you look like a nice dude, user. I too am a depressed NEET who won't cut hair, and it's a lot longer than yours. I wear it in a bun and people say it suits me and that I shouldn't cut it. Just be true to yourself, user. People will respect that more than if you're obviously trying to conform to what you think is expected of you. You will respect yourself more too and that it's even more valuable.