellbeing.

>current partner
Your mom is a whore murder her.

Fair enough there. I'm a bit younger than you and got a job right out of college as well so I don't know the school environment. Some of it is hypercompetitive, some isn't. Let's take CompSci for example. Yes the big names in SV are only going to take the cream of the crop because they can afford to. But there's millions of other employers out there that aren't as strict as them where you can find a job well above median pay. IMO having work experience can provide a competitive advantage if you know how to conduct yourself in a workplace and employers can see you're a reliable worker vs just getting the best grades.

Itt you can very well see the normies who believe in wagecucking and then those who believe parents should have financial security and raise their kids well without the kids having to wagecuck some mindless jobs. Literally peasants. Just imagine your son wiping some fucken floors or flipping burgers just so he could support his education. What a fucken failure of a parent you must be. Peasant mindset.

I thought biz was the place were we try to emulate the 1% not the 99%.

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seeing as how the OP's parent raised her kid to 19 without ever having a job before, I'd say that's exactly what was done. maybe you should go back to school instead of working because your reading comprehension is that of a retard

the world hasn't changed that much in 7 years. I'm a 33 year old boomer, not a 70 year old boomer.

this. that's what I did when I was 18. Came back around at 20, same old bullshit, left for 5 years with minimal contact. Came back for a few months to handle some legal stuff, found out they were going to rent out rooms in the paid off - passed down family house when they already make 200k/year and haven't helped me with a single penny for school or anything. Then go on as if I'm such a shitbag if I'm not spending a bunch of time doing them favors when I visit. Then have the audacity to question why they don't have grandchildren yet and haven't found a "good woman" to "go make a life with". laugh out fucking loud

>the world hasn't changed that much in 7 years.
it actually has. student debt bubble isn't feared because it doesn't exist. and it doesn't exist because people get employed after graduating.

the youngins who came after us got memed on. the education bubble is real in many fields, and I'm not talking women's studies

Try to talk to her partner and convince them to tell your mother it's a bad idea

Listen here retard. Do you think kikes or Asians charge their kids fucking rent to finance their extravagant boomer lifestyles?
"No!"
Instead the parents bust their ass to help their children as much as possible. This is why they're so successful while Whites who were charged rent by their parents/kicked out become opioid addicts.

The best part is once they retire they'll (re)mortgage that paid-off passed-down family house to fund their globetrotting meme adventures and then blow through the rest of their savings for medical expenses once they get cancer. AND THEN, they'll come begging their 'beloved son' for financial support. When the saccharine method fails they'll lay out meme arguments about "We raised you/free food and housing for 18 years" etc. When that fails as well they'll denounce you and badmouth you to the rest of your relatives for 'abandoning your loving parents' without mentioning the fact that they haven't done anything to support you since you turned 18.
Day of the Recliner soon

*honk* schools. scam unless youre going to be an MD RN or JD

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Unironically based and unironically redpilled

Boss Baby

Oh, but they had it so hard and nobody gave Dem nuffen so I don't get nuffen too. Despite my mom marrying at 20 to my dad who made 14/ hour in 1982 with no degree after 2 years of apprenticeship and their first house cost 45k

This. Her BF hates you and is trying to fuck with you anyway he can by getting into your moms head. Ideally you would kill him but that's tricky these days so you'll probably need to find another way of changing the situation. Undermine him in every way possible.

She cant evict you for 90 days so just stack the paper and find a place to live

>a valuable lesson

My ma gave me this shit too. Sure ma, has nothing to do with the fact you and dad are fucking broke and still continue to smoke cigarettes that you can't afford, right?
Do you know how it works in Jewish families? Your job is this: get good grades to get into a good school to get into a good job.
Like, their kids will just drop a banana peel on the floor because the mother is the designated cleaner and the kid needs to worry exclusively about studying.
They do everything they can to help their kids to succeed. What in G_d's name is making you pay rent going to do to help your future?
Like you wouldn't be able to understand how to take some of your money and give it to a landlord later in life if she didn't give you this lesson?
It's nothing but greed at padding out their own failure in life.
Now, let's say you had finished school and you had a job and were just sitting at home using your income for beer and travel, or something. Yeah maybe then they should stick you with a bill to encourage you to GTFO.

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>Tell your mom that if she wants rent you're gonna go live alone and she will NEVER hear about you again.

This. The natural order is the kid sponges from the parents a little bit, takes off in life, then the parents get to sponge off the kids at the end of their life when they are old and crippled.
The Boomers think that they should sponge off their kids to the point it is detrimental to the success of the children, precious little success too since they did such a shit job.

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It all depends on what you are studying, if it's business or community college, just work, but if it's physics, engineering or maths then don't, you will fail classes and then get into debt, you may gain minimum wage, pay your mom, and then get three times what you gived in debt because you failed courses

university is hard nowadays, boomers uni was easy as shit, i can compare the tests and exams we give with those of boomers and they are completely different

Be asian

Fuck off and go crash another economy while riding on the post war boom you fucking faggot.

If you don't want to pay then move out

Don't pay rent. Get kicked out. Get a friend to stab you in a non-lethal place on your body, go to the hospital, and say to your mother "Why? Why did you do this to your son?"

That money is going to your "dad" then. Tell her to fuck off.

T. My parents made my brothers pay board but I told them to fuck off because while they were working their 60 hour weeks, I got neglected and I told them they're a year or two away from having 0 of 3 sons loving them and all the money in the world.

Say if it is a savings thing, you will routinely deposit it into an account. Boss your mum around, never let a woman have power or control over you.

Can you go live with your dad or are you black?

>No its called contributing to the household that you've lived in for the last 19 years. Everything is a giant conspiracy with you faggots.

The time when that happens is when you wipe their fucking arses for them at the end of their life and cook and clean for them when they are old and sick.
That guy put it beautifully. These parents (women) have the gall to claim they are teaching their kids "good habits" by sucking their blood which they need because of their lifetime of bad habits.

If she charges you rent to live in her house, then charge her $100/hr for taking care of her when shes old

are you sure? in most of countries if kid studies you cant just throw him out for not paying rent.

This op
Why would should you pay her when you could just get a dorm on campus. It's a waste of energy and working part time definitely affects your school performance.
There might be a slight possibility that they came up with a plan to surprise you with it he rent money when you graduate to do whatever you want with it but it's not worth losing study time or socializing/ networking

>shaped him into a man

more like the perfect betabux

Quit school and wagesalve for a while until the creature understands boundaries. If it doesn't, move out and live sparsely as you enjoy the adventure.

This lmao. Tell her you'll actually find a partner worth sticking with & she won't see your three beautiful kids. Stick it to her- your "dad" has control over your mum and therefore you. This is an awful situation to be in. Fix it.

tell her that uni is a lot harder now than it was 35 years ago, negotiate the price down so that you only have to work ~8-16 hours. ideally closer to 8

>Quit school and wagesalve for a while until the creature understands boundaries.

What do you mean? Do you think this boomer is going to go
>oh no, my son's future is at stake!
while he's putting the money in her pocket?
WILL NOT happen. The same mechanisms which justified for her sucking her son's blood will not only make her okay with that: she'll demand more money since he doesn't have to worry about school anymore.

My mom tried this bullshit with me, I managed to live with my wife’s family but of course like boomers who choose work and rot themselves rather than cultivating themselves they are trying to force me to pay rent too.

What exactly what s the lesson these people are trying to teach us? Can’t they not see that education is the only key to salvation and out of life of mind numbing misery.

Boomer morality is if it feels good it is correct and other people's needs do not exist.
It feels good to get money for free, from you, so it's the correct thing to do.
All that crap about "contributing" is and arse pull to justify what they emotionally persuaded themselves to believe.

Just straight up tell her you will commit suicide if she forces you to pay rent, and write a suicide note blaming her """partner""" for sexual abuse when you were 16/17 (provided he's been around that long i.e. your mother isn't a whore)

lmao has anyone in this thread ever been to college? worked above minimum wage?

Move out

tell her to put it on your tab

I've done both at the same time. You're seriously shooting yourself in the fucking foot working more than 10 or so hours a week. You're competing in a global world now and a degree doesn't cut it. You NEED to be in clubs, do some extracurricular activities, and preferably do an internship. All the while you have to maintain top-tier grades.

holy shit - posts like this are the reasons i still come here after all these fucking years

srsly, just buy at least 10k LINK and pay your mom the rent. try to jew her down on the price tho. good luck, you will make it.

This. Government is fucking the economy harder than johnny sins would fuck a 4' nympho. Therefore corporations needs nearly 2x the productivity to even break even compared to 20, 25 years ago. Many people do not work and produce- shuffling paperwork is their fucking job.

t. Fat neet virgin

Becoming your mum's husband will not make you a man.

Cshht, sip. Ahh. This.

>everything that makes you a man in society also makes you a literal slave who can't enjoy any fruits of their labor

Hmmm really makes me think

>She tells me that it is going to be a valuable lesson for me into my future.

Shit, my mother pulled that shit some months ago for "teaching me a lesson" because apparently I'm saving too much money from my salary (fucking what?). I'm currently looking to leave the house soon.