> be me > mid 20s > poorly paid job > never had a gf > most women at office are old, fat, and/or taken > that leaves 1 girl in her low-mid 30s > rarely talk with her > the few times we have she has often exhibited behavior that she doesn't with other coworkers (overreacting her emotions) > eg "how often does the mail come here" proceeds to display a lot of nervous behavior > eg "are you printing a book!?" exaggerating her voice and acting like she's mad > I've also noticed that when she walks by my cubicle she turns her head to obviously look at me (however I also caught two older women doing this so it might not mean anything)
We rarely interact but I kinda want to ask her out. Is it a bad idea to just ask her out on a date if I can get her 1 on 1?
boy be ded of constipation, takes your advice. Go for it op, mid-30s are nutzo anyway, you can do no wrong
Landon Barnes
She probably just talks like that, and he looks into your cubicle cause they have an inside joke that you're a perv and watch porn at work and probably bet money on who caught you
Carson Rodriguez
They know user.
Levi Reyes
Don’t shit where you eat >also 90% of relationships start with people that you spend most of your day around for example coworkers/classmates
Bentley Cooper
Yeah he’s got some disgusting asperger habit he’s doing
Josiah Campbell
An inside joke about me. I can see my coworkers doing that to me especially since I don't talk much with various coworkers anymore.
Nicholas Moore
Based
Jackson Turner
This probably isn't the case op. I'm doing my one good deed for the week. With that said I think it's unwise for you to date someone you work with.
Daniel Russell
Not trying to have sex with her just date her
Wyatt Myers
Oh thanks. I mentioned the job pays poorly as I know its probably not a good idea to date a coworker so not much of a loss besides benefits
Jordan Torres
>arrive at new job >work in a office >room is filled with several people so no cubicles >cute blonde girl around same age as me sitting next to me >early in the morning she always walks up to me smiles and gives me her hand but not like for a handshake like she expects me to kiss her hand >there is a plant in between us but I can see her through it >often notice that she is looking at me >don‘t talk much to other coworkers because I focus on my job >when we are alone in the office she always attempts to start conversations with me >she laughs about my awkward jokes no matter how bad they are >its really easy to talk to her >she brings me tea and even baked cookies for me >start imagining life together >decide to man up and ask her out >pick the perfect day for it when there is only me and her in the office in the afternoon >invite Marjorie to lunch I know she likes sushi >haha sure user but its not a date I have a boyfriend >mfw >leave job couple days later because cant stand to be around her anymore >unable to get other job >move back in with parents >become alcoholic NEET >turned blind on left eye
>graduate uni a electrical engineer >no girls in course but whatever it's engineering >think now that I've finished studying and got a job I can get a gf >no attractive women at work >most are 30+ >no time to socialise because 9-5 How do I go back? Did I just skip my chances of meeting young women by studying engineering
Henry Brown
if you aren't hideous girls will flirt with u always. even if girl has bf
Ryan Myers
>Did I just skip my chances of meeting young women by studying engineering no, you skipped your chances bc engineering was too hard for you. if you can't do the course you want to do while going out and meeting people, not even doing your course work regularly, you think too highly of yourself.
you should have went with something easier than engineering
Leo Perry
> be me > mid 20s guy > get better job > dont date at work cos thats fatal > dont falling for the plays that woman pull off cos theyre narcists at heart > dont overanalyze every single shit > just went out, talked to girls i visually liked alot, dont give a fuck if i got rejected or not, cos fuck it over there stands another fuckbag woman > looked out for once in a lifetime possibilties cos they can save your life > went to homegym and read alot selfesteem books and psychology books so i dont have to post stupid heretic shit on a vietnamese bask weaving forum
there, i wrote your guideline now let me alone
Carter Flores
>turned blind on left eye that bitch how dare she do that t you
Charles Reyes
Do it user, take the leap. Be nice, be respectful, don't try too hard.
Justin Baker
You are me, besides of the fact that i work in a mainly male dominated Job. Hard for me to find a good women desu. Met a couple of Women but nothing serious came out of it. Most of them have by far unrealistic expectations of the male and stuff. I had a nice girl in the late High School years, asked her a few times out but nothing serious came out plus she moved away from town after 5 years im still thinking sometimes of her and me how it may have turned out if i just werent such a incel vidya playing faggot back then. Sometimes it makes me really sad , because she was 11 out 10 from personality and looking....
Im thinking about to go abroad to find a suitable women , western women are really random and have way to high to unrealistic expectations. Pajeet girl gonna keep good care on me , my dick and my kids.
Im not even poor , Gonna inherit 3 Condos , 150k$ Cash , and saved 33k$ by myself in stocks bonds and etf's. Im expecting to retire at 29-33ish
>be me >majority of coworkers are female >most are like op's case: old, fat, ugly, and/or taken >only a few who are 35 or under, attractive, and not married >#1: 32, attractive and chill: has a bf: baggage includes has several kids likely by different men, several wrist tattoos (ironically one of the few females I can tolerate) >#2: 25, attractive but looks like she might get quite fat and has a dominant personality: single: baggage includes coming from a family that seems to love drinking >#3: 34ish, okay face, nice body, okay personality: single: baggage includes large back tattoo, likely some sort of health issue due to frequent restroom breaks
Anons where do I meet more women? I have a hard time approaching women in public places.
Go join local clubs that do things that you like , the only way to meet more women is to spend more time around other people.
Charles Myers
>likely some sort of health issue due to frequent restroom breaks
Kek she's slacking off on her phone you turbo-autist.
We had a guy who literally spent 2 hrs a day in the bathroom on an 8 hour shift. He was related to the boss so he got away with it.
Julian Cruz
How so?
That's a good idea
Idk about that user eg the guy whose got a wife and is looking at girl pics or the married gal whose likely texting her husband. They seem to do it freely.
Angel Russell
#2
Julian King
since you've never had a girlfriend you might not be aware of this, but when you "date" someone, it's expected that you have regular sex with them. Even if you're not trying to have sex with her, she will expect sex with you, and probably fairly early in your relationship (2nd or 3rd date even)
Jace Jenkins
Haha just end it you absolute cuck
>dating but not for sex
Bring your mom to some dinner you stupid fuck, why would you even date if you don't want sex, holy shit
>mfw you may think it's ok to get married without having sex before
kys
Charles Morris
Baste and /thread
Owen Hall
>tfw never had female coworkers I've had like, what... 5 official jobs in my life? and it was always male dominated. I've only had one job with a female boss and she was the most amazing boss you could ever get, she's one of those people who's really calm and supportive, never gets upset at you, really down to earth. She was also very pretty and quite young, probably around my age. I used to fantasize about us being together but I discovered she was engaged. It didn't ruin out chemistry because I never confessed to her so it all worked out well in the end.
Didn't read your blog post. You'll be broke by 38.
David Wood
This thread is so sad. Here is your free life tip. Everyone in this thread is a 7 or below. No normal girls will ever date you. If you date a normal girl it will be for your money and she will cheat on you. You are all the equivalent of fat girls. Therefore your ONLY option is dating a fat girl. You’re welcome for giving you the advice your dad would give you if he loved you
Bentley Williams
>>haha sure user but its not a date I have a boyfriend >MFW seeing you fail the alpha test
