Is having kids worth it?

Is having kids worth it?

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Is it worth it to have something meaningful in your life?

Two kids, divorced about a year ago. Now just fuck around on my own weeks and be a good father on my kid weeks. 5/5 really

Absolutely!

those kids are going to grow up fucked up

Literally no.

i used to be a NEET videogaming manchild stoner

now im wageslaving full time, gf, own place etc

i am so fucking stressed man. i feel like red wojak all the time.

me and my gf have discussed kids within the next year or so.. but i dont know if i wish this shit existence on anyone else desu

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Can't control female loyalty in our current legal system, doesn't mean you should let your grandfather's lineage end.

Why?

were you happier without the wagecucking and gf? would you go back? how hot and how annoying is the gf

It's rough, but you'll never love anyone more than your own kids. If you're high iq, having kids is the most redpilled thing you can do. Room temp iq retards have tons of kids, we need high iq people to start having kids again. Not having kids is a Jewish trick to dumb down the population.

Yes if you have 2million+ and financially independent.

Because they’re being raised by two different sets of parents. Imagine having 2 dads and 2 moms.

Why not travel to another country and get a girl pregnant and then just go to your home country. Can they still get money from you?

just asking cuz strongly considering leave the gf and job to neet full time. seems like a better life. but i dont want to mistakenly let go of my life become more normieish if i will regret

Impregnating a woman in your field and removing her from the job market is "worth it" if you want to maximize your chances of getting a job.
Doing so is not "worth it" for the kids, though. Single mothers are the worst thing in the world.

Roastie mom's bf is gonna molest the kids. That's why single mothers are the fucking worst.

No.

>be neet
>waaahhhh I want a gf so bad

>be wagecuck with gf
>waaahhh I just want to play video games and relax so bad

Grass is always greener nig

Only women have kids. At best you are rising Chad's offspring. Husband = cuck

single mothers ruin their children
females have no loyalty, at all, and your kids will learn her ways as well be affected by them

>muh lineage
lol

It's honestly the only thing in this life that is worth it. Once you become a parent you realize very quickly all the other bullshit you were chasing is meaningless. Life becomes a lot easier to appreciate.

The real dilemma is marriage and long term relationships are really not worth it OTHER than the benefits it provides for your child. The greatest Catch 22 of life IMO.

No
/thread. Father. Kids are obnoxious little shits who will never appreciate the sacrifices you made to have them. If you are the type of person who needs constant affirmation by other creatures, just get a dog or a gf. I got a vasectomy at age 25 after my first kid cause I realized it will be the only way to not make the same mistake twice. Also, if you use condoms, tie them in a knot and take them with you when you leave. Do not ever leave them in a woman’s trash can

i think when i was a NEET loser i had more time to contemplate how my life wasnt "going anywhere" and i didnt want to end up a 40 year old incel working in a supermarket. it was depressing.

my gf is 10/10 and is really nice and supportive. shes got a great personality.

the problem is i've spent a lot of my life in isolation and on forums/gaming, so if i have to spend more than a day with her or do too many social things, i literally cant cope. i get really pissed off and just want to be alone

i fantasize a lot now about quitting my job and working somewhere with little responsibility, smoking weed and playing vidya

but idk maybe a family life will be more rewarding..

Yes, but only if you can find a virgin girl to marry and have kids with. Good luck finding a virgin lmao.

As a follow up, this is a meme that only beta cucks believe. If you want to truly give your life meaning, make money and experience the beauty this world has to offer. I just travelled all over South America and that was a lot more gratifying that some roastie shitting out a baby and paying child support for 18 years

Diversify your portfolio and diversify your life

travelling is the ultimate meme

i dont want to travel to see some favela apes you fucking faggot lmao

>having children is literally the only reason to be alive
imagine being this much of a fucking amoeba

yeah mine was a virgin

Whoa

It’s not a meme if you have money. I fucked a 9/10 cute Ecuadorian at sunset at quilatoa a few weeks ago after skydiving in Belize.

You only think it’s a meme because you can’t afford to do it or know people who do it when they can’t afford it

yeah fucking shitskins isnt my idea of fun lmao

neither is fucking thots/ used up mudsharks

>t. don't have kids
You don't get it until you actually have them. Sorry, youngins. And yes, I've traveled the world, make plenty of money. I've done some amazing things. I've played rock shows in front of thousands of people. I've sailed yachts to secluded islands. I've had sex with many, many beautiful women. I've been to dozens of countries and seen every state in the USA.

Nothing even comes close to the experience of fatherhood. Remember anons, this is from someone who has seen both sides, and the only people telling you otherwise are those who have no actual experience.

Lol you’re a mongoloid. Do you even realize what percentage of South America is white? Read a book faggot

okay shitskin fucker

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Latin_Americans

I have never bred outside of my race.

>I've played rock shows in front of thousands of people. I've sailed yachts to secluded islands. I've had sex with many, many beautiful women. I've been to dozens of countries and seen every state in the USA.

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Literally 30-40 percent of Latin Americans are white. You would know this if you weren’t too poor to visit. There’s honestly more shitskins in the southern US. I felt more at home in Argentina than in the USa

imagine being this mad lmao

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It's like the other user said - they'll most likely be sexually or physically abused by mom's new bf. Happened to my cousin's kids, terrible thing but it's super common.

No.

What's amusing is, everything I'm writing is a fact. If you want to doubt it, I can prove it all. I'll do so for a $100,000 bet backed by a smart contract. Do you have the capital? If not, you can maybe get some other NEETs who doubt me to pool it together.

I'm a neet with a gf lol

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You can maybe pool in with other user, put your money where your mouth is. :)

Idk the few times a year I hang out with my friends who have kids they are tired and stressed af and they seem like they want to escape their life but are trapped. Looks awful desu

i believe you, its just all that stuff is incredibly cringe

Nah, cause I believe you. I know other richfags IRL who made it in crypto, and it’s not hard to find people to play music in front of. I wouldn’t need to pool with anyone. I have the capital. I think you’re sincere and I’m glad kids worked out for you. I just find no fulfillment in procreation.

Maybe that’s the answer to this thread. Is having kids worth it? It’s subjective

They probably don't want to see you, either

Literally the one biological goal in life.

Is pissing away $500k worth it?

>my gf is a 10/10

In behavior? Because let's not get carried away with looks

>experiencing things is stupid when you can just stare at your computer screen
Traveling is awesome if you're not a broke autistic faggot. While you're in the basement I'm out having sex with exotic women, surfing, scuba diving, hiking in foreign countries. Keep coping though.

Based. Having kids is like pissing away 500k

That is true. I think if we had time for a longer conversation I could bring you around. I don't expect anything of my kid (e.g. appreciating my sacrifices) because since having a kid I've become fully aware of the fact that I don't nearly appreciate my parents enough for my own existence. Given the context of the rest of my life, I also realize I likely never will.

That being said, as someone who already generally believed most of life's tangibles to be meaningless, the experience of watching the most complex life form we are aware of take shape has been the most enjoyable experience I've had. Nothing has put life into perspective the same way, not even close.

That's fine. Just trying to make a point that from where I'm sitting - which is a better spot than most people - having a child is a valuable investment.

She has a very pretty face, massive tits, ass could be better but overall 10/10 plus she was a virgin

>While you're in the basement I'm out having sex with exotic women, surfing, scuba diving, hiking in foreign countries.

rather be in my basement playing vidya and fucking my gf tbqh than those cringe tryhard activities

Unless you have 10/10 genetics your lineage is worthless. Or do you not believe in eugenics?

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>ass could be better
Not a 10/10 then. 10/10 = perfect = there's NOTHING you think could be better. Can we all agree on that and can you re-rate her? I don't even care if it's a fully subjective scale like ass doesn't get a lot of weighting so she's 9.999999/10, but you just admitted she's not a 10/10.

have sex

that tiny imperfection makes her perfect :^)

Thanks for the input, user. Made me think. I'll have to work on finding a virgin qt to breed with.

>coping sexpat

neetdom is terrible imo, crushing depression and loneliness is the road to suicide

>rather be in my basement playing vidya and fucking my gf tbqh than those cringe tryhard activities

this tbqhwyf

>shitskins

Kek, latinas are top tier women, only second to slav white women. The only "problem" is they like high-test alphas and not betas (who tend to prefer asians)

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You will actually love your child, thats why it has value, it lets you expierience a real thing

Go shart in mart, Sunburn.

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dude.. those girls are UGLY

Holy fuck at the cope in this thread. Have fun celebrating Christmas by yourself when you’re 50 years old while nobody in the world gives a fuck about you.

This is unironically the reason I chose to have kids to begin with... speaking to a few of my parents friends who never had kids and they all had the same one big life regret ("I wish I would have had children") and despite success or whatever great things they did or had, they all seemed like they basically realized life was a bunch of bullshit and nothing they did or achieved mattered.

I'm sure some sociopaths never get to this point and can be find their whole life not having kids, and those same people probably should never have kids. For everyone else, think about what you actually want your future to be like and consider material goods have little value once you've lived long enough.

Great detective skills, Cletus.

It melts my heart when thinking of giving my pure and kawaii 2d waifu many children and have her hug them (together with me) and push her baby buggy around while smiling happily... but still I would never put a child into this world. I would probably do so if you would guarantee me for there to be an afterlife. But with things as they are? Never.

You told me they were white.

>It melts my heart when thinking of giving my pure and kawaii 2d waifu many children and have her hug them (together with me) and push her baby buggy around while smiling happily.
d.w i went through this phase youll grow out of it one day

>they basically realized life was a bunch of bullshit and nothing they did or achieved mattered
>material goods have little value once you've lived long enough
Your kids are no more or less human than you. If your life and achievements don't matter, then theirs don't either. There's no reason why fertilizing a zygote would make any of this existential angst shit magically go away.

Having kids is comparable to Holding link and visiting Jow Forums. Its very very exhausting, you are getting yelled at, literally shit everywhere. But you become stronger than you would have thought possible, you get free hugs everyday, you have fun everyday and you are never ever fucking selling.

How will you be able to trustlessly enforce reliable datafeeds are submitted to the smart contract? It just doesn't seem feasible without some kind of decentralized oracle solution.

Kids changed my life for the better. You learn a lot about yourself and people and also what's important in life. I used to be a hedonist until those kids. I realized how much balance, painstaking hard work, and focus is necessary to raise a human being well. It made me think about life in terms harmony, balance, building a good home, earning money to provide a good life, caring about society, etc, and made me appreciate living well that much more. It's also been extremely rewarding and in a sense healing to be with kids.

If you're someone chasing aimless gains, it might help to have something to spend that hard work on. What better way than a family that can directly benefit from and appreciate that wealth? It takes a hell of a lot more than money to be a good parent though. Having kids can easily turn for the worst if you yourself are not of good character. If you just want to live a self-centered life, that's totally your freedom to do so, and unless you have the capacity to care for others as much as yourself, I wouldn't recommend having them.

around millions of other fucked up people

Yeah, definitely worth it. Especially if you lived your life as a full time degenerate and mad man for at least a decade or more prior to having one. Personally I didn't think I'd love it as much as I do, but my kid and wife are the shit... life rules. Also GO QUANT BABY WEW

I see your balls have been busted into dust by a wife who is openly cheating on you...sad

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>I swung really high on a big swing set and then fucked a monkey

Really proud of you user

Imo yes, I need someone to keep collecting the divvies after I pass

Yes very. To see your girl get nice and thick.

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Passing on your genes is the one way you can live forever, which is why I think those closer to death feel this regret more. However, as someone with kids that's not why I get enjoyment out of it. It was just the reason I decided to do so in the first place. In short, you're not wrong, I think those people have regrets for the wrong reasons because the right reasons are ones they can't ever comprehend.

All women are beautiful
If you never fucked a black, a cinese, a latina, a korean and a slav what is the point of your existence?
Have sex faggot
Imagine spitting on 10/10 because muh different skin

she was obese before already

>first pic
>obese

You have very low testosterone levels and probably yank it to weird looking cartoon children.

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>Is it worth it to have something meaningful in your life?
This is just plain sad. NPC genes still defining you can't live happy just doing what you want because you don't have "meaning" for your life.

This is exactly the same as saying you don't have meaning for your life if you are not working for someone..

absolutely not, especially not if you are terrible at teaching ppl things, definitely not if you are a degenerate, sjw, leftist, or a poor person.

absolutely never have kids if you are not white because all youre doing is putting someone else on welfare that whites have to pay the bills for.

and if you cant afford a $220k investment over the course of 18 years raising the kid, dont even bother having one bc thats how much its costs to give a kid a halfway decent life growing up.

The purpose of life is spiritual growth. Having a child allows you to achieve even greater growth because you're actively helping someone else grow and develop. Enjoy stagnating in your hedonistic hell. Then die alone and forgotten by everyone because Shaniqua forgot to bring you your mashed potatoes.

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Having kids is awesome.
t. Father of one boy one girl, hope to have more.

>Then die alone and forgotten
You mean 25 yr slav hooker sucking my cock while I'm shooting too much fentanyl is worse than bi-weekly visiting annoying retards who loudly argue about your heritage when your shitting in your pants. Huh, you, boy.. well hope you will remember this post someday.

don't listen to the neckbeard anons
you're doing allright

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>black

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