>message seen 2 days ago
>status online now
>uploaded a thot pic with a quote about loneliness 20 minutes ago
>down 0.4 btc in the last 3 hours
Time to off myself bros life sucks and starts sucking even more as you get older nobody should be forced to live past 25
>over the age of 25
>caring about getting left on read by some chick
Bro, this is something that every man has dealt with a hundred times. Not saying it doesn't suck but worry about yourself, not a girl who is clearly not interested in you.
>having conversation with some grill
>arrange to meet up for coffee
>she suggests a day
>I say can't make it, how about this day
No reply, even 2 months later, not a single fuck given.
Yes, women are flakey especially in the digital era. Stop worrying on dating, focus on your physical health, your mental wellbeing, and your money. Not advocating full on MGTOW but chasing girls is a waste of time, money and energy. You'll have way more time to date in the future, and also a much better hand if you're able to quit wagecucking.
Buddy she's probably left 10 diff dudes on read. Girls love getting attention. Sounds cheesy but that song that goes "You just want attention, you don't want my heart", it's true for so many girls.
Don't equate your self-worth to your money or women. Read "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy" by Dr David Burns and "Models" by Mark Manson. These will change your life. Godspeed.
Hey, at least you can make it that far, all of my tinder matches for the past year have ghosted me as soon as I asked when they wanted to meet up. Even this one girl that I talked back and forth with for two days first ghosted after I asked her out.
Granted, most of my pics are from when I was in college and looked like shit because I didn't groom myself properly and didn't exercise so I looked like Vitalik, but there are definitely guys uglier than me who get to have gf's, so I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
It varies girl to girl but asking to meet up sooner, like literally the first day you start talking to them actually works.
Yeah don't let it get to you dude. It literally happens to every man. We've all been there and we've all succeeded eventually. Just stay strong and focus on you. Make yourself happy. These girls don't care at all about you even though it seems like they do. Don't worry about it. Just do you. Once you start making yourself happy you will see that girls will be attracted to you much more
>using tinder
>Match with girl
>Send witty message
>She replies with "haha"
>Don't know how to follow up
>Send another message, no response
>Wait a week, still nothing
>Ask her essentially how long she's been doing her job (using different wording)
>Unmatched the following day
Most of my questions have follow up questions which are much better than the first one. It's a shame these bitches want to be left in the dumpster and only respond to retarded comments.
I've taken to sending messages in the hopes that they just unmatch so I can delete my account and swipe again.
Realistically if they respond to an opening that is sexual or implied sexual in nature. You can assume this is not someone who can be taken seriously.
> t. Salty virgin
Try offending them with the first message
>Realistically if they respond to an opening that is sexual or implied sexual in nature. You can assume this is not someone who can be taken seriously.
Welcome to planet earth user, all women here are whoers.
That's what I've been doing with most of my recent matches after this site repeatedly drilled into my head that Tinder is just for hookups, I figured I had to be quick. Besides all the ghosters, there were only two other people who even replied at all; one was some trap that I ended up ghosting, and the other was some landwhale that sent me a message at 1 AM on a worknight expecting me to booty call.
how about you stop caring about trivial things like women and money so much?
I'm Ol almost 29, unemployed and 5k in debt but I'm still happy. The problem with you is that you don't think outside the box.
Take pic related.
Asian qt 10/10
Turns out it's an Asian boy
Turns out he's not wearing make up either
Turns out my dicks got a stiffy
Turns out cute Japanese boys was all I really needed to be happy
I present to you the meaning of life user. Qt Asian boys. That's the real red pill.
>calling money trivial on a Business and Finance board
Why are you even here?
Op here stop shilling me asians the chick that let me on seen is also asian, asian traps are not really much different from asian chicks the only difference is the dick
Well online dating is inherently flawed, women think they have a pick of the litter and go after chads or money expecting mature fathers and end up butt blasted or empowered when the media tells them single mothers are strong. Basically natural selection has turned on its head and intelligence is no longer a desirable trait.
you STFU and listen here fren! when you have Juhz ID you STFU with your subversion and take the damn cute Asian boy and you love him!!!
Smart people gets left behind in the pool we need artificial wombs
>Wanting to kill yourself because some vapid thot ignored your Facebook message
Yeah OP I remember when I was a teenager too, I still cringe at myself in those days, once you turn 30 though you literally just stop giving a shit and just enjoy watching those roasties age like roadkill on a Texas highway in the summertime and their lives fall apart like a covered wagon on a bumpy dirt road.
That's about all, peace out.
if you ignore her, you'll fuck her eventually
Simple, whenever you see a message and want to reply PUT THAT PHONE AWAY
Wait at least 2 hours, no matter how important you think it's to reply
You can even look, get the two blue marks, just don't reply
That's just what they've wanted to do to begin with, but historically they settled for having a comfy life with a beta provider instead. Hopefully things will change for me in a year after all the Jow Forums shit I'm doing this year.
The joke is, you're not alpha if you think youre alpha. Not directed at you, I know people namely who are just bullies and throw their weight around and call themselves alpha.
Alpha is a state of mind, not a physical state.
This but if you are really that pathetic you need to jack off and bust a nut before you reply or write a message and then see how good of an idea it seems
i'm not saying don't make any money, but past the point of securing ones survival it is very trivial and especially no reason to kill yourself for.
Oh, by all means I'm not anything close to an alpha, I guess I should have said "non-chad" instead of "beta provider" in my reply. My point was that girls nowadays, under the illusion of having potential in the work force, choose guys based on appearance like they've always wanted to, so I'm trying to improve my appearance to where I can compete under the "new" rules
>tfw I'M the one who ghosts girls now
I don't even plan on talking to any of my matches. I just send them a "Hey" and if they message back I just ignore.
How
I just don't reply
All you fags are way too thirsty. Women pick up on this shit very easily and can smell desperation a mile off.
This is difficult to do, but you start giving less shits about women and you WILL attract more. It's fucked up but it's true.
Nowadays when talking to women I take ages to reply to their messages, leave them on read purposely, when meeting them I cancel on them and while I'm on a date with them, unless she is completely DTF I tell them I have to leave halfway through.
Women are literal morons who want the opposite of what they say they want - if you treat a woman in this way despite all the shit they say about wanting a man to treat them well they WILL be more attracted to you. Their first reaction will be butthurt, and then they will feel inadequate and then start to chase you. Chasing them only inflates their feeling of self worth to the point where they think they could get a better man.
Giving women validation and attention is a BAD idea.
Hates getting played, but ironically becomes exactly what he so hates.
Brainlet Beta 101.
Op here she just replied what now ?
show convo and give some contex
Depends what stage you guys are at? Have you been on a date with her/is it kinda serious /are you still in the initial stages of chatting over text
Either way, don't rush to reply to her.
shit advice.
stop reading redpill theories from Jow Forums.
just do what u want.
if u wanna be autistic and msg her all day do it.
if u want to believe ur 'chad' because ppl tell u what defines a 'chad' then do it.
end of the day if shes into u all this shit doesn't matter.
Maybe the cringiest thing I've read all day. The frog poster is 100% right.
T. 6'4 brah with 50+ lays
Everything he said is true. Don't give women attention. Don't chase. Don't be eager. Don't give off desperation.
Yea sitting home all day reading redpill books made by autists is not cringey tho.
Like i said above @ the end of the day if shes into you.. all that shit doesn't matter. Your a beta if u try to act a certain way to get laid.
Chase a check. Never chase a bitch. It's a real simple rule to live by.