its past the point of no return isnt it, if you havent made it with career, family, fulfillment.
Anyone here past 30?
30 year old neet here, unironically learning to code
You can be past 30 and be a piece of shit or a well preserved healthy young looking Chad. Depends on the decisions you made
>30 is just a number
>turning 30 this summer
30 year old here, been bald since 25. I'd say my best years were 26-27 but things have been improving again. The key is staying fit, staying well employed, and above all for the love of god HAVE FRIEND GROUPS. You're infinitely more attractive to a woman if the people around you like you. Age for a guy only matters on online apps. All the 30-40 year olds banging 20 somethings do it because of their social life.
Reposting your r/asianmasculinity pic but in non-ant quality.
im 30 but look 22, so its not too bad.
37 here, nearing the 40.
Unironically also haven't gotten laid for the past 6 years, last handjob i got was when i turned 30.
But hey, in Sergey we trust right !
Once us Linkmarines make it , it will be Thai hooker gallore for this oldtimer !
31yo boomer here. if you haven't settled your shit yet, life is gonna be tough user and maybe deservedly so. you've had plenty of time to grow up.
Not by a long shot.
>34
>have wife and two kids
>making $150k/year
>million dollar net worth
>hate my job
>no time/energy to pursue hobbies anymore
>contemplate suicide daily
i have had this persistent belief that some financial windfall is going to come my way and get me out of this rut, but as i get deeper into my 30s, i'm starting to realize it won't happen and i'm stuck here for at least 20 more years.
I just turned 20 and I'm getting scared reading these. 100 ETH, 1k stellar, 1 bitcoin, 500 chainlink hope i make it frends.
47 here. Financially, I’m good, not great. I’m $35k away from owning my house outright. It’s worth $275. I’ve got about $60k cash and $30k in bitcoin. One of the benefits of being a wagie for so long is that eventually you become the boss. So I can take it easy. On the down side, I’m a 2 time divorcee simply because I had to learn the hard way that modern women are utter shit. At this point in life I’m a black pilled prepper.
I will add that the only way i got my money to invest in crypto was from a motorcycle wreck, I got over 60k from it.
>All the 30-40 year olds banging 20 somethings do it because of their social life.
lol wat
They just want fresh meat. 30-40 yo men are either already married or just bad. They don't care about your friends. Seriously, wtf am I reading. Or maybe it's again another weird American thing.
Welcome to life user. I have the same going for me minus the good career. I wish I would have gone to the military and fucked around traveling and not giving a shit about roots.
>$35,000 away from owning a $275 house
user I....
Very similar situation. I can hold out for another couple years, but if no bull run by then idk wtf Im going to do.
How is it going? I am working an entry level IT job with an opportunity to move up. I am honestly not sure if I can pick up Linux at 26..
>31 year old boomer
>had a good 20s, lots of traveling and partying
>career is finally taking off
>banged about 5 girls this year
>no marriage or kids, that can wait till I'm 40
>not fat, not balding (taking propecia), should be looking good for another 10 years easily
Enjoying the 30s bachelor life.
>34
>million dollar NW
>financial windfall is going to come my way and get me out of this rut
>boohoo I'm the 1% but I need a financial windfall
what the fuck do you need that for you are a 34 yo millionaire, just quit your job and shift to some easy part time work you retard
30 is the true start of adulthood. If you didn't work at your goals in your 20s there's still time.
never gonna make it
I can't read what you're trying to talk about. I'm saying if people in the bar/party/event seem to know and like you then a girl is more interested in you. I'm not saying they're fucking you to have access to your frisbee group or some dumb shit.
>60 years old man at his son's high school graduation.
ew lol
"Net worth" includes retirement fund and house. He probably has 450k in home equity and 250k in between 401k/IRA, the rest is split between himself and his wife and is largely reserved savings for the kids' college funds/wedding funds.
This. Literally the reason I'm getting married this year. Don't want to be too old when having kids
This doesn't bother me at all. As long as I pass on my genes before I die.
It'll bother your kid. You won't be a masculine role model to your kids. You'll be fragile for most of their growing lives.
>it's weird in yuropoor land to have bangin young women
Hahahahahahaha do they all date refugees or what?
34 year old boomer here. Made serious money in crypto in 2017. Single, no job, neet life. Travelling aimlessly. Banged 9 girls last year. Only my girlfriend this year.
- career check
- family check
- fulfillment check
You know, I have all these things but the best years of my life where when I was a neet (had some friends) though.
If your now a neet enjoy it man!
-t Boomer
Well its' not like I have a marriage material woman in my life right now. And I'm not quite financially sorted. I need a few more years.
fastest way to make money for a 30 year old neet?
>life begins at 40, frens
Nice jealous
Keep at it user we believe in you, but you gotta put in the work to improve yourself or learn skills you don't know at all. Doing the same thing over and over is what dooms too many.
Very cryptic user you'll have to explain. And what makes you think you can give me advice?
My brother, cousins are engaged / married / pregnant and a few years younger than me. And I sure don't envy them right now.
>32
>house + condo, both 1/3rd paid off
>10k in savings and crypto combined
Things probably should have been better but at least Im not a wagie I guess.
35
30 year old NEET here. I am fucked beyond recovery. My last chance would be someone figuring out how to reverse ageing
it's not past the pnr yet. you can still get your shit together and get a job. you could literally just become a truck driver and make 40k per year and the company will even pay for your training.
I'm 34. I gave up having a family for owning a business.
Ain't nothing wrong with that life user.
35
Wife
Son
Career
Putting into pension
Few K in crypto
Couple miners
Whyte
See: Pretty much spot on. Half is home equity and now is the time to be saving/investing so I can help my kids out with college and whatever else I can do for them. I love my kids dearly and they are the reason I can't just walk away from all of this. I don't want them to graduate college with six figure loans. If I didn't have a family, I'd probably move somewhere with a lower cost of living and take a lower stress job.
COMMUNITY COLLEGE/MILITARY
Crypto is racist? Fuck I'm buying today.
>30
>getting married soon, career set, investing heavily in crypto
pretty happy, need work goals though, can't go higher in my field now.
user you're 34. Now is the time to hustle. When you're 64 you'll look at yourself and wonder why you were a little bitch. Notice that the days go by faster? They blur together? The seasons change quicker? That doesn't stop, it accelerates. Relax, enjoy the moment, you have it together - people love and depend on you. That's more than most people can say.
This is actually some good perspective, user. Thanks.
>38
> 20yrs married
> 2 kids in college
>own my home (worth 6x what I paid)
>start mining BTC in 2011
>bought ETH at $11
>Net worth of $20 million.
Honestly it’s fun n to be accomplished but my frens don’t respect my $ and think I’m lazy and lucky because I didn’t wage slave to accomplish my wealth.
Having $ is nice.
I tried hard to spoil the crap outta my kids because I grew up piss poor.
Luckily they are well behaved and respectful.
The wife is skitzo and meds make her never wanna have sex anymore.
Having money isn’t everything.
I’m about to buy a business to keep myself busy.
31, have passive income and trade crypto.
Smash at least one new 20-something tinder slut a week.
The thought of marriage and kids makes me shudder.
It will be ok bro I have a similar situation with my girlfriend. If you learn how to cheat you won’t care about her sex anymore
This. Just be careful. Never in your own home.
24, making just barely six figures.
Hate my job and it will probably go belly up in 10 to 15 leaving me with little transferrable skills.
Anyone change career after 30?
Get a side hustle with something you're good at that's a branch of your own skillset. Then if it goes to shit you can focus full time on yourself.
based, this will be me, maybe not by 31, but shortly after
would you mind sharing any recommendations for passive income? Right now I'm adding to a dividend portfolio that is paying out nicely and building game software to sell and a financial literacy website
on the one side, yes, on the other side, I have never felt so mentally healthy and confident.
Swings and roundabouts
>makes $150k/year
>waiting for a financial windfall
user, you must be blind
>the rest is split between himself and his wife and is largely reserved savings for the kids' college funds/wedding funds.
fucking normies I swear
>29
>neet
>100k in cyrpto
>a few 100k cash
>own 100 acres of land
going to try to produce some agricultural goods, at one point was a millionaire on paper but want to get out of investing, too much stress
>Honestly it’s fun n to be accomplished but my frens don’t respect my $ and think I’m lazy and lucky because I didn’t wage slave to accomplish my wealth.
hate going from an equal to expected to pay for everything
Money is a gas user.
>31
>have 300k property, mortgage paid off
>0.5 bitcoin
>500€ on bank account
>fucked a hooker after the bullrun of 2017
>no sex since then
just paid off the mortgage with everything i had, outstanding taxes fucked me, so i'm starting at 0 with an advantage
I lulz'd so hard at this comment, but i do hope you know he meant 275k :D
Never shit in your own backyard, I’m aware.
I do occasionally here and there. I just hate the awkward and sneaky nature.
dude, he's a larper
Yeah some times depending on the lengths you have to go to get it then it's not worth it.
29, neet, no savings, no car or license, no education, no human interaction, no family, no friends, no home, 10k debt, 2k link
Really no one takes you seriously until you are 30. As far as family is concerned you have to deal with entitled women approaching 30.
i spent my entire 20s doing drugs and fucking degenerate whores. ive gotten married, had two kids, and made my first million since i became 30. 34 now. as long as there is life there is hope.
kekd
>33
>no wife or kids
>making $250k/year
>still save very little since I live in NYC and like to party a little too much but who cares
>plenty of free time to pursue hobbies, date multiple women, start side businesses
>life is good
sorry you fell for the wife and kids meme user. I'll never understand why so many men blindly follow that life path even though we all know it sucks.
based. take notes fags.
Linux is easy as fuck to use.
Kys degenerate
My plan is to fuck fatties and wait for $SKY to moon. #based
>user, you must be blind
Maybe. I think I just have this stupid millennial "I'm special" mentality lurking in the back of my mind that makes me think I'm too good to spend 50-60 hours a week at work and that something good should just happen to reward me for the good choices I've made so far. This isn't a conscious belief that I am counting on or something, but there is just this feeling like this can't possibly continue like this until I'm 60.
>larper
What is hard to believe? I have a job that pays pretty decently, live well below my means and save/invest as much as I can. My wife was making six figures as well before we had kids.
Over 40 motherfucker, get on my level.
No one will miss you when you die and the sooner the better.
Who gives a shit I'll be dead. Your kids will miss you for a few months and then will move on with their lives congratulations hope you enjoy it from the dirt.
anyone in seattle area hiring? i need a job desperately
>50-60 hours a week at work
yikes if not a larper
>32
>orthopaedic surgeon
>married, wife is also a doctor and earn mad dosh
>wealthy family, I'll inherite a few dozen million dollars, which is as a lot for my shitty 3rd world country
>still jealous of the neet life
I've had everything in my life given on a gold platter and I'm still miserable, I can't honestly enjoy life. The more I study and interact with other people, the more I want to be excluded from society
>age memes
none of that shit matters anymore. you cant have the traditional life without it being ruined and taken from you 10 years down the line max. wtf is this the 70's? growing up means taking responibility for yourself and that's it. you sound like a bunch of normie cunts
>it's worth 275
Not yet, but soon
Paper assets and properties are going to be worthless. Pensions are already gone.
nobody is forcing you to do that, it is your own choice. you have enough capital that you can grow it without saving a single more dollar.
either be happy that this is your choice and that material wealth is more important to you than your time, or change something.
>user you're 34. Now is the time to hustle.
and when is the time to enjoy life? when you are 65, nothing excites you, and your dick does not work?
>make 250k/year
>have plenty of free time
shut the fuck up larper, with that salary you have no free time at all
not too late. find a great sexy girl, marry her, make babies, make it work, enjoy kids and family life, retire off your crypto. better hurry up with the girl part.
properties can never become worthless, because people need to actually live somewhere. Not sure what you mean by paper assets, but pretty sure most businesses are not going to just disappear. Pensions sure.
Stop complaining you spoiled pussy, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from quitting it all and becoming a NEET for the rest of your life starting today. Most people don't have that choice.
>30
>virgin
>live with parents
>study for 10 years
>finishing my masters this year
>???
30 here, been working as a graphic designer for 13 years and i'm absolutely done with it now. quit my last job cause it was a shit company. currently a NEET for 1 year already. timing was bad but it was a good time to re-orientate myself aswell, now looking for a job in a new career. it's tough but possible.
I've got three years before I hit 30. I don't think I'm going to make it.
Peaking in your 20s is boomer thinking. These days, your 20s are your worst, hardest decade. Don't try to get too much done , just get through them with your soul intact.
>32
>retired/NEET
>no fucks left
>look 23
32yo woman. I can’t even see “the wall” in my rear view mirror anymore.
32 here. Utter complete nihilism has set in. Imagine being married. Don't even care to fuck her, but just do it out of duty to have child.
Literally nothing left to do except maybe play the keep up with Joneses game with fellow boomers. Otherwise I'm just playing Morrowind and not working out.
Tits now, roastie
I'm in sales homey. I'm not a doctor or lawyer. I can work as little or as much as I want as long as I hit my number it doesn't matter. I'm actually flying to Morocco on vacation right now.
It just gets easier after 30.
*sip*
20's are for learning. 30's for earning.