>be me, 25 >study computer science >50/50 chance that I will get my degree since I struggle so hard >don't even like it really or enjoy it >got education in agriculture before but propaply can't manage a farm and never did and also can't stand the isolation >never had a girlfriend, even though I tried my best
Yeah Jow Forums that's my stand in life. I'm on the best way to be one of those people that didn't archive anything by the age of 30 and are total fuckups. Those people that I never understood. But now I see myself heading in the exact same direction. Heck, even if I get my degree I will be a miserable employee. Or who knows if I will even ever get employed with my grades and non existing skills. I have absolutely no talent in what I'm doing. But I also don't know what I should do otherwise. I feel like I'm not made for this world.
The only thing that comes to my mind again and again recently (for no clear reason), is going to Russia for one year and learn their language.
>be me, 30 >studied computer science >Barely managed to get my degree since I struggled so hard >don't even like it really or enjoy it >worked menial jobs for 5 years because even the idea of getting a CS job scared me. >truck driver now. Pay isn't bad and its mostly kinda relaxing as I get to listen to audio books all day. I guess I'm just stupid and lazy, but I've come to terms with it.
30 year old boomer here with CS degree. Almost exactly the same as you especially this part hit me:
>But I also don't know what I should do otherwise.
I don't know man, I don't regret doing the cs degree but I'm not sure if I'm going to use it either, still no idea what else I could do so who the fuck knows.
So basically imo you should do the degree if you don't hBut I also don't know what I should do the degree if you don't have any other plans, it's still better than nothing imhotbh.
Joseph Garcia
>if you don't have any other plans, it's still better than nothing imhotbh. That's what I'm thinking as well. But then I also think that I'm wasting time. I would like to find out what I really like and then go for it. Those people who figured that out are so lucky.
All I can say is that I want to live a comfy life, be self employed, have a good looking girlfriend and live in a country where the average salary is quite low, so that my online Business or so can support my easily. But other than that: No idea what I should do
Charles Campbell
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Kayden Cook
>I'm on the best way to be one of those people that didn't archive anything by the age of 30 and are total fuckups. Those people that I never understood. But now I see myself heading in the exact same direction. Heck, even if I get my degree I will be a miserable employee. Or who knows if I will even ever get employed with my grades and non existing skills. I have absolutely no talent in what I'm doing. >But I also don't know what I should do otherwise. Seems like you know your problem, man the fuck up.. You are putting yourself at a serious disadvantage with all this negative energy. I can feel the lack of motivation seeping into the computer screen, its almost infecting me. Think of it like this, the most successful people aren't little bitches like you are.
Life is hard, ONLY if you do not try.
Lucas Edwards
I ask successful people where they get their motivation from, and they look at me like I grew 2 heads. They don't understand the question, because they've always wanted to do more and better things without thinking about it. The ones who always struggle the most are people who think too much about every decision they make. It's something inherent or biological, it almost feels like we're different species.
Austin Gray
There is a theory in psychology describing what you notice: --------- Need theory, also known as Three Needs Theory,[1] proposed by psychologist David McClelland, is a motivational model that attempts to explain how the needs for achievement, power, and affiliation affect the actions of people from a managerial context. ---------
One needs to find which best represents them, then one can understand their role better in the work place.
