Bosses wife visits the office

>Bosses wife visits the office
>Asks if I've been working out and says I look bigger
>When I respond saying I've been trying to go to the gym and eat better lately they all start laughing including my coworkers and boss

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Because they've seen you do this so many times before and have a 100% failure rate, so they all laugh at your 'sincerity' this time

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Fuck them, unless they are jacked themselves they’re just coping for the fact they eat like shit and the only exercise they get is lifting the remote to yell at/worship Nogs on a screen during sportsball games. Never let people belittling your self improvement stop you fren.

I've never done this before though.

It just hurts my feelings user no one is nice to me at work. They think i'm like a subhuman or something.

make them respect or fear you or look for another job

>They think i'm like a subhuman or something.
Have you considered that you might be?

How can I do that? I like the job i just wish they were nicer.
No I hadn't considered that.

user I will give you the secret deep down are you a good person? Do you know yourself? Can you observe your thoughts? If so observe how often your thoughts are negative and find ways to switch them to positive, your perception becomes your reality so when you think everyone treats you like shit and dwell on that you give off a vibe that in turn makes people treat you like shit. Change your mindset and you will change your surroundings with vigilant effort.

stab them, cover them in petrol and set them on fire

>I like the job i just wish they were nicer.
yeah ik. you have to stop acting like a pushover, talk shit back. if you do it will get better.

This couldn’t hurt either have a spine and people will respect you more.

shoulda been like "keep giving me compliments like that and i'm going to have to call HR on you!"
>everyone laughs hysterically

Anyone telling you to change who you are is only half right.

People are stuck in their preconceptions of you. It's accepted in your social environment to treat you like a fucking little bitch (and maybe you are one). Such an environment is an extremely difficult hole to get out of.

Even if you improve your fundamentals, you'll remain the designated laughing stock.

Improve yourself then jump ship.

>Not immediately raping the boss'wife and establishing dominance

Never going to make it

i probably am pretty beta and mentalcuck but how can i fix it?

Is there anything i can do to salvage the situation?

They can't help it, you're funny. The wife was originally trying to be nice but you answered so autistically they couldn't help laughing.

this

Lifting will help, learn some self defense i’d Recommend Jeet Kun Do which is martial arts designed for street fights. Knowing you can walk in a room and beat the fuck out of any man in their that isn’t trained gives off confidence lifting alone can’t match plus it will toughen you up, makes you more social since you learn in a group setting. Just don’t talk about it or you come off as a douche unless someone asks about your hobbies and then be very brief about it and change subjects. Meditate to learn to observe your thoughts and then through discipline you can catch when your mind goes to a beta/ negative direction and catch it and change it to something positive by constant effort. This is not an easy road and takes months of daily effort to see improvements.

Get a new job. It's almost impossible to win back respect once you've lost it in the group.

ABSOLUTELY BASED MAD LAD

I've tried martial arts but let's just say it wasn't a good fit for me

How can i make sure not to lose it in the future? How can i establish respect?

>No I hadn't considered that.
I'm on to you...

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>not a good fit for me
Look up David goggins motivation shit on YouTube he outlines it perfectly. Your brain tries to push you into places that are comfortable and don’t cause suffering or challenges. That pain and those challenges are more often than not the experiences that we learn the most and grow from. So when the pain is great enough you either pick up your nuts like a man rise to the occasion bust your ass to improve so you can let them hang down the road or you tuck your tail in between your legs and cry in a corner and find excuses/things to blame like a woman.