Techlead, a software dev who made it through personal projects/saving/investing just currently got abandoned by his wife
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There are probably women who will love you for who you are but they are so rare you're better off just paying for hookers
>muh bloodline!
Shut the fuck up
yes yes, sell your future family, kids and grandkids for diamond encrusted bad dragon dildos like the very best of us because some people can't detect good women and keep them happy
whatever kike
NO ONE FUCKING CARES FAGGOT!
KILL YOURSELF!
Marriage is a shit test. They 'complain' when you say that you won't marry them, but they still stick around to get fucked.
>yes yes, sell your future family, kids and grandkids for diamond encrusted bad dragon dildos like the very best of us because some people can't detect good women and keep them happy
What are you even talking about. Marriage as an institution has been completely overrun and is now controlled strictly by jewish influence.
I know it's hard, but please try thinking before you post.
Stay in your containment zone Jow Forumsfag this is a business board and women are objectively a bad investment. Kys
Damn lmao
I'm only gonna marry a girl who has a rich dad.
The worst part is that they realize the problems of society but the only solution is
>yeah just cuck yourself because muh bloodline
Pic fucking related.
Hey as long as I don't see what kind of dumbass offspring you create it's fine with me.
good goyim, thats exactly what we want.
Wtf is even the point of money if not to have a family? How many luxuries do you need until you figure out it's all a dopamine game and all you do is slowly get numb and no longer enjoy anything. Man is halfway between a god and an animal, by eschewing higher ideals and concentrating only on the dopamine hits... he shall ultimately fail. While becoming the god, the true übermensch is probably impossible, the animal existence is a foregone failure as man cannot be like a canary. Simply content in having his needs met. There will always be new needs.
>not realizing Jewish influence in the institution of marriage
>not understanding that marriage is shilled more today than any other time in history
>willing to gamble with the future of his children because societal influence could ruin your wife at any moment
Never gonna make it.
Its almost as if you should date a woman for years before letting her move in with you, and even longer before you marry. Its almost as if you shpuldnt marry women for pussy alone but should get to know them for a very long time so that they earn your trust and get to see if it was all an act or if she really has value.
The point? The point would be to help your fellow man. Find institutions that need financial funding. Ruin institutions that don’t deserve to exist by using your money. Create a better society through any means possible. The fact that you can only see meaning in life through marriage shows that you lack maturity.
No one cares
>Cringe at that emotional music in the end
The main problem is that he forced his wife to like his parents. She refused to do so, so he tired to cut access of his wife and kid to his parents wealth, which is pretty shitty. Why would you NOT want your kid to receive your parents inheritance?
>back to the mother's basement
It's an honor thing. I, as a man, would not want the money from a relative who hates my guts as much as I hate theirs. His mistake was believing his wife would understand that concept.
>I DON'T CARE BUT I CARED ENOUGH TO EXPRESS MY BULLSHIT FEELERS
Speaking of which, my wife is an only child and has multimillionaire boomer parents. Where will you be when I retire in 15 years?
Honor doesn't matter as much in Western societies, and he should be aware of that. As far as I understood he was born in the US. So your parents wealth will flow to you kids regardless of whether they like each other or not. At the end of the day your kids are carrying your genes, so it should be your best interest to give what you have to them when you die. Who else would you give wealth to.
>Honor doesn't matter as much in Western societies
Honor matters you piece of shit.
His wife was Japanese
This
It doesn't and lots of studies show it.
So you want to live like the kikes who value nothing more than money? You deserve every usury they throw at you.
You can easily do both, pleb.
>his wife was Japanese
Still doesn't matter. In the West, the law determines who gets your inheritance. You can't just cut off your wife and kid from receiving it because they don't get along with your kin. His wife was right to leave him. Any woman would do the same.
>You can't just cut off your wife and kid from receiving it because they don't get along with your kin
It's your wealth, not your wife's. It's not up to her, it's up to YOU if she deserves it. Being a bitch to your parents is not acceptable, especially in more traditional societies like Japan.
>His wife was right to leave him.
Ah, I see, you're a cuck. Good to know. We just don't care.
>don't get married
>child "raised" by mother and your child support
>inevitably gets abused by her rotating selection of boyfriends
>no chance ever of getting custody
DAMAGE ASSESSMENT:
>very likely abused child
>child support
>get married
>wife cheats on you because she's "not happy"
>divorces you and takes half your shit
>wife gets primary custody
>chance of child getting abused by mommy's new bf
DAMAGE ASSESSMENT:
>smaller chance of abused child
>child support + alimony + divorce winnings
It's not looking good, lads. Getting married means she gets to take much more of your assets when she gets tired of your dick and decides to cash out, but not getting married means you have fuck all chance of getting to protect your kids since the judge will NEVER award custody to an unwed biological father.
Of course you could always raise a fuckload of money and contract a Ukrainian surrogate.
It's not about 'living like the kikes'. Yes, money prevails over honor in West, this has been our tradition since the 19th century, and because of it capitalism works better here. Most people are middlemen in Western capitalist societies, and honor only makes sense in rural societies.
>Yes, money prevails over honor in West, this has been our tradition since the 19th century
Since the kikes completely took over. Good goy, sell your parents for shekels.
>Muh bloodline
This one's always hilarious, like we should be breeding basement dwellers. Only .1% of people should breed, the genetically strong, smart and with perfect ancestral health.
To have free time to pursue your passions, see the world, live however you want to live. To think that procreating is the only purpose of your life is a rodents mentality. Also, you don't need to get married to have a family. My gf is a doctor and I'm still not marrying her.
have sex
Read a book bro. If you don't like the fact that we're all middlemen in the West you're welcome to move to the Sudanese countryside. Or maybe Yemen would be a nice place for you.
Umm... because your kid will have your wealth already? Tech lead isn’t poor, he’s already made it. His parents money not flowing into his wife or kid is more a less a precaution for this situation happening (ironically it happened because of it). Could also be his parents’ wish that the money be used for something else. In any case the money isn’t the wife’s to decide what it should be done with, but then women have a whole different idea about finances after marriage.
RIGGED
>Only .1% of people should breed, the genetically strong, smart and with perfect ancestral health.
So, in your ideal world where only the superior genes live on, who's gonna wash the dishes and scrub the toilets?
This. Just say you don’t want to get married. It’s not hard. If she really loves you she will stick around, if not she was gonna divorce you anyways
I've watched his videos in the past. He seems like a nice guy, but a bit naive. It doesn't surprise me that his wife left him. I see this all the time in the tech industry. Success attracts women to marriage and then eventually to divorce. They're never really attracted to these nerdy beta types. They are only attracted to lifestyle and status.
So many guys that I worked with went home to divorce papers that came out of nowhere when the wife randomly decides to cash out. It doesn't matter how long you've known them for, they all eventually change and want something different.
Do not give them the power to take anything away from you. Never get married.
In the US you money is your family's money, regardless of where it comes from. Paternal and maternal lineages are equally important. It's called the nuclear family with bilateral descent.
You can't just prevent your wife from receiving the money. No wonder she left him. Imagine how humiliated she felt when her husband tried to keep her from receiving her slice of the pie. The guy in the video should be aware of how things work here as he is American. Sad story, and now we have a child that will grow up without a father. I hope he rethinks his decision and gives her a call.
Fucking roastie, you just want free money, don't you.
This.
Me and my Asian wife are pretty happy, she put me through school and told me to buy crypto in 2017.
Men (especially in current days) think you should treat a woman in a relationship like equal. That is the biggest mistake. If you do this she will see you like a beta male friend. And leaves you to find "real" love aka chad.
A women is like having kids, you have to reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour.
Also you should be in the lead as man of the house regarding finances (vision) , problems, fixing stuff etc. From her you expect the female touch (cooking, being a good mother etc.). This is how man and woman functioned literally for hundred thousand years.
That's the secret to finding a girl and keeping a good relationship.
>keep them happy
>I need to spend effort to keep my wife happy or else
Jesus dude, you may as well just off yourself now before it gets worse
Jow Forumsacks eternally btfo
Sounds like she is the leader in the relationship. How long have you been together?
Damn, this guy usually just does sarcastic humor. This video was too real...another guy blackpilled the hard way I guess
This is also retarded.
KYS as well. Who’s going to take my hundreds of millions of dollars and wage war against the jew? You must be planning on donating your estate to me shekleburg to harvest more foreskins.
Robots ofc.
Like any woman would accept a retired NEET husband. I have a friend in this situation where they have enough to retire, but his wife won't let him.
Should have, could have, would have. The reality is that men now live with women who were taught to reject these roles and are incentivized by society and the government to opt out of them whenever they want. Good luck walking that tight rope for the rest of your life.
touche lol
>my hundreds of millions of dollars
Take your meds
To this day, my girlfriend who I've been living with for 3 years does not know how much I make. I've avoided this question for 3 years and she's pissed about it. She also pays all utility bills and all the groceries and eating out. This has allowed me to pay off the mortgage (mostly with crypto). She also asks me regularly when we're going to get married and who is going to inherit the townhouse if I die. I love her but I do not want to get fucking played like this guy.
It's pretty clear she's investing in you, the same way you invest in crypto. She'll cash out give the chance.
Not really. Women think they want to get married, then they realize the power they have over you in divorce and shit on everything you enjoy in life because they can.
Go ahead, be successful and have kids. Don't get married though. It's an institutional scam. It's big business for Jews and the government.
t. Divorced father of 2.
>muh securing bloodline meme
Well yes user, it's the whole point of existence, to pass on your genes. It's the only kind of immortality you can hope to have. Otherwise, oblivion.
>asks me regularly when we're going to get married and who is going to inherit the townhouse if I die
>who is going to inherit the townhouse if I die
ALART
>wife cheats on you because she's "not happy"
I have seen this happen over, and over, and over again.
First with my dad, then with my friend's parents, then with my employer, then with my gf's friends. Twice with her friends.
Yet she's pushing for marriage. I love her and we've been together since 2012. The wedding is set for June. Yet I'm so worried.
Do you know the definition of insanity, user?
Yes
So is the solution have kids and don't get married? It seems to be a lot more common these days
>I don't need kids!
>I have my girlfriend's son to raise!
This is the epitomy of s o y
Your genes are so weak that you've subconsciously convinced yourself that you don't want children.
I've decided that there's no point in evangelizing against marriage. If dumb ass betas want to gamble the rest of their life on the flip of a coin, they can go ahead.
>So is the solution have kids and don't get married?
It seems so. Knock up some sluts and foot the child support bill (after a paternity test of course).
Fuck off roastie.
WHy not just do a marriage ceremony instead of getting the actual marriage license? If she loves you she doesnt need a contract
Based and redpilled.
You seriously can't wait till the end of September when peeps start cashing out on dat serious Link GAINS?
I know you shouldn’t take advice from a Mongolian smoke signaling forum, but don’t do it dude
why is a fucking mgtow thread on biz
don't pretend, you'll be shilling against it and for mgtow the next opportunity you get. mgtowers have to talk about their reactionary ideology just as often as feminists do.
>Your genes are so weak that you've subconsciously convinced yourself that you don't want children.
Are you really so deep into Jow Forums memes that you genuinely can't imagine someone not wanting to have kids? Having kids is a total crapshoot, what if I got one like you?
>j-just marry a woman already!
Fuck off roastie
Your genes are incapable of producing children like me. I'm 6'5, 8/10, and a successful trader.
I can imagine why someone wouldn't want to have kids, and you demonstrate it perfectly. Fear of inadequate genes.
>w-what if my kid is fucked up
Exactly.
>Your genes are incapable of producing children like me. I'm 6'5, 8/10, and a successful trader.
You're a bipolar defective posting wojaks and talking about how good your genes are on the business board of a website for anime-addicted pedophiles.
>attractive successful people don't exist
Seething
>bipolar defective
Nice projection, makes sense why you don't want kids.
>attractive successful people don't exist
They sure as Hell don't spend their time trying to convince people they're attractive or successful on an anonymous imageboard.
Whatever helps you cope. Why wouldn't I come here? It's made me a lot of money
that is heartbreaking
post body
Nah. Posting pictures of yourself on Jow Forums has a way of ending poorly.
>I'm a successful trader
>Jow Forums made me a lot of money
kek
Pretty much. If you know how women fundamentally are and you understand what marriage fundamentally is, and then you proceed to tack on the enormously asymmetrical incentives and financial commitments involved in it, there is no way marriage looks like a good prospect.
The main people who get conned into it are people with massive self-esteem issues as it relates to women (oh my God, what if she leaves me and I never find anyone else!) or complete idiots that can't even examine the risk-reward of something that has all the factors on display with big flashing lights.
>he didn't buy antshares
>he didn't buy ETH
>he didn't buy LINK
Amazing how failures project their inadequacies onto others.
Even if i do crossfit and shit, it always amaze me that computer science skills and intellectual skills in general are inferior to an athletic body, when it comes to sexual market value, even in 2019.
When it comes to women, you better be a jacked janitor than a "tech lead scientist".
A jacked guy contributes to society to almost nothing.
A computer scientist build program which will be used by millions of people.
Yet women favorise the body to the actual usefulness.
It's not that women don't understand, it's must be purely genetic.
The cruel twist of life is the girl who is worth marrying is the one you don't have to marry in order to have a great, healthy, and fulfilling relationship with. The one that says "WHEN U GONNA COMMIT AND PUT A RING ON THIS FINGER AND MAKE ME A TAKEN GIRL?" is the one you should be running from. A girl who never wants to get married is the only girl worth marrying. There's obviously other stuff that needs to be present too, but the most dangerous women on Earth are the ones that think marriage validates their existence. The only type more dangerous than those types are the ones that are those types, but they know how to keep quiet about it.
Confirmed larp
You're not even close enough. Do you even have a family history of mo diseases and perfect health?
*no disease
I don't give a flying fuck what is discussed in this thread, but the first instance of racist rhetoric or mentioning any words that are banned here should automatically lead to closure of thread. Nothing good comes from users spewing racist bullshit. All it does is divides the board and its users and its straight up cancer.
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Yes. Never marry. Never pay for your women. Never buy her a house/flat, never own something with her in co-ownership. Never buy her expensive presents.
Also, lift. Women respect and are attracted to muscles.
You need to be 18 to post here.
Even when i was a natural purple pill (now i'm fully red pill), i would not have marry. Knowing the statistics of divorce, and knowing that you can loose more than half of what you worked for your whole life, and still marrying, is a retard decision.
Yup. Not worth it.
It sucks that this happened to Techlead. We can hear the pain in his voice. But I still plan on marrying and having kids some day. Maybe it'll end in me getting divorce raped and losing my kids. But I'm willing to take the chance.
I'm 30 and make around $150k a year, but life feels very meaningless outside of work. I'm willing to give up an early retirement for potentially greater happiness with my own family.
I have a 2 year old with my GF and we aren't married.
Challenge that!
based
your early retirement is completely useless if you dont have someone to share it with.
btw you dont have to give up your early retirment, you can still invest and safe. it will only be a bit later in your life
>t. larping roastie