>be 26 >decide at 24 that I was going to stop having pre-marital sex and wait to meet my future wife >two years go by >descending into masturbation-fueled insanity >a few women on tinder say they want to meet up >want to fuck them but also know I should wait for wife >continue jerking off to porn and trying to meet women at church or other places >absolutely no luck
Whelp, I'm just about giving up. I'm having a hard time justifying not having pre-marital sex. I am mainly abstaining because I'm a Christian and the bible literally says fornication is a horrible sin and it makes God angry, so I don't want to make God angry.
Also I am afraid of STDs, accidental pregnancy, and false-rape charges. I've had some close calls in the past and it pretty much scared me straight.
Anybody else abstaining till marriage? If so, how do you justify it to yourself?
And he is contributing to the wear and tear. Sexual liberation + easily accessible contraceptives have been the best thing ever. It is a cleaning fire that will wipe degenerates out of the gene pool.
Easton Hill
i knew a white girl who fucked over a 100 guys and she still looked pure and pretty.
if you lost your virginity then it's too late for you
Nathan Parker
>I am afraid of STDs, accidental pregnancy
Ever heard of condoms?
Josiah Phillips
I'm not a fucking degenerate.
Aiden Wright
I'm trying my best to take the same path but I'm trying to abstain from open too. The temptations of the flesh aren't worth damnation. Depending on how this Syrian gas attack turns out we could be in end times, many seals have already been broken. The horsemen have seen the light of day.
“But when you see Jerusalem surrounded by armies, then know that its desolation is near” (Luke 21:20).
Austin Hill
>why the fuck are you not married already.
I haven't met anybody who I didn't think would make a bad wife.
There aren't many women at any of the churches I've been to and the ones that were there seemed kinda loopy. Then the other women I've met through my life also seemed like a horrible wife choice. All of my cousins who are good looking and educated men are also single or casually dating asians as well.
I'm living in Chicago btw. Romania probably has a better stock of marriage-tier women atm
Do you really want a $2 piece of fucking rubber guarding you against syphilis and gonorrhea? Especially now that there's new strains emerging that are uncurable
>decide at 24 that I was going to stop having pre-marital sex and wait to meet my future wife >a few women on tinder say they want to meet up >want to fuck them but also know I should wait for wife >continue jerking off to porn You already lost before you tried.
James Sanders
>i'm abstaining until marriage >jerk off to porn are you fucking retarded?
I’m kind of in a similar situation, except I’m 10/10 in looks. I’m just picky. You have to be these days, and boning random chicks with daddy issues got old long ago.
Lincoln Kelly
>I'm a Christian and the bible literally says fornication is a horrible sin and it makes God angry
Where? Paul isn't God btw he's actually the wolf in sheeps clothing. Throw out everything from Paul and everything will start to make sense.
QuestioningPaul.com
Joseph Wood
better to wait if you have a signif other and you are both virgin and you are both christian and you are both on the same page. else its best to respectfully engage in premarital sex with your potential future wives.
Aaron Wilson
Masturbation is a sin as well, though. Either way, you're orgasm is not given to you selflessness by your wife. It's like condemning faggots but premarital sex, whether gay or straight, is a sin.
Besides, there's other sins you have going on in your life, right? So why single out premarital sex to abstain from when jerking it to porn will screw worse than any substance addiction? Once you meet your future wife your brain will be so hardwired to only get it up from screen ladies, she will never be able to satisfy you. Not to mention a possible broken dick. Also, it's so damn easy to hide a pork addiction vs any substance addiction, thus making it easy for you to basically commit adultery, leaving you in a worse position.
This isn't right.
Leo King
>You already lost before you tried.
ehhh it's about as good as anybody does in the current year, honestly.
How many dudes end up marrying their high school sweetheart, or never have sex till marriage? Not many
Cooper Wilson
hahaha
I really fucking lol'd. Don't forget to mention white genocide because you can't get a woman!
Bentley Flores
>too dumb to use a condom properly
Oh America, I will laugh as you fall into oblivion.
Ayden Robinson
it's as ironic as Muslims that are so "devoted" that they refuse to eat pork but somehow accept to get drunk and try to fuck random women in nightclub when they have wife and children
Wyatt Turner
>Also I am afraid of STDs what is it with you lot and STD's?, the fuck are they teaching you at school, i barebacked many a slag drunk off my tits and visit escorts sometimes and have nothing more than an itchy dick for a few days, also never heard any of my m8s catching anything, i dont understand the fear.
Adrian White
>All of my cousins who are good looking and educated men are also single or casually dating asians as well.
Damn it, so fucking tired of smart phones. Sorry for my butchered post.
Nathaniel Kelly
We already have because they jumped into the gaping hole of oblivion when they got the cheetos mascot as president...
Samuel Ramirez
>It's like condemning faggots but premarital sex, whether gay or straight, is a sin.
lol what. This is a jewish lie. Homosexuality is an abomination worthy of death. Only reprobates are homosexual.
Hetrosexual sex is natural but not worthy of death
Camden Butler
>putting your dick into a diseased hole and sliding it back and forth with a $2 piece of rubber as the only thing protecting you from getting dick cancer frog brained frenchmen are truly retarded
Aaron Fisher
STDs are bad here.
Look up the stats. I know people who have them.
Cameron Gutierrez
wtf is wrong with american? >time to stop smoking >go with smokers everytime to breath as much smoke as possible >jeez the craving is too intense!
also it was proven that porn is an addiction and fuck up your brain and behaving
Chase Davis
>putting your dick into a diseased hole in the first place
You don't know if it's diseased until you get the disease, and you don't know if the thin piece of easily breakable rubber is the only thing stopping you from getting a cursed bleeding puss-oozing dick
that's my whole point...
Jackson Hernandez
Stop beating your little dicky dumb ass. No more than twice a month. Women can smell the depletion of your sperm on you and it turns them off. They don't know it consciously. But they know they don't want you. Take control of your body instead of letting your body control you.
>10/10 in looks Yeah OK Chad Chaddington, you're in the top 5% of men in the world in terms of looks, but you can't find a wife. I am sure you're not exaggerating at all.
This. It got worse for me after 30 because the Daddy shit ramped way the fuck up by these chicks. Plus I stay suited and booted a lot so I throw them for a loop from all the blue pilled cucks they normally interact with
Thomas Wood
No i literally cannot stop jerking off I will explode
If I'm not regularly fucking a woman I need to jerk off about 3 times per day. I've also never had much of a problem getting women despite jerking off when I first meet them
Carson Nguyen
Anybody who gives her a dime is retarded. Anybody who wouldn't fuck her has higher standards. Personally I'd have that octaroon screaming like a baboon.
Kayden Walker
Yeah you do, stop fucking sluts you find on your fucking phone. For fuck sake you keep trying to create problem to solve other problems you created yourself. Are you fucking 5 or something? Think things through and get your fucking shit together.
Isaac Lewis
That's what niggers and spics do man. you cunts best get rid of your mudslimes before you follow suit.
Ethan Jackson
>decide at 24 that I was going to stop having pre-marital Why? It's too late alredy to do it the right way. Might as well.
Adam King
Venti is the only example of an ok mutt.
Hunter Moore
Oh man another 10/10 Chad here that's just too good looking to find a wife.
Lincoln Cox
>Whelp, I'm just about giving up. I'm having a hard time justifying not having pre-marital sex.
Whelp, If you can control yourself at all it's best to just go for a long swim in cold water to save the rest of us some payments.
Cooper Cruz
>Yeah you do, stop fucking sluts you find on your fucking phone.
I just said in my post that I'm not fucking women off tinder.
Why can't french faggots read?
Carter Lee
I didn't say to stop jerking it, stop watching porn. If you cant get your dick up without porn then you have a serious problem
Andrew Bennett
I hear you have invented the super-clap by now, treatments don't work anymore.
Michael Ross
Then your problem was solved before creating the thread.
Fucking retard.
Leo Rivera
Be semi good looking and get buff. Completely changed the way women interacted with me. After that just pick the best option girl.
Joseph Moore
You have fallen for the meme of Jow Forums. A place of autists larping as sone disciplined nazis, but in reality bunch of neckbeard fedoras eating tendies, fapping to trannies and some even cross dressing, who tell you to not be a degenerate and get married.
You absolutely retarded American. Go live your own life, yes it is a sin. I'm Orthodox fag, and while it's condemned, it's agreed upon it's necessary evil. You know it's a sin, you feel bad about it. Fine, fight agaisnt it. But don't expect you'll find your virgin bride today. And those that are usually autistc or batshit insane. I knew 3 christian women who were fasting religiously and praying to god. They were also thoths who banged 5 men, one was a virgin. But all of them were batshit insane harpies Go and fuck m8, no female will settle down with you if you aren't compatible sexually. And God is okay with having all the sex later when you are married. You have commited adultery by lust already. The point is to become desireless. All those things related to sexuality are usually from lust and that pushes degeneracy. We are not perfect and God knows this.
I stopped watching porn, I jerk it to my imagination, have been for several months. Increasingly went to loving sex between husband and wife. Some time ago I slipped up and looked at some porn, and I really felt disgusted as I was jerking off but it's like I couldn't help myself. I really think porn is the issue.
As I stopped jerking it to porn I also noticed my habit dropped. I used to fap every day. Now it's once a week at most.
Remember, failure is part of the process, we're shitty and not very good at the "no sin" thing. But the important thing is to try again each time to stop being a sinner, and you'll get better in time.
Believeable but hard to believe she is not covering it. There's something wrong in every virgin fem I met
Daniel Perry
One drop rule
Gavin Morales
>decide at 24 that I was going to stop having pre-marital sex and wait to meet my future wife
This is so stupid. Sex is an important part of a relationship. If you wait until marriage to find out you have no physical chemistry she WILL cheat on you. There's a fine line between being a (man)slut and cucking yourself like that.
Joseph Flores
Wasting you best fucking years unmarried
Just find a Christian slot and fill it
Daniel Peterson
I bet Russians probably got some Phage that can cure it. Maybe Putin will save Americas degenerates
Luis Howard
I haven't lost my virginity yet, so am I good?
Owen Williams
same here, stopping porn made a big difference. Jerking off was really just a result of watching porn and not the other way around.
She's 1/8th black. She lacks everything that real stormfront fags say defines a white person because of it. It doesn't make her worthless but you can't call her an ethnic european for it.
t. 1/8th mongol with a flat face instead of a protruding chin
Noah Powell
Not if is she is a virgin, the more sexual partners a woman has, the more likely she is to end up unhappy and divorced
Daniel Bailey
U wont have a kid out of wed lock, ur life wont be decided for you, once we transcend food and sex, we livin
Jose Anderson
>This is so stupid. Sex is an important part of a relationship.
This is so stupid, Sex is important but should be considered so for the continuation of the species, not sub species gratification.
Aiden Hall
Find yourself a man who will love you to the ends of time.
Quality in a partner differs between men and women. Having fewer partners is valued in a woman and scorned in a man. By abstaining from sex, you've actually lowered your value. That's why no woman wants you.
Here's how to fix it. Find the most acceptable girl you can and date her. Other women will want you because she has you. Date your way up the ladder until you get one who's wife material.
Also make sure you have the other values that make a man attractive. Not being a beta cuck is a good start.
Ethan Walker
OP, im going to tell you something someone told me a while ago that really helped me
Sex is a glue. It helps build a complex emotional bridge with another person. The more times you break that bridge and build a new one with another person, the more difficult it is each time.
Eventually - this happened to me, and happens to everyone - the connections you make are quite weak, and easy to break. Afterall, why stay committed to one person, when you know how easy it is to find a new girl? Not only will it make future committment more difficult, but you'll find a much harder time working through the rough patches of relationships because of that same realisation.
Ayden Jackson
If you don't have the discipline to wait for marriage to have sex, the most highest act of physical intimacy, you ain't ready for sex. This kind of lifestyle is what got us to the current low point. Things of quality take sacrifice, so make the effort and abstain instead of acting like a dumb rabbit.
Think about it, every time you meet a new sex partner theres always a bit of panic at the back of your mind. Any of these women could ruin your life if they become pregnant - afterall, a moral Christian man knows that God wouldnt look kindly upon abandoning a child.
Solomon knew that God has constructed this world in such a way that fornication will cause you life ruining problems if you dont curb it.
